Kobojunkie:
OP, if you ever do find it, here's a suggestion. You can create an app to help others who are in need of the same quick divorce services

An app, thats a good suggestion.

Next they will force her to drink the dead body water and when she falls ill they will claim it's the ghost of her husband calling her for revenge.


Disgusting tradition and culture. All to subjugate women .It has always been this way for women in Nigeria, women just can't catch a break. Smh

Lol.

A "Stop ritual ,human parts doesn't bring money" would be more impactful , meaningful and relatable.

If he won't take the initiative then designate responsibilities to him.
Some people are like that ,they want to be told to do something ,since he is receiving small money,sort through bills you know will not break his back for him and start from there.


Also some days when food stuff is exhausted ,act broke and tell him to provide. If he makes a fuss remind him he is old enough to start taking care of you.

Also in whatever you do,don't ever remotely mention things like " see your mates" . I hate it when parents do that, everyone has their own time,but that aside ,he is earning even if not much , he should atleast drop something to show he has a sense of responsibility.

This thread is for AS and SS.


Though I witnessed the death of two sickle cell patients ad different times during my childhood days. It's something I will not wish for a parent .

People are just being emotional and sensitive.


The only thing I see here is releasing the pictures to the public, but you can't stop her from participating in prison activities. Also I think it is more like an advertisement for putting a humane face to prisons since they changed the name to correctional facilitiy.

Beebah2000:
Una way dey make noise, una gree make them remove one of your kidney, give your wife or husband??
Noise makers na e full this forum.

self preservation is a human default trait.

Many people talking being in that position will not. It's a fact especially for Nigerians .


From what I have seen ,I will not allow any woman I know try that especially not with a Nigerian man in Nigeria where there are no laws protecting the interest of women in marriages.

ume1000:
you always sound bitter

Reminds me of one cultist I know

K.

I have seen people loose themselves trying to please others. They are willing to leave themselves in want and those closest to them in want just to please (help) people.

They see close relatives directly affected by their lack of financial logicality as stingy or non givers.

They also see themselves as goody two shoes who has a better heart than everyone else and they sometimes get lost in this mentality that they try to out do themselves.


In conclusion ,these people never have good financial plan or even budget they believe in living for the moment.They believe since they have put in so much good into the universe by helping people somehow the universe will pay them back by bringing them goodluck and big helpers in return.


Good afternoon nairalanders.

ume1000:
never knew you hate cultists

How so?

dawnomike:
The Legend of the Lion keeper

this cracked me up.

Mteeeew.
I really have no sympathy for people who indulge in things like this.

GooodHardDick:
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Imagine the rubbish you wrote up there with silly excuses just because you're a female!

Why would so much attention be given to them while the males look malnourished and unkempt? What sort of nonsense is that?
If there are hairdressers and tailors in the women correctional facility, then there should be barbers and tailors too in the male correctional centers. Stop this myopic thinking of yours that women should be given "special attention and care", this is gender discrimination and should be highly condemn.

I can't believe even in prison Nigeria girls also have entitlement mentality. This is foolishness, the authorities should look into this and stop this gender discrimination against males asap!

K.

I love table setting. HBD!!!

GooodHardDick:
This is highly unacceptable. This is gender discrimination against males!

See how fresh, clean and neat those girls look, but the males look malnourished and unkempt. What sort of nonsense is this? The authorities should look into this and stop this gender discrimination against males asap! What rubbish!!

When it comes to grooming women pay mare attention than men.Many men turn their homes into a pig shed when their wives are sick or leave home,so imagine such men imprisoned. In my very short lifetime I have only met few men that pay attention to lifestyle habits ,wellness and grooming.


I hear they have prison tailors and hairdressers and you should guess that the women correctional facility will have more of such than that of men it is expected that the women will look more kept and groomed and also regardless of prison women will still need a basic necessity such as sanitary pad so expect the attention of more NGOs to the focused there as well.

emeernest:


And this ruling supercedes the Nigerian Constitution?
Honestly all Muslims who believe this, should exist in a separate country of their own where they will freely practice their faith & beliefs.

They will be shouting islamphobia up and down, isn't this enough to have a phobia?

Knowing that they see honour in killing another human being and hold their religion higher than the life of another and even the constitution is enough to have phobia being around such people abeg.

Sltp:
This world is a very wicked place. Tueeh!!! Look at grown up adults arguing when best to kill another human being for living HIS/HER own life in a manner that is best for him because of religious brainwashing. I'm ashamed to share the world with people like you all

so much for the religion of peace. It's ironical that they see nothing wrong in honor killings yet see their religion as peaceful . Constantly hounding people for their blood to shed seems like peace to these people. Smh.

A Muslim woman marrying a man from another religion is likely to be a victim of honour killing, correct?

Pay your debt, I have disdain debtors who do this.


Especially those ones that will be like "ordinary so so so" if na ordinary oya pay now.

Na wah ,smh . A dark cloud of evil seems to be hovering upon Nigeria.

For the people yarning dust would you be comfortable having a rape convict as your neighbor in the same compound especially with your children? .


Imagine your neighbor who has been nice to your kids popping up on this list

Bluezy13:
Speedy socked with garri with cold water.

Was looking for this comment

pocohantas:
In all of this drama, the late Ataga’s wife is my favourite person. No single outburst, no public address, she just took her L in peace.

I hope Nigerian women can learn from her. If it were 95% of Nigerian women, they would have given a thousand public addresses, crying over their horseband that went to smoke loud with a 200L girl while they were keeping the home in order, that is if they don’t go to fight Chidinma in prison.

For a woman of her level, I am sure she has the means and connection to ensure Chidinma doesn’t wake up tomorrow, but she has left it between Chidinma and the state. The battle is not hers. I love the woman baje.

She probably knew of her husband's philandering ways.

Punishing yourself for another person's doom will only bring your doom. Her children need her ,who don die don die,the circumstances surrounding his death is enough embarrassment. She needs to face her kids and how to make money and continue her life.

The daring nature of these people has been the bedrock for advancement of the human race.

SmartPolician:


This is a big lie! A prison is a correctional facility! Some of you have never even been to a prison before. You just stay in your houses and assume. You probably think that a prison is a police cell when you poo in a bucket and mosquito feasts on your blood.

FYI, prison is like a normal barracks where soldiers live their normal life. Go to school, church, mosque, etc. They do skill acquisition, play games, have visiting hours, some prisons have VIP cells with air conditioners. You should be asking yourself why Abba Kyari and others want to go to prison as against being in cell.

Many people are ignorant and loud especially on this forum , also their hate for women and the misogyny running through their veins will not allow them think straight. They sit in their four walls and type on the internet.


Even with this little orientation,they will still choose to hold on to their myopic outlook and not even make effort to enlighten themselves on prison life and activities.

Rexymania:
So Harrysong spelt 'paid' as "payed". please someone should help me to laugh, I can't laugh alone

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Olodo man


This kind of person will use "No as know", na dem

This is just scary to read. .


You watch movies and you think oh it's just a movie ,but knowing that there are people out there who will butcher a human being and sell off the parts is just scary.

If you continue to ask why regarding traits narcissists possess you will loose your sanity.

That's nonsense even if it's tradition ,it needs to be abolished.

pocohantas:
Heaven protect Nigerians.

Imagine if this girl didn’t send out an SOS. We would have read how a slay queen got slayed with numerous advice on why Nigerian ladies should stop materialism. Like that is any justification to kill a fellow human.

RIP to her.

My sister, this matter just weak me I swear. It's just scary to know that even a public bus is not safe for women in Nigeria again. This is likely not the first time the driver is doing this.

SavageBoy:


Get your facts correctly.
Susan,the final year pharmacy students of Uniben wasn't asked to release her phone.
She worked into the robbery scene where some other individuals were being robbed.
She was shot by a trigger happy robber

Get your facts correctly before posting

If he doesn't twist the facts to find a way to blame the victim how else will his life be without misery.

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It's just sad that even a government owned public bus is not safe .

If she didn't give the information to her friend, a BRT bus driver will be the last person to suspect.