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babyosisi:
when there's someone who does not understand that there is a difference between a wife and a child,need I say more?

Spare me. I am asking you again, how do you explain what you are doing to your child when the child witnesses you stealing from his/her fathers wallet? Do you tell the child what you are doing is right or wrong?

Its great that in your relationship stealing doesn't affect your trust issues. And why don't you explain why you need to wait to be asked wheather you took money before you own up to your theft?

I'm sure your husband makes jokes to his friends about not leaving too much money in his wallet because of "lunching wife"

Don't you earn your own money?

Each to their own.

Toshman most feminists start off as young single women.  You need to get it out of your head that a feminist is some bitter divorcee!

And stop your ranting you sound like a chauvinistic pig.  Those human rights are why feminism is here today!  Its just that there is clear need to see real feminists and to see Feminist Nazis!

Hey TOH!  

Sharetroll are you the same person you have just spoken so much sense.

Thats a lie Seun. All children are different. But tell me unless you plan to home school them and give up your job it will be impossible to spend enough time with them as you have put it. Even if they have a good grounding at home they can still pick up bad habits. And if lecturing doesnt work. A short hard slap across the arse will!

Seun please just because someone is educated doesn't mean they shouldn't be able to cook!  I blame him if he wanted an educated wife would could cook he should of married one!  Shes has obobviouslyas never had any reason to cook so where he thought she would get these skills from I don't know.

babyosisi:
If my husband takes money from my purse,it's no stealing.
I have no problems with it.
C'mon Ndipe we are talking a couple of bucks here and there its not like your taking his pin number and wiping out his bank account.
As long as the woman doesn't deny it when asked,there is nothing wrong with it.

If a woman has to "steal" from her husband on a regular basis and worst still denies it,it's a different issue,such a man may consider giving her allowances,he may be too stingy and giving her no choice but to watch out for his wallet (or Ghana must go bag) .

Is this what you will teach your children? "Its only a couple of bucks"

Stealing is stealing its so laughable that people are trying to justify it.  And can I ask why you need to be asked before you confess your theft?  Why is it sooooooooo hard to have common decent manners and ask before you stick your grubby fingers into someones wallet? *rolls eyes*  I'm sure a lot of our past presido's and governors had the same mentality "its only a couple of MILLION Naira"

Rubbish and nonesense!

Children rule their parents nowadays. No one likes to be smacked. I hated being smacked but I can now see it was needed. We were always smacked after being given warnings. I think it should be a last resort and children should understand why they were smacked.

Nowadays I wish I could get a smack instead of the horrendous lectures my mum gives!

I will smack my kids if needed.

Ofcourse @donzman any excuse for a party!

Donzman:
We mark childbirth. . .We do not do naming ceremonies.

What does Olutope mean?

You had me worried I was about to ask maybe you are not African.