bigfizh: He went inside to bring a bottle of beer and u were still under d tree waiting for him to come back and give u money abi, instead of screaming for help u even told him u are feeling cold, he had to go to his office a 2nd time for wat ever reason and u waited for 30 mins before escaping, this girl self wetin u want make we believe? Say e rape u or he slept with u for hours and told u he was going to his office to bring money and give to u and then he disappeared? Anyways. Kpele, 5 hours no be small thing

My friend you dont understand the psychological toture and numbness of the mind when such happens to you. It is always easy for some of the men folk to find a way of attacking the victim.

I love pomo too ,make Federal Government face more important issues.

Elantracey:


yes I did and am not taking it back .

Can you imagine, I just saw this ,pray kindly tell us why you think she should have married earlier than 42 since you seem to know her so well, only facts pls

Elantracey: I pity the woman



but what was she doing till 42

Madam you are quite jugdemental haba. You dont know her story you cant jugde her .

Madam op i am reall sorry about what you are going through but you can change your situation and that is what all other posters have written. you are an educated , full grown mother who should be able to take decisions for herself. I might sound harsh but i think you need a bit of tough love.

Your husband is enjoying the fact that your life is miserable and that is why he makes it worse.You need a total change of attitude and outlook to life . If he your husband falls down and die i guess u would die with him and make your lovely children orphans? Why do you need the love of a man to validate your existence, a mere mortal like yourself who has no control over his own life? Worse have happened to people and they have gotten out stronger and happier. I am happy that you have a business even if its small , focus your energy on it,nuture it and watch it grow. This would allow you prepare for any eventualites. You say he loves the kids abi like he loved you before ,what is stopping him from disregarding them in future .

Your husband is not a lost case but most men only find there way home when they are totally destroyed , do you want to wait for that , to prove that you are the dutiful wife . The best revenge will be getting a life and fixing yourself up while he squanders his away. Take charge for once , you are responsible two adorable children.

And if i might ask whats your parents take on this ?

if seperation or divorce so be it , at least your life is most important and you have a better shot at been happy . As per your health it is your responsibility so take charge .

hello

Thank you for your calls .

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ephee:

my opinion is non of ur business

Easy Madam was just teasing and i am sure you saw the part where i said i have done same before. i assumed the thread was just for fun and that was why i teased like that , not everyone says stuff to undermine you.

ephee:

mine was crazy sweet sex.lol

Babe that should have been an additional gift on top , u went cheap. Anyway i do that sometimes sha .

A hand made suede shoe

Sometimes i find it amusing that people focus on the wrong thing.if calling him Daddy makes him feel good about himself and makes my marriage work then yes i will call him Daddy.

For your informate I call him Bros, daddy,Chairman, Oga ,babe , Boyfriend and he calls me iye, mummy,madam,boss,boo boo . Some things are just to minor to be an issue in marriage.

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Chrisvicmall
To Me
18 Aug
Good day,

from the tracking no. we have signed for the goods. we will check and let you know tomorrow. thanks


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Me Thank you for your prompt response, will be expecting to hear from you . DeoOdu







The message above is a copy of the mail i received from you telling me that the goods has been signed for on the 18th and uptil the 25th you are still asking for the tracking number. Poor service i must say.

Unfortunately i am just seeing your reply , however i received a mail asking for the tracking number and the signed waybill. If a proper follow up was done the trail of mails between me and yourselves shows that i have repeatedly sent you the information.

dear Chrisvicmall,
After reading all the responses here with most of them being negative i still decided to do business with you and as it i am not impressed at al. I have sent you several mails and yet i havent gotten a concrete reply. I am a first time importer and it is quite frustrating . You received my goods as evident in the waybill on Friday the 16th and you are yet to acknowledge receipt and ship to Nigeria . i gave you the whole weekend hoping it would be resolved but you havent said anything . I hope this week i get my goods. My username on cvm DeoOdu

Congratulations on your bundle of joy . Her arrival will herald a season of blessings never been seen by you before.She will continually bring you joy . Amen

20 cups derica of rice would do if its jollof rice but if fried rice do 24 cups.

OLAKOME , happy for you . my sis in laws name is kome as well .

I am Yoruba married to an Isoko guy but my family is finding it hard to understand some of there culture despite my in laws being very open and accomodating . My family generally are the closeted type always suspicious of any other tribe apart from yoruba but my in laws are totally different .

I am already cooking there traditional meals and i try very hard to greet them in their dialect with a bit of mine ( the kneeling down part). I fight my people every time to let them understand that they are isokos and not isobos as they call them sometimes . And i see the same on this forum and am like what the f**k is wrong with people and there superiority tribe thingy.

Any Isoko- Yoruba marriage in the house? How have been able to bridge the cultural gap? Any regrets or confusion? How the in laws on both side?

Lets discuss, no tribe bashing please. Just put your points across respectfully.

PadBin:
Yes! They surely will.. Though i opened and verified mine with GTBank Naira MasterCard.

hello, tried linking my GTB card to my paypal account but it gave an error message saying the card is not linked . Do I ned to get authorization from the bank?

My dear your first mistake was leaving the house for his lady friends . You would have stayed back and entertained them like the lady of the house you are and also let the lady know u are aware of their history. The confidence you display would have put a stop to the other ladies aspiration.

Now take Alutas advice and send him atext message apologising, tell him you miss him and love him , follow up with a call later and take it from there.

ogawisdom: Tank God ur wife is workin u for see hell.

There is no wisdom in what u typed above.

Then meet him half way , dont know him , but most men are not big on dates, anniversary and stuffs . am sure if not for ur new found faith you wouldnt be having this issue , think about it ,that was why i said tread softly.
My dear many more July 6th will come you would even lose count . Dont lose your man , choose ur battles caefully.

my 50 cents

1) Apologise to him for calling him silly
2) calm down and get past the hurt and face the issue at hand , the issue being , he took the quarrel to another level trying to manipulate you.
3) if you are both angry u wont solve the issue , the issue is best solved when u guys can talk as husband and wife.

I think he rushed to take a bottle of drink knowin that on your date that might not happen. He knows he goofed and he is trying to get out of it.You married him as a non born again now you a born again christian , u need to tread carefully . You guys should probably look at the issue of alcohol addiction.

Do u think your child will be happy with that you did not take a chance at love , madam ur sperm donor isnt coming back. Ur child needs a male role model and who better than a man who loves you.

first things first
1. she needs financial independence that will be the key to her solution. That guy is not changing anytime soon.