₦airaland Forum

princfred:
It's our call. We will answer gallantly.

KunleyY19:
If it's was mismanaged just like funds in kwara ...Would Lagos be where it's today....
ooode

olumide4christ:
Well...the OP may sound harsh in her write up BUT all in all, she made so much sense!

Asides the cases of rape, the fact is that every unwanted pregnancy & child is the fault of the woman.
As I have maintained over the years, asides rape cases, without the girl/woman's consent, there can be no sex within or outside marriage. That's the way God has made it.
As a result, no girl/woman can blame a man for impregnating & abandoning her. She was in her right senses when she followed the man into the room, away from the eyes of everybody, opened her undies & allowed the man to penetrate & release his sperm. She can't feign ignorance when she knows that if things go south, she will be left to bear the consequences.
Unfortunately, we have so many immature men & women in our society who don't reason before jumping into bed...so many babies in adult skin walking around town.
Like a few people have said before, every responsible man/woman will think of the consequences of sex outside of marriage & its attendant responsibilities if a child results from it before jumping into bed.
Infact, sex is only meant for married couples...that's what God said & requires from us, so if not that the devil has taken control of the hearts of so many people, the OP wouldn't have needed to put up this thread. I & my wife personally waited till our wedding night before indulging in sex for the first time in our lives! That's God's will for everyone He created...we should all fall in line!

Cc funmisticqueen kunleweb Eberechi24 mrphysics

rashbaba:
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Michelle55:
[Stop calling people who don't call you. Stop visiting people who don't know where you live. Stop making time for people who don't have time for you. Stop spending on people who don't spend on you(you're not father Xmas). Stop thinking about people who don't think about you, you will make yourself emotionally bankrupt. You can love someone from a distance and I'm not just talking about romantic relationships but all relationships; friends, family, boyfriends/girlfriends. Treat people the same way they treat you and stop over exerting yourself and giving love where it's not reciprocated(it ain't healthy for you biko). Life is difficult enough without having to beg people for their love and attention. The least you can do for yourself is surround yourself with people who genuinely love and care about you.
Most importantly surround yourself with people that don't see you as an option. There's nothing worse than people who treats you like you are replaceable.
It's time for you to live and look after yourself, be genuinely happy and enjoy all the great goodies that life has got to offer you.
Happy Independence!
Mich cares!!!

princfred:
Na Fred you go put there why not kunle maga 23? Lol

lalanice:
care to pm? I'd soon be leaving home anyway

lalanice:
The meaning of Godfearing is now different because There are no quality men anymore so we just manage what we got.

lalanice:
The meaning of Godfearing is now different because There are no quality men anymore so we just manage what we got.

poseidon12:
Great advice. Words of wisdom. We've got too many irresponsible Nigerian men.

highpriestess:
Kunleweb kunleweb!! How many times I call You

Well, I no deh give out number.
I hate headaches.
Take care though.

highpriestess:
Some guys also keep many ladies.
So, it cuts across both sides.


Finding a faithful partner in this era is very hard to come by.

highpriestess:
Lol, funny but I'm not in that league.

I was never a hungry lady.

highpriestess:
I personally detest proud and arrogant people irrespective of gender.
Worst is that the lady never approached per se.

I have never dreamt of approaching any guy, the queue sef too long for me to notice anybody.

Monogamy:
Nothing. She will definitely approach. I am only preparing myself not to embarrass her or myself.

Left to me, I can overlook 100% sure.

highpriestess:
God forbid.


I never know my neighbours finish na to recognise a street urchin like that proud op.
Mtchew

highpriestess:
Take your shiity pride to somewhere else.
Inconsequential carcass.

Why being proud like this? Who are You? Nonsense.

Na your type I deh like to give my best attitude to.
Don't even reply, I hate proud and arrogant people.

Monogamy:
Bro you are not getting me. I do not have feelings for her at the moment even if i do, I know how to contain my feelings and emotion.

As per approaching ladies, I am even running away from lot of them.

2buffagain:
I can seek spiritual insight on someone I am ALREADY thinking of marrying...but I'm not interested in being actively matched with anyone.
That one is 100% my pick.

It is only some silly church-girls who like that kind of thing.
Some of them will even tell the guy that wants to take them out to dinner to go and register his intention with their pastor sef.

Such clueless individuals are to be avoided because nothing will go on between you 2 that will not be used as sermon by her pastor the following sunday.

MissRaine69:
What do you want exactly? And how do you expect is to know what you don’t know? Straight up ask her what her situation is. How else do you expect to find out? My village people charge extra for out of area. When you know
Then let us know.

Monogamy:
Like i said she has the look and the features( somehow my type) but I am not really sure about my feelings. Left to me, I can never initiate the conversations ( I trust myself)

Adesuntim95:
Shortest route pls, thanks.