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Without saying too much, I loved my mum dearly and I was providing for her and fending for her until she died recently, when she died I was the only one with her and no one cared, her husband is alive and he had beef with her, and I took her side while my other siblings took his side, when she died it felt like I lost the battle because they iced me out, said I bet on the wrong side and let me carry my cross alone, now she's gone I'm alone in this world and none of them talks to me, I feed myself, clothe myself and do every other things myself, difference is we still live together in a family house, he doesn't own the house though, I could be sick and indoors for a whole week and even die and no one would check on me, sometimes when I had nothing like I'm broke I'm left to get myself out of it alone, at some point I almost died before I could get myself to the hospital, point is I'm in my family house but basically alone in this world, now I'm planing to leave and never be seen again cuz there's no difference I'm basically on my own anyway, and yes I have considered reconciliation but this man is evil reincarnated, someone who stood in front of my door and cursed me for hours because of 400# that's how terrible he is and when my mum died he almost had a party to rub my nose in it, if I start talking about him it won't end, so reconciliation isn't an option, I'd like to cut him off as he's diabolic and the way he constantly talks about me and the anger and jealousy in him boils he's doing everything so I don't succeed, he keeps telling me life will always be hard for me, and I'll never progress in life, I feel I need to leave the hostile environment so I can succeed in life as nothing grows in the midst of such hate and diabolical actions, secondly I don't want to die suddenly like my mum who was okay in the morning and died in the evening from simple headache.

I got a considerable sum of money recently, and since this doesn't happen often I want to be very careful with it, I have few things in mind to use the money for but I'm not sure so I need advice.

First thing I thought of doing is, getting a car, not for showing off or anything but for mobility mostly

Second, I thought of buying a good smart tv and a gaming console so I can create gaming content and stream gameplay vids with the aim of earning with it.

Third, Buy crypto and stocks I can manage over the years, I'm not very good at investments so I would play it safe to the best of my abilities

Fourth thing is to create a gaming shop, make it nice and conducive with air-conditioning and fridge filled with refreshments, where people come to pay and play video games so I can have a business at least, so advice me.

JOACHINpedro:
Which women?
Imagine having a butt bigger than your babe's

This is because of the comment section I saw, shey u no sabi read, everyone drooling were women.

I saw this video on Facebook and it's this guy cooking with his back facing the camera, now what put me off at first was his short, isn't that supposed to be a girl short? And the butt cheeks, it really disgust me, then I got the biggest shocker when I checked the comments, most of the girls were drooling, the other half were saying nyash wey I suppose get, God carry am give man, should guys even have big butts, cuz I don't, then how is he breathing in that pant?

I have been celibate for almost a year and it's beginning to affect me, I swore never to patronize a call girl in my life but the last girl I was with is playing games with me and I don't want to crawl back to her, I don't watch porn, and I don't know how to masturbate, would it be wrong if I use some high class hookup girl to ease my cravings, and how do I even get one, since they don't write it on their forehead, she'll be treated with utmost respect and I would even make sure she's comfortable.

It's almost here

Balablue64:
You are a scammer

ok bro, peace.

Training is Sunday, live session, no bs

Training is Sunday, live session.

I have been on the survey platform for a while and I have made some money off it, the plan was to be milking it alone until it doesn't work anymore, but after a while I feel I should share.

Surveys on this platform pay from 5-50$ per survey, you just need to learn the way to do those surveys, which I would show you in a Google meet class, I wouldn't go into much details here for obvious reasons, you should join the group and get more insights into what it involves then decide if it's worth your while, I'd be exposing more screenshots of my earnings there too.

we all know Nigerians don't value free information, so this would come at a little fee, something that isn't much but would make you feel like you paid for it so you'd take it seriously, I only need 20 serious people so it won't cast, below are some earnings, you'd see more later.

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FFF241:
Yep!! Na dem dem. RUN RUN RUN

Lol I wish you hadn't said this, discourage others because you're what you are, can't you just ignore, I'm trying to help, go through my profile, I don't support scamming, very old nl moniker that is well known, you think I'd risk that for whatever?

I have been on the survey platform for a while and I have made some money off it, the plan was to be milking it alone until it doesn't work anymore, but after a while I feel I should share.

Surveys on this platform pay from 5-50$ per survey, you just need to learn the way to do those surveys, which I would show you in a Google meet class, I wouldn't go into much details here for obvious reasons, you should join the group and get more insights into what it involves then decide if it's worth your while, I'd be exposing more screenshots of my earnings there too.

we all know Nigerians don't value free information, so this would come at a little fee, something that isn't much but would make you feel like you paid for it so you'd take it seriously, I only need 20 serious people so it won't cast, below are some earnings, you'd see more later.

https:///+ryXOTvZx17JmYWY8

seguno2:
Before we advise you, please confirm if she is Nigerian or not, in view of your thread below.

When the desired isn't available, the available becomes the desired, hope you catch my drift.

Dpaulie:
I can but honestly I can't help
I'm sorry
I don't know u
This is a faceless forum where u don't know who's who

ok

bensky:
I met my husband ( An European) never been married , no kids currently 45 years through an interracial dating site, he sent me a message October ,2019 of his intention based on my profile and qualities I was looking for . He asked certain question, can i drive, my profile already says I'm independent, I am open to relocation etc. he came to Nigeria in 2021 we got married. I moved to join him October this year . before him the first guy i met was an American 40 years divorced with 2 kids and doesn't want kids anymore. we met in Dubai April 2019 Easter . we remained friends since he doesn't want kids.

Your response would have been helpful if you named the interracial dating site, that's the essence of the thread right?

kaycome:
I don't think anything is wrong in having a desire for biracial kids. But my concern is are you looking for someone to love or someone to help you japa from nigetia via marriage. If it is the former then you don't need to limit your looking to caucasian ladies. Marry to build a godly home and kids. Infact you might have a lady close to you right now trying to get you attention but since your mind is already fixated on oyinbo, you may miss God's best. My wife is an American. We met through my Aunty who lives in usa. I never for once in my life desire to marry an American. No desperation while we dating. I was just trusting God for a life partner and gbam i giot the most amazing lady i ever met. She will be here with me in Nigeria today and we will celebrate our one year wedding anniversary this month. Cheers

We can stay in naija if she wants, I'm not after money or japa, I want what I want, if you can help me with one I'd love it.

BloomingDale:
I don’t know why you want your kids to inherit recessive and animal DNA. You are carbon based, they are sulphur based. Hope your kids won’t spontaneously combust as the UVC and UVB rays are increasing. Check out how white/biracial people can spontaneously combust.

you watch too many sci-fi movies.

franchasofficia:
Start a relationship blog on an international blogging platform


Through this way, I met hundreds if not thousands of real foreign ladies from all continents of the world, many fell in love with me from afar but I never fancied marrying a foreigner because I know people that did and at old age, it doesn't always end well cos most will never want to retire back to Nigeria with you, and even your kids are likely to deny you and Nigeria and adopt their mother's country.


When I weighed these options, I had to stand my ground and rejected all of them I met even though one from Australia refused to let go and this was when I was still struggling financially and she was ready to file for us to relocate to Adelaide together, I couldn't imagine myself marrying a white lady and she being my sponsor. I have ego a lot, I have always prayed and wished to be completely in charge of my marriage financially, and when I read their stories they shared with me about their past relationships and culture, I knew I cant cope.



So my advice is if you are good in writing, start a relationship blog on foreign blogging platforms that will give you international audience and from there start publishing books on relationships online. From there you will meet a lot of foreign ladies genuinely interested in marrying black guys but make sure you are truly ready to marry a white lady cos it's not always as easy as you may think considering our cultural difference and family style.



Yes mixed kids do look adorable, I cherished them too growing up, and wished to have one but as I grew older, got more exposure and life experiences, I realized it was all a child fantasy. And I thank God, I am happily married now and my kids look so adorable you might mistake them for mixed kids. I married a Naija hot chick though

All this na hardwork, abeg post about me and anyone interested should link up

Dpaulie:
If I had known you well and your intention, I could introduce u to one( maybe older though) but fear who no fear Nigerian youths
Yahoo! Yahoo! Intentions everywhere

Please, please sir, my intentions are really pure, I want to get married asap, and I really love to end up with a white person, please help if you can.

ShoeGetSize:
Your standards are so low that after I read your thread, I felt the need to reply.

I have nothing against interracial marriage, but making light skin the most important criteria for a life partner says a lot about your low self esteem, lack of emotional and spiritual depth and self loathing.

I know marriages that have stood the test of time (30, 40 years of marriage and above) and some of these marriages are interracial, but the one thing that all these marriages had in common regardless of whether they were interracial or between members of the same race is that both husband and wife could easily communicate, laugh together, share together, trust each other, accommodate each other's faults etc.

Personally, from what I have read in your post, If I had to form an opinion about you, I would say that you are too shallow to venture into something as profoundly important as marriage.

lol everyone screaming low self esteem, since when did having preferences become low self esteem.

Luckysbab:


Why I find this extremely hilarious, I'm not even really sure.

It's funny I know but that's honestly how I feel

She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

Kobojunkie:
So you didn't use yourself again, abi? Seriously, make up your mind!

You think you're smart but you're not, I don't have the time to explain it for you, even if I did you wouldn't comprehend because you can't grab it even if I explained it to you, like a horse has better comprehension than you, I'd rather waste my time trying to fetch water with a basket.

Kobojunkie:
You used yourself who was raised by a father who treated his children differently along gender lines as a cased study to suggest that all Nigerian women must be like your own sisters? Brilliant not !

where did I suggest that? this is why you failed English in secondary school, someone this dumb how do you make it through your day?

Kobojunkie:
So because your father was a near-monster to you while he pampered your sisters mean all Nigerian parents raise their kids exactly as yours did and hence all Nigerian women are pampered and not worth engaging? Brilliant!

yen yen yen yen, na idiot you be, is that the reason? Abi you no read where I used myself as a case study, the topic is even about me, I used (I) not (we) you imbec!le.

Biglittlelois:
At least immortal.crown schooled you well.

lmao, his stupidity exhaust me, where the schooling, I merely let him continue rambling, it didn't change my view of Nigerian girls.

cocolacec:
He pampered your sisters so they dont turn to olpshos on campus.if your father didnot provide adequately for them other men will and be plucking their mangoes without your father's consent.

Yea does that mean we shouldn't be treated equally?

Mine is a very old version and it doesn't contain the cool cars I want, I need gta5 version 1.67 or something not far from it.

immortalcrown:
Don't be exhausted. Ride on in your inductive reasoning while I expose your myopia.

Lol you're exhausting, I'm not exhausted, you're exhausting, there's a difference, you no even go school, why I dey even waste my time.

immortalcrown:
Maybe this is true in the places you have been to. But it is a fat lie in my own part of the same Nigeria. The only thing about my own surrounding is that some girls are good and others are bad just as some boys in my surrounding are good and others are bad.

you exhaust me seriously, I haven't been this overwhelmed since I was born.

elipheleh:
1 in a thousand is not good enough. Loud this message until at least 50% of them become productive. Then that's a pass mark.

Other nations, it is very normal to see women working. It is expected of them as human adults.

Not here in Naija where it looks like a miracle to see a working woman

I've realized this witless man has no thinking faculty, save your breadth abeg.

immortalcrown:
This your claim proves you wrong in your post.

No it proves me right you're twisting everything to look good, it ain't working.