₦airaland Forum

BLOODYSPERM:
You killl unborn babies daily I don't get your points , it's a choice Progressive chose in knowledge of the consequences, our forefathers were dogmatic idealogues ignorantly following religion

I'm a open minded free thinking conservative

And your people kill babies in secret, isn't that hypocritical?

BLOODYSPERM:
Exactly what I'm saying
Progressive women don't care about family values but aim for female supremacy disguised as a Egalitarianistic-Equalistic movement seeking humanism, how can you celebrate the destruction of the home

It's ok

Like I said in the future when men like us are in power we will replicate western conservative policies to improve our traditional Patriachal system and upgrade it

Foolish fathers abandoning their parental role led to some of our crisis unlike western societies that women decide on their own to give birth out of wedlock and make it a norm

Oh atleast you admit there are useless men littering your country. Unfortunately for you the future men are going to worse, as baby mama is becoming a norm.

Obi1kenobi:
And they told you that feminism is the cause of single motherhood, and not the gangsters and thugs who abandon their children to be raised by single mothers? The men who sling drugs on the streets and kill each other in turf wars have nothing to do with "fatherless bastards", but it's the feminists that are responsible? Do you see how warped your thinking is?

Lol see what I have to deal with in my mentions. These are the same set of people that their ancestors killed twins ,I am sure if he was alive when mary slessor insisted on abolishing killing of twins ,it's his type that will be at the forefront chanting "it's our culture,leave our culture for us". lol

[quote author=oluwaahmed post=100487519][/quote]And now Nigerians bacame masters at it. I hear your count will soon claim the title for world's rape headquarters. And about corruption ,your president is currently in the same western country spending your depleted foreign reserve. lol

BLOODYSPERM:
Every Society has its problems
And Patriachy was not a reason for any single Nigeria's problem, but single motherhood is a problem for western Societies

Don't associate illiteracy to Patriachy as Arab Emirate Societies are Patriachal but they have very low illiteracy level

Nepotism, corruption, tribalism has led Nigeria to it's current state not Patriachy, because Patriachy built wealth for US during world war one as women were not given rights until the 1960's meaning Patriachy allowed for women's right

Every society has its problems. So the rate of out of school children , criminals , drug pushing, ritual killings , selling human parts etc are all caused by nepotism, corruption and tribalism. where as single motherhood is the reason for the same crime in western societies.Lol.


You should read your last paragraph and stop contradicting yourself. Anyway I can see all this yapping to threatening feminists with hell fire is all out of fear.


Divorce will even soar higher ,like it or not , something has to give way. Until the "na man" mentality is completely done away with and Nigerian parents make conscious effort to nuture their sons, una never see anything.

BLOODYSPERM:
These is speculation but let me assume it is true, what of the destruction of family values in western societies due to the encouragement of single motherhood

I reject single motherhood as it is associated with criminals, drug abusers, illiteracy, prisoners especially in black American communities

There is no excuse for such nonsense
Under Patriachy it would never be tolerated talkless of becoming a Norm

We are still discussing Nigeria, please try to stay focused .


If you say single mother hood is associated with criminals ,drug pushers ,illteracy,pray tell what then is responsible for terrorism, ritual killings, Nigerians rotting away in foreign prisons , Nigerian being killed every now and then for drugs, Nigeria having the highest rate of out of school children etc.

BLOODYSPERM:
That's why divorce is unpopular and frowned upon in our culture, but it is a common norm in western societies


One of the true benefits of patriachy

Lol, but divorce was unpopular because;


The woman is shamed.
Is turned back by her family.
Should her family dare to support ,in some tribes , the family is ostracized.
Is compelled and restrained by religion and traditions.( you and I know what brainwashing from both can control the entire being of a human being).


If Nigerian women dont have incentives like western women but are still willing to leave their marriges , shouldn't that tell alot about the quality of men ? The Nigerians I know don't take time to nuture their sons to better humans all in the name of "na man".

BLOODYSPERM:
Many factors, Feminism is one of them, domestic violence caused or not caused by Feminism is another, infidelity, irreconcilable differences , etc

In the list I still don't see the incentives tho.

BLOODYSPERM:
Statistics showed divorce was rare in western societies and alimonies protected women during divorce, but now women are in the workplace, they have equal opportunities as men , same earning potential as men, yet alimony is still in marriages , women have strong incentives to destroy their homes more than Patriachal times since child custody laws and alimonies encourage these due to women's innate Hypergamous nature

I am asking you about Nigeria. Tell us about Nigeria please.Alimony ,child support and all that is alien to us , so what then is the incentive that is making Nigerian women abandon their marriages ?

BLOODYSPERM:
Feminism has destroyed marriages that is my point, Edochie wanted to use rhetorics to point out the flaws of Feminism in society and he used domestic violence to serve as a scape goat with regards to Feminism

Intelligent and educated men like us will understand what he his saying, and he has a more realistic appraisal of his times, as we were not born then

Rather misoginistic men like you understand his point.


Anyway to what do we hold responsible for the destroyed marriages prior to feminism? can you educate us on that?

BLOODYSPERM:
From what I typed probably yes

If that be the case ,how come feminism is now being blamed when Nigerian men have had this trait of violence even before you and I were born? isn't this a case of "hanging a dog" , It's just common sense.

BLOODYSPERM:
Men were cultured to treat their multiple wives and children and spank or whip them when they err not because they were violent but because they needed to correct them and keep them in check same way my mum flogged me as a kid , that is not domestic violence at all


Now probably some violent men may have existed in my ancestors time with psychopathic tendencies and violent impulses , off course domestic violence could have occurred, but i can't refer to any data or statistics to back it up as there was no means to know back then


My point is Feminism in it's quest for equality has destroyed family units especially in western and progressive societies , now it is perceived as a female supremacist movement bound on enslaving and emasculating men, just look at western societies divorce laws, child custody laws, welfare system for single mothers

Simple yes or no, prior to feminism were there cases of domestic violence in Nigeria? until you answer the question, anything you say is inconsequential to the topic at hand. Deflect all you want , answer my question or don't bother replying me.

Na welder construct that gun, that gun will not only kill the flesh but kill the soul aswell.

BLOODYSPERM:
You are on these trend again lolzzz
Don't misinterprete what the man is saying
Feminism has made women more narcissistic, egoistic and having bad manners which makes women to provoke their spouses and might result to domestic violence or broken home, just see the percentage of divorce in western Societies 70% are initiated by women

I'm not in support of domestic violence but Feminism has done more harm than good to society, asides women's rights which women already have I don't see the need for Feminism as it causes further division between men and women as we can see on these trend

All this talk still no answer to my question ,prior to feminism has there been domestic violence in Nigeria ,yes or no?

oluwaahmed:
The very first flaw of nigerian feminist is saying Nigerian men. Men are separated by religion, culture & geographical location thus you cannot generalise based on this. If you use a particular tribe or culture for case study then there would be some sort of intelligence in the argument as a northern Muslim will treat his wife differently from a southern Muslim or Christian. Back to the matter the problem is really more from the woman than the man. African women have never been sissies or wussies. Africa women have always been strong and supportive. Check the history of your country you find out that women never used to be weak, had morals and were highly sought after. In 1920s it was igbo women that led the first revolution against the British called the infamous "Aba women riots". Funmilayo ransome kuti was the first woman to drive a car in Nigeria she was also helping women become woke before the British used OBJ to kill her cos she was a Marxist. What about goddess Oshun? She was one of the wives of Ogun an orisha yet well respected and worshipped to this day. Africans have always loved and respected their women/mothers thats why Africa is known as motherland. The whiteman who brought one man one wife also brought prostitution which was alien to African culture. Now there are more hungry hoes than good women and when you have lots of prostitution you know what the bible says would happen? Lev 19:29 (do not prostitue thy daughter to cause her to be a LovePeddler lest the land fall to whoredom and become full of wickedness). Let women hold themselves high men will equally give them their respect. You cant depend on someone for survival and still expect him/her to place you above himself. It will never work. Its not anti-feminism is just basic human nature. Yes some men beat their women but pete edochie is trying to say emotional intelligence can prevent this, something out mothers had that women of nowadays don't have.

In all this long story you ended up not answering my question , prior to feminism has there not been domestic violence in Nigeria?yes or no


Also the summary of your write up is that it was the white man that brought prostitution to Nigeria.

My question is;

prior to feminism ,can mr pete then tell us what was the reason Nigerian men beat and threw their wives and kids onto the streets? except he means to tell us prior to feminism there has been no domestic violence in Nigeria.

Liposure:
Even the so called responsible men you rate have flaws in them. No man is entirely perfect. There's always going to be a minus. We can only wish for the best as intending bachelors and spinsters.

There are flaws and there are flaws. You of all people should know that responsible man covers any other flaw(s) you can think of. You can't be responsible and have certain flaws, just saying.

Liposure:
All men are not the same. There are still good men out there. Jesus said seek and you shall find. Happy easter.

But then you know my point is very valid. My eyes have seen my ears with Nigerian men. The responsible men who will not take a woman for granted for being his backbone and support till death do them part is in limited supply.

This could have been me ,but Nigerian men I know will likely use the opportunity to get another woman pregnant outside.

bukatyne:

The thing weak me.

This should be in literature section.

dangotesmummy:
if him pen1s big, strong and reliable,then he be husband material Na,.wetin remain? He nor need to get common sense.him wife go dey Make decisions for am

Even mad man wey dey roam for street fit still get big strong and reliable penis.So your point is invalid.

This one go count himself join husband material. mumu person.

They call it "sara". There are different degrees to it, you can use food but in the case of using blood sacrifice, that's on a high level . Using animals can be in exchange for a life or averting death all together.

Karemarealty288:
In Nigeria. Ship lost during Obasanjo's reign...President lost under Yar'dua....Snake Swallowed monies under Jona....everything is now happening under Baba! Snake, crocodile, monkey, Bandit landlord, Fulani Pilgrims!!!

Made my comment before I saw yours. lol

A ship went missing in Nigeria and we moved on like nothing happened, this too shall pass. All this meeting is just for formalities ,we will soon move on like nothing happened.

Do people still give beggars money? such entitled miscreants that are lazy and ingrates. I would rather buy water and leave the change than give the money to a beggar.

BLOODYSPERM:
See I don't want to argue with you again
You are becoming too emotional


Like you said it's your choice your life and your decision, any path you take , just make sure you are responsible and be prepared for the consequences

Take care

The more reason you should stop being in women's business mr woman wrapper.


Your brown teethed ancestors put a lot of restrictions on women in the name of culture and traditions ,and you want the stick to those demented ideas hiding under to cloak of " upholding culture and traditions" . Glad this generation of women can see right through all the facade.


Remember to take two tablets of paracetamol , you sure have had too many headaches for women business and their wombs.


Take care.

Kondomatic:
Now unah don see why fear fear Seuñ no wan remove that swearing for Muslim posts

Before dem go allah akbar am.

BLOODYSPERM:
Do you think if I rise to power I won't deal with abortionists like your kind with severe punishable laws


Killing infants is as abominable as child sacrifice and to now make it legal truly shows how you socalled Progressive nations have progressed with human rights that you accuse Nigeria of not having

You are a woman bound to menstruation and ovulation finally menopause, having estrogenious hormones, very emotional as you can't stomach the truth that Abortion is wrong same as child sacrifice one kills infants the other kill babies in both cases lives are lost
I know you work with feelings and you are soft and sensitive, your innate weakness and vulnerability is on full display,you are like a whinning little child , fluffy like a bear doll , hearing your opinions and dissidence is funny as they are all weak fallacious statements that have nothing to do with our core topic

Africa Past Child sacrifice culture
Babarism of 21st century Abortion

If I am a woman ,soft and emotional don't you think I am in the best position to speak better on the subject matter as Nigerian men have proven time and time again to know nothing that has to do with child bearing ,and if I have to be the one to push and bear the kicking and cramps , don't you think you are over reacting in a process you know nothing about? If the one who has the womb decides she doesn't want to got through the discomfort who are you who knows nothing about carrying a baby be in women's business?



You want to talk about human rights? this is laughable. Your president just condemned an attack in Niger republic and has been mute on the killings in your country ,and you want to talk to me about human rights?






"If " you rise to power, which of the power? world power or your local government? I sure would love to see that day, in this life time I mean ,lol.



Everything I have said has everything to with your so called culture and traditions you speak highly of. The same barbaric culture that your ancestors started and till date coconut heads like you have refused to let go of what a bunch of barbaric savage men sat down to pronounce and made culture.


Incase you have refused to see it, culture and traditions can be changed ,I am sure Mary slessor had a hard time and faced resistance from people like you aka upholder of culture but thank God she didn't relent in saving you negros from your barbaric ways and culture.

wany:
Girl ,why waste your energy hitting your keypad on a brain dead donkey,is ultimate desire is to dominate and control, which is fast becoming an illusion to him.a dream that is evaporateing

Sometimes it's good to jolt deluded people back to reality. He keeps saying "we" in third person ,such delusion grandeur and it must not be left to simmer else he will think of himself as some kind of world Savior and go psychopathic on his society.

BLOODYSPERM:
They might secretly abort
Let them come out
We will deal with them same way we deal with Faggotss

Our forefathers were dogmatically sacrificing babies to their gods

You mordern educated Progressive women are literally glorifying the legal killing unborn infants leading to an unprecedented amount of infant genocide

And u dear lecture me on the morality of my father's when you don't value your wombs and infant lives

Such depraved, sadistic and babaric mordern unborn children killers at least our forefathers were dogmatic ,these day educated women support such cruelty for the sake of their so called liberation and Emancipation , evil monsters, they don't deserve the joy of motherhood, worthless women


What Nonsense and bullshit hypocrisy

In country where over 300 young boys were sodomized and the case was swept under the rug ,you and your army you keep referring to as "we" seem to have been either deaf or having communion with your dead ancestors not to have done anything.


A country where cows are more important than human lives and children are left to fend for themselves in the name of almajiris, a country where human parts is sold like commodity, a country people are killed over land and community boundary , a country where young men are wasted over cult supremacy, a country gradually becoming world rape head quarters , a country where ladies are found every now and then with their breasts and private parts cut off for ritual,a country where fraud is glorified , a country that ranks high in corruption, a country where terrorists are rehabilitated and sent abroad for studies while victim are kept in idp camps, a country where people are still burnt to death for blasphemy and stealing,and so on.


let me go back in time, a country where your ancestors were ( let me borrow your word) dogmatically killing babies, using human heads to escort their dead kings to the land of the dead, slaughter Virgins as offering etc , seems like the apple doesn't fall far from the tree ,you were sired by your ancestors after all.

So much for your for your culture and traditions started by a bunch of barbaric and archaic snuff snitch dirty brown teethed savages.

If you want to talk about depraved , sadistic and barbaric set of people ,you should look in the mirror and that of your fellow country people.


And while you are at it ,you and the "we" should go round your cesspit country and shut down all illegal abortion clinics , only then will I take you serious not this online delusional chest beating little creature.