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those legs round your waiste when nacking is bliss

oliidell:
FocusM, Let's do a SWOT analysis. The objective here is to choose whom to marry.

Peter
Strenght: 2.1 graduate, funny, sociable, honest, average height, great personality, 2 years r/ship
Weakness: drinks, smokes, frugal, not too fine, no definite date.

Paul
Strenght: better pay, generous, caring, christian, fine, definite date.
Weakness: boring, short, 3 months r/ship, not open, not sociable.

Your friend:
Strenght: Attractive, reasonable
Weakness: indecision
Opportunity: she's in a good position to asess them both and make a choice.
Threat: she can lose them both if her game gets out & age is not on her side.

Some home truths:
GF didn't stop seeing peter after meeting paul so she consciously prefers peter and is obviously seeing paul for the money.

She likes peter's swag and company even though he drinks and smokes and just endures paul cos he is finer and more caring.

She dosnt give two fvcks about paul's christianity but feels more secure with him cos he is not demanding and has named a month.

She'll be happier with peter, but he might never become generous and might cheat. Paul on the other hand would be a doting husband but he'll bore her to death. Some things about men don't change.

None of the guys fit her picture of Mr. Right. She wants a tall, handsome, funny, generous dude.

My advice:
GF should strip the two guys of all secondary qualities and ask herself who she genuinely prefers.

Then she should decide what she wants from marriage and what she can and cannot live with.

She is obviously more equally yoked with peter, so I'd rather she sticks with him and try to make him work on his weakness.

2 years over 3 months any day.

guy na waoh are you a professional councellor?

it's not wrong as far as she also allows you to keep your wallet virgin from her too.but mind you there is also a thread here where a court separated a marriage on the ground that the woman had no kpekus

give am belle first,then the negotiations go easy for you

is she an interior decorator? this place needs total renovation abeg

nkemdi89:
You are saying these maybe because you have not been privilege to work in that, most of them may appear wretched cos of the job ethics or rather mentality. But I put it to you that most are hotel eatery and church owners, some may drive old passat to work but come and check dem in evening or sunday with their jeeps, atiku and the likes started from government, even the police most are into sport, entertainment and church owners. Which private establishment apart from some well structured will even give you time to go for interview in another establishments not to talk of setting up business or pursuing your passion so that you should grow more than them? How many privates pays overtime, leave bonus and others, even most deprive their staff of public holidays.imagine when u give a nursing mother one month maternity leave .

am sure you are a civil servant for knowing this,most civil servants live in disguise.even buying a new suit can get your colleagues sniffing to find out what you are up to.in reality they are not as broke as they look.show your wealth in the service?...Very dangerous

cooljude:
people are moving round to better their life but you want to cause more destruction. Get something productive doing and forget this personal vendetta.

bross you no go understand. because you haven't been affected directly or secondarily am still mourning abeg

TrueFcts:
Pic is on my profile

this picture that is everywhere on the net? try something better abeg

dechandel:
My purse containing my identity card(s) and cash..
My small make up purse
A small handy perf
Baby wipes for me
My books..

What else??

role on.. serves dual purposes

KLEINBASS:
goodluck if it will make u feel any better

thanks

I and my guys have been going round for days now looking for any south African we can lay our hands on just to prove a point...

I don't just like the word flush out...I prefare annihilate

RIP but wait ooo why them dey spell ambulance upside down sef

And one man of God go come tell me say no testing before marriage.

he is lucky it's FRSC if na naija police them for kuku finish am with accidental dichage to share the loot

the only TV station that can survive without govt patronage for now is channels and TVC dokpesi better amend the fence because even with previous govt patronage it was tough for him ask Ait staff

midolian:
Unlike some that budget a hundred million naira for breakfast

are you ok! we are talking billion here

but I thought some people were calling for biafra what happened

wristwatch:
Lol. I know that. It's among though but she will have it @ d back of her mind one day he may be removed from office because it's an elected position.

That's true! just wanted us to knw that politicians rocks too

introduce your self to a naija babe as an honourable member of house of reps if she no drag you enter toilet e go remain small

Vickybee:
I don't think there's any problem if a man is still depending on his parent if they are rich though.

really you are joking right??

national population and federal character commission does nothing so why are they given such huge sum

redhook:
I have dated quite a few young women (smallies) in my time but recently I have found myself thinking of focusing on more matured chicks in order 2 get more out of a relationship other than sex and parties! I made a list of the good and bad based on my experiences and those of my crew for 2 reasons, 1st to see if anyone else agrees with my analogy and secondly 2 act as a guide 4 those guys who have fallen into the trap of chasing smallies without realising the dangers ahead of them! Take a peek!

THE GOOD >

1. Younger women typically want a man with
maturity, experience, and is done with playing
immature games. Obviously, this is not a man who belongs to her age group so if u are older its a plus 4 u!

2. Younger women are more adventurous and have more of a zest 4 life! Whether in trying new things, dress sense and sexually, they tend to get more of a thrill out of experimenting wit such tins as compared to older women. So if u like the unexpected, you’ll surely have fun dating younger babes!

3. Younger women are often flexible and can easily adapt to changes. They can get accustomed to your lifestyle and whatever that entails because they have fewer ties to prevent them from devoting majority of their time 2 you, like careers, family, or children.

THE BAD AND THE UGLY >

1. Wisdom and maturity in women are qualities that come with age. They cannot develop overnight no matter how you force it. And you cannot act wise or mature unless you really are. If you try to fake it, it will eventually surface as a facade. Most men find these traits admirable and sexy in a woman. Unfortunately, younger women often don’t have them yet so u should be ready 2 argue about or deal with a lot of senseless drama!


2. Younger women tend to demand more of your time and energy. They are more insecure
compared to older women and can be very
"suspicious and jealous". Probably because they have not attained their "self-actualisation" needs yet compared to the more established older women so their insecurities over your presence at all times should be expected!


3. Younger women are sometimes not ready for a serious relationship yet, If that’s what you’re Looking for at this stage in your life, you probably wouldn’t like to deal with their fickle attitudes or lack of emotional maturity as regards to relationships! its all fun and games 2 them!


4. Sad to say, some younger women are just
searching for father figures or a "sugar daddy" to buy everything they wish for. If the idea of being used by someone purely for your money makes U sick to your stomach, be careful when dating younger women. You might not only lose your wallet, but even your own self-respect cause at that stage in their lives they measure love by gifts and money, so its easy 4 them 2 fall 4 the highest bidder!

5. Younger woman r more prone 2 violent confrontations! At the ages from 15 to 24, most babes are still developing physically a well as mentally so it takes some time 2 grow out of dis confrontational stage, which is why girl fights r so common in universities or high schools, and as a result younger babes have no problems wit engaging in violence as a means of resolving disputes, so if u have a younger babe she may result 2 physically assaulting u during quarrels and thinking dat its a way of showing her love 4 u!


6. Sexual inexperience is another down side, Most younger babes look good but are mostly stale in bed due 2 limited sexual experiences and also since they have been smashing inexperienced boys also! So u may find yourself acting as a lecturer in d bedroom most of the time with younger chicks!

Feel free 2 join in the debate or add 2 it!

nice one op! for my area we call them eaglets ie 20-25.. they don't give wahala like..my house rent has expired...I need Brazilian hair.the only problem is avoiding their parents and older brothers

the day wey them go take cutlass remove their finger for go slow,na for news we go still hear am

bakynes:
Some go get ere*ction problem now

no be to fold am drop inside?

bakynes:
The survey was done in the US a country with lots of homosexuality that's why out of 100 men only 30 agreed to go home with her and have sex. On the otherhand, if the survey was conducted in Nigeria in a typical city like lagos, am sure 90% will agree to go home with her and have sex. The remaining 10% will decline probably because of religious reasons and other reasons best know to them.

which kind religion,if the gurl make sense even pastor go follow.do you knw how stressful it is to kolobi naija gurl knack so not to talk of free kpekus wey you no go even give transport money

Medley:
what's your highest academic qualificatio? Just for the records

go back to school

MrMcJay:
Your thoughts and writing are classic examples of how corruption can destroy someone's brain. It is no surprise that you are a supporter of GEJ.

If these stolen funds had been rightly used, there would have been sufficient funds to employ and train qualified teachers who would in turn teach you spellings and tenses.

I guess you are a Nursery2 dropout, betterr enrol in one of the Almajiri schools that GEJ built.

you are one of the sharp shooters who keeps giving tanoids high blood pressure why not just leave these guys to leak their wounds in peace haba

WombRaiders:
He has no right!

For him to revoke their broadcast rights an investigative hearing will be conducted and sent to the NBC to barr Ait.

Even at that Ait has the right to challenge their suspension in a court of law.

Buhari will only be chasing his own shadows and exposing his despotic tendencies.

How many media outlets were banned from 1999 up till now? None!

Buhari is yet to assume full responsibilities as president and here he is attacking the press!

We will not allow your fanatical desposition towards this despot to ruin whatever ever freedom we now enjoy!

Mind you, the apc ran on the leg of freedom of speech to publish false lies and deciet on the outgoing dispensation.

What is good for the geese is good for the gander. Buhari should brace up to stiff and well balanced critism of his govt.

are you thinking right at all? who told you buhari revoked broadcasting rights of AIT. pls buy one of the dailies and read before you come here to comment.buhari is just like you and I he is not a president so he has the right to tell any news agency not to come into his house for now.pls what's wrong with that? so if you wake up one day and found AIT at your door so you don't have the right to tell them not to come in abi?

WombRaiders:
Coming from a change chanting zombie and hebivore follower of a semi illiterate cow herdsman

blood pressure go kill you bro.mean while am still celebrating with a bottle of origin as we speak.care to join me?

WombRaiders:
Nonsense! How does running an expose documentary on a frontline candidate for presidency run contrary to ethics?

Buhari can still take AIT and the producers to court!

He is not owner of Nigeria by virtue of being elected president of Nigeria.

Ait has done more good to our democracy than a thousand buhari's can ever mutter.

Let me ask you this; today buhari is barring AIT from coverinhg him as president elect and has also declared AIT persona non grata in his innuguration, what will happen once he is sworn in? Will he barr AIT from covering his govt and presidency as well?

wait untill he is sworn in,for now he has the right to do that.deal with it bro