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kelval:
hmmmmm... *sobs* if not that am love drunk, i'd have call it quit here.. upon everything have been doing to satisfy you all these years, you are still tempted just because he cooked you few dishes. i think am gonna need a break. lmao... please enroll in next 'Africa Next Star' please, am gonna be your number one supporter and when you finally become a superstar (celebrity) i'd be your number one fan. and your husband then *winks* ;[

get a room please

halfricanadian:
lol

bae am done you was saying?

increased privacy and no closure
having closure with your spouse is good and its a way to connect in a more intimate level but they avoid it because closures lead to talks and talks might lead to some unraveling of secrets, they become reserved abd put a limit to things they tell you, her calls are pucjed in private, phone always locked and in protective custodity, but in the presence of friends they are as free as a bird

she has less time for you
She's not dating only you so her attention is divided, of course theres one among her numerous lovers she'll love more, that one has most of her time and attention, and Her new modus operandi is to be MIA and come back after a while with apologies and excuses, and she forgets all the important dates and moments in your relationship because you're seldom on her mind, but of course you'd believe her excuses because love us blind

halfricanadian:
intimidated by independent ladies

lemme finish posting bae i promise I'll have your time, its almost impossible to create a thread on nairaland without yall roaches infiltrating even in the middle of the night

She makes a point to say she’s unhappy.
It's easy to misinterpret any of the aforementioned signals as infidelity when in actuality, there is a perfectly reasonable explanation. But, if you start noticing that the signs are slowly piling up, and she's recently admitted she's no longer happy in the relationship, you might be on the verge of a full-fledged confession.
Guilt is a tricky emotion, and she might feel that by fessing up to her flailing satisfaction in the relationship, she is offering you (and herself) an explanation for her selfish actions. Or, she could be gearing up to act on a long-held impulse, and making her excuses in advances so she can later utter, "I told you so," with aplomb.

she becomes paranoid and quick to point fingers
If your previously secure girlfriend suddenly goes into paranoia mode, you should take notice. If she snaps at you over seemingly innocent actions (basically, anything on this list, but in small, completely commonplace increments), she might be trying to throw you off her scent. By focusing your attention to your perceived failings, you'll be less apt to interrogate her about her actual foul play, which is just the way she'd like it.

halfricanadian:
do u realise some people do av families dat cater for their needs

guys wil b acting like females aint gat families dey fell from d sky hence their finances shd b questioned

blah blah blah

she flirts with other guys in front of you
This points to larger issues of being attention-starved, having an insatiable ego, and otherwise being insecure. But more notably, if she's comfortable batting her eyes at other people in front of you, what is she doing when you're not there?

she doesn't sound enthusiastic about a future with you
Her heart isnt with you so she never imagine the possibility of having a future with you for alot of reasons which range from finding a better partner in her other boyfriend or your less when it comes to expectations, but she wouldn't want to be the one to break it to you, so whenever you say anything about of future she finds a way to avoid it

CrazyQuinn:
Op you should rename this topic to "reasons why girls easily get bored of the relationship"

you are free to create yours

AccidentalGenius:
Dont waste your time bruh! No front page

when you're done talking you can leave how much are they paying for Frontpage

she suspects your every move
They should be the one under watch here but its a different case entirely they're quick to accuse you and theres no trust in her, you notice she rarely takes the initiative to text or call and if she does, it's to ask where you are she might be tracking your whereabouts for less than innocent reasons. she's not suddenly interested in your day—she's just covering her ass

she accumulates new dresses at higher rates than usual
Most women have a strong affinity for clothes makeup and how they look, they always try to look thier best too, but if she suddenly become intrested in reinventing herself then something is off, her looks her make up time changes, the rate she shops you should give it a thought whos funding her expensive lifestyle

sex becomes boring to her
Every couple should get intimate with each other once in a while bjt if she suddenly start loosing intrest and pushing you away everytime you make advances then something is very wrong

She pays more attention to her phone than you
This may sound awkward to some because most of us are addicted to our phones and that doesn't mean cheating but look at the bigger picture, shes always engrossed when it comes to her digital life, including times when you both should be concentrated on each other like alone times, dates etc while you're busy chatting with her she'll be busy with the phone and will be answering you without taking her eyes off it, so you'll feel like the only one investing in the relationship

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#9999ff]Dear sir
••••kindly remove yerself from my mentions,you unruly thing[/color]

dear ma, neverrr

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#00cccc]Pffffft!!! You males ain't no better
••••worse actually cuz ya'lldo that toilet set thing[/color]

sharapp dirty creatures

Egemeole:
L1TTLE please give your life to Jesus no sinful life is safe. sin will led you to hell fire if don't repent

gerrarahia men where r you typing from heaven?

Fmartin:
hope u dint peforate ur mattress with ur die hard Mr P?

i wish i did

Because you saw the porn,o crap hit fp right way to go brotherlee, you know you don't have to lie about yourself to hit fp right? Its not worth it and you aint getting paid, you made all this confessions for fp meanwhile theres an easy way which is to scream snake and lalastic guy will come running

Fmartin:
then am afraid that bae na mammy water

mami water whos probably to weak to walk now men i bleeped her with all the frustration in me i squirted all the fluid on myself shit

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#00cccc]I don't care for that either op
....... the name callin' that is.
••••••
Or how SOME women are comfortable and quick to call another woman a hoe just because of her gender.
But never the REAL HOES (em males forming "player" )
••••••[/color]
[color=#ffc400]Or how a SOME women will adopt the term"Bad B"
It was and is used 2 degrade women
•••••[/color]
[color=#9999ff]And how SOME women will fight the other woman when her man cheat with
but leave him,the more guilty of the 2 untouched.
And in fact they take him back with the pen arms In some cases [/color]

you gat time with all them fancy colors btw i hate the way girls do thier hygiene thingy, i mistakenly went to a girls hostel once i nearly died of stench that almost suffocated me

Then am afraid I'll marry the girl i had sex with in my dreams last night

Princedaniel:
Over 50% of cultists saw all these signs and names and innocently assumed they were charity organisations until it was late to back off. These are the people I'm concerned about.

I have no sympathy or business with those who knew, yet went ahead to blend. Nahh.

charity organization? How can you see this axe logo and scary motto and think its charity? Hehehehe you're funny

Those seadogs do me strong thing for school i d feed all of them because of fear

Princedaniel:
8. Other confraternities in Nigeria are Thu-Thu, Red Sea, Mgbamgba Brothers, Black Cat, The Fame, Snow Men, Fraternity of Friends, Black Cobra of Ife, Canary, Green Berrets, The Blood Spot, Scorpion, etc.

what about the whites amici rugged

Firstlieutenant:
A dog has a master and his master is a Lord... Echo!!!!!

spotted

Op you get mind o, just d expose anyhow those nairaland kids will see the names and starting calling themselves or start trying to belong. Cultists are reading this now oya lalasticlala come and do the needful

21Savagw:
Almost 5am. Just came back from the Club, and went to the bathroom. You won't believe it but this hoe used the tissue paper and wouldn't replace it despite the fact she's no stranger to the cabinet and could grab a new one...DIRTY girls: scum of the earth.

And No it's not my Roommate, we have laid down the rules it has never happened before. The girl is a Proud useless Girl, Stinking Motherfvcker. Na their type they use fork cut pizza yet pick their nose in the room.


Dirty girls don't deserve to procreate, Na their type they Overuse perfume on their bushy armpits. STUPID GIRL, I GO TREAT HER FVCKUP. What if I brought a girl home? Then she would start thinking I am one useless Unhygienic African.



NIGERIAN GIRLS..."interesting Specimens"


At least the Shawarma eating Faggot_ had the decency to thrash the Roll

you talk and brag alot thats your only problem