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Am I the only one this knuckle thing doesn't freak at all?

I don't see the essence, the value, or the benefit of having a fair knuckles.

Las Las, the body will age and be buried, so I'm still trying to get it... What is it with dark or fair knuckles that makes some people go crazy about it?

Share your thoughts if you do know.

We need a strategic economist, and someone who understands the complexity of Nigerian territory when it comes to employment, investment, and the vast untapped resources in Nigeria.

We need a vice president who will set up the best economic team to open up the frontiers for Nigerians to create multiple sources of income even while we're in Nigeria.

And I see all these in NOI, Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala or Peter Obi.

We're tired of promises, and we're also done with Chain-ge.

We need a Nigeria where we will be proud of, and also smile to bank without needing to use Paylater or other borrowers app.

Iamicekid:
To me with this kind of move it only shows that the woman is the one at fault she was only trying to blame the man... Cause we all know that kids support the truth in this kind of situation and they are beside the father, make unna sef reason am and with all the allegations the man no fall since

Such a myopic thought you've got there.

teflonjake:
Nothing new comes to Nigeria without it being used for criminals acts.

Our law enforcement agencies needs to be proactive and not reactive.

Do we have a law enforcement agency?

Let me now go to church and testify...
This is a good news

Marriage is a beautiful, in fact, the most beautiful experience after salvation of ones soul from eternal damnation. It’s beautiful when you meet someone who supports you, believes in you, and shares values with you, it feels absolutely great. The blessings of having a wonderful spouse in your life is endless and anyone who desires a happy marriage desires something glorious and wonderful.

However, there has been an increase in desperation, panic, fear, and anxiety just because we have to get married by all means. The society, especially Africa, isn’t helping issues at all.

Sometimes we see those subtle signs, warnings, negative vibes, and red flags indicating possible catastrophe in getting married to that person, but we let societal pressure and lust force us into it. Some have paused their career, ambition, dream, vision, and their life simply because they are not married or they don't have a man/woman to call their own. You sacrifice everything, lose your common sense,
Read: https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/09/marriage-never-barrier-to-fulfilled-life.html

Thank God for safety

Good evening aunt Amara, how does one choose between happiness and their future..
I met this gentleman three years ago. God, he is such a God fearing man with everything I want and prayed for in a man.. I believe that he is a blessing from God..

We have been courting all these years, he quit his job and went full time in ministry and had no money at all, he is staying with his mother..

Bear in mind, I am currently studying and also doing business with him that does not pay much to sustain us..

He wants us to get married this year by faith and stay in his home in the meantime.

Read ¦ https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/joblessness-and-marriage.html

This is to you girlfriend: Please help yourself by doing everything you can to keep that look of disappointment off your face. I know your age mates are all married. I know your colleagues get married every Saturday. I know we need men as much as they need us. I know your mother wakes you up every morning with, " my daughter, is there no one yet?" I know you are bothered about menopause and childbearing.

But I want you to be happy at all times. Some unmarried ladies are not attractive,not because they are not beautiful; they are not attractive because when people look at them all they see is pain and disappointment. What has happened to that positive vibe you were known for? What has happened to the face that brought hope to others? Why have you allowed yourself to age prematurely just because there is no man yet? Your look and the glory that has left your face could be all you need to get a man hooked.

Read¦ https://www.amaraofficial.com/2017/01/letter-to-single-ladies.html?m=1

Good evening ma, please help a broken and disappointed soul. I type with tears.
I am 38 years old, I met him last year July online. He talked of marriage and I told him let us see each other first.
Both of us are from Anambra, also reside in Port Harcourt, same age. So, we met at Onitsha when I visited my brother's family, and we liked each other.
Next, he came to my brother's house and declared his intention, (my dad is late). We started planning of going to village to collect list. Aunty, I love this guy with everything in me. He told me he got job with Moscow company In Port Harcourt.
Read ¦ https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/how-do-i-recover-my-money-from-him.html

Dear sister Amara, thanks for doing a great job, please I'll like to seek for your advice.
There's this guy I dated back in 2013, we loved each other so much but we broke up because he's a military personnel and my parents felt they usually don't have time for their wives, so I got married in 2015 and left the abusive marriage in 2017.
Somehow fate brought us back with the military guy, and I was asking why he hasn't gotten married after our break-up but his excuse was that he hasn't gotten someone befitting to be called a wife.

Read¦ https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/im-heartbroken-and-confused-help-me.html

Good decision

PassingShot:
This defection really hurts PDP to their bone marrow, especially Saraki.

When Saraki decamped, it was protests upon protests by Kwarans to tell him they’re tired of him, calling him ole and barawo. Akpabio decamped and the whole stadium was filled to the brim.

You could see the pain through the voice of Ben Bruce yesterday.

PDP will experience the worst form of defeat in their political history come 2019.

So you're still around?..
Woow...
That's good news...

Love/relationship makes you extremely vulnerable, because in your bid to connect with your partner or build a relationship with your partner, you will definitely reveal the good, crazy and the weak aspect of your personality.

This is why you must be extremely careful when choosing who to love or date.



To help you avoid wasting your time, emotion and resources, here are the six categories of individuals you shouldn't consider for a serious relationship that may lead to marriage.



1. Religious Dummies.



In your best interest, you may wish to avoid dating a religious dummy. These are the kind of people that their pastor makes decision for, from what to wear to how to use their brain.

They are so attached to their religious obligations or leader that they find it difficult to make any decision without consulting them.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being devoted to a church/mosque or having a personal relationship with God, but when an individual is unable to make a personal decision without consulting or wholly depending on leaders, then there is a high tendency of being manipulated by those who they confide in.

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https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/six-categories-of-individuals-you.html

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Congratulations

I'm a young lady of 29. I got engaged last year and had my introduction in April this year. About three weeks ago, I had a dream about my fiancé still making contacts with his ex. I had it in mind to ask him but it kept escaping my mind. He was actually engaged to a lady he had dated for a couple of years. According to him, she kept calling off the relationship at any slightest provocation and couldn't stand her anymore.
About two days ago, I woke up to urinate around 1am. I don't really know what prompted me to decide to check his phone for the first time. We never go close to each other's phone except we want to show ourselves something. I just thought I should try using his year of birth as his PIN code. Surprisingly, it opened. I saw things I never imagined. I know it's by the grace of God that can make an average man not to cheat but the magnitude of what I saw was more than what I envisaged.

Read¦ https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/help-what-i-saw-in-his-phone-shattered.html

yeyerolling:
look at this mumu. U come her to post fake stories. U think we are stupid here. Get the ferk ouuta here

I guess this is the highest level of maturity you can offer.

I feel sorry for all your parents invested to raise a child who cannot discuss intelligently with others on a social media.

I bet that when you meet me, you will most definitely eat your words.

Till then, keep exposing your immaturity, internet keeps record of them.

Enjoy.

Yours

nelsonebby:
You make up fake sex stories

Feeble mind make assumptions.

A page that has over 200k followers cannot be making fake sex stories.

I guess you think that everyone who posts on Naira land is making a fake story.

www.amaraofficial.com stands out...

yeyerolling:
Fake stories

I can tell that you need help...

Maybe you should send me a mail let me assist you okay.

Don't be poor and also be a wizard.

NOT everyone is as jobless as you are.

Get a life or at least don't expose your stewpidity online.

Good day aunty Amara.. please I need your advice on an issue that has been bothering my mind.
I got married three years ago and ever since then it's been one problem or another-from infidelity to domestic abuse.
My husband can sleep with anything in skirt, he engages in sexchat, phone intimacy, physical sex with different ladies, masturbation..

Click here ;
https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/a-strange-lady-wants-to-destroy-my.html

To read counsel!

yeyerolling:
Get a life silly blogger

Being a blogger is not a silly job okay...

I've already gotten a life blogging to help humanity.

Enjoy the rest of today!

Yours

Good evening house and madam.
My ex broke up with me without any reason.
I had no choice but to move on.
My problem now is my present girlfriend, she is beautiful, tall and has good shape but not good in bed and also not romantic at all.
Read¦
https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/should-i-dump-my-girlfriend-for-not.html

In my opinion, this lady just justified Waje's reason for sacking her.

You need time to study.

You have ulcer working for her

You fell ill and as such expected her to foot the bill.

And you told her that the job is not comfortable for you.

And then she should keep you on her payroll?

The entitlement is huge.

Waje did well by sacking her.

Please ma help me just the way you have been helping others. I pray that God will surely bless you, Amen.
I have been in one hell called marriage for eighteen years and I have endured all the pains because of my children and because I can not cater for them if l should leave the house.
The main problem now is that he has refused to allow me
Read¦ https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/i-have-been-in-hellish-marriage-for.html

Hey! Good morning and happy new month. How are you and your family? Please, I need to share something with you and please be candid to me and put yourself in my shoes on what you will do if you are me.
I'm 31 years old, I keep having suitors but my problem is that I don't like appearance of most of my serious suitors, not that I hate them but I don't feel physically attracted to most of the serious suitors, reason being that I'm so much concerned with facial appearance naturally.
Read¦ https://www.amaraofficial.com/2018/08/majority-of-my-suitors-are-ugly-help-me.html

This is Nigeria

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