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Odewaleadesoye:
Amen!
We shall all celebrate last last.

Lighthouse50:
Our righteousness is like a filthy rag before God. Those who says no life after death, how do you dream? When your body lay lifeless on bed, who do you see as yourself running here and there?

sammuell:
I think say na new new songs self

rapheal5:
u mean fibroid?

iLegendd:
You're right, but if people don't share, you'll be among the people that'll call them names like, eat alone, die alone, greedy, secretive, etc.

You people always have either an excuse or something to complain about when people share and when they don't share. I didn't say everyone MUST. I only shared. I hope you don't consider my sharing as a crime. #ICameInPeace.

Hintona:
Evolution is about survival of the fittest. Humans and other organisms are constantly trying to survive and will do anything to survive.

Women are not left out. Women are more responsible for our young than men. In fact female living organisms are usually more responsible for their young.

So we will do anything to protect them and make sure they are well taken care of. Now how does it relate to SIMPS??

As you described simps in your write up: "A SIMP/weak guy is a guy who allows a girl to control and manipulate his emotions

He is a guy who always loves to please a lady no matter the circumstances, even if it means depriving him of his own happiness."

While alpha males and redpillers I suppose are the opposite.

But guess what? "The ideal father is the man that loves his partner and his children unconditionally" (answer from Quora)
This definition of an ideal father is what most guys here would call a simp because according to their redpill ideology, you shouldn't give a woman your heart much more love her unconditionally.

So like I said we are all evolving, that's a constant. Will women who are trying to protect and care for their young go for a simp who would help her achieve this or a redpiller/alpha who will not?

I think you know the answer to that.

A woman in her right senses will not go for a redpiller if she wants a long term thing and I think redpillers are fine with just being the one night stand guy or the summer fling.

Joysticks:
Na here we dey when he go need financial help to do kidney transplant.

BoosBae:
Just like your mom is enjoying her leftover in peace...

Everybody will grow old.

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.