cococandy: Sadly it’s not just men: it’s women too. there’s a casual ingrained “anti-womanness” that we all have to unlearn. It starts from even before we are born
samwheel: U people also try to tink u re too smart. Shit happens, life is deeply spiritual, even in d west, dey have cults where dey perform spiritual shit. Just pray u don't encounter any, no b all dis grammar wey u dey speak.
na only Nigeria life for dey spiritual. If una enter oyinbo land ,the spiritual hurdles go vanish . Be like say na Nigeria spiritual cloud dey.
HardMirror: religion produces stupid people. Look at the nonsense a grownup man is writing and accusing his wife of. You ladies are also guilty. Why I dont keep religious friends, very stupid people
cococandy: You don’t want me turning into a man-hater?
Why don’t you achieve that by calling out misogyny when you see it?
What happened to supporting humanity? I believe women are part of the human race. You can’t support humanity by ignoring or even supporting anti woman beliefs.
The issue of witch hunting is anti woman by origin. Read up more on it if you did not previously know this.
When I say men don't like women but only like their biological makeup ,they start foaming in the mouth.
Women just can't seem to catch a break from misogyny.
Person dey bully you, go do dey make mouth because you think say big people dey your back ,now fight don burst ,the big people dey aloof dey look as dem day sama you correct beating.
Blablamalala: You still haven't told us how your vagina smells.
I don't need to. Who do you think you are to deserve that information tho? Such delusion. Getat! Your mate dey pick up arms for Ukraine you dey nairaland dey talk rubbish,depraved sicko.
fikayormi: I’m not really ready to dispense my energy on a nonsense post you made goat. Stick to your believe and lemme to mine
Na your mama be goat.
If it was against your belief ,you should have kept it moving.Like who summoned you ? Did anyone put a gun to your head to come here and type? See this thing. You are so stupid not to know what a "forum " means,Yeye dey smell.
Your mama get virtue, highlight it na ,your brain went blank,lol.You are right tho it will definitely take a lot of brain power to think up the virtues of your so called mother, cos guess what,it is a smoke screen for an empty "yes sir" woman you were raised by.
Blablamalala: Ladycewhy does yours smell too? Kobojunkie said all vagina smells. That those ones that doesn't smell like rotten fish smell like mettalic amonia. How does yours smell?
Kobojunkie: To accomplish that, she likely had to give up on herself and her dreams as a person. That is not a marriage but an adult-parenting gig... no one wants that kind of life sentence. She is lucky it turned out well in her case because for the vast majority, it never does and regret is all that waits at the end of it all for them.
My dear ,like I said she is trying,I just don't want to say more but I think I made a thread about trying to fix an adult man. It's no woman's responsibility , if he didn't get the proper upbringing ,it's not your place to teach him. That's too much burden to carry .
Kobojunkie: And how did your aunt fare about living her life basically parenting what was supposed to be her own husband?,
She is a strong woman. But me nor get that strength. He is better than when they first got married. Visited her during Christmas and we got talking ,I was like you try o .
I guess na that one make us bad ,as we nor wan raise adults and fix them .
Kobojunkie: I wonder if such mothers are proud to have raised sons who want to end up married to women who would tolerate abuse the way they did.
I don't know about that ,but I do know they are not remorseful.
My aunt was accused of using charm for her husband because she made him a better human being who takes accountability and responsibility for his actions. Especially on the health , lifestyle and grooming part.lol
fikayormi: Op so you don’t want a hubby like your dad? Seems your mom made a mistake marrying your dad .
Anyway yeah I want a wife like my mom and my mom was never a slave to my dad . It because of the great virtue she possessed as a wife and a mom
And sorry if your mom was a slave to your dad.
Virtue of tolerance ,yes sir attitude , compromise , forgiveness, patience, selflessness, giving without expecting anything in return,never putting herself first but only her children , husband and husband's people in that order .
Bunkbars: Yes they are, lesbianism. Isn't common in africa. I know a lot of ladies in their late thirties and still single. I know some men in their late thirties, looking for wife material to get married, but i keep asking my self, so not all women deserve to be in a man house, i guess this is one of the factors that has resulted to a lot of women being single at 39, Even the rich boys, most ladies are after, are all going after girls in their early twenties.
It's funny that you agree women are more than men and still think there is a scarcity of women available for men ..
Anyway , since you have agreed that the men are not enough, be happy for the couple and move on.
You will hear things like "your father never did this to or for me, excuse me ma, it was your perogative to stay with such a man. Sometimes I think some women of old deliberately raised their sons horribly so it can be another woman's headache with the hope that she has been groomed to soak in all the dysfunction she pumped him with.
Most times their mothers are enablers of the their terrible behavior . Ever heard of the statement " na man"? Na dem.They leave their sons with no proper guidance to blend and find his way to becoming a man ,after all "na man".
So it has become a wailing sound even sung more than the national anthem. Men are wondering why women of today are not like their mothers.
They want to have wives like their mothers cos their mothers "suffered" for them and the family and wore suffer head like a badge of honor to prove to society that she was a virtuous woman.
Boniwhite: I have been following you and 3 out of 5 of your comments on NL is you insulting people's mothers. Only a person with a small mentality thinks that way!
you have to do better because that reflects bad on you!
hello fan I see you.
A well brought up son should not throw stones in the market in which his mother is shopping. He fit use the stone burst e mama head ,you gerrit?