lol. stupid arse.

tech support

gambling is not a good thing. but if u get desperate, better to be careful how much money u spend on it, if u cant help yourself. not everyone will be lucky like this guy. also i wonder how much he lost before he won half a million pounds.


Premier League - Gambler scoops £585k from late winner
http://uk.eurosport.yahoo.com/21112011/58/premier-league-gambler-scoops-585k-late-winner.html

hehehehehe. people in glass houses indeed.

ifyalways:

Please people this family needs help,cash,kind and most especially prayers.
I have never seen this kind of wickedness before,Good God.

I wish the so-called UK guy that got them "an apartment" reads this,I hope Linda Ikeji reads this,Mr Ayodeji of PM news sees this and every other blogger out there,God the heart of man is extremely wicked.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-790860.128.html#msg9433585

so they expect a man who was born and raised in lagos to pack up and go live in a place he doesnt know. why not ship him to libya then? afterall "beggars cant be choosers."

this poor family are worse off now than before. wicked people pretending to be good samaritans indeed.

this will not end well.

you're very ignorant about your culture. the pictures you've been posting arent that traditional and truly do a disservice to your people and heritage. you're simply a vacuous person obsessed by glamour and outward appearances. you're spending your time highlighting "beautiful" gaudy and tasteless things as as opposed to true tradition and custom. all africans have them.

maki:

I am so proud of my kalabari-ijaw culture, d pipo that are hating because it's European influenced, yes it is u can go hang yourself, that's why our names are bob-Manuel, jack, Briggs, people green, whyte, yellow,green,blue jack, black duke, countless, and we love it that way, and for your info so many other tribes are getting influenced by the ijaw cultural attire now, don't lie,

yes i wish my name was jack briggs. i am jealous of your slave names. thats it genius. you figured us out. lol.

as soon as muslim same-sex can marry, aloyemeka will become a muslim and marry either mukina or jarus to thank them for allowing him/her to take over the forum. lol. excellent work.

OP are you insane? you want a dishonest lying cheating venal woman to be the mother of your children?!

move on. you are very young. you'll be fine. she is damaged goods. if you pursue her, it'll be your ruin. mark my words.'

since you're so confused, just bury yourself in your studies or work for now. when you come up for air, you'd have gotten over it and ready to try again.

theres something terribly wrong with all these. makes my skin crawl.

all of it is way too european. i know ijos were fishermen.  the pics you're posting and attempting to pass of as traditional makes it look like they walked around unclad until the europeans came. other than the coral beads, everything else is freaky. the bowler hat, the colorful faggy hats, the black and gold robe in your 2nd post - alls gotta go! the walking sticks too.

whoever invented these deranged monkey smilies should be shot.

Jarus:

I have received three 10k donationas, so I have 30k here.

hope you returned chaircover's 'indian gift' to her before she shit herself. lol.

chei!  look at the pregnant women carrying a child on her back and a load on her head standing in the hot sun! i pity her neck.  

uplawal:

Why should our women be subjected to this kind of hard job

because the men dont know their roles anymore.  their main job now is getting drunk and watching dirty movies. you'll find the future wifebeaters in romance section fighting and insulting our nigerian women, their own sisters and mothers. sissy boys like 190, lefulefu, Reality, and co. god will get them the kind of deceitful and lazy wives they deserve.    god will give us all what we deserve in this world. amen.

Fhemmmy:

You mean there is no one that works with a Bank that could open an account for the purpose of this where people can just pay the money into it?

Besides, when all these is done and the money is ready, who would go and give the money to the Man/Family?

What will be said to the man?

What is the yardstick in place to be sure that the man will now not go and marry another woman or start carry woman all over the place - they said, you only know a real man when he has money in his hands.

After the tenure of rent expired, what will make this man not to go back under the bridge cos if he is lazy, he will expect more hand out . . . .

[size=14pt]Please note that i am just asking all these .cos i wanna know. This will not change anything from my commitment, I AM IN, just lemme know when and how the money to be paid.[/size]

then keep ur goddamn money and shut the fvck up!

they're in a home now. just leave them be.

hasnt this family been thru enough. 

bootylicious is this you  

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-664067.128.html#msg8296380

stagger:

I do not really like the way she has handled the petroleum ministry but I have to say:

SHE IS DAMN PRETTY!

She needs to get rid of that headgear she puts on.

What's wrong with her "headgear" ignorant negro?

Best thread ever! lol

moHot:

yea thanks but the mark is giving me headache , i can't flaunt my leg with it

LWKMD

Mrs, Chima:

Ho was derived from the phrase, "Ho, Ho, Ho, Merry Christmas".  How can a dumb arse African know the difference?  Smart Africans know there is no such thing as "African American". Exactly. 

Keep following me around like a lost dog. 


Tosin

Tell your friend, he is an international hoe. 

hahahaha. crazy akata ho. i wasnt following you. i came in to reply tosin. i was just trying to pay you a compliment, lunatic!

it is "hoe", huh? so you're illiterate in two languages. lol. i haven't your time. carry on embarrassing your fellow african americans. the smart ones avoid your likes, but an african desperate for pali will hook up with the dregs of american society.

Mrs, Chima:

[size=33pt]Your friend is a hoe.  Simple. [/size]

Let keep it real people.  It is a shame people are still BUYING SEX.

hahahahaha. chima, you're not so bad afterall. yup, his friend is a HO! "Hoe" is something you till the soil with. lol. how can an african american not know the difference. u married an african and u already forgot your ebonics. shame.

Tosinville, a man is not supposed to take money from and be "kept" by a woman. of course, if the women are charging him for sex, they're hos too.

Damysa:

I am doomed, please  help!!!! I have reached a cross road don’t know what to do cos am losing my mind. My marriage is a living hell and everything have turned upside down. My husband has become so distant, though we live in the house we are so far apart,
There is total breakdown of communication between us and he doesn’t ever see anything good about me. Even when I try to please him he said it’s pretense,

He cheats on me big time; I see love text messages from different women on his phone over 10 ladies at a time, infact chasing women has become a hobby  to him, he insults me, slave me,  He locked me at home from attending a friend's child dedication last sunday all my plea fell on deaf ears. I have tried to have discussions severally with him but doesnt even wanna hear me out., I try as much as possible to show understanding in every thing but he just over look. He spends more time outside than at home, I practically beg him to spend time with me and the baby. He run shift at work and our time contradicts but the little time we have to spend together he finds one or two excuses to leave home… sometimes he sneaks out of the house without telling me.

When I try to inquire why he has been treating me like poo he says am rude  and I don’t respect him and I ask in wot way cos I really want to live peacefully, he should table my wrongs so I can make amends…. all he says is I don’t  respect and trust him…… am really confused here. I told him that I  want to earn his trust once more and cant just trust him blindly cos I don’t know him anymore…. He is so different from the man I married and to say we dated for 4 yrs and got married barely two years ago, I ask myself was I so blind that I didn’t see the handwriting on the wall or wot

He is so jealous of my little success……he wants me to always crawl up to beg him for every thing. I work I really don’t depend on him, infact I pay my school fees otherwise I would have long drop out. Rather than us working together he competes with me. Mid last year I told him I wanted to open a super market and he said ok, I tried carrying him along he never showed much interest, I drew an action plan and started executing one by one, he never 4 once ask about the progress made I even ask him to borrow me money he refused, now he see that the business is about  taking off,  to my amazement he has started searching for a shop to start his, I said lets do this together and expand later, he said he want to start his own. Since then he has been thwarting all my efforts to start. I have put in all my life and have borrowed from my office but he is just frustrating me.
He sees that I am very enterprising and he is threatened that I might be richer than him.
He  doesn’t display maturity in handling issues.

Nothing seems to be working in this union, I have to always struggled on my own for everything. I was crying one day and I ask wot his definition of marriage is. I tried to tell him my fears, that even though am married I feel so alone in my world, that I have a husband but I feel so single taking  decisions myself, he said  we will talk about that later but he never did.

I have a year old beautiful daughter, at the slightest provocation he ask me to leave his house and say I can take the baby along and thank God she is a girl. Though he has not expressly stated it he sounds like he is not happy that I gave birth to a girl.

I wanted to leave last week but he started begging and promised to change but things has become even worse.

Please help cos am about calling it quit but want to be sure I am not making a mistake.

I wellcome constructive criticism and tips that could help.

Damysa:

@Jennykadry, sorry didnt come back early y'day, was so busy.

hmmmm!!!! my marriage have in 'cloud 10' lately and I thank God I came to Nairaland.
things are moving faster than I expected. our communication has greatly improved and his committments to the family has been awesome. he spends good time at home unlike b4, he's getting more and more responsible for us as 'his children'.
Tells me where and what he does, calls when he is delaying outside, provides for the home without me asking etc.
It's as though we are just knowing each other kinda.
I really didnt do much talk but actions and suddenly things started falling into place.  was  thinking of talking to him about his attitude to my surprise he changed all by himself.
Last saturday he said he has missed staying home for a long time and just fuelled the generator and stayed home althrough the day hmmmmm was very surprised,  kept asking myself if this is for real?

We now joins me in prayers like we used to do. He's just been very loving and u bet am having the best time ever.
Have suspended my biz 4 now, just watching and being a good wife, supporting every of his moves.

This man likes been treated/pampered like a baby sha. I hope for better days

To all who contributed I say thank u.

To all whose advices hve helped me, I appreciate u. I wanted to refrain from mentioning names but can't just forget people like ANALYTICAL(wish I knew u in person), ogamadam, ninapha, chaircover, apocalypse, SAlady, Jennykadry, Grpcaptain, outstrip, beejaei, sistawoman, Nikkygal and so many others I cant remember now, thank u for saving my marriage, May also meet u at the point of your needs. AMEN

influentia:

PLEASE MY STORY IS LONG JUST TAKE PAIN TO READ IT

I am burning inside right now, I want to set my husband ablaze and watch him burn to ashes before my very eyes but my conscience wont just allow me. Only last night  I discovered that my husband is a serial r.a.p.i.st, for now I don’t know what to do to him.

We have had several people lived with us but they all left one after the other without any cogent reason. First it was my younger sister of about 20yrs who left us, enquired why, she just said she could just cope and she is no longer happy being in the house. Next was the house help we got, she left same way and abandoned our baby with our neighbours. I got a new one afterwards and she been saying she wants to leave  barely a month after she came and have been misbehaving seriously, though she is very respectful but she never take corrections, if u admonishes her about little things she will do worst. Yester night I got so very angry with her for the time that I raised my voice at her, questioning her upbringing and manners. Then she said “I am not who you think I am, am not dirty nor wayward, am only doing these things to hurt you deliberately cos of what I have been going through in your house” I couldn’t place a finger to what she was saying cos I treated her well, she dishes her food most times and I don’t disturb her with much work so wot could she be talking about??

When I probed further she told me wouldn’t talk about it and that she had written a parting letter and was going to drop it and leave it after taking baby to school but because I have been very nice to her and the way I spoke with her in the morning before I went to work she will tarry a little while I look for another person. She handed me 3 pages of written full scarp sheets I couldn’t believe wot I saw. She wrote how my husband despoiled her just the second day in  our house, she cried and shouted but there was no body to rescue her kai, and still persisted after then, when she refused my husband hated her with passion, I noticed the hatred too because he was always complaining about her, I thought it was cos of the girl’s sluggish attitude but to me that wasn’t enough for his bullies I was just quiet since she said she wasn’t staying again. I was dazed when she told me all these and couldn’t just hold myself but I apologized to her  and was going to pretend to my husband that I hadn’t heard anything.

I later heard that my younger sister confided in someone that she cos she couldn’t bear my husband advances and harassments anymore, same complain with the other house girl. And once u refuse him he displays total hatred towards them and start treating them like shirt. My husband used to like my sister a lot all of a sudden he wouldn’t just hear her name again, it was that bad.

The worst of all now is that someone have been violating my babygirl of 1yr 4mths+. She stays in the crèche  while I work. It’s so obvious that I see hairs around her private and she sticks her hands inside once in a while. The baby is so intelligent that she does everything that is been done to her. She pours water on herself and tries to bath herself, tries to wash her mouth, eat etc and now she is sticking her hand inside her private, it means someone have been doing that to her also + the redness around the p.area.
Her crèche is an open place, only matured women works there and there are other children there. I have been telling my friends that I was going to confront them, they said it cant be possible that it’s only in my imagination. Now I believe it’s my husband’s handwork.

In the middle of these thought he drove in and entered into the house, I just greeted him and he started laughing and getting romantic with me I was so red in anger and I told him they despoiled baby again today and started raining curses, he asked who took the baby to school, I said the house help, he started blaming me for not taking care of her I was so angry I told him how I might sure he is not the one despoiling her. He rose up to meet me, I gave him a hot bite and smashed his head, he bit me too and neighbours came in but we couldn’t say wot happened.

For now I don’t know wot to do other than killing him right now. Please my people I count on your advice

Damysa:

Hi my good people, How una dey Long time

I have been very far from reach, have been on vacation, just got back to work 2day
Yes I am alive and doing very great and the little one is bubbling too.

@tsmith and all, thanks for showing concern and wanting to know how we’ve been fairing.
Actually to be very candid  my husband never molest our daughter, like I said I only accused him in the heat of the crisis we had. Though he has proved beyond doubt that that he didn’t do it still I am being very careful cos that doesn’t mean the child wasn’t tempered with as TSMITH said. I also met my younger sister during my vacation and she said my husband never slept with her nor harassed her sexually. Then I asked her why she left my house angrily kinda, she said since she had gotten admission into university she needed time to sort out some things b4 resuming in school, that she knew  she wont have that time in my house so she decided to start acting up and eventually left. I inquired if there was anyway my hubby may have behaved to suggest that he was up to something with her, she said NO. In all the tempo is so calm now.


@Rhea, I could help but laugh . . . . . . . . .mennmm u are badddd. . . . u sabi am no bi small

@seyibrown, yes no househelps for now not even a house boy. I will manage. Baby is older now so the stress is less for me. Have gotten some gadgets to make things lighter for me.

Thank u guys

Drama Queen!

sexylogan:

for me;
Best Couple: Mrs,  Chima and Mr. Cork MzDarkskin+190
Worst Couple: Jennifa and Sagamite

Blood_Shed:

Over 18 and still a virgin?

In 2011 there are hardly girls under 15 years old who are still virgins.

Sad times.

That cuz you're a child-molester.

claremont:

In my personal observation, the ladies who go around touting their virginity as if it's a weapon, are the most immoral of all ladies. I would stay the hell away from a Nigerian lady who claims to be a virgin, they are the worst of the worst!

you are without a doubt in my mind a psychopath. stay away from girls and women. go gayy. you'll be happier and women will be safer.

i'm not reading all that nonsense! learn to break your posts into smaller paragraphs.

stop sleeping with him, he won't come back again.

op, its all in your head. let him come to america, then you'll get to know him better.

are you seeing someone else? sounds like you're hiding something. do you have other baby daddies.

you are being VERY SELF-DESTRUCTIVE. a man is willing to marry you while your own men aren't, and you're acting crazy. SMH.

fergie321:

@Lailaiwala - You have been rude to difference people in this forum if you know you are not up to the standard of people in this forum [/b]why don't go somewhere else. Please stop being rude to people you are taking the fun out of this exercise. If you know you [b]don't have more subtle way [/b]of putting words across just [b]read what people says and contribute noting. Everyone here have right to put there thoughts and ideas to other people[b] so long it does to go gutter way[/b],  you seem to be going that way, please stop.

learn to mind your own business please, sir/madame.   

no one addressed you. 

I highlighted your poor grammar and spelling so you can rethink your opening comment about your high standard.  sorry i had to go there.   

Mrs, Chima:

Awww.  Admins banned dum dum huh?      Look at yourself in the mirror and see why Africans have enough issues and problems.  Deal with it_{not my problem.}

Inkie! Keep stomping that decaying cockroach.

lol. you don't know your place. listen, you GRUEL! you are TOLERATED NOT WANTED on this site. you, being a jobless unwanted wife of a smart igbo man who wanted a green card, you POST A LOT which keeps the money rolling in for Seun.

your brain is really full of mush to think a true nigerian will be banned for a wandering unwanted lowlife akata.

i didnt respond because i dont live on nairaland or the internet. unlike you and the round-heeled akata-nigerian friend inked-slut.

you know what, i dont ever converse with trash like you dirtbags. its too bad the internet has made it unavoidable that decent people have to be in the company of rejects like you. i havent got your time.

but please keep posting 24/7.

Mrs, Chima:


There are 8 women to 1 man in this world, do the math.

brilliant akata mathematics! ingenious akata population statistics!! so wherever you go, you see 8 times as many women at men. in your child's school, there are 8 times as many girls as there are boys?

listen, we have enough problems with stupid nigerians and africans on this forum, and slutty ones spreading it around like inked-nerd, we don't need your stupid akata uneducated brain screwing things up even more for us. just go wherever akatas talk crap. okay. thanks.

namfav dude, dont waste your time with that promiscuous pig.

afam4eva:

If you've not notices, this is nairaland.com and it's for all Nigerians. So, i have the right to contribute to any topic i deem fit. Why not create a forum(fasholaatitinubuforum.com) where you and your like can display unfathomable level of human worshipping.

you all should desist from tribalism. it's why SOME lybians worked with americans, french and nato to kill a great african, ghadafi.

eko ile should stop spreading hatred of igbos on nairaland while at the same time acting like a spokesman for fashola. fashola is no tribalist.

grow the hell up!

good job nayah. but you will have to give up on educating our people. you will lose. they dont want their eyes opened.

hope you have reinforcement because the dunces will arrive shortly to show their monkey behaviour.

white is right is their motto.

al-qaeda:

personally i think this is the last time the west and the so-called un will have a chance to invade or topple any govt. china and russia will always veto them if military force is not removed from the equation.

dream on.

afam4eva:

Even if for devil's sake Ghadaffi is as evil as being touted by America and the rest of the gullible world. What right does America have to invade another country. [/b]This is sick and it's communicable.

they'll do it again and again. we don't know when it will end. when another great satan takes their place maybe.

Roland17:

[b]What was Ghadaffi's sin against NATO and the west, Libya is an independent sovereign nation, what have they gained? Ghadaffi was a dictator, but was a leader, something the west dread so much in Africa.

Follow the money oil. black gold!