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by god's grace. i wish to have triplets. oh how wonderful will it be!

why they marry rich? they are sick of living in poverty and dont wish to proceed to poverty in marriage. but what they fail to realise is that a poor man today might be a rich man 2moro. and a rich man today might be a poor man 2moro.

beauty and riches has got wings. , they can fly away.

@mamaput

the belief that a married women must not leave her husband's house under all circumstances is very wrong. because of this belief, some women will receive several beating on a daily basis , and that is very normal to them. i am not saying they should leave their marriage -but they should get away for a while for their life sake. and while she is away ,i advice her to be in the mood of prayer for the touching of the holyspirit on her husband .

and to rosby, i will choose life. simply because god has not called us into bondage. marriage is not bondage.

very very very very simply! no more wedding! be on your kneel & be thanking ur god. for the news didn't get to u in the marriage.

Any man who beat up his wife is a mad dog. so why should his children not treat him like one.

Some ladies choose to keep their father's surname and bare it together with their husband's surname in marriage.
What are the reasons I WONDER

LADIES: will you keep to your father's name in marriage?
MEN: what will be your reaction if your wife to be wish to hold on to her father's name ?

mennnnnnnnnn this 2face guy need sit down and start using his head.

@hot-angle pls if u dont mind me asking -where do u reside? i saw something like studying in australia in one of ur post. are u in australia

wives summit to your husbands. husband love your wife. this is the word of god, and if you're a child of god at heart you will abide by it. the bible never says women are slaves and thats why they should summit to their husbands.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm for now -am thinking lagos.

if she play hard to get-you will say she's the irresponsible type. if she doesn't play hard to get. you will say this this one is a little lose and cheap.

what do u want the ladies to do??

am with you jare @kimba.

@ afein - not all men would subject their wife to slavery u know.

soooooooooo whats ur piont @seun

pleople should disobey god? when god command you to do something -it is for a clear purpose.

to the best of your knowledge. what do u think is the best city in nigeria?

in terms of
security
crime
a state of peace of mind
employment
living condtions
life stlye
enviroment
raising kids
state government
general economic stability.

why not.if god will have it that way. then yes. but i wouldn't out of my own self get my head into nigeria politics.

this is so sad. why all this everytime shooting shooting in port harcourt sef?

bride price is okay. even in the bible peole pay bride price for their wife.
there is nothin wrong with it- if it is done in the right manner and mindset.

u cannot never buy ur wife 'cos she's priceless. the bible says she is worth more than rupies.

well i know that some ladies just over do it all in the name of attention. it is a personal issue so to speak. they feel that if they dont expose themselves like that-no men will notice them.

i wonder why a lady(that has self respect) will wear something that she knows will expose her breast what for? u tell me about it. i am a lady-anything i see that will show off or expose my most inner parts of my body. i simply say NO. i will save all that to only my husband in marriage. thank you.

u know what am talking about girls. respect urself and just be decent plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!

generally women are the softhearted. they will put all their care into a relationship when their heart deeply move towards that man. i believe the men still hold back.

if the husband put only his name in everything and not sharing with the wife- now tell me is that marriage? oh come on i thought this would vanish from da naija culture by now. a good marriage will have both names on everything even if it is only the husband working.

now i bet some men will not agree with the last statement. i lie??

openess between married couple is a must for a sucessful marriage. i believe in that kind of open marriage.
not the will smith crap of an open marriage.

:d

in any sucessful marriage there must first be option 1 before the proceed to option2. option 1 is the foundation.

the church is just one of best decent places one can meet her/his choice for marriage. so many people have become church goer just on the misconception that the church is where u find ur hussy or wife. very wrong!

definetly am going to get married . it is a decision i've make.
sometimes that bible vesre just make me wonder thats all.

the woman is a homemaker. that is, she is always on the lookout for the best interests of her home.this include an undevided attention to her husband. her husband comes first before the children. she is a great defender to any storms agaist her home.

GOD BLESS THE WOWEN!

would you rather stay single or marry what are your reasons? did apostle paul encouraged christians to remain single more than to be married in 1corinthians 37 it says: nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart , having no necessity, but has the power over his own will, and has so determined in his heart that he will keep his virgin, does well.and verse 38 says: so then he who gives her in marriage does well, but he who does not give her in marriage does better. what do you guys think?

mmmmmmm-no love my daddy or mummy for me. living with them right now is like a living hell. i just want to get out-i have aenough.