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Joy1706:
I told him even as my husband, he can only ask me to change my church after marriage but that the decision is mine to take. And that religion is a very personal issue, it's not something that can just be decided for a person esp an adult.

Then he says it seems like I won't be a submissive wife bla bla bla. Did I say something wrong?

I think it is a bad idea for couples to go to separate churches. You people should sit and talk over it. It pays to do things together!

Broda olopa,
Sade eleja
Iya Elewa,
Broda Office,
Gbemi Cowbell,

freecocoa:
Seriously, it's not fun calling people names but sometimes people need it. I honestly don't know where to start with you cos you are speaking from both sides of your mouth at the same time.

$ex happened between a misguided or even spoilt SS1 girl and a full blown man who has passed through the four walls of a university, and you are asking who should take more blame? I am ashamed on your behalf.

I saw a comment of yours stating how hard this girls come at corpers, how hard it is to resist them and I shed a tear, you, a supposed learned person enters a village to serve and the secondary school girls who probably don't even know how to bathe properly yet,or even the nitty gritty of $ex/all that comes with it,seduce you and you boldly open your mouth to say it's not easy to resist, kai! You should tear your certificate, obviously the word 'class' is alien to you.

See you shouting "abort" like it's going to the mall to buy candy. Do you even know that the procedure can come with some complications? Do you know the medical history of this girl? Do you know the doctor she'll be taken to? Do you know anything about his qualification? This is how people's children are impregnated and killed on daily basis, are you sure you are a graduate? geez! What is wrong with you people?

I am only of the opinion that the girl's people be in the know of whatever is going on, so they can guide the girl into making the right decision, which in my opinion is, whatever she decides to do with the pregnancy.

You surely have class freecocoa. It class is inherent in ur profile name. Its obvious that u don't know how to talk in public. Must u attack another before u make ur point? Its a pity that somebody like u is allowed in dis thread. Why don't u make ur point and go. U also advised me to tear my certificate cos I made a statement that does not tally with ur way of like. U may not even be a worthwhile person, u may even be someone who is trying to appear good to gain cheap point. Bravo idiot! If u can say that to someone, I wonder what u look like. You said u shed tear, its ur choice to shed tears d 'holy' one. We are talking about reality u are talking about what u learnt in school. A problem is at hand, rather than make ur contribution, u decided to abuse people. Don't u know that when u attack one cos u feel his or her argument is not in conformity with urs and later give useful advise, no one will take ur suggestion serious but will decide to go after u. U better go and learn virtues. U that u are even talking, who know how many abortion u have made and u are here behaving like a fool.

Sophyrocks:
As long as you are dealing with a teenage girl which is against the law, you have abused her. In most cases, advances are made to this girls.Forget the consent. Its just because nigeria is a lawless country, if not that guy will rot in jail. Every right thinking man should know better not to have s.ex with underaged girls even if consent was given. Its utterly disgusting. As a teacher, you are in the best position to correct wayward children in the absence of their parents not to have s.ex with them. Any underage girl trying to seduce any corper must be reported to the school authorities and parents. but since a lot of these corpers always prove to be walking d1cks with lack of self discipline, they would give in. In fact, NYSC should make it punishable by law.

good woman, you are very correct. The deed has been done and what is the way out for both parties. They still have a long way to go.

GodMode:
Having a chat with you is worse than chatting with someone that's mentally sick...

You must be a mentally deranged person. Your case is a concluded case, I can see that in ur comment. It is a pity that I don't know u, I would have shown u how to deal with a maggot infested brain like u.

freecocoa:
You don't have to quote me before I set your stup1d a$$ straight, I shouldn't even dignify you with a reply because you are seriously sick in the head, you even refer to the pedo as "unlucky youngman" I'm not surprised because you are also a pedo, only such a one will see nothing wrong in what the corper did.

Your vivid description above clearly shows you glory in p*rn, obviously that involving children/teenagers, just continue, your cup is almost full and I bet you, karma is such a lovely b1tch.

Maybe after you visit a psychiatrist for treatment and have learnt how to write properly, then you can come back with an opinion worth reading, because what you call an opinion, is trash and it will be in your best interest to stop spewing it on here.

You shouldn't be allowed near children, you should actually be locked up because your kind don't deserve to see the sun.

When u begin to call people's opinion trash, then I begin to wonder what yours will be. Many of us don't face reality. We allow our emotions to becloud our sense of reason. A supposed SS1 student sleeping with brother... And brother who is supposed to be a role model sleeping with a supposed small girl. Who has d chunk of the blame. Both ofcourse. What is d way out? Abortion ofcourse. The guy will finish service and look for job in a country where the mighty get it by force and the girl too will loose some years taking care of the baby. To buy Cerelac 1,2,3 is a herculean task to man who is just climbing d ladder. It is not certain that d guy will marry her, if he did, they will end up divorcing or not loving each other cos they are not on d same page. To avoid all these, they should abort it esp now dt it is still a fetus, it cannt be regarded as a human person. Guy, go abort am.

Sophyrocks:
A lot of guys here saying the future of the guy has been destroyed have done the same thing while serving or hoped to do that when they serve so their comments dnt surprise me. Yet they are the same people who criticise northerners for disrupting the future of underaged girls. Me think Paedophilia is everywhere and not just in the North. Nigerians will soon allow hypocrisy kill themselves. Almost every female while being kids have experienced one form of s.exual assault or the other. That says a lot about our men. what a messed up society!

A girl that opens her legs for broda corper is abused, lol... Its very funny to know how women think men do sexually abuse them. I know what it took me to wade away those girls in my service days, its not gonna stop, the girls too should be mild and sensible too. The guy if he agreed, will end up being the girl's family breadwinner. Guy, find your level and marry someone that sooths you.

GodMode:
If your mother aborted u... U won't be here to type this s:hit...

He should not allow anybody to disrupt his future but he can disrupt others future right... This is the same mentality Nigerian leaders have....

Why would someone impregnate a girl he does not care about

Mr what or what is your fucking name. I did not talk to u, why can't u make ur own suggestion and allow the poor guy to choose which suggestion sooths him rather than attacking me. I will be mild at u but if u decide to take it further, then it will be a personal war between you and me.
The guy impregnated the supposed SS1 student who knows how to Bleep. Is that not enough to crucify the girl. If you have served as a teacher in a ramsharkle village u will have an idea of what d guy probably went through before he could succum to theoir seduction. It pains me to hear people allowing their emotions to rule them, because she is in SS1, it is not her fault but the guy's. I am not saying d guy does not have his blame, but d minnow has d majority of the blame. Okay? So the guy has d option of aborting d baby or allowing her to give birth and take d responsibily. But certainly it is not going to be easy. that is why d first option is better.

I know u know what to do but for record purpose, I will tell u. Tell her to abort it but if she disagreed, run back to your place when d child grows, he or she will remember you. You are still young and don't allow anybody to disrupt your future.

Pr0ton:
Ode. Who's seeking cheap ways out? (who's not anyway?) They (Jamb) kept postponing registration closing date just to get more candidates (and more money in turn)

Time to slate the exam date came and they kept giving excuses, kept shifting every planned date, kept putting candidates on suspense.

Jamb result's validity is just a year, unlike other exam boards that have longer time validity. Of course, it's all about the money.

With all these you are telling me not to complain? Fault my foot!

You called me ode abi? You don't even know me. Instaed of u to marshal ur point, but u resulted in manifesting how unreasonable you can be. Its either you are cursed or u are stupid. You are not cursed, you are simply stupid. What is wrong with u children of now adays. You must be an aberation to ur generation. Idiot.

Pr0ton:
JAMB is not serious and concerned with Nigerian education. They are just after our money. Scrap them! Ban them! Employ better means!

No be your fault, you want d easy way out. Scrap by foot.

Orobo for what, orobo for everywhere. Lepa for what, lepa for everywhere. Fine girl for what, fine girl for everywhere and kitty cat for what, kitty cat for everywhere. I can't imagine a reasonnable guy to do such dastardly act. Women are everywhere so do men are everywhere. The guy should have gone round d town of Owerri to select beautiful chicks instead of him killing himself for another. Well!

It was a good decision by d authority. Why should someone forged medical certificate? Nice one!

Rapmoney:
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Comments are welcomed...
Happy weekend everyone!

Nice one bro

dpoladapo604:
We have been together for over six months. I love her so much (never fell so much in love) and she's so crazy in love with me too. she's such a wonderful lady I've ever met. she would do anything just to prove and protect our relationship.

Early January this year she came to my place to spend few days. during her visit, I one day took her phone and checked through her bbm I saw her chat with one cleric (Alfa) asking the man to help her about a shocking dream she had about me and also talking about d previous guy she was dating before I met her. I was so confused I couldn't talk till she left but on her way to the park I ask her if she was cheating or something and she assured me that she's all mine.

So the following day after she left I called her and told her that I went through her phone and I observe that she's still having some affairs wit her previous boy friend, she first started talking angrily that why should I go through her phone without her conscience but after few minutes she called back and started begging not to be annoyed by the way she talked regard me checking her phone. after a lot of begging I told her I'm no more annoyed but I warned her not to go to the Alfa because I could observe that the Alfa has other interior motive from the way he was chatting and she promised not to visit him.

So last Tuesday she came to my place and I tried to go through her chats on bbm and to my biggest surprise my lady was asking the man to pay her the money she spent on abortion to her (omo I was so shocked) I couldn't blv my eyes,I saw a part where the man was asking if she love him and she said no...dat thats why she couldn't keep his pregnancy. I kept it for good days till when she was about to leave this morning. The question I threw at her was "did you really did abortion?" she was shocked and started swearing with the holy book...I asked her to bring her fone and I viewed the Alfa's pics and asked if dis was d same Alfa I asked her not to visit and she said no he's the not him. I showed her the pics I tuk from that chat....she was shocked and accepted she slept with him but she did no abortion saying she only want to use that to get money from the Alfa. I asked her why....but she kept saying she didn't know how it happened. she was just begging and crying. the reason y I was so pained is that I warned her not to go to him but he go against my warning. I love her but I'm not comfortable with her. after too much begging and crying I told her I've forgive her.

Please is it advisable to go on with this lady?...I'm confused because I'm still in luv with her I can't just let her go but something keeps telling me that I may regret go on with her. AND IS IT WRONG FOR PARTNERS TO CHECK EACH OTHERS FONE?

I don't see why u should keep on claiming that she loves you. Perhaps you don't know what it means to love. Anyway, the word is the most used word in English Language. First and foremost, if she loved u, she wouldn't sleep with another man. Even if she had d most fearsome dream abt you, what she should have done is to let you be aware of the dream and u people will look for a way to resolve it and prevent d issue to stop, that is if the dream is a bad one. You people are team, lovers are team, they are organimistic, what happens to one happens to d other. So bro, I don't think she loves you. Moreso, u told her not to go to d cleric again but she disobeyed, if u eventually marry her, she will disobey u on certain issues which this event is d beginning. Besides, she claimed to lie to d cleric that she is pregnant, only call girls could do that, if she is pained abt d unfortunate event that took place between her and the cleric, she wouldn't dare contact him again let alone asking him to give her money for abortion, that is weird and disheartening.
To me, there is nothing that prevents u from checking one another's fone when u don't have skeleton in ur wardrope. Why should that be a problem. God even wanted you to be aware of it cos she could have deleted it knowning fully well that u have started checking her fone. My advice: the ball is in ur pitch.

prettyboi1989:
dude if u had d money u wont be aving dis sober thought. so people dat went to harvard or any of the ivy league schools were wasting their money abi? is it evritin data cheap dat has value? for afe babz dia fee is unfair basd on d fact dat its a nigerian uni usin d nuc standard n nt a foreign uni using a diff standard whch comes at a price.

if you spend such an amount on one of the Ivy League schools, then you won't have to suffer looking for job. Over there, they teach people how to be an enterpreneur.

SeraSera:
You claim you do not intend to malign anybody or institution, yet that is precisely what your post does, and without good reasons too.

Firstly, you should ask yourself how many deserving students who pass the JAMB cut-off mark actually make it into Federal and State Universities. Perhaps between 10 and 30 percent? Give yourself the honest answer why this is the case and proceed to tell me what you propose should happen to the remaining 70 or more percent of intelligent students who, through no fault of theirs, are not accepted into Federal or State Universities.

Secondly, contrary to what you have made yourself believe, graduates from Private Universities are actually doing well, both in the labour market and in academia. It's all subjective, really. Just as you have mentioned cases of people from Private Institutions who couldn't make presentations, I could as well tell you of graduates from Public Institutions who couldn't even spell their names. What then does that imply? That all Public University graduates can't spell their names?

I agree with you that more needs to be done by government and other stakeholders to sanitise the system all round, with keener focus on Public Institutions for which they are directly responsible.

with great humility, I am very sorry if I offend u or any other people that may feel offended. However, I don't see reasons why private Universities should hike their school fee if one of their reasons for establishing them is what u said above on they trying to cushion the effect of many brillant candidates who couldn't gain admission. I actually agree with u but in actual fact, many of them are not doing well academically. I am not being fallacious here.
I think what should be done is for the government to regulate their activities and provide a common ground on admission processes and tution. This will give all and sundry the opportunity to choose. But in a situation where only the rich can afford to go to such schools is not palatable at all.
My proposition, government should be encouraged to build more universities to compliment the existing ones. Like I have already posited, the activities of private schools should be regulated.

I quite agree that some of them are not employable. But one can not really blame them becaus our curriculum does not even teach how to create business or start your own business esp those under arts, social sciences. These wards are not taught these and moreso, the system is not favourable. Our country has become a den for unemployment and our graduates are wallowing. God help us all.

I don't blame private universities, I blame those who patronise them. Well, when the wards can't pass JAMB, they will go through the back door to achieve their aim. I don't see why people should send their wards to private universities in the first place. When Federal Universities and State Universities are there. To start with, not that their graduates are doing that well in the labour market, even academically, they are found wanton. They can't compete with their mates from federal and state universities. The other time in my Master classes, there were these boys from one of the private universities, who couldn't even make a presentation. I am not here to malign anybody or any school. What I am saying is that, government and the public should look inward and do the necessary to checklist and checkmate these anomalies being perpetrated by the private universities. Let them do d needful!

It is only in Nigeria that people with good grades wouldn't get good jobs especially those that made first class in school. Gone were the days when graduates with first class or distinction authomatically get job. In those days, having a first class is a passport to living a better life. This is because graduates with such results were being sought for before their peers with lesser grades will be considered. In Nigeria today, first class certificate does not equal living first class life. The question is, why is it so this days and age? Could it be that these graduates do not merit their grade? Or could it be that the economic and social melieu of Nigeria have made employers not to gun for these people? Your contribution plz!

Its absolutely not true. You just expresssed what ur eyes can see, not eSsentially what is obtainable. Just woke up, I want to take a cup of tea. I will be right back.

Too much questions. Summarily, a religious person can be immoral while an atheist can be moral. Morality is d yardstick of measuring the goodness oR badness of an action. Being moral adds value to the beingness of a person. While immorality is an aberation. Since it is a deprivation of something good, it is termed to be evil. On Action, do good because it is your duty to do good. That is what Kant calls "duty for duty sake". You do good cos it is ur responsibility to do good not because you want to gain anything. Hasta la vista

Hungry people!

I no fit return that kind of money o. The woman is a good person. But me no go fit do that. Simple!

Make una dey deceive una self, she refunded the money because she was scared that the school might know when auditing their account and discover that they have paid her twicE. She does not want to forfeit her studentship.she acted like Obasanjo who got the info of his expulsion from the party and acted fast. Anyway, she tried!

Dis is certainly the end of PDP. If the pdp goons have said they would miss OBJ, I would have b been surprised. Surely, they will miss him but they will not own up to it. PDP is gone especially in the South-West. GEJ will pay for it. You can't use Ebora Owu and dump him. They will pay for it. If OBJ is trying to unite dis nation and GEJ and co are trying to destroy that which hold us together, things will certainly fall apart. Dis is the begining of the woe of PDP. I am sorry!

Austin4lif:
No pics so no evidence. Ur case is already a dead case.

what the hell are u talking? Did you not read that he said he couldn't take pix cos the soldiers were armed. Do you want him to be shot. So retract your speech, ok? It is well.