And you think every promiscuous woman is a witch/demon ?
You need brain surgery.
I don't know whose more stupid... You that your life is upside down and over ( and you don't know it ) or the fools and goats that actually liked your comments.. in the land of the stupid... The cow is the king
I have fvcked some of the most decent and hardworking women.
These hoes have made women worthless in my eyes.... Truth is bitter Just have money,these bitches ain't shit
SMH
Do you see how stupid and useless you're? The useless life you're living you just made it all the more useless by sleeping with witches and demons in form of women... Do you think good clean ladies or girls( who are physically and spiritually clean ) will allow you talk to them( not to talk of seeing their panties). When you're ready to commit suicide out of life's frustrations... Come and here for us to console you
Tayorshd2: Sorry for my speech oo but please just advise me abeg
I met this woman around February this year so we didn't really date at all and am in my late 30s and she is around 27y so after a month or two at most she got pregnant for me and I was so happy, immediately I plan of going for introduction but which I was instructed by my prist not to do such because the babys destiny don't want such for now that I should wait until we give birth ....
My problem now is.that the lady in the picture hardly listen to my instructions, like my ideas or always use hostile way to give responds to simple question ... Even sometimes if I give command or correct her for something she has done wrong in my house she will reply in an agreesive way as if how can I be telling her what to do or what not to do....
Kai to an extend that I do call her.mothers elder sister because am close to her because she lives with her that this is what and what I do notice about this girl and that I may leave her in d nearest future probably after birth ...
My problem again is that this same lady is also trying to tell me about wedding bla bla and that we don't really need introduction..
CAN I STILL MARRY SUCH A LADY ?
Like I see her as if not because of the pregnancy stuff we are not really on same page .. **crying*** and am somehow blaming myself at this junction for doing such with her....
PLEASE WHAT DO YOU THINK I CAN DO TO FREE MYSELF FROM THIS UNFORSEEN CIRCUMSTANCES
My brother if you love yourself just let her be... You're both not meant for each other.. I came here and told us YOUR OWN SIDE OF THE STORY.. if we ask her she will tell us things about you too.. no one is perfect. But if already your both seeing bad shades of characters or flaws then it's best you both kukuma leave each other.. else you'll regret it.. Remember God does not accept divorce unless based on Adultery or one of you dies... If none of this occurs then you carry your cross till Jesus comes... Leave her and let her husband locate her... And allow your wife locate you... There is a man for every woman and a woman for every man.. trust me I know what I'm talking about... I'm a living testimony... No go regret o
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co787: My wife and daughter traveled to her village in August for 3weeks and they were supposed to be back before the school resumption but she changed her mind saying her mother was seriously ill that she has to extend her stay which was fine by me and when they returned back I noticed that she has lost so much weight which I asked her why she said it was due to the stress of caring for her sick mother which is normal she is her only daughter and oldest of 4 her younger ones are boys so they cannot take care of their mother better than her and here is the reason I got her arrested during her stay in the village her 14 years old brother raped my daughter this is one of the reason she overstayed in the village she didn't tell me anything about my daughter being raped she and her mother had decided to give her treatment and cover the idiot that repeatedly raped her and when she came bck she didn't say anything to me but she confided in her prophetess which in her turn has started spreading news until it came to my ears that my own daughter was raped and her own mother has kept quiet and I can imagine if it was a member of my family that did the abominable acts the whole world would have heard it and she would have done everything in her power to put in prison but because it is her own brother she has decided to keep quiet and not knowing the world is small and not secret is hidden forever I took my daughter to the hospital the result has confirmed she was tampered i was devasted she has been the best wife to me and she has helped me and my sisters to reconciled in the past but what she has done to me it is unforgivable and I have arrested her and when I bail her I will divorce her and take custody of my daughter I don't know if I need advice or not but your input and suggestion are welcome I will be reading all your comments
In all what you said you didn't mention anything about your handling the brother.. that's where my interest lies... Don't tell me you left that guy untouched nor apprehended by the police..
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Justaskofficial: She knows everything even her family knows !they sent the text to her phone !
Yepa!!! Mogbe!!! I know a man who hasn't spoken to his ENTIRE FAMILY for close to 15 years now.. he block all their numbers.. his family are all in US and we'll to do... This is guy struggling but he no send them Not to talk of you helping your family ... Kai this life
Justaskofficial: There are times ! When you stay away from people like that , you might think staying away means they are gone .. u will just feel there is no reason to fight until when they over step!
I am waiting for when they will come and misbehave by then I will act accordingly
Better!!! Abeg no dull... This is the reason some guys dey X their family once they japa!! Change number etc.. and this is se reason some evil family members use jazz to control the guy back... Empty handed... Out of Shee wickedness and spite and the worse part they'll see absolutely nothing wrong in what they did
Justaskofficial: I will try to be very brief ,Had to create a new account for this because at this junction I am confused but trying to stay strong!
My family is my problem..I came from a family that they like problems, if they notice you are having peace they would make sure you are not settled ..they believe if a couple are focused and agreed !they believe the wife is controlling the husband (Spiritual fallacy).
.!for everything have done for them has been used against me !2015 i got a land through my parent and ended up been scammed and lost so many money!recovered about 100k from 280!
The 100k was sent by my parent to her account to keep.This money was spent by my own sister till date no permission ?no accountability for the money !
I gave money about 400k to my father to start up a business and till date no accountability,no business!money gone...
I squatted my younger sister when she and her husband had housing problem for a year but she ended up telling me I sold one of her husband’s laptop ..I had to confront them and they started apologizing .. There are more but I can’t be typing it all
Now i don’t have savings anymore and I am tired ,then decided to focus on my life and stop telling them things !immediately I started doing this ,they started giving me trouble saying my wife is controlling me,that she has lock me (this spiritual stuff)..someone who is innocent of all this have started been blamed for my decision of keeping them away!i actually was doing that to protect her because I know who they are ..
They sent my wife text to leave the house ,that they have reported her to her family and if she refuse they would come !
How do I handle this situation because I am pissed already !and they keep pushing me away the more ,it’s not easy to relocate ,I stay a bit far away from them .I have been living alone since 2015,I was actually chased out by my father..there is lot to say
Have also called and made this clear to them that this is my decision but they insisted that she is using jazz for me !
Why are they petty? Why are they not organized?
I am so angry but can’t say too much because they are getting out of hands
Please how do I stop them from constituting nuisance ?
No insults please
I can't believe what I read at times here from individuals who call themselves MEN 1. Your papa throw you out when you were younger... Your mama no talk nor fight tooth and nail on your behalf.. 2. You got scammed by your own family 3. Your useless sister accused you of stealing a laptop while she was squatting with you.. 4. Not to mention the other numerous extra wahala that I'm not even interested in reading.. Now they're adding your wife to the mix and you come here for advice.. If I were your wife's younger or elder brother I will beat sense Into you and warn you that if anything happens to my sister, I'll break your head since you're not man enough to handle your shit...
skentelelady: God bless you. This case needs strict steps. Please dont let church intervene in this matter ooo That woman cannpreted and do worse later
Which church... I will look my pastor straight in the eyes and tell him its too late for negotiations... I can't trust my wife to treat that girl nicely any longer... Am taking my kid(s) she should carry her own.. when she needs money for those ones she should let me know... When Dem grow make them come find me, and if they're stupid enough to believe whatever lies and deceit their plants in their heads against me, then that's their problem[b]!!!!!! [/b]
I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old. We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.
Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands. I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day. I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.
I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child. She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.
She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth. But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.
It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.
Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.
Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.
I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.
Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married. Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses. I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.
I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?
Gooooddd!!!!!.. When I was reading this story, I was getting very mad!!!. Waiting to see your decision at the very end..if to say you talk kpem!!! Contrary to what I would have done... Infact you no go like wetin I for tell you.. My brother listen... You made a promise to a DYING WIFE infront of God and man... It was recorded in heaven.. now a woman, a human being created by God just like you wants you to miss heaven all because she wants you to Bend to her wants... What you said is the BEST AND ONLY decision... As far as this matter is concerned... If it was me, even if she had given birth to 5 kids and was maltreating that single one... I go PACK comot that house with only that girl and leave the house for her... Walai!!!... She go know say craze pass mental... And I will NEVER come back to that house, no matter what till that girl don safely marry. Cos if u come back after much begging from family members, your useless wife will codedly continue the maltreatment. I hope you're already looking for a place for your wife and the other kids... No gree o... She must go... Imagine her having the audacity to go tell the poor girl... Just imagine!!! Kai... You even come dey beg am.. if I was your friend I go go your house and BLAST THE HELL out of that stupid woman... And I hope you treated the fuckup of your foolish aunty... That is an animal that you need to stay very far away from.. That wife of yours can kill you... Carry that girl and run or you send your wife packing... If na me marriage don end be that... I no go gree o.. lailai!!! Please update us
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nokia1000: I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections. She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her. She is not serious in anything that can generate money. I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
The poster below you has said it all... Anyway, there is nothing you or anyone can do about it.. divorce is NOT AN OPTION as long as she doesn't go against the God give marriage rules and regulations.. all you can do now is to pray for her to change... Don't go to hell fire because of this... Boil hot water and pour on your hand.. that pain in hell is a 100 times more than hot water... Don't allow desperation and stupidity to overrule your sense of reason.. God no go follow you look am from your angle o
pstemma1990: Thanks sir, I appreciate... But is there any need of posting his phone number here?
There's no need as we don't know him.. just forget about him... He'll meet his Waterloo in this life someday, one way or the other.. karma works, I can CONFIDENTLY tell you that
pstemma1990: Good evening everyone, how are we all doing?, I've been a member of this forum for sometime now..
I'll just go straight to the point..
6 weeks ago a neighbor of mine, I've known him for like 1 year now, he usually supply charcoal, but for some period he stopped.. When I asked him, he said he invested part of his capital in another business, and lost everything..
So he was looking for new capital to start afresh... I wasn't having much on me, so I spoke to a friend of mine about it, he agreed to loan me the money, because he doesn't know this charcoal guy, but the loan comes with interest..
Me and this my neighbor spoke at length, we agreed that we'll be balancing account every week, brothers and sisters, from that day that I sent money to this guy, he disappeared, I didn't set my eyes on him again..
I sent him plenty messages on whatsaap, he later replied that there was no network where he was, that I should expect my balance the following day..
He went off again for like 4 days (u can't call him and get him, but he usually drop messages on whatsaap and u won't reach him again)
After 4 days, he messaged me again that I should not be offended, that his phone got damaged where he was buying the charcoal, so it took him some days to fix it... And he then promised that I'll hear from him the following day...
His phone went off again, I got angry, went on Facebook and posted that he's a scammer, and was on the run with my money, not up to 20 minutes, someone chatted me up, that I should pls delete the post, that he knows the guy very well, that he's going to find out what went wrong...
I deleted the post, the following day the guy finally called me thst he was attacked, that he was still at the hospital, that I should give him a week, I gave him, finally he messaged me that he'll be coming back on Friday last week, and on Saturday he told me that he was back, that I should pls resend my account number, I did, from that last week till now his number has been off..
I have also been calling the guy that called to plead on his behalf, he's number is ringing, but he's not picking, I sent messages, he's not replying, today makes it 5 weeks...
I have all the evidences, I gave him 200k cash, and transferred 200k to his company account, all together 400k, I've been paying the interest since then...
I have all our chats both on whatsaap and on Facebook... Even the receipt of the 200k that I sent, I also have his pictures and phone numbers..
Pls is there anything anyone can do for me, I'm dying slowly... (pls don't mind the long post and errors)
I'll be at the comment section to answer questions..
I'm sorry for your loss but the truth is you've been scammed... It's best you start looking for ways to pay back the owner of those funds... Just count your loss and move on.. don't even think about the police cos police na public market... The way Dem go take bill you.. you go fear.. just explain to the gentleman who owns the funds and agree with him how you'll pay back.. suffice to say no more Mr nice guy... Sorry bro
Family › Re: I Love Women,But...... by laluski(m): 6:41pm On Dec 15, 2022
) or the fools and goats that actually liked your comments.. in the land of the stupid... The cow is the king 
Just have money,these bitches ain't shit
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