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omojuliet:Send to me too. Email; spy2otini@yahoo.com. Do you have 1st grade women's clothing? |
jacksparrow1207:Well, things didn't go as expected. Maybe my post was misleading or something. Because guys I met seemed to think I was looking for a boyfriend or a husband, lol. All I wanted was 2 meet new people. To answer your question, I'm very much single and loving it. |
tobechi20:Funny you. |
Well, I hope this is not a scam. I'm heading to the bank now to pay for the ladies tops. This money is a product of sweat and hard work. So, if it's a scam, I leave you for God. |
At this rate, I won't be surprised when this, "Can you allow your wife, sister or girlfriend go out of the house?" comes up on nairaland. |
It's not bad enough that she was raped, she has to be married off to the rapist too. SMH. Some men should never be able to make babies, let alone have children. #WhenWillSheGetJustice? |
SAMBARRY:Hehehe, don't mind the guy joor. |
drlawizle:Eyaa, would've called u ode, but u need help. |
drlawizle:Na wa o, why are u taking panadol for Basketmouth's headache? This one that u're insulting girls of nowadays, hope you know that it's not compulsory for u to date or marry one since they lack home training and are below the standards of a wife material. I suggest you swing d other way, just arrange dat fine dude u've been admiring, for urself and u guys can go f**k each other's a**es to oblivion. I know you want to. Ur gay a** doesn't have to get frustrated over girls of nowadays. There are dudes everywhere, have ur pick. Adios. |
And we're talking about a 16 years old child in this manner because....? What is wrong with people? No matter how under dressed or over dressed a teenage girl looks it's inappropriate for anyone especially adult males to talk about how big or beautiful her boobs are. So many perverts on this Forum. The sad part is most people see nothing wrong with mature men talking and fantasising about a teenage girl's body. It's well with our children. |
See pot calling kettle black. OP, that u know the going rate of virginity these days, makes u a suspect. Even the Bible says that, u should remove the log in ur eyes first b4 removing the speck in ur neigbour's eye. Cheers! |
A piece of advice: when on a revenge mission, be prepared to dig 2 graves. |
In other words, good girls should cook, wash, clean up after their boyfriends, be cheerful givers both financially and bedmatically in order to show how much love they've for their boyfriends, right? In that case, the topic should have been, " Gentlemen, how much love do you have? " P.S., My motto in relationships is; love me, I love you. |
Blackbeauty: U actually picked the wrong person..if u had a little sense in that empty skull of yours...u would realize its my opinion.I didn't force u to open it and neither did I say u shouldnt buy a tablet..But again,what do I expect from low thinking,semi illiterate and unemployed sorry excuse for a human being?its a pity u cant read and comprehend simple English..please when u find an adult education school,forward your expenses to me.because u are really pathe8tic!Sh*t! *Falls down from the tree* |
ralianza: SAMSUNG S4 (2 MONTHS OLD/JUST AS NEW) + HP PAVILION CORE I3 FOR SALE!!!!!!!!!!!! |
ralianza: SAMSUNG S4 (2 MONTHS OLD/JUST AS NEW) + HP PAVILION CORE I3 FOR SALE!!!!!!!!!!!!How much is the laptop? |
lagtech: Still available. Now with bigger hard drive-1TB and more memory.Pls I'm very interested in something like this. |
Thought of a blue axe... Weird. |
tivta: I have just one question to all you feminist. Are there any female inventors? I mean even 'ordinary' comb and g-string that women use a lot was invented by a man. For once I would like to see what a woman has invented to change history besides all this talk of FIRST woman to do this or do that. Its just too stale if you ask me.Your ignorance is shocking. |
50calibre: I don't know, I don't listen to her.Dude, you are a sexist. And you don't know sh*t about football. |
What a fascinating thread! I'm also an introvert. I hate to be the centre of attention, I enjoy my own company a lot, no matter how hard I try I can't chat up a stranger. I talk a lot...to myself. I tend to be tongue-tied when talking to people I'm not familiar with. I think I'm friendly and easy going, but only friends and family know that. Outwards, I come across as a snub. I may not speak much physically, but there is so much speech going on in my head at any given time. A perfect day for me would be; me, alone with my thoughts, and music playing in the background. |
deife: Trust me, the op speaks well. He's just being clownish.Hmmm, ok. I hope that's true. |
OP, your English is atrocious. |
brownlolly: I've been looking for someone to hangout with too. Which are are you in?Kubwa. |
Tallesty1: It is good to enjoy life but please let not alcohol be involved. I am tired of seeing pot-bellied ladies in abuja.Potbellies are not attractive at all. No potbelly for me. |
santakris: You refused to state your age, hood, like and dislikes and loading.................Age: mid twenties My interests are varied; music, sports, books, etc. Basically, I love reading. I'm not looking for where to go clubbing...I consider clubbing as too stressful. |
Hey guys, it's a beautiful Thursday morning. Hope y'all are having a great day. So, I just recently became single(not dating anyone at the moment), and I'm looking to make new friends and of course meet potential new dates, lol. Problem is that, I'm not a very outgoing person. A-wee-bit introverted is what I'm. And that is really not helping my ministry....lolz. My life is pretty dull at the moment. I want to spice things up. I need suggestions on how to go about meeting new people; where to go to, and what to do. In case you are wondering, I'm female, midtwenties, living and working in Abuja. All suggestions are welcome. If you feel the need to insult me, for whatever reason, please be gentle. I bruise easily. Thank you! |
OP, ur moniker is my surname...lol. I know that's not relevant, just excited to see a very familiar name. |
dhammyg: DIFFERENT STROKES 4 DIFFERENT FOLKS.Hey, I like you. You seem smart and well grounded. You seem to know what you want in life: for a 17yr old, that's a rarity. Your idea about marriage, is right on the money. Don't let anyone tell you different. Dream big...your dreams are valid. Work hard and achieve those dreams. And when some day, you meet the one you love, and you get married, you will live your dreams. Marriage is not an end in itself, it's an experience. |
Like I said, am learning new things here: 1. apparently, slapping ur wife or gf- whether once or multiple times doesn't count as beating. It's not abuse. U're just being the MAN. 2. why waste time trying to earn respect and admiratn from ur wife thereby inspiring submission in her, when u can cow her to submission using brute force? 3. as d boss, u've to remind ur wife always dat u're d head of ur house therefore u're in charge. If she misbehaves, u know what to do. 4. don't ever try to be nice, loving or gentle to ur wife. That's a sign of weakness: it's not manly at all. 5. oh, and it's ok to call ur wife- d mother of ur kids, a b*tch. It's cool really. Phew! I think i've learnt enough to last me a life time. Personally, i find many of d comments here depressing. *OP, I'm not buying what u're selling. Because, every action has an equal and opposite reaction (Newton's 3rd Law). So even if ur wife is a she-devil as u wld have us believe, u're no saint either. My advice, own up to ur faults, take responsibility for ur f**k ups, and work on urself. Unless u remove d log in ur eyes how can u see properly to remove d speck in ur wife's eyes? Anyhoo, no one can tell u what to do abt ur marriage: good or bad, it's ur headache. So, calm down and set ur priorities straight. |
New things I've learnt today abt marriage, based on the OP and some comments on here, 1. when 2 consenting adults hv s*x without protectn and sum1 ends up pregnant, d girl was trying 2 trap d guy into marriage all along. 2. for some men, when it comes 2 family, wives don't count: it's jst their parents, children and siblings. 3. for those men magnanimous enuf 2 think of their wives as family, said wives r d least important members of d family, and ofcourse replaceable. 4. ur mother must always come b4 ur wife- always strive 2 make mummy happy even at wifey's xpense: never mind abt ur wife. she doesn't count anyway. 5. it's ok for u and ur parents 2 decide where ur kids live and where they shld spend their holidays without informing d kids' mother b4 hand. Reason? Refer to 4. 6. a husband is d commander-in-chief of his wife: anything he says, goes. No arguments. Absolute obedience is required from Wifey at all times. 7. any wife dat 4gets her place and shows her humanity, is a witch. 8. if ur wife starts saying no to certain things u do, or starts having a mind of her own and stops being ur doormat, u've 2 show her who's d boss. 9. start by scolding and threatening her. if that doesn't wrk, corporal punishment is required: Slapping, kicking, flogging, punching and back-flipping are all viable options. Just make sure she gets d message. Beat her to submission. 10. when u're bored with 9, throw her out of ur house. Afterall, she's disposable. Happy married life, people! |
For me, cooking is not my favorite passtime. I'm not a food person anyway. Whenever my bf comes visiting I cook for him or we cook 2geda, depends on our mood. He cooks for me when I come visiting or we eat out. That's how it has always bn since uni days till now. No two relatnshps are thesame though, do whateva wrks for u. Don't over do things bcs u're hoping to impress somebody- it'll backfire. Ladies don't turn urselves to cook and cleaning lady for ur bfs hoping dat he'll marry u o...it doesn't always wrk- jst be urself. My swthrt wld be shocked if he saw me cleaning, washing and cooking orishirishi in his house jst for him: he'll probably think am possessed or something. There's something sexy and attractive abt a guy who can clean up after himself and tk care of his own stomach. Guys if ur gf cooks all manner of food for u regularly, it's a privilege not a right; don't abuse it. |


