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immortalcrown:
I said my married sisters support their husbands financially and the unmarried ones are raised with the same mindset. You said your sisters are not different. But you, in your post, claim no Nigerian girl supports her man financially. So, aren't your sisters Nigerians?

Because you're lying, you're not there with them so you're either spewing thrash to appear good or being lied to, I'm also doing whatever you're doing.

immortalcrown:
This your claim proves you wrong in your post.

You're being unrealistic naw, I'm following your lead.

immortalcrown:
You are obviously insane. You are gradually moving away from your own topic.

If you not insane, mention any country in which all the girls are good.

In Nigeria all the girls have the same mentality, all the new generation girls are not like our mothers, you're the ediot diverting, like I said your potato wussie behavior won't make them fall in love with you, they don't like weak men.

immortalcrown:
My married sisters assit their husbands in funding their homes. My single sisters are raised with the same way as the married ones. If you lack good sisters, weep but don't think other families are like yours.

lmao, yea keep telling yourself that too, my married sisters do the same.

immortalcrown:
Only a bad man like you will think that whoever disagrees with you does so for ladies' attention.

Yes I'm bad, you wey be good man shey your life sweet like otedola own, wuss.

immortalcrown:
You calling me "Idiot" in this logical conversation shows you are not better than the girls you term bad. A bad boy looking for a good girl.

All this your pussee arse predisposition won't make them like you either, they hate weak men, no one will give you free pussee too, if that's why you're being a simp please quit it.

immortalcrown:
Meaning that your sisters are all bad because your parents are Nigerians?

It's extremely possible, they believe husbands should take care of everything too, do your sisters split bills with their husband or take care of the house for their husband? Lie make amadioha strike you right now.

immortalcrown:
There are Jews and there are Gentiles in every multitude.

Not all Nigerian girls are bad and not all Nigerian men are good. Every country in the world has good people and bad people. Stop sounding as if some countries have only angels and saints as citizens. Stop sounding as if all Nigerian girls are bad.

If you want to marry from outside Nigeria, it is your choice. But don't give a silly excuse for it. To prove to you that what you said here is very silly, your post implies that all your sisters are bad because they are Nigerian girls. Your post also implies that your unborn daughters will be very bad because they will be Nigerian girls since their future father is a Nigerian.

My daughters can't be bad because their mom won't be a Nigerian girl to imbibe Nigerian mentality in them, stfu beetch.

All my life I have dated only one unicorn, I call her a unicorn because she exuded characteristics that aren't typical of our dearly beloved Nigerian girls, first, I never asked her out, I was a teenager in secondary school and her mum was my mum's best friend so we were friends, dating just happened, and we were together till I was 19, her mom died and she moved away, this girl is hardworking, brilliant, emotionally intelligent, clean, and has high intellect, I don't talk much but with her I come out of my shell, we have engaging conversations that you won't believe she's a Nigerian girl, even though we couldn't make the distance thing work we're still friends, I'm not insulting anyone btw, lastly she doesn't bill me, and when she get me things she doesn't consider if I have given her something earlier, I mean what kind of Nigerian girl would even ask you out to start with? Talkmore of the rest.

now men in Nigeria are brought up with standards that are entirely different from women, you're supposed to grow up with virtue and wait for a man to marry you? But it is totally different from a guy's upbringing, take me for example, I was compared to my mates since I was old enough to want something or have ambition, I was taught to stop being a weakling and be a man, and when I reached a certain age my parents started expecting me to take care of the family or make meaningful contributions, I was so uncomfortable and I moved out, and it didn't stop there, my mom started expecting me to look for someone and settle down, although it isn't as brazen as the other pressures I get from my parents, and this is all because I am a man born of an ambitious and tough father who never smiles because he doesn't do all this with my sisters, and I have tried to know why he's so tough with me and my only explanation is that's how he was raised, so they pass that tough upbringing to their male children and their male children pass it to their children and the circle never ends, imagine working your ass off everyday with stress and everything to fend for an entitled wife and your children and someone expect you to still manage to be smiling and being obsessed with a wife who doesn't do anything to aid your predicament.

I don't have room for emotional attachment because I don't have it good as my sisters who were pampered all their life, for instance when I was schooling my dad expected me to survive with the peanuts he gave me every once in a while and when I complained he will ask me to hustle and stop waiting for him for everything, when I needed to rent a self contain he forced me to get a roommate so we can split bills, I thought that's just how he is until my sisters got into the university and I started seeing the same father sending them money upon money and renting secure and high quality apartments for them, when I graduated he expected me to get a job and move out, point is, my life was hard from the beginning simply because I was a guy.

I hardly see my dad smile, although my mum is the opposite which is why I confide in her most times and through her I learnt how to be caring and respectful towards ladies, but I don't have the time or willpower to be as mushy as a typical Nigerian girl would want, and considering what I went through I'd expect a supportive and hardworking wife to ease the hard life I had, Nigerian girls can't offer me that, because all they do is wait for a man to go and work his arse off then come and marry them, and when you marry them they become another financial burden, she will add her family join and they'll suck you like leeches, she and her family will pull you from the left and your family will pull you from the right until they tear you apart, that's why they get fat and you the head of the house will remain slim, they'll blame childbirth for gaining weight like wtf?

why I go carry my hand buy burden for myself, I'd rather marry from a society where women don't feel entitled and that's not Nigeria, no offense but yes Nigerian women are very entitled despite the fact that they have nothing to offer than birth children and make you pay bills till you die.

Brandiebird:
She probably wouldn’t touch you using someone else’s hand!

You need a serious reality check! Social skills: lacking, education: lacking, plenty money: lacking, masculine traits: lacking, good looks: lacking! You said all this btw (going by your profile and threads).

All you have to offer is the basics in terms of the aforementioned qualities, plenty talks, and loyalty which are all feminine traits btw. Yet, you want a young, attractive, intelligent, well rounded, well spoken, and exposed young woman. These types of women want all the things you are lacking. People have been telling you this for x amount of pages, but you’re busy arguing and talking down to people. Argue with your keyboard because you’re delusional! 🤐

Lmao which insult pass this one, everything you type with all your life as if you wan pass out na ok he reply get a life bro, stop ejaculating on his thread, find something to do, na only jobless person go dey linger on nairaland all day.

Bluezy13:
And some good-looking girl somewhere took the initiative to collect a guy's phone number and started chatting and calling the guy up... making her intention known without wasting time.
The guy is myself and I respect her for going for what she wanted.

So OP, not all Nigerian girls.

You see? This also proved my point, you didn't think less of her because she asked u out.

All my life I have loved one thing about western women, when they feel something for you they admit it and most times brazenly tell you to your face that they like you, but Nigerian girls would rather die a thousand deaths than tell a guy how they feel, I have had girls who liked me so much but allowed me to friendzone them only for them to tell me later on when they're now comfortable talking to me as a friend that they gave me so many greenlights and I didn't get it, wasting what could've been an awesome relationship, and I'd ask them why didn't they save us time and stress by telling me how they feel, and Thier response never makes sense, am I supposed to be a mind reader of some kind cuz I'm not someone who can read greenlights, besides I'll value a girl who asked me out more than a girl I asked out, they believe asking a guy out is a taboo of some sorts and I think that's backwards, why would I take you for granted because you're brave enough to tell me how you feel and saved both of us some dilemma.

Sixfeetbelle:
You aren't entitled to sex in a relationship. That's the premise of hoarding. Thus, if you want it, you have to be in that relationship, but if you don't want it, you don't have to be in that relationship. Also, for such a relationship, you must part with something to get the sex. The value of what you part with depends on the endgame behind the hoarding.



Curious question: If you are not in that relationship, how does your last sentence work?

By this analogy you're saying transactional sex is normal, because if I have to let something go to get it, how are you different from hookup, girlfriend status has responsibilities that come with it, if I needed a buddy I'll get a buddy, if na fvck buddy e dey, what sets you aside from other girls is what you mean to me, you might have so many girls in your life but one of them is special, then that person you call special starts hoarding sex, to what end?

Sixfeetbelle:
I doubt your understand the psychology behind hoarding sex.

Whoever hoards sex from you will not relinquish it so easily without getting something tangible from you. It's a mind game.

Ask yourself this question: Why are you after her if you're not interested in the sex? Why do you give a fvck she's hoarding sex if you're not somehow invested in acquiring it? Now, when a man gets invested in acquiring something, he is likely to get swept off by things bigger than him. Before you know it, you've entangled yourself and you may end up losing a lot just to extricate yourself.

No, you got it all wrong, it's a fvcking relationship, sex is on the table, same as every other things a relationship entails, getting laid is a necessity, we all need it, if I am in a relationship I am supposed to get it, I don't go into a relationship to have sex, but when I am in one, I am entitled to everything that comes with it, imagine buying a car and removing the AC, it comes with the fvcking car, if you deny me that AC I am not buying the car without it, hope you understand now? You're hoarding it, I'm gonna get it elsewhere, when you're done hoarding it, I'll do everything to show you that hoarding it was counterproductive.

Sweetplum:
Lol. Your small pikin no know medicine you dey call am vegetables

Ghetto talk, whatever that means.

Kooldon:
The approach you used to bleep girl A, will not necessarily work on girl B. So hoarding of pu**y is determine by your approach towards a particular girl at a given time.
But truth be told, sex is overrated isnt sweet at all. Even Married Couples are now getting sex out of wedlock.
Rest and channel this energy to something productive

Exactly, the precious time and resources you'll waste because one stupid girl is being stupid, you can't get those back, now why would I invest time and effort on something like that, to what end? What is the bottomline?

Sweetplum:
I can't love you. But I can make you a simp

And how are you gonna do that? Lemme guess, pussy? Cuz there's nothing else, that's your only selling point.

Sweetplum:
mumu boy, it's just typo error naa. Chill

Lol I think you love me, not interested.

Sweetplum:
Hope your gf hoard it well. You need to becsex starved to restore yourl to factory settings

Learn to spell before you address me, mumu girl.

Naira20:
No ...you are the confused one.
You read the wrong manual

I give up, you're exhausting.

Sweetplum:
Lol. Some are golden puss y naa. Come, I know your type that later SIMP 4 life. Those hoarding it v reason to do so just as fuel is being horded or sold for highest bidder now.

Dude, hoard ur pussy with me, I bounce the moment I get it, just to prove a point, that's how I am, I have a girlfriend I love, she didn't hoard it, and not hoarding it doesn't make me see her as cheap, it made me like her the more, because she's not about sex, protecting it like it's all she has to offer, people like you have only sex to offer that's why you think it's precious.

Naira20:
That's why you need to know what you don't know.
Most guys think life is about playing games
If you are disciplined and focused NO girl can manipulate you with sex.
You know what you want and you know the qualities you desire.
No real man is interested in indiscriminate sex to prove anything.

By the way, the topic is about hoarding sex.
A real man is a leader and must be smarter than the led.

You contradict yourself oga, you're mixing principled men with simps, but they're not the same.

Sweetplum:
you like sex gan o. May you not be BLLB (bose lo, lose bo). Cos na pussy born you and pussy fit kee you.

Pussy can't kill me, do you understand what's going on here? I'm telling you it's not worth hoarding, it's cheap, your sisters are doing hookup, why? You better pass them or your pussy is laced with gold, abeg find the simp you can manipulate, no be me, I'm too busy to give a sh!t.

Sweetplum:
Lol. You look like a SIMP

you have no idea what I look like, me I won't treat you like something precious after the sex, cuz at the end its still what it is, cheap sex.

Naira20:
Real men are not just about sex.
There are a lot of expectations from virtuous women other than the hole between their legs.
For me, Wisdom is the first thing I cherish in any woman.
This will add value to you, your business and your children.

So you value wisdom? I thought you're all about the precious sex real men should waste an eternity waiting for, hypocritical SIMPle man.

Naira20:
Real men detest cheap girls and are not defined by sex.
All this childish portrayal of men on Nairaland is silly.
That's why there's so much waste of time arguing with women.

Women by nature will love to submit to a correct man who is principled and knows what he's doing.
But making noise to assert your position shows something is wrong.

What is your definition of real, some stupidly docile zombie, who waits on a manipulative girl like a dotting mother with nothing going on in his life? Why would I waste years chasing something so cheap when I have alot of things to do with my life.

Ivimmanuel:
my friend go and marry. Born fine girls

Lmao wetin I wan born girls take do?

Sweetplum:
You stay. You wan leave make I tie your destiny like this?

I leave, When I win a conquest I move to something better, pussy is pussy, hoarding it won't make it taste better or look different, I'd leave, and I'll make sure I leave you wanting, I will consider how long I chased that nonsense you call precious and serve something equal.

Naira20:
Lie..
Real men value hard to get babes not girls whose legs open anyhow like Molue door.

Real men abi simps, abeg gettat, na this kind you fit die just to sniff pant.

Sweetplum:
Just replied one if your kind who threatened to come n rape me.
Men are the ones spoiling this world.
When you give birth to girls, tell them not to be stingy with sex.
Maybe you don't know in life that most times what's gotten cheaply isn't valued.
You want my puss y, you ll earn it via hard work. For now, lemme be stingy and responsible!

Yea continue with your assertions, whoever threatened to rape you is on his own journey because I'd never threaten a lady with rape, but lemme ask you, what happens after I earn it via hard work, assuming I did the hard work and I finally earned it, no be to move on to something better? Lmao

This is my response to a thread that made front page earlier, I'll just speak for myself instead of generalizing, I like girls that are bold and straightforward, I would value a girl who asked me out more than a girl I spent years trying to convince, she's advicing girls not to open Thier legs quickly because the man will leave after sex, sex doesn't keep anyone, your personality is the glue that'd make someone stay, if yours isn't magnetic no man will stay, if you deliberately deny me of sex for too long I'll dedicate my time into making sure I do everything to get that sex, and the moment I do, I'll discard you like nothing, why? Because you made me waste precious time and resources chasing something you believe is so precious, when I finally have what you're hoarding I'll discard you nonetheless, this is why those who form hard to get experience the most heart break, sometimes I be like, so na wetin she dey hoard all this while be this? It's not even worth it, so I'm likely to stay with someone who went into a relationship with everything, leapt with the hope that I'd catch her, and I would, but not when you have one foot out the door, not trusting me and hoarding sex, it won't make you more precious to me, I'll rather start seeing you like a game or sport, a conquest, something I must experience just to keep the trophy.

Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all

Thanks for sharing, all the uncle's and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, very lucky.