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Gratefulness is part of our manners and when someone shows ungratefulness then it shows the stuff they are made of.If u tell her or not she will still hold u responsible for her loss of the job . But i would u tell her , not in a condescending way but in an advisory manner .

My dear Fruits is compulsory , they are sort of considered inexpensive and symbolic.

hello,
I am from Ogun state and husband is from Delta State ( Isoko) to be precise. For ours he arranged fruits in basket , 2 carton of biscuit, 2 carton of sweet, i carton of juice and 1 carton of malt. and make sure its beautifully wrapped and presented. No monetary expectation . Is your girl working? The gifts are just what they are gifts to the whole family . How many people are you going with ? that would inform the decision to support her with money for the entertainment .

Please can someone give me a link to a wholesaler of female dresses on the island or even outside Lagos. Here is a sample picture.

Marc9
Nice job u are doing. God bless you. i have been TTC for close to 6 months now , had a miscarriage in Febuary ending at 8 weeks and my doctor couldnt find any issue although i suspected a non alcholic drink i had in excess the previous day . I just started ovulating in the past month what can i do to improve my chances. Thank you

How much does it cost for the total hair? The indian body wave.

People neve cease to amaze me especially in this century.With all the stereotypes going on about people and there different tribes are there not people who have exhibited different characters. I am proudly ijebu and i can tell you that my family upbringing is quite different.

Look at the famiky you are marrying from there values and what is most important to them, not just the place they from. Every tribe and i mean every tribe has a form of bad stereotype, mention one to me and i will tell you the gist about them.

I think the op should change the topic hence the confusion , he should replace ethnic with dialect.

May God bless all our hustles.
I am currently in paid employment but want to start a business to augument my salary and subsequently be the source of livelyhood. So following this thread.

@ ademideolu i honestly do feel for you, but stop the pity party and think of ways to help yourself . Like improving your overall finances and dont think of another child just yet until that is sorted out . This man has no plans for you and will drop you once he sees a better alternative . What you have to do is prepare for your future , if he takes a walk you survive, if he stays you are the better for it. Stop letting him degrade you and dont report him to anyone again we both know he wont listen . Just tell your parents so they can be aware but not to call him for a sit down before he insults them as well. He is presently tired of the marriage and doesnt see u as stimulating intellectually .
I know you take care of the home front but u need to work on yourself . Be out there socially and intellectually. I dont mean going to parties but know whats happening in the society, brush up yourself . And lastly pray , pray for divine intervention, pray for grace, pray for open doors .

aisha2:
I am trying to understand why i was mentioned and what this has to do with feminsim.
A typical explotative couple brought in a relative under the guise of training her and have frustrated and she is lashing out.
What is wrong with a father who has free time caring for his own children?
My husband helps out and will never dump all the work on a relative mine or his

Aisha I total disagree with ypu on this . it is not the place of the inlaw to complain and even say it out loud. He clothes you and feeds you and you there complaining about what?
Her issue the man is jobless and as such should not be loafing around in his own house . Abeg if it was her father will she complain such , and moreover did u ever meet a man that died from hardwork. Una sef can condone nonsense and foolish wife . She even said the wife was with her because they are family can u imagine such reasoning . I bet you there parens think like them . Awon alai leko omo kekere.

Ovaltine is a malt based beverage

iamlola: Thanks for your comments. Don't see anything wrong in trying to satisfy my man, though.

My dear he isnt your man yet since the two of you cant even communicate over food and you are here second guessing him. Call him and see if thats the problem but i seriouslydoubt that . if it was reall an issue he shoulkd help you with the recipe.

My 2 cowries

Another thing that could help is to know the state of origin and local govt of the father. Adesanyas are from Ijebu Ode,Sagamu etc

xynerise: Her husband will think she is possessed if she initiates sex or being sexually aggressive

Because she probably pretended that sex didnt matter to her at the beginning of the relationship.

@op , na wa for your story . Thought i was reading a pg material. anyway back to the matter, u might likely cheat unless you probably nip it in the bud. Have a heart to heart talk with your husband.

ki a ma so ara ni adugbo yen agaga ti ile ba ti su. nitori sunkere fa kere oko ni adugbo yen awon eyen se gun okada. okada ni kan ko o, motor no ma gba odi ikeji ono nitori ono yen. Ti e ba le bawa be Federal Govt ki wan wa se ibi iyanna buststop yen , awon eyan to gun okada a diku, okada no o ni ma gba one way repete bayen.
( i hope what i wrote was readable)

Fimmy: adofuro ko adodi ni, lol
thats not it joor

lesbians are lakribooto , dont know if it goes for male and female.

hello just paid to your Access Bank Account with the name kweenkong.

Flabanx: Hello,

I am interested in purchasing locally fabricated industrial gas cookers for my small buka startup business in Lagos. What type of equipment do you make? Do you have catalogues/brochures. Where are you based? And what sort of price are we looking at?

Thanks
Flabanx

At Flabnax u can get the burner for minimum of 7,000 not that expensive .

Send an aplication letter and your cv, do that as soon as possible . And a word of advice dont be too particular for a big salary

A loving and responsible dad or parent will advice you to forget the operation and start up your life .

For me realistically i will use the money for myself and younger ones. What if after the operation he develops common cold and dies barely a month after . I trust my father to tell me to use the money for myself with a promise thati help my younger ones . shikena

Harrisibor: Please I need urgent help as life is becoming unbearable. I need a job pls, any body who can help should pls do

BSc Accounting (2:1),efficient in computer usage and resides in Lagos

Pls any form of help would be greatly appreciated as I have younger ones who depends on me as well as we have lost both parents.

Pls save a life and a family

send a mail to adaobi.nwaribeaku@noahconsults.net as soon as possible

I am very much interested . i have sent Ymodulus a message on whatsapp my number ends with 070xxxxx670

where are you located ? and can u do outside lagos ?

Thank you for your reply , one last question are they new or fairly used?

oyihou: .

THERE ARE TWO SIDE TO EVERY COIN LET THE LADY SAY HER OWN SIDE OF THE STORY.
(Most times i don't believe any online stories)

Answer

1. What if the lady works in the bank or in a place that drain her physical energy,the solution is to look for a male cook.

2. The inlaw come and stay if they can behave wisely some inlaw do search the couples bedrooms look for what to take and give food items to some of their friends and some invite their friends and they will begin to cook different food in your absence meanwhile they cannot do that in their own house or sister's husband house.
So why do unto her what u cannot do in your house or your sister's husband house. The male cook will wash the plates nobody is a slave to another, can you tell the RICHES WOMAN IN NIGERIA TO WASH HER INLAW'S PLATES MEANWHILE THEY HAVE A MAID SUCH PEOPLE GET INVOLVE MOSTLY IN CRITICAL THINKING THAT IS WHY SHE IS RICH AND YOU ARE POOR.


3. The fact that somebody is a mother inlaw does not make her a QUALIFIED MARRIAGE COUNSELOR BY MERIT. Solution let HIM look for a qualified marriage counselor.


4. op how would you feel if your father continiously give every dick and harry a lift, don't become TIMAYA THAT WILL LEAD PEOPLE ASTRAY AND ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS OF SIN.


5. EMPLOY THE SERVICES OF A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR WHO IS QUALIFIED BY MERIT.

For Starters I dont know if you are male or female but lets dissect this :

1) So what if the lady works in a bank ? she can make her stews and soups weekends and just warm dem and eat with sphagetti,boiled rice, eba or even yam . All this i listed takes less than an hour to cook. So when she has kids she would buy take out food for them abi. And dont mention getting a maid because that is how women end up lossing charge of there homes. I am not against maids but you should have a running arrangement before you engage a maid. And why did you specify a male cook?

2) She has already assumed the inlaws are bad without giving them a chance, that is unfair . She should put herself in there shoes .

3) Yes she is not a qualified counsellor, but ( omode gbon agba gbon ni afi da ile ife ) its is the knowlegde of the young and the old that a great city was founded. She can listen and take some , sheis not all knowing ke .

4) If she doesnt trust her husband at just 6months then marraige isnt for her.

5) i quite agree with you on this one.

bodashee: For bulk purchasers interested in the N18,000 package, another one just came in. Call either of the above numbers to make your purchase.

Do they come in big sizes (16-20) ? and what is in the 18k package, as in the numbers for each item?

Kellygold: Thanks guys, all your suggestions were on point. I Finally got a place in Surulere.
At great price and easy to locate for my friends.

hello Kellygold can u send the address and price to my email number. Thinking of organising a surprise birthday for my husband . send the info to aoduemi@gmail.com

sayso: sorry but I think your mum is a stubborn woman

Really , do you know her Mum?
The kind of response you get here ehen can make one offend God.
My dear since you have tried talking to your Dad and he does not seem to understand talk to your Mom. Tell how you feel from the depths of your heart . Tell her to avoid whatever would result to beating , she isnt getting any younger . Give or take she should be in her mid forties upward . She doesnt have to reply everything your father says no matter how annoying .