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femi4:
Naso dem dey do

They always want to eat their cake and still have it

In fact, one dey tell me stop acting like stranger after she don marry. I told her, you now belong to another man, she come dey vex

make she enjoy her marriage, run away and cancel all contacts with her, Jezebels.

Una leave the people kidnapped and started dragging which picture is fake or not? Which kind country be this, if this particular picture is false does it negate the kidnapping? Wether its false or no, it happened, so why using this to defend incompetence .

elmagnifico411:
bros, u Eff-up sef.. if I were u, I would agree to be bestie.. bestir don’t pay bills, and can still get to chop kpekus. And it doesn’t mean that you won’t go after another girl since she’s not yours. See now, u lost communication and other things that could come with it.

To be bestie sweet oh.. she’d just be bringing everything her boyfriend does to you, you’d be the listening one, and the one who would eventually benefit. Next time don’t throw away that kind of opportunity. Men no dey loose for bestie matter, except the ones wey no sharp.

I don dey already get sub me na and little requests from her already you dey talk, even an outing she asked for that very week, no be everyone value towtow, me I no send am even if it's laced with gold.

elmagnifico411:
that kind outing, na Una too go sort the bills. Bros, Walahi, na something seeet you throwey so.. if chance still dey, I fo advice u reconnect.

She go chop like glutton that day because she knows it's a one time thing that won't happen again, I ain't falling for that trap, she's got nothing to offer pass the towtow wey mumu boys dey glorify like breath of life.

ORLAHOLUWA:
I tried my bro but wasn’t going tru
Can I get dm u tru WhatsApp or I should drop my WhatsApp digit

okay drop

profmallor:
So what if she has lied to you that she was not in a relationship but was chopping both of you or more people, would you have preferred that?... that girl was honest with you, that's a rare trait among ladies these days. I'd teach you what to do next time. It's bad advice, but I'd give it anyway. Being a backup comes with some subtle advantages, you get to know more of the real her while not having to take on any responsibility whatsoever, cause you, as she mentioned, are not the main man. And if the relation breaks as they often do, you may be getting the pudding for free, as i said, it's bad advice . Don't live with the belief that you will always be a woman's first choice, regardless of your status; most married men are not the first choice to their spouses either. The important thing is to live your life and aspire to be the best you can be.

Your level of low self esteem is amazing, so I should be okay being the side piece like person wey no get an atom of respect for his dignity, who raised you like that bro, value yourself more.

420Explorer:
You're a very slow guy. Trust me being the side guy is better than being the main guy. Main guys eat disrespect and cheating norms. With side guys, females are more relaxed and sexually open. You wan be main boyfriend ba? Ask main boyfriends wetin thier eye dey see. She is trying to tell you she wants you without the commitment of relationships. Women are more sexually vibrant in forbidden or hidden love. You don't know girls and shege dey wait for you for front. Who told you that you can ever personalise a woman. They don't even know what they want. She fit dey with the guy cos na simp wey dey pay bills. Dey play.

Our priority differs, you that is a fast guy this is all you can ever offer, being okay as the side piece na honor to simps so not surprised.

Bendeco02:
Nothing like potential

You don't know what the guy is looking for.

Not everyone is hunting for toto.

Maybe the guy want serious relationship.

Some of you should think for once before dropping comments.

Do you also know the girl motive?

Do you know if the girl just have the intention to use him financially?

she asked for outing, that very Sunday, it's like I go drop screenshots, you wan go outting with besty but boyfriend dey, make it make sense.

indigenous234:
Men are becoming boys and boys becoming babies nowadays. Who hear as you dey talk go think say you be wan just marry the girl asap. If you’re a good baller, you’d have known She told you to wait your potential turn. If you’re not a baller at all, you probably just lost a potentially good friend. Either way, you lost out.

No be everyone need woman to survive, we're not all womanizers thank you.

Stevedison:
What kind of survey? Can you enlighten a brother in need? 🙏

kindly send a pm

ORLAHOLUWA:
Please kindly put me through

here? You can't dm?

pinkygurl:
Please can you put me through the surveys
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Contact

pm me

yommysure:
How much last ?

100k

April2525:
Please can you put me through the surveys

no problem

6FOR6:
i cant see your number boss on your profile

send a pm instead

6FOR6:
boss abeg i fit dm too i just lost my job

sure

DonEsq:
What surveys are you doing my bro, I want to join

they plenty, dm me, my number dey my profile.

I discovered surveys and used it to pull out, but in the process I sold the expensive things I own to stay afloat. My phones, laptop, bike, worst thing that can happen to you while going through this is to have a partner that doesn't help you in any way, I have no family to help out and my girlfriend is one stingy self centered person, so I just went offline and stopped communicating with her and every other useless people in my life, some won't even pick your call, they're only friends when the going is good, I isolated and focused, started a fresh and look for new hustles, at the end na surveys help me, things started improving after a gruelling three months, it's not entirely over but I'm thankful for the experience I singlehandedly pull myself out of.

obeegee:
Lol. I stopped reading at your 1st paragraph.

Fulani, you mean just the herdsmen or all of them?

You realize even Yusuf Buhari and Sultan of Sokoto would have to be removed too?

Yes fulani, they're not indigenes of Nigeria.

First I'll deport all fulani, like give an executive order to all fulani, let them go back to niger or wherever they're from, if you're caught you're responsible for whatever you suffer.

Close our porous borders and tighten immigration, this also includes altering our immigration laws.

Restructure the Nigerian armed forces, model it after other working countries, each arm of the army would have special forces same way there's seal team, marines, rangers, CIA, and create an arm responsible for high tech and surveillance matters, they'll monitor forests and bandit infested areas constantly with drones capable of carrying ordinance.

Create an agency responsible for internal auditing of every agency and thier finances, to ensure no one is stealing funds meant for the public, you can't be wealthier than you earn, nor can you have autonomy over money and properties you can't explain, the auditing and monitoring will be constant, every year you report your earnings and assets.

Cut down on the earnings and allowances of government, infact reduce government spending, cut allowances, reduce thier unnecessary convoys, trips, staff, salaries etc.

Create a state police, every state would have thier own police, with thier own laws that applies to them alone, you can't understand a state more than the indigenous people, they make thier own police state laws that will apply to them alone, like what they allow and don't allow, especially the right to own guns, and out of that state police a group of local vigilante and hunters that knows the terrains will be trained and employed to tackle issues that requires tracking especially in the kidnapping of people.

Create a database of every Nigerian, once born you're entered into this database, whenever you create a bank account, register a sim, get arrested, commit a crime, participate in a census, vote, its recorded there, to leave or enter the country you must be in that database, if you don't exist there you're an illegal citizen, everyone is also mandated to have an id card with a citizen identity number that would instantly pull up your record when entered.

Scrap jamb entirely and come up with a scheme meant to empower graduates when they're out of school, give you seed money that is am extension of your student loan to help you set something up and hold you accountable to make sure you use the money for its intended purpose.

Set up a committee meant to regulate prices in the country so greedy people won't just inflate prices when they want and when prices go up they bring it down.

Heavily invest in farming, create huge farms in every state in the country, and by farm i mean poultry, fish ponds, orchards, cash crops, spanning several hectares and owned by the government, every employee on those farms are paid by the government, and the product from those farms are processed and sold at subsidized rate, say rice is 70k the farm should be able to sell lower due to the use of mechanized farming, fertilizers, anything meant to reduce production cost therefore reducing price of product and employing thousands of people, since its heavily guarded bandits won't go and chase farmers away

Create agencies for most basic amenities, agencies responsible for maintaining roads and collecting tows, garbage people who also collect fees, transportation agencies with thousands of electric buses, water etc

Invest heavily on power generation, utilizing solar in the north, hydro in places with much water, and nuclear in advanced states like lagos, this would solve our power problems

Ensure clear separation of power between the arms of the government, not the current corrupt system we have where a powerful person is a godfather and he has rights to interfere in other people's business because he's oga at the top

Improve our system of voting, everyone can monitor the votes live, and votes are transmitted instantly, biuld a system where everything unusual is flagged and rejected, fake votes are instantly recognized especially when the voter doesn't exist in the national database.

Make sharing of rice and other gifts an offence, infact it should be considered bribery especially by a political candidate during elections, if you must share whatever don't do it during campaign and have a clear reason why you're sharing whatever

Ensure we don't negotiate with terrorists, they'll be no reintegration into society, kidnapping, terrorism and banditry earns you a death sentence without the option of clemency, once caught its over, you're not getting a court hearing

As a political office holder you're not allowed to have assets in other countries especially while in office, you must declare everything and if you're caught in any case of corruption you'll forfeit everything to Nigeria.

Build houses in so many places and put them up for sale with flexible payments spread over years, invite foreign companies to do that and set up mortgage, that would solve the housing crisis

Invent a loaning system, with advanced credit scores for salary earners, which gives people the opportunity to own cars, houses etc

Before seeking reelection into office you must step down, so you don't use your power as an elected official to influence people nor throw your position around in order to win the election

Reduce the age you have to be to come out for any position, infact old people won't be allowed to rule again, once you're above 65 you're not qualified to run for office and you can't have more than two terms.

Still available, i really need it gone

faxana:
See what white people with the help of our corrupt leaders are doing to us.

Always blame everyone but yourself, basic trait of incompetent people, which white people be that.

Is it that the opposition doesn't have power to challenge such brazen acts of corruption and callousness, how did he get access to the backend? It means he can manipulate anything else in there as well, what kind of devilish govt is this? They commit all manner of attrocities without consequences.

Everyone is practically forced to grow up in this evil regime, how can someone even utter celebration with the state of affairs , heartless leaders na our curse.

Something no add up hope, no be naija police again?

WantsandMore:
chill, you're too hot headed, you should have played her game up until she reveals her true intentions, for e.g.when she suggested you become besties, you should have playfully asked "what type of besties ?" Followed by "the one you are been taking care off or the one you are taking care of her?" Make sure to settle for the one you are been taking care of, when she uploads cute friends or introduced you to one, focus on those. But then sometimes rage is good.

Awesome, waste my time on games that'll lead nowhere while getting used the whole time, you don consider wetin I go loose playing the yeye games.

ambimo:
You’re an arrogant kid. Grow up! You can’t sustain relationships or friendships with such temperament.

And you're an ignorant adult, act your age and respect the old man you're becoming.

TotoSuckker:
Don't you know that if you keep hanging around her one day you will get an opportunity to enter her to-tow

I don't have that patience and towtow no scarce bro, i have access to it anytime i want.

CocaineLord:
Dear brother,

You think she'll open the strait of hormuz for free? 🤣🤣🤣 She'll definitely be billing him once in a while.

The billing I fear the most is Iphone,Birthday or Wig Billing.....Other stuffs like Data,Food,Groceries etc I can do it effortlessly but you see those Birthdays,Wigs or New Phones billing are Brazyyyyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂😂

She don bill me once already sef.

Desusi:
You're very Smart,she just wanted to be using you to catch cruise in order words,you will be her cash cow, while feeding her man.God himself will not be happy with you.At the end you will be the looser.My people would say 'Afi ase gbojo,ara re lontan je' meaning individual who is using sieve to fetch water is deceiving him/ herself.

thanks, i figured out she's looking for who to use from the onset, didn't see why she got upset because i refused her offer.