₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
She made good points. My own is, own your shit and stop blaming people/religion, because you can never please humans, they must talk.

On frontpage now, there is a thread on a woman who died from abortion and people are asking why a woman of that age would be having abortion.

Have your child and train him/her. When they are done talking, they will move to the next gist.

Someday I will get to understand why the gender that claims to gain nothing from marriage is always angry to see single women/babymamas.

Women need to start taking charge of their decisions.

Personally,the order of priority for a woman is children, money and husband. She has the resources, if the latter doesn't come ,why should she waste her biological clock waiting for a man when she can have a child and live her life.


Nigerians carry marriage for head like gala, I am just glad alot of women are setting their priority straight. Not everyone is destined to meet a life partner, so why deprive yourself of the joy of motherhood because of that?

Franzinni:
The problem is you are populating the world with fatherless bastards ...in my humble opinion... I hope you get to read this.go and see black america and understand why it's necessary to keep your legs closed or better still use a condom .... A child is not a lassa also or a chiwawa.

Your leaders that have fathers and looting your funds to store in your colonial masters lands are what? the numerous human parts sellers lurking in your country don't have fathers? even fathers are raping their daughters, the drug dealing Nigerians being executed every now and then outside Nigeria don't have fathers?, the kidnappers ravaging this country don't have fathers? the cultists killing each other daily don't have fathers?


So tell me one thing pertaining to the black american society that is not here already despite not having high number of in your words "bastards".

hucknall:
We should legalize killing of babies? Mumu, commit abortion and see if you won't end up like her.
Nonsense on a Monday morning!

Typical reasoning of a third world occupant. For a country that sells human parts ,you have no moral ground to open your gutter mouth and leprosy infested fingers to point at anybody. Maybe if they had legally aborted terrorists ravaging your country, your nonsense country would have been better for it.


Idiotic fellow.

Neutralobserver:
You run into the problem of access to proper care. and the issue of there being enough properly trained staff...because all these illegal clincis are run by people who are not well trained and who cause a lot of damage that has to be fixed in proper hospitals.

The sad thing is that we don't have enough properly tranied doctors and nurses in this country, as well as enough healthcare facilities.

So legalizing abortion is meaningless if the potential person who needs it lives in a village miles away from the nearest proerly equipped health care center.




Well, sex education and contraception access does work....it has reduced unwanted pregnancies in the US for example.

Also, it is legal to teminate ectopic pregnancies and 'life threateing pregnancies' in Nigeria...what is not legal is abortion on demand.

Where do you think the ones in the "village " get their abortions done for the time being? Why have you not thought of what regulation will bring instead of sticking to negativity?. Do you think first world countries have abortion clinics littered everywhere to require a battalion of staff that makes you think Nigeria doesn't have the capacity to supply such human resources? Have you even given it a thought about the upside of "regulation"?. The cases of evacuations and abortions done in designated hospitals today for life threatening pregnancies ,are the doctors and staff spirits?.


Abortion didn't start today, from using hangers in the 70s and 80s ,to pills to illegal evacuation, shouldn't we have the conversation of safe abortion and come to terms that women will have need to have abortions and making it illegal will not stop women from getting it.


But then again ,a hypocritical country like Nigeria ,so religious ,yet so dark will always want to appear saints and point fingers.

Neutralobserver:
Legalising abortion is very easy, until you get to the bit about 'are there enough trained staff to perform the abortion'?

In the US and UK , abortion is legal...and both countries have adequate emergency services, and enough trained obstetrician/ganecologist. Unlike Nigeria where we don't even have enough doctors as a whole....before we dey talk about specialists.

For now, widespread promotion of contraception and sex educaiton may be the best method.

What happens to the people that wants an abortion? There are already illegal abortion clinics set up across the the country, unregulated, not taxed ,some are even disguised as labs and pharmacies.



While we are on the "promotion of contraception and sex education "campaign, will people stop getting pregnant? if that were the case the west that introduced sex education and contraception will not have need to attend to abortion cases since they know it so well save for etopic pregnancy cases and other forms of life threatening pregnancies.

Legalize abortion ,no, na to dey go back door. Hypocrites.

The question is "will she get the justice she seeks?". Fellow nairalanders ,your guess is as good as mine.

franchasng:
lol, I don't argue fact....I don't see black and call it white, I am not Buhari neither am I an APC miscreant, so you see What you said was nothing but the truth, why then should I argue truth since I am not mad like most APC apologists

I know why I made that comment,e get why. People do really grow up after all.

franchasng:
You are absolute correct, no argument

This week must be a good week,"no argument" he says ,wow!.

franchasng:
Dear Op, this cannot happen now again because most ladies are impatient with unknown caller and seem to be more aggressive to unknown male caller than friendly so I don't see it happening again, maybe during the time GSM was just coming out it could happen then but not now

And would you blame them? From trying to set up and "test the love" of their girlfriends to scammers a lady is well within her sanity to be paranoid and have her guards up to an unknown male caller.

Karlovych:
I can bet my balls that he is from either Edo State or Delta State. I wonder what he thought he will be doing illegally in Europe without proper documentation, it's good that he was caught at least he will face a worse version of extremism he is running away from in Libya.
Nevertheless Buhari is a useless gworo chewing terrorist

Get ready to loose your balls then.

trailblazar:
The manner sent by devil is already here on nairaland in the form of Deadvulture I mean mannbbq. Problem is no one needs his manna right now or ever so it has quickly become maggots.

lol

Chanchit:
Go and watch "Everybody loves Raymond" Sebi the last time she came was two weeks ago, she never begin come everyday.

Lol, this op nor go last one day as Raymond o.



This op will be a difficult person to live with ,I hope his new bride is prepared for the long turbulent ride.smh

To cut the long story short , people are still owing 11 years asoebi money. And I just heard announcement in the church , people are still owing last year's mothers day cloth money.The irony of it all is I don't feel comfortable owing money.

Lukaku12:
From the comments I have read so far....it shows that there are more sexual predates....someone asked a question and y'all are acting like it's all normal....

And this is why the country is on its way to clinch the world title of rape headquarters.

ChereCC77:
you should tell them to stop oooo if they will listen

The only people that can stop it are in the upper chamber. Hold your legislators responsible.

ChereCC77:
what can we do? Is it prayer

Prayers, lol.We might as well just pray for manner to fall in 2021 while doing that.

ChereCC77:
this one funny ooo. After watching TV hungry will come abi?

Nigeria''s matter is beyond redemption.

ChereCC77:
hahaha. It's our country but the in government are so funny.
Don't laugh oooo.

So should I be crying instead?

ChereCC77:
why laughing?

I have edited. Even if I was actually laughing, this your country on e own nor be house of comedy?

Nigeria's borrowing can be likened to taking a loan to buy a generator to watch tv and using the rest to buy asoebi for a party.

Depressed101:
mumu post, we know that women are the greatest child molesters, their victims never get justice because they don't take them serious

It is a rare case for a woman to molest her own son but that can't be said in the case of men,there is no boundaries to their sexual prowess, even their own daughters are not spared ,haba, make una dey fear God na.

Fuckingmallam45:
RIP to him, the Legendary.

RIP hungerbad.

Jeux:
No matter how you try to twist this, state govts even construct Federal roads, and Other structures even without any promise from the fg, see, come to ogbe stadium, there’s no single structure on ground to host the whole Nigeria , edo was never ready for this, it’s greed, the state gov just want to cash out from fg, this is a disgrace to the whole edo people, there’s no sense in this at all

That one concern you. Disgrace to edo people ,dem shit for body? terrorists in your country are not ashamed is it hosting a game that will make people to be ashamed? stop being dramatic ,it doesn't suit you Mr drama king.


If things don't go well hold your ministry of sports responsible or you don't have an inclination of how things are supposed to work?

Jeux:
Normally the federal govt is not supposed to pay for this, but due to the postponement of the festival which was supposed to hold over a year ago, edo state govt asked the fed govt to assist them because they have lose money resulting from the postponement which the federal gift agreed to but has not redeem their promise. Now check this out, what is there that edo state can’t continue and wait for reimbursement from the fg? Why would edo gift threaten to end a festival because fg failed to support them?this is sheer greed on the part of edo state givt

What is the guarantee that fg will reimburse edo government after the festival? what is there that the federal government is using delay tactics to withhold the funds?

The word for me is "amusingly ingenious". Funny in a clever way.The best relationship I ever had was with a fellow who was so intelligently funny, I was blown away, such a wonderful soul.

" The funds is still being processed " says the FG. ok o, keep processing the fund. If the state government decides to stop funding on their own end , I go see how the festival go take continue.

"The presidency" is sitting on the funds.

Friends who? Bestie how? Not the humans of today. How does a guy become so close as to be your bestie tho?

I would hate to have this woman as a member of my family.

And now you see why Nigerians deserve their leaders who are also product of the Nigerian society.Not only have they abused the purpose of trader moni this man will even sell Nigeria if he is on the position to do for his pocket.

clannishness has always been embedded in the south East.