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Quota system nepotism on full display. one would have to wonder how a dunce got that position.

Franzinni:
well I beg you to check the dictionary meaning of a bastard before you start giving birth anyhow ... And I am getting the hint that you live abroad.. my dear you are still young and it's so glaring... so you think it is an achievement to live abroad ...

Sorry ajala travels... Better get off your high horse and come down to earth where real people live. I know you are lost in this feminist lifestyle and you will never repent even if you find the simplest of simp. But one day you will shed this bitterness and resentment then you will enter dating site and enrol to find a man to make you feel whole.

On a serious note, you no need am ... Feminism is good only when it is from the right perspective, don't take the negatives some useless men are doing and then use it to generalize...not all men are useless unless you believe all women are prostitutes? ... Go and smoke a cigarette and reflect. Then come back for another upercut! Haha

I don't know why you insist that telling you the truth is bitterness tho?


Is there anything I have said about you and your brothers that isn't true? I don't even have a horse to ride not to talk of riding it,just stating the facts ,i can't help you with how you interpret it.


On the contrary,you are the one holding on the the negativity, are you not on a thread castigating the choice of a woman to have a child outside marriage? who are you to decide what women should do with their cheap pussies (let me borrow your word).


Cigarette? is that what your sisters do too or did your mother smoke that you will assume a total stranger smokes? tell me.


I see every lady here who is not asslicking you nutheads is tagged a feminist ,lol . I do accept, if not for feminism ,your misoginistic ancestors would have made it culture and tradition that women should not have access to a phone or internet, and that it would anger the god of fertility or something. lol

Franzinni:
Kids and grandkids... You must be another marry or how will you get the kids without the panel beating of a man ... Look around you everything you enjoy today was made by a man ... It is a man's world but there is nothing without a woman ... Not a slay queen or a girl o... A real woman ..besides what are you doing peeping at a mad mans dicke ? Hahahahaha don't starve yourself to death haha go and apologize to your boyfriend and stop acting macho here on nairaland ... you need vitamin D. Hahahaha

Lol, in country that you and your depraved men urinate even on the road like dogs and savages,seeing a dick is involuntary.



Now i see why you are convulsing on this thread, the marriage enforcers, so a lady must marry to have children,which century are you?. Oh I forgot, you still live in a third world country to believe kids can only come from copulation. And here I thought I was having a conversation with a person in 2021. It's clear you think like your long dead ancestors.

Franzinni:
I can't seem to reach you ... No network for your head ...I forgot, you are a woke woman!!!

Believe what you want .. wake up and your 60 and alone .. then you will understand what I mean even if you hate men to waxooo ...those strong women who are interlecually formidable but yet irrisistably feminine still exist .. there is nothing a man wants more.... so keep spitting yourself to old age and menopause ..wetin concern me, e no hold my prick.

And yes I blame it on technology that is the only reason why you think you are woke... You watched some shit on the the internet and you joined the movement lol deny but you know it's true .

I am allergic to your stupidity that's why. Am I supposed to give room for your blather?


Wake up at 60 and alone , oh seer , destiny maker ,clap for yourself, you dimwits seem to have everyone's destiny figured out except yours.

what will a 60 year old woman want more than her kids and grandchildren? And what's my business with your prick? I just saw a mad man dangling same to the view of the public not long ago.

Franzinni:
my sister ...please calm down and listen to me ... If a man sleeps with his daughter, that man should be killed immidiately in my opinion becasue, the psychological effects of his actions will trickle down the family entirely so killing him will act as a bridge and an example to others ... But let me tell you please read with neutral eyes, I don't know if you watch porn and if you do, you will realize that there is so much porn about father's and daughter and mother's and sons and step siblings and all .. now a man who watches these things constantly, will automatically begin to habour fantasies, and the devil is very clever, the opportunity will one day surface ...and the deed will comence. I am in NOWay in support of any man who will do such infact I will be the first to strike the death blow on such a man but I want you to start to see issues from neutral perspective.

Dont let society dictate your views as you currently at doing .. and guard your mind with all your might because that is the only way you can get currupted ... I for one don't watch porn, I don't watch any tv series, no netflix , no music videos , none of the programs that are used to program the mind of the people and that is why I can think clearly enough I guess ... This is from one rabid dog to another ..woof woof!!

In summary,blame the devil and porn. lol.This right here is the problem, no sense of responsibility, either blame a supernatural force or something else.



Hence the depravity continues,God forbid, spits.

Franzinni:
you are right .. men of nowadays are blah blah blah.. I guess becasue girls of nowadays are saints right ? Let me tell you one truth, the reason men and women are such sexual deviances today is because of the internet and porn same reason why boys are turning gay left right and center.. let me give you an advice, your bitterness towards men, is your personal problem but don't let it leave you an old bitter woman. Look at those who held on to that mindset before you and ask how many are happy ? Don't be one-sided becasue if you were a man you will not have the same perspectives you so much love to defend... Then again I might be wrong.

Now get a tissue and clean the spit you poured on the floor common you are a woman for God sake!!!

Are you done barking like a rabied dog? then listen carefully.


If a man decides for whatever reason that he wants to insert his rod in his daughter or blood relative, let him take responsibility. But if you want to uphold your nonsensical bro code and shift the blame to the internet for your depravity ,well then clap for yourself.


And as for my spit, it is to alert the gods about the presence of depraved beings on the surface of the earth.

Franzinni:
my sister the future is inevitably female .. globally women are showing chest muscle upandan.. and raging it under feminism ... See I will always respect a strong woman.. as there is nothing apart from private parts and some homones that makes any gender better than the other ... But what I am against is this automatic right to be an arsehole that feminist are all about ... If you want to be respected and treated equally please step up to the plate and do the things that makes that a must .. ophrah did it, chimamanda did it ... And the list goes on .... You don't see them yelling to hell with men do you? Well the future must me female o ... I have two wonderful dauthers and I am raising them to be the strong industous and independent women ... Most of the criminals men you see don't have good role models that is why their moral compass seems skewed. So to conclude. I don't hate women but I hate the new attitude they put up like men can be replaced hahaha we are all watching the film nah!!

Also this generation of woke women are the cheapest to take to bed haha guys all you have to do is just act like a simp haha throw a bit of ramsey noah in the mix.... get laid like a rug haha. Shangri-la!!! Haha

Something caught my attention, of this generation if women are the cheapest to take to bed how come men of this generation are more sexually depraved and despicable than ever before.


In the past a 15 years old girl can still bathe outside ,but now a woman can't even be at rest leaving a female toddler with her male relatives even the cases of fathers raping their own daughters have spiked up . so much for access to cheap sex ,depraved animals, spits.

BRATISLAVA:
They are most concerned by marriage, the misogynists, so that they will have a supply of free slaves to kill and manipulate. They pretend otherwise.

Haven't you long noticed that they are the womb watchers, and want every woman to be chaste and married while they wh.ore around and try to control women's lives with abuses and threats?

Ain't that the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

BRATISLAVA:
It was best he kept his crude personal opinions to himself before a lot of blood is on his hands indirectly.

His sons on this forum and beyond are already killing women in response, and asking to hear from the side of their murderer brother!

Most men you see moving like humans are actually very disturbed and quite sick, no matter how they appear. If you allow them to express their deepest thoughts with anonymity of this forum, you will read many disgusting things.

Yet they are the same ones screaming at the top of their lungs when women choose to be single mothers, na people daughters wey dem wan kill dem dey find

Battle of the forces.lol

BRATISLAVA:
Pardon?

It was sarcasm.

Because you will notice that nobody is addressing the issue of a man beating to death a woman, but once they post one useless thread about a woman, be it that she's eyeing their friends younger brother, you will see a flood of abusive comments.

But once it has to do with a man, there's silence and they try to talk about everything else but the evil thing that's been done, or ignore the thread.

This is the end result of all the woman hating, eventual murder. This is where Pete edochies advise leads.

Congratulations to another brave Nigerian man, doing what he's been supporting online and does best.

Mr pete Edochie will come and tell now that it is feminism that made this man kill his wife in a brutal way.

One thing I will always tell women, no marriage is worth your blood.


Anybody that will tell you to pray and tolerate when your life is at stake in a marriage doesn't mean well for you be it your family or religious leader.

larryjonze:
like i said, i do get your angle so i will give you a waver, like mo maa so'ju nu for you to pass

Enjoy the rest of your evening.

larryjonze:
Yeah !! overboard and i don't think criticism against wedlock is prepostorous like i said its normal for the a society to react because the society are the custodian of cultural values, las las we go shutup she go carry her cross.
i have young gurls that are suppose to be in school carrying babies around ... after such mistake i still see these gurls doing hookup or hopping into different cars @ night, most of these babymama tinz are dividend of waywardness & covetousness of the female gender.
Like i said the society will only react, las las these ladies will bear their cross alone ... get use to it.

Exactly, oga bear your cross and let her bear hers. There are women who have died in marriage ,they too beared their cross.


This life nor get manual, so long as it is not a crime , she is within her legal rights to have a child,if your morals doesn't support it, thats on you. I too i am part of that society you speak of, so not all of society will react ,some of you just decided to be stuck in 1970 and that's on you.

lkillbrokehoes:
Linda should be my concern because she mislead alot of you, even Beyonce did "all single ladies". but later married her long time boyfriend, why are some of y'all so easy to be deceived? it's obvious most of you don't know what you want or are just extremely confused lolz.


And lastly to burst your bubbles, I never lacked anything as a kid, my father gave us all the love, same with my mom and that's enough for me and my siblings, i can't say the same thing about you.

Lol, I am also sure your politicians stealing your common wealth and keeping it with your colonial masters never lacked anything as well, lol,but look how they too turned out.


Why are you even crying more than the misled tho? aren't women useless and bring nothing to the table according to nairaland anthem? then let women be misled ,face your front.



In those days women were thrown out for simply adding too much salt to soup now women don't even want marriage anymore ,here you are crying more than the bereaved.


Marriage is not for everyone ,if a woman decides a baby is more priority to her than being a maid to a man all in the name of marriage, it's her choice , respect it and face your life.

larryjonze:
well i think i understand the angle you are coming from buh for you to understand me, when you have the chances pay attention to your female friends expression on there weddin & subsequent naming ceremony ... you will remember me

And the ones who fate is not kind to experience such , should we now pick up stones and throw at them for choosing to experience the joy of motherhood regardless of their cruel fate?


To each his own, to those who find their life partner, we will rejoice with them, to those who can't and choose to have children we will be understanding and not given them reason to bow their heads ,a child is a blessing and there is no illegitimate in the sight of God.

Personally there are some kind of clothes I can't wear and I am not a fan of trending fashion. But then again ,it's not what you wear but how you wear it.


If you want gowns ,it will be a little difficult to find decent ones but tops and t-shirts,skirts ,there are decent ones.


As for the prices, everything is now expensive in general, shoes ,bags, wigs, and so on.


Wanted to get a chiffon skirt the other day, the price ring for my head.

lkillbrokehoes:
Seriously am i the reason why some of you women fall into the trap of wrong/bad guys? most of you see the handwriting on the wall but you will still take the risk because of some stupid love.

most women want a rich bad guy, and you think a rich bad guy will stay with you forever without having fun with other girls? this is the same thing that happened to chioma, she wanted a rich bad guy(Davido), even when she knew he's a bad ass player. she still stuck by him and now you know the end result? chioma wanted love but davido as a bad sharp guy just wanted a kid and nothing more, y'all should stop blaming men, blame yourselves because y'all took the wrong decision.


besides, if this lady got impregnated by a responsible guy who love and care about her, there's no way he wouldn't marry her but she got impregnated by irresponsible guy, who's just interested in the cookie and once he got it successfully, he's done.


and lastly, do you think Linda's son won't ask about his dad later on? kids needs their father as well as their mother.

Again another round of castigation and finger pointing. Mr pharisee, oh heaven's advocate and assistant God, we have heard you,take a placard to the national assembly and protest to take it to your religious houses to ban single mothers if your are that troubled.



Linda's son should not be your concern,don't you have your own family to be concerned about? why you carry linda matter for head like gala? And by the way ,I am sure her son will have the best of things even you with both parents never had in your life. So face front.

larryjonze:
So why do brides dance there soul out on wedding day, i have been to so many naming ceremony never seen a mother dance like a bride.


do you know wedding day is the only day referred to as *joyous day of a woman*. any gurl can decide to get pregnant in her own time buh women can't decide when to wed, so its alway a big deal & an achievement especially among there peers

The joy of holding a child that just came out of you can't be compared to anything, but I don't expect you to understand,after all na "your wife don born" una dey only hear.

larryjonze:
your submissions are overboard, killing of twins is inhumane and not supported by two out of three religion in nigeria not to mention the law.
On the contrary, do you know no religion in the world supports wedlock, no matter how much our world evolves some cultural values will never fade. next time you want to argue look for valid points.

Overboard ? but they were cultural beliefs once upon a time. So also the so called cultural belief you hold so dear has its flaws.



Even with proper use of contraception ,pregnancy can still occur, so should we now burn single mothers alive? because of your cultural beliefs? shouldn't the man who planted his seed share from the responsibility as well? it is the man who will make the decision to marry her isn't it? so now that she is pregnant and the man doesn't want to marry her should she tie him with a rope and drag him to the registry? should the society stone her to death because she is pregnant and the man doesn't want to put a ring on it?.

Some way or another the likes of you will eventually have to come to terms that some things are just not black and white, there is brown and there is purple as well. Marriage is not meant for everything ,some will get married and divorce while some will not even attempt it at all ,some will not want kids ,while some will want kids with no marriage. Your opinion can't dictate the lives of millions of people. If you had the luck of finding a companion,good for you, but some are not that lucky and we can't expect them to waste their motherhood away just to please the likes of you.

lkillbrokehoes:
I hope you keep to what you preach, it's not about preaching what you wouldn't practice, don't mislead alot of young responsible women out there.

besides, most of what some of you say online, is different from what you practice in the real world, this is why I don't take most of you serious.

Being a hypocrite like you Nigerians is not my forte.



You should rather be concerned about your men dumping their seeds and not ready for commitment. If a woman gets pregnant and the man doesn't do the needful by making her his wife? how have my comment misled the lady? will I or her go and force the guy to marry her? will she go and kill herself because people like you for reasons best known to you take it as an abomination?.



A man can impregnate atleast two women in a day, and if he keeps it up calculate how many women he will end up impregnating in a year, but a woman can only give birth once in a year. By logic you are focused on the wrong gender.Tell your men to be more responsible.

And as for linda ,shey her title now is mama so so and so,that trumps any other honor in the life of a woman.

lkillbrokehoes:
All the women in my family are happily married with kids, my parents clearly didn't raise useless prostitutes who steal sperms of rich men or jump on random dicks, y'all needs to change your messed up mindset.

Well good for you and your family. But then fate can be cruel to some people and they are left with limited options.



If my daughter decides to be a single mother by choice or circumstances , I will support her all the way. This is 2021 , unlike you Nigerians that will rather die just to bear Mrs, I am evolved and enlightened to know not everyone will find love and companionship in their life time,the joy of motherhood is greater than any marriage as far as I am concerned.

Franzinni:
well you have a solid point there ... But should it be made worse ? Most women don't have a clue about raising a male child and those statistics you called out up there are mostly from disfuctional families... It's one thing to have a father and another to have a male role model,let's even leave men aside even girls of today have flown off the hinges... I laugh when I read people say the future is female. I won't lie to you I have everything to gain if the future becomes female but I also know humanity is playing at the edge of a cliff ... It sounds like a good idea untill the real agenda is revealed. But you do have a point from the perspective you view it from, I can relate.

So tell me the ones with fathers that are causing turbulence and chaos in Nigeria don't have role models?.


Who then is to blame for the lack of male role models? God or devil? lol.


I can't believe you are naive enough to take "the future is female " literally.

larryjonze:
When you voilated the law don't ask why the siren is blowing up on ur ass.
i believe you know wedlock violates both our cultural & religion beliefs, just add 1 + 2 shuldnt be that difficult to figure why society always react.

cultural and religious beliefs? lol


let me enlighten you, once up a time it was also cultural and religious beliefs to sacrifice a virgin to the gods of harvest for bountiful harvest. once upon a time it was also cultural and religious beliefs to kill twins ,why didn't you stick to the barbaric cultural and religious beliefs of your ancestors then?

lkillbrokehoes:
Keep deceiving yourself and others, typing what you will never practice, you should also allow your daughter to be a baby mama too, that's if you will ever have one.

Lol, are all the women in your family in their husbands houses? if no ,have you burnt them alive ,since it's such an abomination to you .

hucknall:
How do you know if he would be terrorist? Do you work in heaven? Would you allow your own child to be a terrorist?

And What if he is a Zuckerberg? A Bill Gate? A president or a great physician that will heal many future kids from several diseases? or what if she is a Queen Elizabeth?

How do you know? Do you just look at your belle and feel his future?
Abeg no change topic jare. You can create a separate thread to discuss male dominance.
You have no idea just how many times I've seen females being favoured and getting things easily just because 'muh, they are girls'.

Now back to the topic. We were discussing abortion and I don't need to be in a particular gender to know what is right or wrong on this.
And currently on this issue I've finished convincing you that you have no reason to support abortion.

I was expecting something like "this is so true. Thanks for the eye opener. I will now amend my ways and spread the gospel truth on abortion '.

And not this 270° diversion thing you just pulled.

Eye opener? based on your flawed morals? lol


A foetus is a foetus nothing more than that ,it is only when a womb decides to let it grow it becomes a human. When flushed out wether considered or not ,it is still a flushed out foetus, nothing more nothing less.



If you like scream from now till tomorrow, illegal abortion clinics are popping up on every corner every day,safer drugs are being manufactured every day.


Make it legal or not, women who will still get it will still get it. Your morality ,your opinion, women's wombs ,their business.



And it seems you too have forgotten the "na man " slogan. The same slogan that has given men a pass and privilege for certain things even as children.

hucknall:
God, why won't you just listen?

Okay, if an emergency abortion is to save the mother's life. This one here what was she saving? Her esteem? Is her esteem or other gratifications and enjoyments bigger than a human life? Tell me.

Let's see it this way, if the ritualists and terrorists in your country had been aborted what would have happened? will heaven not rejoice? will the devil not be shamed?



And who are you to even have a say? is it your womb? do you even remotely have any idea what cramps and labour pain is? if i was having this conversation with a woman it would have been understandable, but why is it that it is men who are quick to shout at the top of their lungs regarding this matter? why is it that it's men who are quick to tell women what to do with their womb? just why? this your need for dominance and control just won't end will it?

hucknall:
That's why I said it's more understandable. It was never the doctor's intention to abort the baby but he had no other option.
This is different from premeditated murder.

Lol premeditated murder.


premeditated also means considered.


Inorder to carry out an emergency abortion , all the stakes are considered, and the danger is put into consideration.



lol, premeditated indeed!.

lkillbrokehoes:
Why can't she marry the man that impregnated her? or did she impregnate herself? or perhaps, maybe she stole a wealthy man spérm like Linda did.

Sperm donation is a thing and never a crime. Infact men get paid to donate their sperms,so it's not something that is demeaning as you are making it seem.


You are not in the position to ask why she didn't marry the man that impregnated her, if the man doesn't want to marry her, should she hang a rope on his neck to marry her?.



The earlier you and the 1970 people come to terms that this is 2021 the better it will be for us all. It is better she bears "mama so so so and so " than to die single and childless at the same time.


And as for the judgement, let's leave that to God now ,shall we?

pocohantas:
I don’t get it. One minute they say marriage is going extinct and men have stopped marrying. Then they see a single mother and start another round of tears.

Any woman that feels she needs to have a child and no horseband is forthcoming should go ahead and do so. My own is they should train the child right. Wailers can keep wailing, they will be ignored.

Lol. And they are the ones to shout at the top of their lungs that women don't know what they want.



I too don't know why they are so concerned about a woman having a child out of wedlock. Infact I think sperm donation should become a thing ,since they told us that the population of women is more than men, its only logical that some women will not meet their life partner in this life time,so why waste time looking for one, get a sperm donor ,have your children and live your life.


Exactly my sister , proper upbringing should be the one thing we should be stressing on as it is now even the ones that claim to be raised by both parents that are as toxic as they come. Just look everywhere, you will ask "who raised these ones" only to find out they were raised by both their parents. lol

hucknall:
Nature. And that's understandable.
This is like comparing car accidents to bomb blasts. They are not the same thing.

If you've killed a baby then you are just as evil as these UGM roaming about Nigeria.
Better repent.

Nature? so emergency abortion for life threatening pregnancies is nature, does that make it less of an abortion?

hucknall:
You sef. How can you even think of aborting your own child? If your mother had aborted you, would you be here typing nonesense?

And the miscarriages ,the etopic pregnancy and other cases where the foetus had to be evacuated ,who will account for those lives? God or devil or humans?