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Naira20:
No ...you are the confused one.
You read the wrong manual

I give up, you're exhausting.

Sweetplum:
Lol. Some are golden puss y naa. Come, I know your type that later SIMP 4 life. Those hoarding it v reason to do so just as fuel is being horded or sold for highest bidder now.

Dude, hoard ur pussy with me, I bounce the moment I get it, just to prove a point, that's how I am, I have a girlfriend I love, she didn't hoard it, and not hoarding it doesn't make me see her as cheap, it made me like her the more, because she's not about sex, protecting it like it's all she has to offer, people like you have only sex to offer that's why you think it's precious.

Naira20:
That's why you need to know what you don't know.
Most guys think life is about playing games
If you are disciplined and focused NO girl can manipulate you with sex.
You know what you want and you know the qualities you desire.
No real man is interested in indiscriminate sex to prove anything.

By the way, the topic is about hoarding sex.
A real man is a leader and must be smarter than the led.

You contradict yourself oga, you're mixing principled men with simps, but they're not the same.

Sweetplum:
you like sex gan o. May you not be BLLB (bose lo, lose bo). Cos na pussy born you and pussy fit kee you.

Pussy can't kill me, do you understand what's going on here? I'm telling you it's not worth hoarding, it's cheap, your sisters are doing hookup, why? You better pass them or your pussy is laced with gold, abeg find the simp you can manipulate, no be me, I'm too busy to give a sh!t.

Sweetplum:
Lol. You look like a SIMP

you have no idea what I look like, me I won't treat you like something precious after the sex, cuz at the end its still what it is, cheap sex.

Naira20:
Real men are not just about sex.
There are a lot of expectations from virtuous women other than the hole between their legs.
For me, Wisdom is the first thing I cherish in any woman.
This will add value to you, your business and your children.

So you value wisdom? I thought you're all about the precious sex real men should waste an eternity waiting for, hypocritical SIMPle man.

Naira20:
Real men detest cheap girls and are not defined by sex.
All this childish portrayal of men on Nairaland is silly.
That's why there's so much waste of time arguing with women.

Women by nature will love to submit to a correct man who is principled and knows what he's doing.
But making noise to assert your position shows something is wrong.

What is your definition of real, some stupidly docile zombie, who waits on a manipulative girl like a dotting mother with nothing going on in his life? Why would I waste years chasing something so cheap when I have alot of things to do with my life.

Ivimmanuel:
my friend go and marry. Born fine girls

Lmao wetin I wan born girls take do?

Sweetplum:
You stay. You wan leave make I tie your destiny like this?

I leave, When I win a conquest I move to something better, pussy is pussy, hoarding it won't make it taste better or look different, I'd leave, and I'll make sure I leave you wanting, I will consider how long I chased that nonsense you call precious and serve something equal.

Naira20:
Lie..
Real men value hard to get babes not girls whose legs open anyhow like Molue door.

Real men abi simps, abeg gettat, na this kind you fit die just to sniff pant.

Sweetplum:
Just replied one if your kind who threatened to come n rape me.
Men are the ones spoiling this world.
When you give birth to girls, tell them not to be stingy with sex.
Maybe you don't know in life that most times what's gotten cheaply isn't valued.
You want my puss y, you ll earn it via hard work. For now, lemme be stingy and responsible!

Yea continue with your assertions, whoever threatened to rape you is on his own journey because I'd never threaten a lady with rape, but lemme ask you, what happens after I earn it via hard work, assuming I did the hard work and I finally earned it, no be to move on to something better? Lmao

This is my response to a thread that made front page earlier, I'll just speak for myself instead of generalizing, I like girls that are bold and straightforward, I would value a girl who asked me out more than a girl I spent years trying to convince, she's advicing girls not to open Thier legs quickly because the man will leave after sex, sex doesn't keep anyone, your personality is the glue that'd make someone stay, if yours isn't magnetic no man will stay, if you deliberately deny me of sex for too long I'll dedicate my time into making sure I do everything to get that sex, and the moment I do, I'll discard you like nothing, why? Because you made me waste precious time and resources chasing something you believe is so precious, when I finally have what you're hoarding I'll discard you nonetheless, this is why those who form hard to get experience the most heart break, sometimes I be like, so na wetin she dey hoard all this while be this? It's not even worth it, so I'm likely to stay with someone who went into a relationship with everything, leapt with the hope that I'd catch her, and I would, but not when you have one foot out the door, not trusting me and hoarding sex, it won't make you more precious to me, I'll rather start seeing you like a game or sport, a conquest, something I must experience just to keep the trophy.

Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all

Thanks for sharing, all the uncle's and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, very lucky.

For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

How did you land your remote job? Help people who have skills but no work, don't come here to show off your earnings if you're not ready to help others.

Mods front page pls

This is the payment proof he sent, odogwu pls don't do this.

Wealthpreach aka Joshuadavidodog aka Phantomplanet pay him his money, look at how greed made you loose a great informative thread of 13pages, you could have settled this amicably but you chosed to be dubious, think about your reputation sir.

ezeknov:
What's happening
What am I seeing? Wealth preach? Scamming?
I'm speechless.

Dauntless I don't really get you...im in the dark here cos I've chat with him a lot.

No hard feelings here but wait...

1. I would like to see the way he scammed you... Was is that you were not expecting an ebook and forwarded messages from him after you paid for his mentorship?
Pls explain in full pls...

2. Or you've deeper or past fraud experience with him

Dauntless has been banned, he was defrauded yet it's him nairaland is banning, he told me to post here on his behalf, the whole story was on his 13 page thread before he used his powers to make the thread disappear but dauntless screenshot everything before he did, talk about smartness if this oga has nothing to hide why did he delete his 13page thread? Then got dauntless banned so he will stay quiet and not complain, corruption everywhere.

meritadavize1:
That girl got married just last year December, since 2013 ooo, she was attacking spiritually, still sent people to pack my things, I lost everything in my house.. It was only my bed that remains... My business stop.... It was hell bro

Hmm, I have drafted a breakup message rn, still haven't sent it, I need to ponder over it before sending and damn the consequences.

meritadavize1:
Bro be very pray full,
My advice...
Start avoiding her on a low key, don't make it obvious oooo.... If not she will come for ur head... Try and making love with her, that's very important.... I was once in ur shoe, I lost everything

How did you get out of it? I'm thinking of moving away.

killmods:
You're a fool and there's nothing to ponder over. Nor go handle ur issues dey wait for Nairalanders...Uzwor

Ok, thank you wise one, imbec!Le.

killmods:
You don't even know what u have gotten into.. by the time ur eyes go clear this God u dey overlook u go find am from pillar to post but u won't see him. Some of us gats learn truth the hard way. Real life ain't no movie bro. Enjoy ur little cage for now. When it gets too small for u na u go begin get sense. I hope u still won't be as dumb as u are now

And you're supposed to be the not so dumb one? Fools see themselves as wise, ponder over that.

See them condemning him like they're better, at least he got close to the border, what have you done? Stay online all day and spill thrash, internet rats.

arthurwillia:
This your matter tire me

Now them never leave you
You are blaming your brokenness on an innocent girl
The days you were broke and you’ve not met this hirl. You didn’t know abi
Mtchew

Where did I imply that I was broke with your thick meathead that can't grasp anything?

worldclass68:
Hi, pls is she from ogun state? Recently done with nysc? Pls can u codedly describe her, looks like I won relate

Not doing that.

Blackbelly:
If you have another solution in mind, we wouldn't have been reading about your problems here

Yes I was expecting other alternatives that's why I brought it here.

Blackbelly:
So with all the preaching of Oga Righteousness on this forum, no one enter your ear .
On a serious note, if you must be free from the shackles of satan, you must come to God out of a desire to live by Him and for Him and not just because you want to ditch the said lady and the nightmares you've been having.

Come to God? Lol, I'm talking of serious issues here, you're saying come to God.

I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.

Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.

not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.

Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.

Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.