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Ahahahaha omg lol i can't freakn do this, im at work.
Cant stop laughing. Angelina jolie has now become old cargo? You've been singing her praises till now till the truth hit you.
Is it me posting the pictures of paris hilton here?
Sucking a black mans di ck has made kim kardashoan who she is today. Now shes a star and he's a joke. Only black men would have her so you can try your luck when she divorces her second husband. We are all counting down 9, 8, 7 . . .

OMG you so dump. Kimora lee simons is half black half korean . Ahahahahaha u so fu ckn stu pid
(by the way ask her where her black dad is, as usual left the mum when she was preggies)
Paris hilton says black men are gross. Her words caught on tape. She's been in damage control since then

What the fuc k are you on about? Are you there in the bedroom with them?
Log unto any indecency site and check out the girls doing douple penetrations, double coc ks in thier Bottom and gang ba ngs with five or more guys and tell what colour they are?
Anything a black girl has done a white girl has done ten times, and you go down there to lick their pum pum?
Why do you think they practice so much an al sex here in the west? its becoming 'normal' because they've done so much by the age of 22 - 24 that they are pretty much messed up down there so only a black man thingy will do the job for most.
A lot of girls in the uk can't even remember how many guys they've slept with. The wife of the house of parliament speaker said it was pretty normal to get drunk on a friday and pick a guy for a one night stand. She said this with no shame in an interview. A normal black female would never even dream of making such a public statement.
By the way no, angelina jolie dated loads of guys including girls but never black. Paris hilton said she wouldnt be caught dead with a black man.
And im still waiting for the list of successful white woman that have married black guys?

I know I'm coming across quite nasty towards white girls but that is not my intention, really. Its just stating facts.

Its only the black man that will jump with glee and rejoice when told that women of his same race are the least desireable. He happily joins the corus of people that insult his mothers sisters aunties.
They will never cry out as one and defend their women saying they dont care if no one else likes them, they love them. Thats exactly what a white man, chinese, indian will do. We are stuck with these imbeciles monkey head.
Your love of white women is well known. Google botha speech and see how they planned to poison and kill your fertility using white women.
You happily quote the research of an unknown asian professor but ignore statements from more illustrous scientists like James watson. Read what he said about black people. Everyone was outraged when he said it but deep down many agreed with him and he was just saying what most white people think anyway.

The reason why a lot black women in the west are unmarried is because they stick to black men and rarely date out but black men are the least likely to marry. White men love being married. I work with them so i know. Most are on thier 2nd or even 3rd marraige but will still marry even the ones that have been through bad divorces.

@noLongTinn  you are dumber than me sweetheart

@obo man I'm actually happy for your uncle and he obviously married for the right reasons. I wish them decades more of happiness.

I see the reality close to home and know what i see. I have seen black men trying to chat up white girls and its so embarrassing as the girl is so disgusted sometimes so before one can even boast to have one he must have tried with many. Many white girls will tell you how black men come and chat them up and tell them all sorts of nasty things about black women. While EVERY SINGLE BLACK MAN i know that dates a white girl always cheats. Always. But they are known to cheat anyway so no surprise there.

Black man/white woman marriages have the highest rates of divorce far above average. Its the complete opposite for black woman/ white man . Google it.

I am a very happy and positive person and this tread has put a downer on me by its negativity so I'm out. Its nothing I haven't heard before. I know a beautiful woman of any race will always be chatted up so I thank God I am one.

On this you are right  "some black men find White women a step up in class and an enhancement to their social status. " Any white woman.   I can only speak for the UK but most white girls that go out with black guys are the lowest common denominator. Never will you find a doctor or a Cambridge student white girl going out, talk-less marrying a black man. For what?
And when they do marry, the black man always ends up working for both. Black couples hustle and work together even after children. The whites stay on benefit.
This is not true for all i accept but the overwhelming majority.
Masculinity? sorry but you are a joke. Look at your community, your society. Who makes money and moves into a black neighborhood?
Every black community in the UK, USA, Africa, Caribbeans, South Africa is full of gangs, violence, rape, gun crime. Is that what masculinity is all about?

Every other race including Indians, Chinese, Caucasians are looking to improve their society and standard of living. The black man lives on handouts and international aid, his only concern is how much pum pum he can get.

Ooooh and check this out,

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2052267/No-protest-The-happy-couple-forced-say-I-door-St-Pauls--protesters-set-SECOND-camp.html

@lindabon

Wow, that's a wonderful post. Full of intelligence and the truth.

Coogar,

You are a d isgusting piece of s h 1t wow. No wonder black people will never progress. Black man opening his mouth to insult the generations of women that have unfortunately brought him to earth. What a waste of space.

A white guy approached me yesterday and after dancing with him he actually asked me 'do you find me cute'? I know someone like you will never go out with someone like me?. He was cute. I work with guys mostly white and they ALWAYS check me out even the married ones.
Lots of black women are wising up and dating outside their race trust me. One guy in the office is absolutely distraught as his wife has just left him. He is english, she is nigerian. Got her indefinite leave to remain and bounced.

I have loads of white male friends and they mostly say its the first step of approaching a black woman they find challenging.

Black men suffer from incredibly low self esteem and feel the only way to be acceptable is to go white and insult their own race. If white women like you so much, list successful white women that married a black man please.
Seal was more successful than heidi Klum when they married. She was pregnant with another man's baby when he met her. Briatore the father's child rejected her as she thought getting pregnant for a billionaire was a smart move after few months together. Briatore said the love of his life was Naomi Campbell. Guess what, a black woman. They were together years but he never convinced her to marry him.
Another example is Kim Kardashien. Lol. Sucking a black mans d 1c k made her who she is today and till now only black men would have her. White women only pick black men that are better than them.

When the guys in UK (I don't know about the US as the girls there seem to take care of themselves more) tell you how great their white chick is ask them where does she work? Does she have a degree? Most are on benefits, low achieving, jobless and uneducated. And fat.
All the mixed kids in this country more often than not grew up without their black father. Black men rarely man up to their responsibilities, so its only the lowest class of the white population that will mix.

Do you choose to believe only the studies you want? Lets accept the conclusions of the guy about black women being less attractive. What about the fact that black men are by far the lowest achieving ethnic minority? The most prone to aggressive behavior, violence, mental issues? The most likely to end up in jail? I for one refuse to believe these statistics. Circumstances, nurture, people around us make us who we are.

Please don't get me wrong, attraction is attraction and you can fall in love with anyone any race. But you do not insult your own racee. Imagine a black man saying a black woman has nappy hair? You forget you will still give birth to nigg ers (oh, or you thought the world will accept your kids as white) and just hope especially your daughter never gets to know what daddy thinks.

Nigerian men again chatting s h i t to justify every wrong doing.
Where do u get your information from?
Please people when you are given information always research it yourself.

It is because there is more likelihood of men dying in birth, work, war, etc. that there are more men than women born. That is a fact. Nature has made provision for that
In every country except very few like the uk where females at 30 are just a little over. In average its 10 males for 9 females. Google this.
Dont let these imbeciles use thier scare tactics.
Im not even going to comment on the poligamy issue if u havent been convinced by now. Some people will die and go and debate with God.

Very simply how many happily married polygamous homes do you know?

Sorry to say this but you sound quite full of yourself.
You have been with white chicks that have done what before 19? I think that is absolutely disgusting. Like seriously? Is that what you are encouraging black girls to do? Be slappers in their teenage years? Would you be happy for your daughter to do that?

I'm not a saint and sexual chemistry is a must in marriage. I actually believe it depends on the guy, the right one can have you swinging on trees and doing stuff you never even imagined if he can make you feel comfortable.

You want to go and pick a girl in naija for wifey after living your life abroad, good luck with that

As a typical African man you are spouting s. h. i. t.
1) there are more men than women in every country in the world except in some places in India , China as some parents decide to kill female fetuses (of course with consequences as males cannot marry themselves and pro-create maybe you should read about kidnapped brides), there are more males born than females in nature and even though they tend to die more in childhood when they become adult it's around the same numbers. Google this. Ignoramus

2) You can have sex during pregnancy and its even encouraged by medical practitioners.

3) Every thing in life that is worth it takes effort and discipline, building a house, educating yourself, training your children and being married. All things that involve time, money and sacrifice.

If you need excuses to be wayward just admit to being a dog. Women's periods last for 3 - 5days (and even there a lot of couples feel comfortable having sex during these days) is that too long that you must run around with your manliness hard looking for something to stick it into?

Marriage is for better for worse. Its a deep commitments not to be made by boys and girls but adults that understand that your needs will not always be met as the person by your side is as human and imperfect as you are.

You seem to be very selfish and self centered person and always thinking the grass in greener on the other side.
People here are saying you should go back to your ex, what makes them think she wants you back?
I pray she doesn't and she can find a real man who will cherish and love her.

Some men can never keep a good thing

I had to reply.

It seems you are describing my ex.

I understand exactly what you feel, scared of loneliness and thinking of all the time and effort wasted but my dear, better a few years than a lifetime of hell

He treats you like crap and behaves as if he's dying when you start thinking of leaving?
No presents, no affection, silent treatment, never ever apologizes?
Always belittles you and blames you for everything? Always angry about something? no matter how hard you try show love something is always wrong? He does not care how much anything he does or says hurts you?

No he will not change and it will only get worse. Some people are just born disturbed and sour and there is nothing you can do about it. In no uncertain terms i ask you run and completely cut him off. If you allow him he will destroy your self esteem. Please do not ignore the warning signs.

I haven't lived in the States but I was brought up in Europe. Here in the UK it's not hard to pursue higher education for black or any British. They practically beg you to study and till the last government you were paid to continue school after 16. Still in most professional environments you do not meet many blacks. What's the excuse? The number of black people jailed in England and Wales is seven times larger than the amount they make up of the population. I think we need to start taking some responsibility here and anyway what about Indians, Japanese, Chinese, Arabs how many do you meet that as soon as they are successful get married in a majority to white or that slate and insult their own women saying they prefer or will only date white?
It's on this forum I read a comment made by a Nigerian guy that now lives in the States saying that he does not even look at black girls and that no one likes you Negro women? Imagine me reading that, I nearly could not believe it. After centuries of racism from whites and everyone else now even between ourselves? I have no problem with love, you do not choose who you fall for but to actually dismiss your own race, all the centuries of women that brought you to life?
And the thing is when these black men have kids they will be black (Oooo, oh sorry? you thought they will be white?) are you going to tell them to be proud of who they are especially your daughters (that's if the black man will stick around for the kids anyway as we know the stereotype)

I can't disagree with you. I have been to Chinawhite which is where the footballers hang out in London and the white girls there were shameless, practically naked (for the first time in my life I saw fake boobs, lips) and doing everything possible to get attention (I was actually sure most guys there were not footballers but just dressed well to get some nookie ), but you have to give it to them for trying,

I work in a very white male environment and I can assure you they do find black women very very attractive but are absolutely convinced we do not date outside our race (and even if we do there is family drama down the line) also we are always portrayed as aggressive, loud and our music and videos do not help (bitches, baby-mamas, rude) and the whites girls are pretty, cute and sweet.

The reality is relationships between black men and white women have a much higher rate of divorce than average and the one between white men and black women a much lower rate than average.

It's not me saying this, google interracial relationships and go to wikipedia

The vast majority of black British born men are married or dating white.

Nearly every black footballer is married or dating exclusively white girls.

So as Mr Cameron and Mr Clegg have decided to close the borders there will be fewer and fewer Africans coming in, u do the maths

(Also their kids, i still have yet to see a mixed race British guy go out with a black girl they tend to go for white girls)

eddy1977


"But mind you me,blacks and whites have always been f4cking.
look the coloureds in south africa,namibia and zimbabwe.
even during slavery,whites and blacks used to f@ck in the closet."

This statement is pretty ignorant as most of the black women were raped, the same applied for African American women that were kept as slaves it wasn't a choice.

Why should a black man feel superior because he is dating a white woman as if it's some sort of achievement?

As for black british they are basically breeding themselves out of existence,

Why is a married woman accepting gifts from a man who isn't her husband in the first place?

What is a married woman doing in the house of her boss?

What thing led to the other? the clothes fell off by themselves or her legs just decided to part ways?

Me think she kinda wanted it,

mmmmm, oooooooo baby, mmmm oh yes yes, ooooo mmmMMMMMYYYY GOSH, YES YES YES Oh pls harder harder, yes yes yes oohh baby you are soooo good,

Please please please do not kill your child.

You are both old enough to have sex so you should be old enough to take care of the baby. I am not saying you should get married as a child does not guarantee a good marriage but if you pray and you really love her go ahead. Family unit is the best place to bring up your first baby I really wish you the best of luck and loads of blessings for the future.

Next time use a condom,

Why is everyone being so nicey nicey to her?

You are absolute VERMIN, yes if you repent and confess your sins God will certainly forgive you but that doesn't mean you will not pay for this abomination.
Be not deceived, God is not mocked for whatever you sow you shall surely reap. You have basically bleeped up your entire life. Like seriously, how f u c k e d up can one be? even prostitutes take their s h i t outside you are doing evil to your own blood, your sisters offer you shelter and you sleep with their husbands. Public toilet. And you expect that you will meet a nice man later in life and be happy forever after, and you are so full of yourself you are even crying poor me

You are absolutely disgusting and I really really hope this story is a lie,

As for the husbands I'm not sure i can legally print what I think

"It causes God to regret why He made man. Homosexuality, unlike fornication and adultery, marks a regression towards animality."

And who decided that? You? Or now you can read God's mind and bible updates?

It's we humans that define levels of sin. God doesn't. Sin is sin. Most of the people here condemning right and left, sleep around and do other things the bible says we shouldn't.
He who is without sin,
As Christians we are not allowed to jugde. End of.
Being gay is not some kind of disease that you catch by being friends or colleagues.
I personally have friends that are and they are not attracted to women, at all. They can see you naked and nothing. I am a born again christian and I do read my bible and study it and all I know is that the same God that created them knows what to do. I am no one to sit on a high chair to judge another human.

With our mouth we are justified and with the same mouth we are condemned. Let's be careful and ask yourself? Would Jesus lynch a man because he is gay? Please,

Thanks everyone. I was actually looking for a mature point of view. People that are in a happy long term relationship and sincerely love thier partner. Do you guys argue? how much compromise is too much? When you get annoyed do you just walk away or is it right to let your partner know that you are not happy with the way they behaved?

It's just you try and do your best, you put so much time and energy, you genuinly love the person and he says the same but then spend most of your time arguing over anything and everything. It's just sooo draining am asking myself if it's worth it and you start to question if maybe you are just not meant to be  

2nd relationship going down the hill fast, and I seem to be powerless

I'm really sad and shocked at how people are battering you and judging so easily.
Things happen in life that we haven't planned for and be very careful when you throw stones at other,
She was with a man and chose not to abort her 2 children. She then waited for another 11 years before having a sexual relationship with another man and again chose to not abort. Just that deserves some respect.
Some women will keep jumping from one bed to the other, aborting any 'inconvenience' in the desperate bid to just get married and no one will ever know.
I am not saying you made the right choices as I believe God has a reason for creating man and woman to procreate. Someone said because she was left by 2 men then she has to be the problem. Men lie, decieve and cheat all the time and they do not need a reason for that. It's not because the woman is bad or the grass is greener on the other side. I know exactly what most Nigerians think of 'Jamo' so am not too surprised. Take heart and be the best parent you can. You have every chance of still meeting a fantastic guy but please use a condom.

Unfortunately most things are easier said than done.

You have a job and that's good. I just need to know? are you papers under him (based on the marraige) and how long do you have to wait till you get your indefinite?

There are many domestic violence helpline and they have accomodation provided for you at any time.

http://www.womensaid.org.uk/
http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/crime-victims/reducing-crime/domestic-violence/

If you have less than a year to wait you might as well stay and try and be as peaceful as possible once the time is near convince him to follow you to the home office, do same day application and then start making plans. Try and get your passport from him. If you can't it's not a problem just report it as stolen and you can get a new one the home office will stamp the ilr on your new one but it will cost you an additional fee. You need to open a bank account. You are nigerian and the chances of you opening one online are slim. You can get your work to transfer payments into a friends account (I have an account I never use and I'm a very honest person but I understand you do not know me so that's fine) must be someone you can really really trust as I have heard many funny stories.

You need to attend a cliniic or see your doctor everytime he hits you. They will not disclose what is happening unless you allow them but they will ask you what happened. Most professionals know even if you lie. They will keep a record which will be very very useful.

The best new is that you can still apply for your indefinite leave if you are a victim of domestic violence but you will have to prove it (medical records, police report, domestic violence help services or CAB)

http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/ukresidency/settlement/applicationtypes/applicationformset(dv)/

Honestly you cannot be a man's punching bag, you owe him nothing. He has helped you but that does not mean he case use and abuse you. It's a choice he is making to be violent but you do not have to take it. Are you going to wait until he seriously damages you? If you have to call the cops call them as it only gets worse. You are too young to be going through this and he is a slimebag, a coward. You have no kids at the moment and that makes your decision easier it will be much harder once you have.

You need to start taking some action as most things can be done during your lunch break. If he does not care about getting a criminal record why should you?

Honestly sweetheart, who is deceiving you?

There is nothing such as grave sin as it is we humans that classify sin, God doesn't. Sin is sin.

Most if not all the people shouting no and judging and condeming left, right and centre are having sex before marraige, extra-marital affairs and would gladly rob a bank if they knew they could get away with it so please,

Lets be very careful as God says we should not judge. End of, and its the same mouth we use to condemn others we shall be judged. How can you say they should be killed and stoned to death, does the bible you read promote violence and hatred? Only God knows and he is completely fair, that's all I can say.

"5. She stripped and swore in daylight nudity (more than once) holding her private parts and cursing that,since the guy has
sucked her brea-st and made love to her genitals,if he ever "crosses" the part of another woman,his life
will turn miserable and unfortunate from that moment.saying that she did not beg to be married in the first place
"

eheheheheh,   totally hilarious

most of the things you mentioned she did them before marraige so to be honest your friend was kinda looking for trouble I mean she's right when she says no one forced him to marry her, this isn't a case of her decieving him. Sorry dude