₦airaland Forum

MzDarkSkin:
love how some women NEVER have anything positive to say about other women. The good thing is that she is still living her life regardless of how her feet look. God bless her and may her baby continue to be in good health https://www.scbg.net/thumbsup.gif. That's what really matters NOT her business.

GBAM. amen o. plus shes successful, something many humans will never be.

Theblessed:
[size=20pt]My way, what can you do about it?  And, when you finally realise you have no POWERS to change even one letter in it, you can then sleep, ok!  And any more noise, it gets bigger.  [/size]

its not about what i can do about it or powers, its an advice you have clearly refused to heed. na you get your font.

aysometin:
Husband snatcher

No woman will want her husband to marry a new wife jo

well said.

Theblessed:
[b][size=18pt]What a selfish git!!! Hope your happiness last!  We'll be watching this space!  

But who want this marriage breaker for a role model? Lier! Who do you think you're a role model to?  Our young Nigerian girls? That playing 2nd fiddle is the best they can achieve in life?  Pity!

Who do you think you are fooling? So, the first wife soooooooooooo approved and happy about her husband being stolen   How dare you??  Can you look us in the eyes and said, that woman did not shed tears on hearing you've been secretly bunking her husband off her marital bed your wicked and selfish life until you could no longer, hide your evil? Could you? Abi, you couldn't find any other man in life except hers and one that had already been taken, eh?

'The baby is actually his first son.  Yeah, take heart, that makes it better! 'Between us, we have four girls' she said. Oh, you're now playing Hagar and Sarah, abi?? I suggest you check your Genesis Chapters, you will see your twin sister and what happened to her.  And may I add, what a lucky woman to have produced the all wanted first son!

And now, you've given the all wanted son, you might as well take the title of the first wife - Hagar! A 2nd fiddle will always remain 2nd fiddle - selfish git!  Listen, you've broken a heart and thought you'd found happiness?? Watch it!

I suggest you pray seriously for forgiveness if you believe there is someone greater than you - called God Almighty! For he does not look down on the down trodden and broken hearted. [/size][/b]

abeg chill with the font. we get your point

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=535298.msg6982470#msg6982470 date=1287621560][color=deeppink]What a daft!

It really doesn't make sense to love someone else's husband.

Well, it's just clear that the woman married the man because of his money.[/color][/quote]she has her own money miss mama gee, so your clarity needs a second examination

while to you it might not make sense it never stops the act from happening. just pray it doesnt happen to you,

kai this KOBOJUNKIE get wahala. the man wey go marry am go try o. to kobojunkie's future husband, bros I HAIL YOU OH. make sure you have an extra dose of patience, an overdose of tolerance, and 2 good ears to hear all her arguments and counter arguments.

infact ive come to a conclusion. KOBOJUNKIE is the only woman in nairaland who will argue with her own shadow.

[shaking head]

kabukabu50:
Naija has nothing to offer but hopelessness,poverty,pain and stress.My soul is fed through the peace of mind that I have in the US.for others who cannot adapt sure,you can go back to naija,but me personally,I have a low tolerance for the typical bullcrap that you encounter in Naija .

I am not pulling over to tip some policeman every couple of miles.Nor am I handing out money to anyone to do any favors for me,when they know darn well that its their job.

na your choice bro. its your life. live it

EzeUche0:
I am comfortable with the U.S. Everything is made easier. I was comfortable in Naija, but I would rather not see too many poor people.

thats because you dont live in rat infested, needle on the floor, piss in the lift, crack in the house neighbourhood.if u did u will see poor people every single day.

occam:
Going back to live in Nigeria is a matter of personal choice. This is known as freedom of choice. These individuals have decided to go back; good luck to them. Their decision is personal and they can’t claim any moral superiority over others who have chosen to stay. People are contributing in different ways without going to live in Nigeria.

People have the right to live wherever they want. No need to berate anyone for not going back to live in Nigeria. Besides, having strong and vibrant Nigerian communities outside the motherland can contribute immensely to our national development.

It’s a fallacy that the only way to contribute to development of our country is to come back and live in Nigeria. This is an ancient mindset that is not relevant in today’s world.

my brother u have true common sense.

moral of the story, its better to be famous. not only dont u get shot at in a robbery but u also get a discount[50k]

funke pele oooooooooooo

makes sense in the current climate. when things subside the warning will be updated

Rhea:
[size=20pt]ARGUMENT UPON ARGUMENT[/size]

you can say that again. whilst some are arguing others are actually working

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=533917.msg6968236#msg6968236 date=1287451373]The possibility of having two or more different people having the same obstacle and situation thrown at them is very slim. If everybody [not the greedy ones] knows a one-way of getting out of a financial crisis without sorting to credit card, then a lot of people would not be in a bad credit situation.[/quote]ladies i hope you reach a logical conclusion. i respectfully bow out. cheers

Kobojunkie:
A widower who goes for credit cards? What does she hope to achieve with that by the way? lol
So, what do you say of a widower we have in our church who not long ago lost her husband. She eventually lost the house and had the church help her find a smaller place and small work to help raise some money. Long story short, she gave a testimony in church some weeks ago of how God, after years of living in poverty, got her a good job and she was able to purchase a foreclosed property at cheap rate.
Look, I am not saying that it will happen in exactly the same time line for everyone. No! What I am saying is it makes no sense to continue digging yourself deeper in the hole you find yourself in. If solution is what you want, more debt is probably not what you need.
In essence your mum advice you to do exactly what I am speaking against, she is right. Those cards are not for everyone. They are for those who can afford them and know how to take care of them.

100% agreed

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=533917.msg6968210#msg6968210 date=1287450651]Are you and EzeUche any different?  [/quote]no mind am jare

tpiah:
as long as kobojunkie didnt experience any of that in nigeria, ie as long as it all happened in america, life's still rosy.

if to say na for naija kobojunkie broke a fingernail, we for hearam.

o se baba.

. sometimes u wonder whether na nationality God go use judge people before entering heaven ! thankfully its our hearts, not where we lived on earth. thank God for that.

Kobojunkie:
Unfortunately, I have fallen down into that hopeless zone, almost seen Hell fire and how bad it can be if you let it carry you off. And I can sit here today telling you that it is not as hopeless as it seems during the time you are in that valley . . . Things can turn around if YOU work hard and make better choices. The last thing you want to do is dig the hole a lot deeper than it already is for yourself.

The system helps -- I had to depend on churches for supplies(I did not qualify for welfare). Even the EVIL IRS came a'knocking the same year this all started. Imagine fighting for your tax return as if your life depends on it and not even getting a penny of it for at least an additional year. ROFLMAO!! It was hell!

One good thing for the poor in america is most will not need worry about health bills anymore come 2014 in America.

thanks for coming back to earth, whew i thought we lost you

[quote author=mr.official link=topic=533917.msg6968168#msg6968168 date=1287449161]

See rubbish say from hackney & co.

Sometimes, I just think like, I don't wanna have any other experience more than Nigeria as a nation.

And again what about people that traveled all over the world and that have died? Most Nigerians want to travel by all means, as if when they get there they will be immortal.

Abeg, so many have died in this country due to the messes. Other countries didn't develop all of a sudden. It takes or may take generation, na little by little, we should stop being lazy! Do your part and leave the rest. . [/quote]yep yep. the clue is in the name hackney sef. if he was called chelsea, knightsbridge or fulham one for think say him don make am for london. hackney, shior !

Kobojunkie:
That is not entirely true. I can tell you this from experience, years of experience too. It is all about self-control. That is a fact. Whenever you find yourself without, imagine you are in Nigeria and there is no one to come to your rescue, then, and only then will you realize how lucky you are to be in America. I experienced this myself(family included) and I cannot thank God enough to putting me through that hell within the shores of America and not in Nigeria.

i agree with ileke here. just pray you never fall into hopelessness, america or no america. it could be anything, medical, financial, or even worse. just pray. God will help us all. life is not about 1 plus 1 kobo, its not mathematics. there isnt a set code of conduct. it can flip anytime. believe.

Kobojunkie:
For emergency,you can also have a savings account with money that will serve that very purpose.

smart

yarodin:
sometimes when one has lived in a western society for so long they forget the reality of what is like to live in a country like Nigeria.   Honestly, after reading that dude has spent over 22yrs in America I honestly don't think he will last in Nigeria.  I am sure he will give all his best, but Nigeria will eventually break him.  The frustration alone from his friends and family will be enough, we are not going to even talk about other obstacles like fuel scarcity, Power failures, armed robbers/Police etc.

dude why not wait and see before jumping into uninformed deductions? nigeria doesnt eventually break everyone who relocates, just like the western world doesnt eventually liberate all who come here. a lot of it is individual, your drive, willingness to take no for an answer, hardwork, God given talent, network potential and people management skills.

some relocate relocate with US mentality or UK mentality. obviously it doesnt work in nigeria, same way nigerian mentality doesnt work here in diaspora. Jakumo is on point when he opines that as soon as you get to the airport you have to change your mentality. its called adaptation to your new environment. you relocate and start claiming yankee this, british that, obviously u are setting yourself up for trouble. if you go back humble, and you have the goods to back up your cv, with God, networking and all the other aforementioned things sky is the limit. there is no right or wrong answer. as i said its individual

ReLaTE:
mercy wat! Damn it man.

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also The 18-year-old, who was eliminated from the ITV show two weeks ago, has claimed she will face a 'firing squad' if she is forced to return to the country under Robert Mugabe's regime.

Her family are attempting to claim asylum in Britain after they were told they may be deported after a visa application made by Miss Nhengu's mother Nokuthula Ngazana was turned down.



But the Daily Mail reported that sources in Zimbabwe have claimed Miss Nhengu and her family have made return visits to the country since being the UK to visit relatives. It said the most recent trip had happened a "couple of years ago".

The Home Office is unlikely to look favourably on such visits when considering an application for asylum.

Nhengu's mother, Nokuthula Ngazana, was allowed to stay in the UK while she studied at university and her daughter was told she could also stay as her dependent.

But Ms Ngazana's application to remain in the country was turned down following allegations that she wrongly claimed working tax credits.

She was told her family did not have a right of appeal and must leave the UK by their own accord or face deportation.

Miss Nhengu has since said that her relatives in Zimbabwe have been approached by men she feared were employees of Mugabe.

i do hope she stays as she is a talent but it might set a precedent for every illegal immigrant. the decision is tough

OMO IBO:
What part of her comment is rubbish??

the part where the person she assaulted "just happened to be black'. the part where 'Gamu and her family has the legal right to remain in the UK, all they need is a good solicitor' . thats false. its been established that they have been served papers to leave the country and they are fighting that order. so no they dont have the legal right to stay. the question of 16k pounds of benefits is another issue

[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=533447.msg6967588#msg6967588 date=1287439288]E deh pain you? Hug transformer. [/quote]no mind am

Double N:
Where else?

the koko

maedan:
Lol. I know that .gifs are nothing new but it cracks me up to see some of these ones here. Who ever invented them, did us a great favour .

@buzugee if you've never heard of the Ibrus, na wao.

na 2day abeg hook me up. wan use gifs for my BB. any ideas?

Double N:
Beyonce of Africa!!!Damn!!! Can't believe 4 kids came out of there.

yeye boy, out of where?

hottest mum yes, sexiest actress no. that title belongs to Mercy Johnson. hands down