Jenifa_:

It means they are not as assimilated to the european/american culture.
even the guys are not very assimilated although they are more assimilated than the women.

dating for nigerian women is generally not as much about sex and companionship as it is for the men. and so d  women's criteria is much more higher. cultural compatibility is higher on the women's list than the men's.

women are the keepers of culture for a reason.
but of course that culture will be weak if the men tend to be absent
and it will not even exist at all if the women are absent.

one thing I notice though is that religion/church is usually the nucleus of the nigerian community abroad.
this makes sense and is the reason why muslim men are least likely to marry foreigners ex somali, hausa, arabs.
same with born again Nigerian men (although they are rare lol). the religion keeps them grounded in their culture.


one way you can tell if a nigerian woman is assimilated to the foreign culture is if most of her friends are oyinbo. then she will be fine with dating an oyinbo. in fact, you will most likely see her dating an oyinbo. since that will be the easier route to take.
but on the contrary, most nigerian girls prefer the company of their fellow nigerians.  and therefore they will also prefer the company of a nigerian boyfriend or husband.

it's mostly cultural preference/ lack of assimilation into the foreign culture.

you have diarrhea of the mouth, i swear. what a shower of shhiitt!

Inked_Nerd:

I have no preference on nationality or ethnicity but I will say one thing though--it feels damn good to be in the arms of a black man I've been with guys of different nationalities and various ethnicities so for me I don't see it as a big deal. I'm generally open minded at the prospects of being with someone who isn't Nigerian/African or black.

you need to start charging. seriously, you sound like a real pro. a cheap one. shameless pig.

op even if its not true tell your parents you've already slept with him for all those 3 years. they know no decent igbo man or any kind of decent african man will marry another man's second-hand. as i see it nothing wrong with andre uweh or people giving her advice. its her parents fault for not stopping her for all those 3 years before it got too serious. most of you are hypocrites.

what years did it run?

dont marry her. shes a liar a drunk. are you stoopidd!

the link wont work because nairaland changes p.i.m.p to love-vender. but the story is still there on sahara reporters website.

Thorby:

tanks 4 your comments @ all.stil wnt more gud advice

It is an abomination! You should kill yourself.

Question: Why Cant African Relatives Mind Their Business?

Answer: because they see you heading down the wrong road. stop hanging with the wrong crowd. face your studies. use your common sense, miss "i need another hole in my body belly-button piercer."

lol. shes so embarrassed she removed her st^pid post. id!ot.
poster come back here please.  there's a new trend among american 18 year old "women". they're piercing their brain.  i'll drive you to the tattoo parlor.  no problem. 

very ignorant child.  read this nonsense from our valedictorian. (thank you for quoting her, David and Jenny)

Girls are called whores if they wear a mini skirt or a bikini.

An ashawo is a woman that steals other mens' wives and sleeps with other men for attention or for any other reason besides being forced to, NOT a woman who dresses however she likes.

You'll go far in life with that attitude!

You're giving us the finger in your siggie. Sorry, you can't be contemptuous of the people and expect our favor. Show your sincerity, fool!

But I like the part about no shoes and carrying your schoolbooks on your head. Love it!

I don't hate Jarus. Well, not quite. But this is the best title ever! Is Jarus in tears right now?

190:


LOL, 

ROTFL at 35yrs
You think you're thick Ohh my days     maybe you've forgotten that I can also easily wrap the folds of your clit around your head and strangle you to death ( You seem to have forgotten that menopause is what you should be concerned about here than nothing else) why would you swap pics all over NL just cos u want 2 be appreciated.

If i were u i would try getting a Job 1st before looking for a responsible man to manage you , I cant stand you why cant you  get it in your thick igbotic cartilage skull,  one day you gonna [i]r[/i]ape a wall gecko in your kitchen cos you are weak, single and Frustrated, your close friends have all confirmed how useless you are ( I don't have to call names ) all you do is sit your lame backside in your compound all day and feed your 11 compound Goats with cassava leaves,I wish I stay in your neighborhood I will be flogging you and your family 12 strokes every morning for not giving you the basic training

Killing you would be so pleasing to me

1. I will make you suffer for 3 hours.  
2. I will kill you and that will take 45 minutes.


look at how itz goin to be.
1. I'll abduct you into my inner cacus.
2. I will give you lime water to drink.
3. I'll tear your  clothes and make you unclothed.  
4. after using an armoured cable to flog the hell and blood out of you, I will throw you into a bath tub laden with moist salt so that your blood can fully absorb the salt making your system dehydrated, by then you'll be feeling thirsty, I'll give you another moist salt to swallow.  
5. by now there will be difference between you and earthworm,   I'll use a surgical knife to peel your skin softly on reaching your nails, I i'll plug it off like when I'll your teeth with pliers. on reaching your kitty I'll widen it by pushing in timber wood into it and loading it with salt also. by now u'll be begging me to die but you don't have to die cos I've already embalmed you after disembowling you and ploughing out your heart and showing you.

Atreides:

3-Rokiatu. I reckon we'd kill ourselves over Hrithik but we have stuff in common.

You mean you'd kill yourselves (suicide) or kill each other (murder)?

Was she taking care of children of Nigerian/Africans? These things happen with Americans as well sha, not only immigrants.

That is, lots of misguided parents who want to economise on the cost of childcare but spend $300 on their hair; caregivers who are just so clueless and careless.