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I hope someone already told you to stop pressing them...also drink loads of water.

montezz:
Kuli ni

Dis is why they say wat they say

montezz:
Jesus! I know this guy!
Egbon ore mi!

I believed you........after I saw your profile pic. Kinni sow

angels09:
If in Nigeria.... There are still millions of marriageable ladies out there.

Ehn ehn??

PureWays:
The guy above me is trying to make a smart move... Lol.. Good luck bro.

And you have to say

I was going to give some advice but sadly, I'm too lazy to read through...someone please help with a summary?

Rukkydelta:
Biko where are the broke ass niggas and slay queen start your fight now. I'm bored

They are asleep...

Unfortunately......

10M downloads?


Please someone should quote me when he/she finds it...


***STOP THE FOLLY.....makes y'all involved come off as dümb. Dude got a name for himself while you kept at refreshing your NL feed to see the next thread you will jump on to spew your nonsense. Mtcheew!

kumulus:
Its a FT draw...the bookies know what they're doing...most probably a 2/X, CS 1:1

I knew it was bound to be a draw...match ended 0:0

Drawsoup:
My people this tip is sure



Argentina Primera Division
8pm. Gimnasia L.P vs Banfield
Pick: Under 2.5 Odd: 1.60

If this one no enter then I know say witch dey involve

HF/FT 1/X
CS 1:1

9itewolf:
Na home win.. Home need d match if u check the table....and Zaragoza is goin nowhere

Reason why I said 'probably'....games like this at this stage in the competition are used as money flippers...that's where you will see them playing a 2/1 with results like 3:2, 5:3....

bixton:
. Pretty much one of the funny odds have come across this year but it's cool. X/2. (HT/FT).

Its a FT draw...the bookies know what they're doing...most probably a 2/X, CS 1:1

kelechi17:
u mean d grass of marginalization, nepotism , ethnic gang up , systematic killing of ibos , d rejection of SE development commission ..and many odas ..No broda enuf d green grass has been soaked with too much blood and hate but u should know by d grace of God ..d sun is rising again in d East..peace broda

To this I say....let it Rise and never set, keep rising!!!

majekdom2:
There is more to this story... Only an insane person or someone under some influence would hire a jet to the US with a stolen CC knowing fully that US ranks Number 1 in criminal intelligence.

I think that's why the dude said he will say it all in his next track...awon eyan biggie ati 2pac..won fi awon fans won si suspense.

By Crook or Hook!!!

ddddon:
If celebrities that we are supposed to be looking up to is capable of doing this. Wahala day be that oh

Young man...celebrities are just like any other everyday person, you're not supposed to look up to them but your PARENTS...ok


Hian!!!!!!! Indeed wahala dey

kelechi17:
which Nigeria .mtcheeeeeeeew

That's all he has to say, brother the grass is always greener on the other side. Peace

bennyann:
I fear human beings ooo

Most men are advising her not to confess. The ladies also...

This world is really a strange world.

If you don't confess, your conscience will graduate from eating you up to becoming hardened which might turn you into a pro

And you may eventually lose the man you're trying to save for yourself once he finds out from another or in any other way asides you.

If you're not healed on the inside then you can't heal your relationship, so heal yourself first and you will sort the rest later.

The only way to get your pride and dignity back is by confessing to your husband, in that way, you can walk shoulders high against any blackmailers tomorrow. After confessing you look for ways to getting the complete attention of your man back to you again.
Getting his heart towards you again is highly possible because you aren't the first adulterer but that becomes so easy when you've shown signs of dignity and trustworthiness.

Besides, as a Christian, you should be transparent to your spouse, this reduces every future consequences easily and brings solutions faster. Go through the little consequences with a pure heart and that purity will fight for you.

Abeg help me tell her for language wey she go hear

YelloweWest:
She can forgive herself without letting her husband know...
What of the have kids?
Think of the marriage...

I know it's self-catering but u must look at the wider picture

You've said the exact thing I did...it's up to her to attain a forgiven state but which marriage are you talking about Please revisit your comment, the wider picture here is that she's living a lie of a life by hiding the truth from her husband, she would only end up telling and living more lies the longer she keeps it. Like she said, her hubby is already acting funny like he knows something was up and I'm very sure she can't come here to say he never questioned her fidelity before now, which I'm sure she would have lied in response. She bleeped it up already, now is her chance to make it better. Even if there are kids, it's a better to make right her path in her husbands house now and salvage whatever is left..the hubby here is human..,he'll be mad, VERY MAD but she just have to make it right now else she will still commit...

You're here talking about a marriage of which she broke the sacred rule, she should be ready to face the consequences and not damn it as most are suggesting.


What matters most is her peace of mind which apparently is missing in her life and not a matrimony. She could remain in his house and still someday take the easy way out (Lagoon) because she's No Longer At Ease but I say to her Weep Not Child!!! Your salvation is in your mouth.....open it, speak life into your marriage!!!


Shalom

kumulus:
All this one this man is saying no be am at all..... Reading indeed would take you to places and knowledge is Power. Recently I stumbled on a particular exposè on the American civil war and democracy... It revealed the truth about the global elite and how they create conflicts and strife to enable them stay in power. Trust me when I tell you our politicians are mere learners in the game of scamming, if you doubt read up articles on the likes of Rockefellers, JP Morgan, Rothschilds dynasty...and the lust continues. The agitation for Biafra is a plot by the world elite for resource control, if granted the Igbos would suffer for it big time in the stretch...


The Church is a big player in this...you will agree with me that the Igbos have the highest amount of Catholics....therein lies the infiltration...the funding the Biafra agitators boast of is from the Church...and they haven't lied about having that much support.

*** I recall I once read in a newspaper from the 70's a article where a popular Igbo traditionalist/spiritualist who was before that time himself a practicing Catholic ( a Priest) stated clearly and firmly in an interview that if any of his numerous sons chose not to follow his path, they can only be Catholics...and I wondered why he said that.

I know all I have said might seem confusing but find time and read the book in the link below...see for yourself how this elite feed off our troubles, chaos and disaster.

Biafra is just another of their game plan, they destabilize Nigeria and they're guaranteed a strong foothold in defiant Africa.


https://decryptedmatrix.com/wp-content/uploads/pdf/The-Secret-Terrorists-by-Bill-Hughes.pdf


United we stand...Nigeria MUST remain!!!

So I turned a new chapter just this morning again and see what I found.....

If only this young boys would feed on knowledge....

All this one this man is saying no be am at all..... Reading indeed would take you to places and knowledge is Power. Recently I stumbled on a particular exposè on the American civil war and democracy... It revealed the truth about the global elite and how they create conflicts and strife to enable them stay in power. Trust me when I tell you our politicians are mere learners in the game of scamming, if you doubt read up articles on the likes of Rockefellers, JP Morgan, Rothschilds dynasty...and the lust continues. The agitation for Biafra is a plot by the world elite for resource control, if granted the Igbos would suffer for it big time in the stretch...


The Church is a big player in this...you will agree with me that the Igbos have the highest amount of Catholics....therein lies the infiltration...the funding the Biafra agitators boast of is from the Church...and they haven't lied about having that much support.

*** I recall I once read in a newspaper from the 70's a article where a popular Igbo traditionalist/spiritualist who was before that time himself a practicing Catholic ( a Priest) stated clearly and firmly in an interview that if any of his numerous sons chose not to follow his path, they can only be Catholics...and I wondered why he said that.

I know all I have said might seem confusing but find time and read the book in the link below...see for yourself how this elite feed off our troubles, chaos and disaster.

Biafra is just another of their game plan, they destabilize Nigeria and they're guaranteed a strong foothold in defiant Africa.


https://decryptedmatrix.com/wp-content/uploads/pdf/The-Secret-Terrorists-by-Bill-Hughes.pdf


United we stand...Nigeria MUST remain!!!

yoho66:
It is God against whom all sins are committed. If God forgives you, then you are absolved. Read this and pray with it regularly:

Psalm 51King James Version (KJV)

51 Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.

2 Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.

3 For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me.

4 Against thee, thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest.

5 Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me.

6 Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.

7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean: wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

8 Make me to hear joy and gladness; that the bones which thou hast broken may rejoice.

9 Hide thy face from my sins, and blot out all mine iniquities.

10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.

11 Cast me not away from thy presence; and take not thy holy spirit from me.

12 Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit.

13 Then will I teach transgressors thy ways; and sinners shall be converted unto thee.

14 Deliver me from bloodguiltiness, O God, thou God of my salvation: and my tongue shall sing aloud of thy righteousness.

15 O Lord, open thou my lips; and my mouth shall shew forth thy praise.

16 For thou desirest not sacrifice; else would I give it: thou delightest not in burnt offering.

17 The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.

18 Do good in thy good pleasure unto Zion: build thou the walls of Jerusalem.

19 Then shalt thou be pleased with the sacrifices of righteousness, with burnt offering and whole burnt offering: then shall they offer bullocks upon thine altar

But unfortunately I don't think OP and majority of those advisors of hers know God, I mean the God you're talking about and not the one pastors have brainwashed people since the invention of religion.


OP FORGIVE YASEF AND OPEN UP TO YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER, otherwise you're wasting your time in that mans house..

DeshBee:
I really feel for you dear, I am a lady like you and I will advise you to listen to your pastors advise pls, you are too young in that relationship and I bet you are not ready for a divorce soon, that is the only parameter for a divorce according to the Bible. Make sure it doesn't happen again and maybe swear with your life that you will not cheat on Ur husband again that way you are sorted as you don't want to die yet. Things that can happen if you tell him are he will be justified to also pay you back if he finds an opportunity to cheat on you, he will take you for granted when you guys have a misunderstanding and even call you names and abuse your parents, he may involve his parents and you know that's the end of it. Think twice my sister, men are also guilty of this. Be closer to your God and be praying for your home, find a church and be serving God, an idle hands is the devil's workshop, the guilt will disappear overtime.

You see....she should listen to pastors advise, I'm sure you've not read the part regarding the ogbologbo pastor. There's only one price that guarantees FREEDOM according to the same Bible y'all be preaching.


TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH!!!!

Tori Olohun!!!!!!!!

YelloweWest:
Op God has forgiven u. If u truly repent. That's enough.

Do destroy ur hus by telling him...

Really.....This babe said she can't seem to forgive herself and you think 'God' has forgiven her...... let me put it this way;

Repent= I am SORRY and will NOT do it again
True Repentance= I am VERY SORRY and it will and CAN NEVER happen again

Forgiveness= I am now ABOVE the situation.

The truth here remains that it's the OP that needs to forgive herself....the husband coming to knowledge is just to make sure 'we both know I did it and wouldn't do it again.....

***Am I even making any sense like this sef

taryour:
i really do not understand why majority of the comments on This thread are advising the op Not to confess to her husband, He is your husband damn it Not your boyfriend, you both ate bound together as one since you made vows.
if you decide Not to tell him and he later fines out, wouldn't that be worse, He would never ever believe you cheated just once, as a matter of fact he might never ever trust you again. You have committed a great offense now face the consequences of your action and do unto others What you want done onto you.

you have even disrespected him more by telling pastors before telling him, asking God for forgiveness and them confessing to your husband next would have done it all. no pastor has à say in Whatever happens in your home.

please confess to your husband and let your conscience be free. you don't have to do it to His face if you cant bear to look him in the eye, or fear of him getting violent. yea he Will send you parking but if he truly loves you and he is yours he Will forgive you and take you back. let him forgive you and accept you back as His woman whom he truly loves because he loves and wants you as His wife and Not because ppl begged him to forgive and accept you back..

but if at the end he doesn't accept you back, then that's the consequences of your actions, face it. at least your mind is free and you leave in peace. i Cant believe à passer told u not to confess. it is well. Do not let him find out himself, He is your husband Not your boyfriend and you cheated while you were married and Not before marriage. Best of luck

Although I didn't read all the way down...I think you already made the point somewhere...babe has got to confess, there are men out there who would catch their women banging some other dude and would just feel hurt and understand we are all humane afterall...the longer it takes the more men he would assume you've been with @op. OP should see it this way, what if he already knows and is just waiting for you to say it and settle things, see my dear OP...if you'd so badly wanted to make sure you keep up the rep with fam and hubby, you wouldn't have done that poo in the first place no matter what (I'm not judging...just been damñ straight). All this people telling you not to confess are not helping you, thy just want you to stay being a hoe living a miserable life.....Cos I don't see it not happening again, if you ran to your pastor for some support and you got this and now you're on NL, trust me you'd still carry this mata to anoda guy( maybe friend or colleague) cos e no go finish for your heart. Just tell him already, if he loves you, he would act based on the truth.

***Now I'm tired and I've got to quit typing...anyhow just pray, in the end you'll be fine...pele ehn.....ASIRI WA ONI TU

darlenese:
Dnt confess to him , try and forgive urself ,because God has forgive you . most men would cheat and won't evn confess or feel any remorse yet they still enjoy their marriage . ur life will become miserable if u confess.

Isn't it miserable already...

24hourNigeriane:
Yeah anypro

Like a friend would ask, "shey idi ni eleyi abi bumbum"

Possible?

And that year I remember I stated clearly I wanted to go to a football academy and not a secondary school tori Olohun.....chai!!!

Toks2008:
I agree with you 200% but you see...this is very subliminal and many people hardly realize this....Ladies have a subliminal influence in man's quest for wealth....

Just look at thus thread for instance
https://www.nairaland.com/3836851/girls-how-easy-it-totally

It's trending on front page and it just buttresses my assertion.

Greed is on everyone's DNA but it's our tolerance levels that differs.

My point is that our ladies have a great role to play in molding the life of the men in their lives

Do you know that Abdusalam Abubaker was greatly influenced by his wife to bring back democracy to Nigeria and she bluntly refused to live in Aso rock but stayed back in Lagos as Justice.

You all kept musconstruing me...my point is that a woman can either influence her man positively or negatively and majority of monetary crimes by men are geared towards pleasing a woman.

I will stop my argument at this junture.

You don't have to go through the stress of breaking it down like this man.... person wey no go know still no go know noni.

It all boils down to the individual, I've seen people who had to double their hustling cos of an ex....some ladies no dey try o, dem go do your padi coded just to get the mulla. One thing I've also come to realize I see that no matter how poorly a brother is fairing...if him babe dey true to am, he will stay legit and do all he can to get better but where dat babe wey go stay for that kain situate.

Egbon Dammy e kpele o...at least dem no bring you con serve fir kirikiri.


***And to those pointing fingers at naija celebs, I laugh at una o cos if you guys know what the big names in the US do for all the show off you go open mouth. How many of una babes fit get the mind do the kind plastic surgeries dem Nicki and co dey do for Africa....I'm sure most of y'all didn't know they didn't do it for fashion...it's an investment, very big one (don't ask me how). I'm tired of typing...lemme stop here.


God bless our hustles, ASIRI WA ONITU...AMIN!!!