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wisdomkid:
This shows that you're just a poor person (tell yourself the truth), who don't even have DSTV ... Hating on those who are on top of the ladder. So, you castigating them on Nairaland shows your class? Lamborgini don't advertise because their viewers don't sit round, watching the tv, same goes for people like you. Going around the internet, spewing hatred on classy and wealthy people.

Bastard.

abobote:
And what are you doing here, we without life, we are not complaining

Emily22:
THE SHOW IS JUST TO ENLIGHTEN US THAT WE ARE LIVING IN A CRAZY WORLD WHERE

INFIDELITY IS A NORMAL THING

CASUAL SEX IS AN ACHIEVEMENT

80% OF YOUTHS CANNOT CONTROL THEIR SEXUAL URGE

70% OF THE BEAUTIFUL LADIES ARE ACTUALLY PRETTY ON THE OUTSIDE BUT DULL UPSTAIR

Dont quote me abeg

WILLuKPquiet:
First of all I never advised anyone to have side chicks. I want you to get straight. All I was saying is if the man eventually sin, which is possible except you are being hypocritical.
Giving your husband the chance to have sex with you once a month or once in two months could lead the man to sin. Or you want to pretend you don't know that?

No one is an Angel. And even Angels are not perfect only God is.

How do you explain that? Sex once a montn in marriage because the wife doesn't feel like or the husband doesn't feel like it. Is it not madness??

Let tell you a true story of a welder man. The man is late now.
The wife denied him sex for more than five months and when the man was telling a friend about it, he bursted into tears. A grownup man shedding tears. You could imaging the emotional stress the man had gone through before crying like a baby.

You are here speaking grammar and condemning what I said. Is it not better for the woman to endure sex that to endure divorce?
Yes I mentioned log of wood and I meant it. Let are lie down like a log of wood if she is mentally inbalace yo have sex.

Many of you don't even know that such acts could be as a result of an underlying sickness. If it is, then let her seek medical advice instead of tormenting the life of her husband .

If I were a woman and I claim I love my husband, I would rather endure sex rather than allow it to push him into having a side chick or visit Ashawo joints. Which will eventually lead to divorce one day.

Another example. I have a close moslem friend, Our offices were in the same premise. We used to discuss and tell each other some personal issues. He used to tell me how the wife used to deny him of sex for weeks.
Now, it happened that we both left the area and its been more than two years. Recently months back, we were chatting on WhatsApp' and he just sent a picture of a pretty woman I know and he asked, "do you remember this face?" I said "yes how would I forget the face so soon". This was a girl in the same premise where our offices were working as a secretary for a man. The lady is a Muslim. And an extremely beautiful girl. Then, gbam! My friend said,

She's now my wife"

"How come?" i asked. He said he was serious thst he now has two wives.

My point is, despite the fact that the religion of my friend supports more than one wife, he would not have married another woman if the one at home was not starving him of sex. That is the truth.

What do you think a Christian man starved of sex in marriage for a month , two months would do?
He would not get another wife.
He would rather have a side chick. Or start the act of masturbation.

Yes! though it is wrong. And it is a sin. But he won't go and have it with a dog or goat if pressed. It must be with a human and so far the human at home is sick and tired of sex, he would get a side chick.

Am I in support of side chicks? No!

Don't get me wrong. I am not encouraging anyone to have side chicks. It is a sin. But you should always remember that God is a perfect Judge. He sees the reason of our actions and if the wife is the reason the husband sinned both of them will receive the lash.

Let no woman think its the husband alone that will suffer punishment. Both of them will.

Therefore, if anyone is tired of marriage let him or her come out to say it. Instead of punishing the other with sex and every other rights of marriage.

Seek for divorce and stop pretending.

To cap it all a junior colleague having such problems in his marriage weeks ago said one morning he called his wife and asked her "dear is it right for me as a married man to still be engaging in masturbation? Because that is what I resolves into when ever you say No!"
He said that morning, the wife allowed him.

Well,
After all I have said you still believe a woman has right over her body in marriage, and can deny her husband sex when ever and as long as she dims it fit. Then, your have won the argument. You don win!!

Good luck to you and remain blessed.

yettymuse:
Dusty men like free attention.. see them mentioning me upandan! I can’t see y’all!!!

sigiyaya:
Some times i think the only reason Buhari contested for presidency is just to enjoy the benefit of being a president in Nigeria

pocohantas:
Thread is for ladies, first 17 commenters are men. You guys should kuku assume you have vaginas and take the floor.

Tufiakwa for this generation of men. Na una type dey go August meeting.

If this comment triggers you, please change.

mhizsuzzy:
There is a way that seemeth right but the end leads to destruction... (You will this later)

You are blessed

Gilbertkwabena:
Obedient to God? What does that mean? If you mean to obey those thing you call ten commandment, let me help you... Those laws are palgarism law... It existed thousands of years before Torah was even written. If you mean confessing Jesus as god, its also useless bcuz whether u confess or not, it doesn't make you a good or bad person (infact the most fearful people on earth are the so called religious people).

You also do me a favor, answer this my question. If your God is supreme as you claim... It would mean you're worshipping g a supreme God and then you'll have better advantage than any other person who doesn't. So tell me one advantage of a Christians over non Christians or believers. Advantage not promises. Thanks

mhizsuzzy:
There is a way that seemeth right but the end is destruction...
You are loved

Xeeex:
Very foolish post like this are trending everyday on nairaland because the average person is foolish.

If only we would channel this same energy that we use in monitoring other people to develop and improve our lives we will go far.

There are killings in south kaduna but your problem is big brother.

No wonder we are slaves to the politicians.

Schools are closed but big brother is what is trending

vegafbs:
FC Barcelona captain, Lionel Messi, wants to hire Leeds United boss, Marcelo Bielsa, as their new manager, according to the Sun.

Bielsa is Messi’s favoured candidate to replace the embattled Barcelona manager, Quique Setien.

The 65-year-old, Marcelo Bielsa has just guided Leeds United back to the Premier League after winning the Championship title, but his contract at Elland Road expires this month.

Setien is under increasing pressure at the Nou Camp, after Real Madrid snatched the LaLiga title from Barca this season.

The Catalans were leading at the top of the league with two points before the COVID-19, but threw away their advantage after the restart.

Recall after Barcelona’s 2-1 loss to Osasuna at home this month, Leo Messi branded Barca “weak” and “inconsistent”.

The Argentine superstar also said performances since January – when Setien replaced Ernesto Valverde – had been very bad.

https://theupdates.net/marcelo-bielsa-emerges-messi-choice-for-setien-replacement/

mhizsuzzy:
What's wrong with me? My prayers are not answered. Have asked that question? You are welcomed to my crib. Let's have a friendly chitchat

Good morning and a beautiful Sunday to you...

I prayed and didn't get answers. It got me thinking, why do some people get answers and I don't. Maybe, I am doing it the wrong way or am I doing it with an unclear conscience or am I in doubt? what's wrong?
I know you have asked that kind of question. I pray God answers you through me. Amen

Let's pray
Father in heaven, we thank you for your gift of Jesus, the gift of this new day and your love which you shed in our hearts. We thank you for all you have done and all you will do. We come before you in great humility and submit our will to your kingship. Open our hearts and mind sto receive you. Speak to us through your words in ways we can understand and let your spirit in us reveal you to us.
We ask you in Jesus name. Amen


Causes of unanswered prayers:
1) You may have been asking amiss and with wrong motives
(James 4:3) KJV
What are your intentions? Are they right? God is not a man that he can be deceived he searches your hearts and knows your genuine intentions. Are you praying so that people will say: haa! she is a prayer warrior (like the Pharisee) or are you really seeking a connection and pouring out to God. Are you praying to boast to men that your prayers get answered?
Check your motives dear loved one.
Soln: Keep asking God to teach you his ways that you may die to pride or showmanship. Consciously rebuke those thoughts when they come. You have the power of resurrection in you.
2) He will answer you.

Come confidently to his throne of mercy and grace.
Some come with "let me try if this thing will even work" Hmmm...(I did that before)
God is more willing to answer you than you are to ask. (Jeremiah 29:12)
He loves you and will hear you when you cry out (Psalm 106:43-45)
So come as you are

3) The prayer of a righteous man:
(James 5:16)

Sincerely ask God for forgiveness for the sins you have done. But wait, you can't use God. You can't apologize just to get what you want from him and turn back to your evil ways.
Life in Christ is the best. Choose it.

4) Ask the holy spirit to help u:
(Romans 8:26)
He is the helper. He will help you even when words can't express how you feel (isn't he a good God that even provides help when our strengths have failed)

5) Ask in Jesus name:
John 15:16:
The father will give you whatever you ask of him in my name. Jesus is the key to get to the father. (Note this it is important)

6) Pray his word:
Give God his words and the promise of his words will be your portion (Don't forget to do it with faith). Pray the bible. As you study the word daily if any part speaks to you, use it as a prayer. It is his word and you know it is important to him. Write it done and make prophetic declarations about them

7)Thank God
Gratitude is very important. Even if you didn't see the manifestation yet (Philippians 4:6)
It is pride that makes you not to thank him (2 Chronicles 32:25)
Thank him cos he has already done it for you.

Submit it to his will:
Patience is important. Wait! it may not be time yet. But whilecyou wait what should you do?...Thanksgiving cos he has done it already.

Some prayers need you to call those faithful to help you so that their faith can help your faith (Matt 18:19) (James 5:14-15)

Faith is the bedrock. No prayer works without faith. Forget about the problem. It is difficult I know but you have to try dear loved one.
Devil will bring doubt, confess the assurance of the answered prayer. Dance when ever you remember it. Cos it has been answered.
You can also make a covenant with God (some kind of petitions need this) Let's the spirit lead you in this..he will speak to you about it and how to go about it. You are blessed
Those changed my prayer life. I am glad to share them with you, beloved.

So Let's go and do it the right way.
Your faithfully
Love

UyaiIncomparabl:
That is not what my Bible tells me. If He isn't coming back, why was it mentioned in the Bible then?

I don't think it's a metaphorical mark.

Anyways, it's not a lie. I even dreamt about Rapture last night. My friend was raptured but I was left behind.

I really think I need to go back to God and his works. I am not of the fleshly world.

UyaiIncomparabl:
That is not what my Bible tells me. If He isn't coming back, why was it mentioned in the Bible then?

I don't think it's a metaphorical mark.

Anyways, it's not a lie. I even dreamt about Rapture last night. My friend was raptured but I was left behind.

I really think I need to go back to God and his works. I am not of the fleshly world.

jollyjane:
Some guys are animal in human skin

EmekaBlue:
its good to snub ladies at times...they will respect u more when u do such

yYot:
I am sure your ball is rotten down there! Men p smell more than the women vj!

GreenDee:
Hmmn, guys Sha.. you snub ladies for no just reason and you act like its cool, you don't imagine putting yourselves in their shoes, will you like to be snubbed as a human being, that shit pains tho.

Localemperor:
So a friend lost a million naira on Manchester united against West ham. the game ended on a draw. Since then he has been watching 1000 ways to die on YouTube and smiling alone.... This morning he was talking about the life after death and how beautiful it would be watching life go out of someone.

pls what can we do

Mypeople2:
If we all narrate what this children (18-24) do to us just because we are asking them out for marriage,not even for sex, you won't believe it .Just forgive and forget