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zed7:
Where you wan see married women here? You should have gone to family section. What you have here are teens and frustrated old ladies.

As for the question, it depends. If you're still hot and sexy, some men will still hit on you, even if you wear your wedding band.

However, as you age and look more like a mum, you'll soon start getting zero attention except for some men who are naturally dogs and will sleep with anything in skirt.

Stop contradicting yourself, a man who sleeps with older married women and one who sleep with younger married women is same shiit! Its either you categorise them all as dogs or men.

pryme:
Lol, thats the first time am hearing this word.

Well, manizers are everywhere.
They don't really give a f%$k about money, they are just thrilled being and making out with men.

You see that TIWA ,na bloody manizer!Weda you rich or poor , IF tiwa like you, she go 4ck you, and move to another she fancies in a twinkle of an eye

Fahvvy:
1. I've not paid any attention to you to be able to infer this and I don't think I implied this in my previous write up ...

2. A woman who sleeps around loses value, but it's the reverse for a man ... If indeed you sleep around in the name of "date for nacks", then there's little more that need be said ...

3. You're very correct ma ...
However in the context of relationship, the difference isn't really that much ...

For instance...
If I lined up a 100 women and I asked them to choose between a rich tall man and a poor short man, I think it's clear what every woman will go for ...

Same thing here...
If I lined up a 100men and I bring a lady who "date for nacks" and a virgin lady, all things being equal...

I ASSURE YOU that the chances of even 1 man choosing the lady who sleeps around date for nacks will be far less than 0.0001%...

We are indeed wired differently, but our fundamental needs are (dare I say) the same ...

Same as chances for women to choose a poor man over a rich man.

People make their choices, and sincerely, I noticed contrary to what you men claim you prefer, you actually marry high end beautiful prostitutes.

Make a trip to venue receptions on high brow areas, and see them dance with beautiful coded sophisticated runs girls

Fahvvy:
A man wanting you just for nacks doesn't make you special ma, rather it shows how very little he sees you - his plaything at best... Something he needs ONLY when he's Hot and every responsible woman should feel insulted by that ...

What if I want him for nacks?

Or do you think I fall into category of lovey dovey woman. Sometimes I date for nacks and nothing else. People are wired differently please.

Dracula05:
I tried loading card to 710 ussd code bit all to know avail.

Same thing.

searchng4love:
Ask nnamdi Kanu the outcome of such scallywag behaviour

You mean the nnamdi kanu thats well fed by the DSS? way better protein than you can afford?

ObosiUkwalla:
Niggar, you and ur dead father can't do nada. If you try shit, u go collect a million folds. U wey ordinary Fulani chase enter Benin republic . Idiot feeling funky

They are very bitter, I understand.
Yorubas in lagos and by extension Ogun state are in for it!

They keep screaming unto of their lungs even on here

" massive plots in ibeju lekki" 8 units available blah blah blah!

After we buy am finish ,them do Owambe, then begin cry.

searchng4love:
Then we destroy you

With your petty salary
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If igbos decides to buy guns for themselves, even a toddler go see gun carry.

See as yoruba people dey bleat for here.

Same idiots calling igbo shops 2 by 2 and traffic hawkers

Now their eyes don open.

Very envious people!
You see that your Lagos, you will never have complete right to it,NEVER!

Thanks.
Silly people

They didn't bother to send messages.

Am I the only person experiencing this?
I have not been able to make any transactions on my mobile USSD BANKING ON ACCESS BANK.

Who else is experiencing this?

Its as bad as not even able to recharge my phones or pay for domestic subscriptions.

Chilotem:
I hope he succeeds and works well to put naysayers to shame


Nigerians are truly suffering in this hard times.. this is so heartbreaking.. may God touch the heart of a good samaritan to help you dear

You and Grace127 are same person.
Qhy do you keep changing monikers to praise amd support yourself?

I will expose you well next time.

Omo, e be like say we no need bribes again o.
Even if we are hungry, we will reject their foods for they are the ones that made us Hungry in the first place.

FalseProphet1:
Stop trying to feel special, only useless, irresponsible and chronic womanizers run after married women, and all they're after is your vagina. Once they've had it to their fill, they'll move on to the next married woman.

If you have such men flocking around you, it's not something you should be proud of. Infact I'll suggest spiritual cleansing cos you definitely have a spiritual problem.

This I have seen.

Hehehe
Me sef be Prophetess,no be today I begin knack bell for people head.you dey learn!
Na small pikin dey worry you. Many of you still dey reason like head boys for school...Do make you welcome to real l life.

Wetin man wey dey follow woman dey find before?,No be to 4ck? What is the essense of puzzy and vagina ? No be to knack?!

A man running after a woman, married woman no be today e start and its not ending anytime soon.And hom go still knack because many married women dey game as e be so.

As womaniser dey, Manizers dey too.

Thats life.
In other words, na so the life be.

2buffagain:
A focus on extremes is actually a form of fakeness. Simply be yourself and the person for you will gel with you.

Don't trap a sanctimonious guy if you know you actually suck exhaust fumes from cigarettes on the stay

There's no such thing as trap,except you feel majority of you are foolish!

Thats why I detest sanctimonious girls who feels they can marry good men because they can say the rosary 10 times a day!
And yes! 90% of my female friends wraps igbo before they got married, many who lives abroad still light cigarette.

Guess what? One is about to get married and move to US with her husband.


SHE STILL SMOKES!

Before I got married,I have a habit,my husband complained about it. Simply told him to go 4ck himself if he can't deal! I personally took it upon myself to stop for health reasons, not because I married him.

Owologbo:
This is not true.
What do one needs a woman without a good character for?
Money is not everything.

Why do you guys always believe that when a woman is rich, she automatically doesn't have good character?

Your leeches, do they have good character?

If they do why do you all keep complaining about broke girls with entitlement? Or is that a good character.

Look, majority of Nigerian men CAN NOT and WILL NOT stand a successful woman especially one who is way richer..

I have seen it play so many times with humble friends whose husband feels emasculated.I know one one whose husband asked her " Are you planning to be richer than me?" All because she wanted to open another branch of her business.


What nonsense!

FalseProphet1:
Why didn't they marry you?

If we are practising polyandry, I for marry like 3 men.
Alas! I married one.
Naija guys fine well well.

Yes we do!
Almost all the time.

And yes! Many of the men are very well to do.They don't give a -4ck even if our husband is rich as well.



You have your answer.

Fahvvy:
Exactly my point ...

It's clear that you have ABSOLUTELY no idea on how to keep a man glued to you long term, thus it will pay you better to stay quiet, listen and learn ....

Hey Doug! I'm so married!

The easiest thing to catch is a husband, trust me.
Na mumu dey find am difficult to catch naija guys wey full everywhere like mosquitoes.


Between naija guys and sand I don't know which is easy to get.

Fahvvy:
That's the thing with women ...

Most of y'all don't know nada about what it means to keep a man, but yet y'all just can't shut up and allow the men to talk ...

The question was addressed to men, any wise woman would listen and not but.t in ...

But no...
Look above me and see things yourself ...

If those females who but.ted in were saying something sensible, it would be understandable, but they just be spilling crap ...

No wonder why you can't keep a man in your life long term ...

@OP...
I believe your questions have been answered, but if you need more insights, please feel free to mention me...

Hello!
Many questions addressed to women on here get overtaken by your silly gender in their majority MOST of the time.

Little wonder, NL is over ridden with more males than females. Always bullying them to run off this forum.

But there are few, like me who are too old on here to take shittr from several scums here, I take them to the cleaners outright!

Many of you guys open stupid threads just to spite females here, and when I have the time, I say it as it is, as long as it concerns women as well.

Na women dey take una serious for here.

frozen70:
You are absolutely right

Women are making money nowadays and they are being recognized by their efforts and contributions in the family and are appreciated by men who value such women

Of course!
The ones who are making money through sleeping around too are also cashing out, some are cashng out big.

After all, many foolish guys on here have mothers who are broke yet they spend on slay queens to ease their unending Hard-ons.

Fahvvy:
And where are those men now? ...

They are still alive and kicking.

frozen70:
Men do get scared of independent women

Though just few of them are bold enough to be close to such women

Being an independent woman makes you a strong woman

But some men may fear that she may not be submissive

I think what the men should be looking out for in a woman, should be some one who will be supportive and caring

Sister, abeg make money and leave what naija men thinks.While at it earn to make even more when you're married, because na women wey get money get mouth o for marriage.

Its just few naija men that doesn't fear rich girls. Yes! Its fear and many are dealing with low self worth with women like that.Contrary to what they spill here, majority of them prefer leeches to a highly intelligent well paid independent woman.

Winterhaven:
Calm down before you pop a nerve over someone you give no shiit about. If you can checkmate your ego, I'm sure you'll find a guy before this year runs out.

Unfortunately, many of you still dance on Saturdays with egoistic broke women.

Nazgul:
Possible reasons...

1. Waywardness.

2. Egoistic.

3. Inability to submit to a man.

4. Too busy to waste her time on a man.

5. Authoritative.

6. Never admits to her fault and is always right.

7. Over exposure. Which can make prospective guys feel insecure.

8. Looks down on men. Most especially if she's a top earner.

9. Bossy

Many broke girls still have all these you highlighted. So?

StrongAlphMale:
Learn to Shut up in an important thread like this. Check the comments here to see the perfect answers to the question the op asked. Lots of guys here have given the answer already and not this rubbish you wrote.

Learn to shut up if you don't have anything worthy to say. Opinion differs based on people's experience.
Next time you wish to quote me, use your brain, its not lodged in your skull for decoration.

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Majority of Nigerian men actually don't like 'sanctimonious ' ladies, that's just the truth.

I have had better men when I was wild than when I pretend to be 'sanctimonious '.

Most Nigeria men likes successful ladies only when they are not richer than them.

Its all good and they tolerate your nasty character when you are working a 50k job.

Start earning way beyond them and they begin not to tolerate you again.

Tinubu is not only a murderer, but also a ritualist.

CodeTemplar:
lol . . . the power companies will run under soon

I have been caught once!
I got smarter...

Another thing...
"Military Zone KEEP OFF" dey gate.