thanx for that laudate! god bless u
and i know better.

aba @crazykid
not all women will sleep with their men best friend!
@topic good men and women are everywhre-just pary u will meet ur own person.

thanx guys for the suggestions!
i will look into this venues.
@laudata-how much security do u need?

u know what? just fellow ur heart. if u still feel in the deep side of u that u still love her-then let it be. and if there is nothing left for her in u -then let her know.


the sooner the better, so that both of u can move forward!

Am sure there is at least one person here who knows a venue .
SO PLS GUYS DROP IN YOUR SUGGESTIONS!

If u know a nice place for a wedding reception or for a traditional engagement in lagos -Will love to hear from u!

Including the location, price

THANKS

@spoilt

ok there is no rule as such, but why is it now that  they're planning to wed-she realised that the man's church is a no way!?.  

i mean was she blind all this while?

and spoilt count urself lucky that ur husband agree to that arrangement,cos i know most nigerian men will not.

if the lady in question is a true christian - she would not even bring up the issue.

to poster: what kind of church are we talking about here?

Well it depends on what u mean by "proper". 18 is the age that formally welcomes u into adulthood(18 is the stardard adult age in most part of the world according to the law). So at 18 .u're an adult , nomore a kid. So whyn't- u can be pregnant at 18. But i dont think it's proper getting pregnant outside of marriage.

sorry, so the point is,

And who are this african to think "so negative" about black americans? If an african man have a problem with a black american man , let them deal with it among themselves . This generalisation is very irrational.

just as u make pre-paid mobile phones happen
make also pre-paid electricity happen too. when this is done-then we would now use the light to see all other things that has to be address.

NO FURTHER ADVICE UNTIL THERE IS PERMENANT LIGHT . HOW CAN YOU BE GIVING ADVICE IN DARKNESS? RUBBISH.

yeap! i agree with u tinuade. humanbeing can betray u. full stop. but god can never betray u. god ke ? betray? noway!

when i get married-i do look forward to my husband being my 2nd confidant of all time.

@loverbwoy

u dont want to go thru the stess of teaching them urself .

Irrespective of where you are-Will u consider your children learning or the ability to speak your  native language something that is worth it and valuable?

sorry to read of the state u're in. it is not pleasing at all. what i want to know is -what is prompting u to beat those girls?
could it be u are type that gets angry easily or one that finds it diffcult to control his anger or u are under the infuence of a substance.

u said u're 22. pls i will advice u to kneel down and pray to god. determine in ur heart with the help of the holyspirit u will put a stop to it.

blacks discriminating agaist blacks. unbelieveable!

so uk and us not good for children. should not be so,not with the money and stardard they claim they have.

calling ur husband by his name is not a form of disrespect at all. must u call him baba so & so to prove ur respect to him. i tire for this nigerian thin o -abeg this is 2007 o!

@ vesta - u need to let her know where you stand as soon as possible plsssssssssssssssss. so that she can plan for her life. because nomatter the outcome of ur decision ,it will surely impact the next direction she will take hencefort.

so plsssssssssss be quick about it! i can imagine the sate she must be now.

@loverb

that one nah serious problem o. if they cannot meet national standard, then meeting international standard is far from them.

anyone knows any nigerian university that meet international standard ? camparing them to university in europe,america , australia,

ofcourse life will be easier if couples plan having their children according to their financial means.

yes wives are more faithful

beauty can fly away
character dont fly away

when the real dancing in marriage comes. i know for a fact that no amount of beauty or handsomeness will stop it.

;d ;d ;d

well , i believe it is a cultural thing. particularly with nigerians.

it is a misconception. not every successful ladies is pround and one that see herself as equal to her man, with all this women liberation bull shit.