Somebodydaddy01:


Then what can I do??

Thats the point people have told you but you refused to accept...
Nothing.
If your purpose is to visit your girlfriend, then you can visit her elsewhere.
If you insist on going to the US, the embassy will likely keep refusing you because you are considered a flight risk.
You can decide to get married and then apply for the appropriate visa and not seek a short cut ( which is the assumption)

Nowujeda:
To the travel gurus,

how much minimum should be in a company's account if it shall be presented to fund a vacation of a family of 3?

Statements are not checked.
However, if you want to carry it along, then you should calculate the rough total for each person, flight, feeding, local transportation, accommodation etc and multiply it by 3....your research

Somebodydaddy01:


Okay ...my main aim is america ...I want to go to Dubai first for a vacation and hope something good will come out when I apply again ...I have a good job here and I’m single and I have a girlfriend there who is a citizen ...I hope that will work

No Sir I dont believe that will work. From your transcript, it dosent seem you were denied for travel history. You were denied for clear immigrant intent.
Will travel to Dubai change that? No.

Somebodydaddy01:



Yea I’m thinking about Canada so she can meet me there ...how about that

Hmm. You didn't get US.... You want to do Canada. Nwanne read this thread. Go online generally and research like a ton. Well if you have lotsa money.... Please buy pop corn and pof pof to share here

seyewest:


Travel to the Caribbean.... She will meet you there.

Why are you all wicked like this. He wants how to get to the US
Meanyl I still dey wait for that stuff ooooooo.

Somebodydaddy01:


Thanks my lady...what would you suggest I do cause like yesterday she cried for 5 hours I can let her go through that pain again

I already gave my advice in my first post to you..

Somebodydaddy01:


Thanks ...what if she comes here can that help me get the visa ??

Nope.
Cos it's about you. And for as long as your circumstances remain the same, There is the presumption of "arrangee marriage "
If you guys however marry outside the US, then you may go through the process. Presently, the administration is even making moves to follow up on legal migrants that have used public aid....
If they are that serious, imagine how much more serious they'll be with assumed intending migrants

Somebodydaddy01:
Good morning from this side ....yesterday was the worst day of my life ...I was denied the visa yesterday ...though I’m new here .

I have been dating a United States citizen for 2 years now and it’s been great ...she wanted to come visiting and her kids won’t allow her but she suggest I come ..I did everything but I was denied ..I was asked this certain question that how did we meet and I answed and boom ..she denied me

So I’m starting again so I need an expert to put my through and please no insult
If you do I will report you to my ......village people

Nwanne sorry for the refusal Ehhh. But let me be frank, e go harrrrrd!
You are single. Plan to visit your online single yankee lady
Nna that sounds like arrangee marriage.... Sounds like being the operative word, before the voltrons jump out to attack their ancestors.
If visiting is the loop, y'all can meet in Dubai or Mexico.... U must not go to the US. In my opinion (I'm not a VO, note) your ties may not be satisfactory. Please do not reapply now.... Advice

ayenikunle:



LadyG come and carry your boyfriend o..

Kunle carry your brother! I dont want. If you get Davido nos, gimme!!

ayenikunle:


Only God knows how many times she has asked you for ticket, am sure you will soon run away when she asks again... simple ticket you cannot buy, na only mouth you get...

Your father born wisdom.
Your mama, her bride price make brain.
U wise pass.... Who wise now for earth sef?!

I dey find assurance, the man dey act telemundo. Lol

RefKing:

Babe come be mine...

Ooh, im getting married in the morning....
Ding - Dong, I hear the Church bell ringing....
Say, am hooked on LadyG....
Say, my heart beat for her...
So, get me to the Church....
Get me to the Church on time...


Lolz!!!
Perhaps, your message is not coming at the right time. LadyG is not encourage with the rate of refusal now#Winks#!!!!

Thank You Nwanne. U r on point o! Lol

Chai.
This mad man is back o!!!!
Seye and Afonja Mae Una carry Una man biko....

Seye please email me. Thanks

Sparkle1515:
Bikoo,go and sleep..You had an opinion on someones post,and I had an opinion yours..so what's the fuse..keep ridiculing people in the name of having opinion..mtcheww

Kudos. Seen

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But not my immediate relative ?[/quote]
Correct

kino47:
hello,please is your brother inlaw your other relatives as it was filled as NO on the form and if your wife fills yes will it affect the other applicant or vise Versa as one has being issued a visa already

Who is a relative? A person with some of relationship to you, whether by consanguinity or affinity ( blood or otherwise)

Does a brother in law have a relationship with you? The answer is yes. He is your BROTHER via the relationship of marriage to his sibling. So what is the confusion here?
Any false information may affect one's chances as it is considered misresentation

Sparkle1515:
You were making sense until you pointed out that she could be lying..what's is impossible about what the poster "posted"now..the assumption that everyone is lying is getting out of hand on this thread o..na wa o

Praise be! Your opinion of mine means nothing to me.
Maybe you should spend that time stating yours. But if u'd rather spend it thinking of my views, praise be too!

seyewest:


Baba, LadyG and myself dey show your side for Boston soon... Do us well ''Unlimited shopping vouchers loading''

No mind am. He will soon pull a #tigerwoods on us.

emailaddy:
Haaaaaa what can someone who intends traveling Late November do? And they don’t give leave on Dec in my office?

Do night watch man on top CEAC website
My friend did they for just one night and got 27 th August last night. She was up all night refreshing till that date popped up

AfonjaBoston:


How much do you have? Health care is the biggest fraud in the USA those capitalist will milk you dry.

Unless you are a money bag and your eye done scatter finish meaning na emergency bros no waste your money. Go to Asia. Canada done deny you dem go scrutinize you like man whey dey find scattered dry fish for inside ogbono soup

I always knew you were a confam bush man.

seyewest:


Now that we've settled that... I will like to give you a clue on what to do.
Before the start of interview after giving the V.O your passport make sure you informed the V.O about your husband and if possible get a divorce or a legal paper attesting to the fact that you're no longer together... disengage/remove yourself and your children from him/ (his profile) completely, this may swing the odds in your favor because, your only advantage is traveling to U.S and returning to Nigeria. Be strategic and good luck.... remember to share your transcript.

And be upfront about where he could be found.... His friends. Throw the..... Under the train.

benpedro:
And what if she is saying the truth? Well, it doesn't matter what we believe but what the truth is. Moreover, I don't understand what you mean by her saying nothing. What should she have said? Report to the US government that an irresponsible adult decided to abscond and abandon his family? SMH Please let us always think about other people's feelings before giving a reply. I wonder how poster would've felt at this post if she was saying the truth. @Poster according to the US visa laws, you do not answer for an adult who is above 21, be it your brother, husband or even your child. The law assumes you're saying the truth until proven otherwise. So go for the interview. If you're saying the truth, the interviewer who is a trained psychologist will know in a matter of seconds. Thank you.

Remember, this is my opinion.
Remember, posts are for different point of views.
Remember, there's a caveat at the end of my post clearly reminding the op I am not a vo.
Remember, this is a thread for folks to give you different things to mull on...

Oh, yes you are correct about that law cited. However, at the US embassy, everyone is presumed to be an intending migrant and have to prove otherwise. If she cared about her chances and renewal, she should have reported the visa misuse since it was tied to hers.
That's the same reasoning behind the CIC Canada banning every other person attached to anyone application when the main applicant misrepresents.
It sounds harsh but, Ummmm I have seen and heard of spouses reporting their spouses misuse. If she had thrown him under the bus, she wouldn't have to answer these questions.


It's not as easy as saying, he's an adult and thats it. They are still legally married. He's already in the US. Do you think a reasonable vo would now inadvertently "reunite " them.
I am not here to bash anyone (unless there's need IMHO) but to point out facts that Nigerians like to ignore. She's here to seek visa advice, that's what I gave not emotional advice. The embassy also dosent do emotions. Not with Nigerians and our shenanigans.
I wish she will come back and post later. I would like to learn.

Glamgurl:
My husband and I got a family tourist visa with our child and he absconded to the US thereafter leaving us in Nigeria. I traveled to the USA twice with the same visa and came back. The 1st time I went with my baby and the 2nd time, I went alone. However the visa has expired I tried renewing me and my son''s visa using the drop box but I was asked to come for an interview. What are my chances of getting the visa? My ex-hubby doesn't contact us anymore and I don't know what he has been up to over there. What likely questions will I be asked at the interview?

Your guess Is as good as mine.
However, you should note that whatever your story is, you were complicit in his 'absconding '
All of you got the visa as a family. He used it wrongly. You went to the US. Twice. And said nothing. I find it very very very hard to believe you. But that's me Shaaa. What do I know?!

OmoBendel24:


Lolz @the bolded ! Is it an educational qualification/degree? Abi na post/rank? Kikikikikiiii

Na traditional title.
AKA

tppzzy01:
You mean I should tell the VO the truth that am leaving my family here to seeking a greener pasture. Lol.
Pls sir let me know the actual fact before we come to the issues of faith

You want to use the visa if given, illegally.
What you plan to do is illegal. U cannot stay beyond 6months.
Posts like this and behavior like this spoil our Image. If one says he hopes you don't get it now, another week say na curse.
Why are you making it harder for other folks to achieve their dreams?

BreeKoko:
Lady G

seyewest:


Yea... with good planning... We can advise him appropriately.

Both of you are Eediats

Aglani:
LadyG there is another flight deal for 299k (Turkish) happening tomorrow on travelstart if you're still checking .

I love u. Mmuah!!

Nelson2k:




I have 2 land thou still in my mum’s name but will get a court order to the inheritance

A Land If a tie, is a weak one.
How does land stop you from absconding?
And if you do, it still remains your land....

yominent:
Hello house, want to narrate my story and wish you guys can assist with an idea and ways i can go about my next interview. In 2013 i merged with a lady that won visa lottery,on the interview day the consular discovered that i personally won visa lottery too but i won as single(not married)in short we were denied and the guy said we have been banned from playing visa lottery. Because of the fear since 2013 i decided not to apply. I got a job with an audit firm that same year with good salary and married 2016 but told my wife to apply alone and she didnt fill my name as her husband as advised by agent unforunately she was denied.

Now we have both travelled to south africa last month with our daughter and we wanted to apply for US now for 2weeks vaction. I know my chance is slim but just want to seek for advise here. Assist look into my case plzz
WILL IT BE A CRIME IF I TELL THE INTERVIEWER THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED THEN THAT I WAS HUSTLING AND WAS DESPERATE TO LEAVE THE COUNTRY THEN THAT WAS WHAT LEAD TO THE FALSE WEDDING IN 2013 OR WHAT DO U GUYS THINK.

Were you banned from visa lottery or given a general ban?
Though the former weighs against you.

Magdagascariens:

YOU ALSO ADMITTED YOU HAVE DONE CRAZY STUFFS BEFORE BA? ALL THE EVIL YOU WISHED A MAN LIKE YOU, AND HIS FAMILY WILL COME ON YOU. ITS A LAW...ALSO FROM THE BOOK YOU QUOTED!

I DON'T TRUST HIM EITHER, BUT YOU WENT TOO FAR BY CURSING HIM.

What is a curse?
If you look at Deuteronomy 28, it says if you do A, then B will happen. Sometimes the consequences extended to family members.

Read Afonja's post. He's amazed that a person that did wrong ( FYI to all the previous posters, misresentation is NOT a mistake. It is a conscious Desicion to deceive so let's stop baptizing it)

I too share that sentiment. While I may not curse ( may being the operative word because I have in times past prayed for folks to face the consequence of their actions) the message he sends is sound

RegArmani:
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But, notwithstanding, am passing out this year October 21st. Where have I gone wrong? My first trial, though.

That's still the same question.
You need to read this thread to get it cos I'll just be wasting my time and effort otherwise....