Op wehdone Sir abi Ma.
1) first of all she nagged her husband to cheat cos he hates polygamy. Odiegwu I hear you. Why did she not nag him to steal or be celibate. Abeg another story teller trying to garner sympathy. Why didn't he leave. Like we tell women to do he had a choice. Your mental well being or trying to save a marriage. And to all that are quick to jump to conclusion it won't hurt to understand what FIN is about. And before you shout feminist I am all for a fair understanding of situation.

Mrs Murphy u re really very funny. So you actually want to have more kids for a man from the look of things might eventually try to start another family. It has been proving time and time again that nothing you do to a man or a woman will make them stay unless they want too. So what if you try 5,6. No girl I guess you will keep trying till you get male kidsm wehdone ma. Better face this beautiful girls of yours and make them grow into amazing women. Shior man that is already out the door. Women better wise up, men like will meet sharp babe that will give him another man's kid since she knows that na him pain.

johnime:
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jakandeola:
didnt ur moda beat u as a girl did u hated her dont u beat ur dAughter does it mean u hate her wen u dicipline a peson is out of love. take it anywia I hav a hrt of gold and I spent a lot for my girl wy didnt she leave if am bad to her. I deal wit her cos I love her npst times after we get together I tell her sorry and tell her wy I beat her and she neva try dat again

So Oga disciplinarian who will discipline you abi you are to perfect and needs no correction. Poor girl with self esteem issues.

Op you already have ur job cut out for you as the head of your home and I daresay you didn't handle the situation right but take it as a lesson not the end to your marriage.

When you got to the venue and saw the situation you should haave ignored and at a more appropriate time after the whole ceremony to ask your wife. Did you take care of the whole ceremony with good money or you gave them what you think might be enough? I am not judging you let us try to analyse the situation, not who is wrong or right. Maybe they expected support from extended family members and non came thru for them so the money you gave was overstretched.
All you had to do was ask your wife what happened after the party not to be bring quarrel but to understand what happened.

To her second offence are you from the same locality with the same traditions is truly aware of what was expected of her. And op you did not see ur bride after the wedding, day1 - did you call her? 2 days passed before she came and you guys get into an argument. Hmmmm

Like I said I will not place blames but offer advice : work on your anger, controlling your anger gives you power you cannot imagine, not everything is solved by anger.

Never do money dealings with your MIL, if you can't avoid it have your plan B.

Settle with your wife, apologise to her if she is worth her salt she would already have realised her mistake and will apologise to you too.

You guyd were all tensed from thewhole preparation and you and your wife both choose opposing teams.

Papiikush:
A known gay in a country with strong laws against gays. This country is in the toilet

Did he come to talk about his sexual orientation or he came to do his job. Shior u people will leave leprosy and be battling eczema.

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My dear the tribe is almost inconsequential, the question am I marrying a good man from a good family. I am Yoruba and married to a Delta man.

As regards that law it's unfair but hey i am sure you don't have plans of cheating right, so you should be fine.

BlossomBright:
Good Afternoon Nairalanders. Please I need a list of radio stations around Ijaiye, where someone can do IT and get paid while on it. Thank you.

Hello dear, learn to do research on your own. Get a list of radio stations in lagos with there address, narrow it down to the ones in your preferred location and pay them a visit. You can now to come to nairaland to ask for assistance. Pls I want to do IT at XYZ radio station can I get assistance. Simple!

Me sef need JAMB as that na the new format. After Jamb na post Jamb see all year round format.

Modified pattern of those boys under ridge of Obalende when Jamb office was in ikoyi. Big brown envelopes with a sob story.

AJVC:
What's the Location pls?

Exercise caution, same job function has been recycled over and over.

AJVC:
Nice scam

God bless you there, very foolish scam going on there. Only the foolish will fall victim despite google at their finger tips.

Oga wehdone in ur closeted mind guest house is strictly for bad things and as such the women are. Somebody gave possible other reasons and u blow gasket. Na the same people like you go judge a widow with thots like this: she dey bring man come where her husband stay, she dey let her children see her with another man, she don dey friend man after just 3 years wey her husband hmm na wa for this women.

People like you should be living in the year 1800.

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Thermocool is good but expensive
Midea is an upcoming product good reviews.

But buy ur LG from an accredited dealer o. Products like Scanfrost so many issues.

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Madam all marriages go through this at some point especially in the early years so it isn't strange. Now to this yours is strange because 1) you have married for 10yrs and you still argue this much. Infact mine stopped at relationship level.
2) you are both temperamental
3) your period that will stay around for a long time controls ur marriage. You know it is a problem yet he should be the one to understand not you working on ur pms.
4) you really need to deal with ur issues first before you try to deal with his.


Kindly learn to keep quiet when he gets all arguing and upset.

Learn to pass ur point across without throwing shades at him.

When he does something irrational like leaving you in the car when he is upset. Discuss it when he is calmer probably days after and no need to insult him. You can say '' Babe I know you love me and the kids but imagine if something happened that day you left us in the car just because you were angry for a while. " make him promise to always take deep breaths before taking an action and you need to learn that also.

And don't ever mention the word separation unless you are really ready to follow through

All this superwomen you people are looking for Hian will come back and bite you in the ass. My advice talk to her don't avoid the discussion. Tell her you miss her too and how you re struggling to cope with the missing sexual life. What will happen is
1) she is assured you feel the same
2) all the talk will make it worth the wait to her

When exactly is the class starting?

Helios Nigeria no longer exist it has been taken over by IHS.

Like everybody said u made the biggest mistake of your life. If I may ask what is her relationship with the kids? I don't you all let this bad attitude of her fester for too long without sticking it to her. Oga you should just separate for ur peace of mind. Her mother also did a very bad job raising a lady like that, na now she say make u flog her. 20+ or 30+ years too late.

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Itissettled3:
Good morning sisters. It's been a long while. I have a bottle of Myo-inositol from Fair haven, one month supply. It is brand new and never been opened. I bought it but instead switched to pregnitude. The only snag is that it expires in July and so the person has to take it before July 31st.

If you have PCOS and stay in Lagos, preferably around Surulere, pm me, we will arrange and I deliver to you.

It is free please.

I also have a bottle of fertil aid too, that one will expire 2017. Free too.

Please i would love to give it to one who can't really afford it. Ttc is an expensive venture.


My moniker was deleted from prayer group, hope I no commit offence?

Mummyelena you just forget your girl. Not good oh

Itsettled ma I am interested in the myn inositol and I can pick it up anywhere in surulere

fruitfulhome:
I don't know how true this is, but I got it from mamalette on Facebook.

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@fruitfulhome it might be very true. When I had a mc I remember that I had a lot of cold zobo due to the hot weather. Infact the day before the mc I drank 3 bottles of 60cl. So it's possible.

U need to give a better description? It is off which road?

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Festivalofholi:
Dat man must be a big fool. I think its high time women stop wearing provocative dresses to curb rape.

Oga tell me how a 10 year old girl dresses provocatively. Shebi prostitutes dress provocatively let him go and attempt rape with them.

lalabu:
AF showed its ugly face this evening,at first i thought i was strong,i did not know when i burst into tears,Jehovah when is this going to end?cant even stop crying

Lalabu it will end because the miracle working God is still on the throne and will surprise u very very soon. Be of good cheer.