Jaames98: Can you be subtle and civil while making your comment?
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You know sex before marriage is called fornication. Did you see me point gun to your head that you're sinning? No You're looking for who'll pet you and lie to you...sorry...that's not me...again, an alphabet is enough for the wise
Jaames98: I have this problem and it's really bothering me. No matter how beautiful, sexy and hot you are, once we have sex more than three different occasions, it's curtains for me. I get tired of the sex and don't look forward to seeing her around anymore. This problem have ruined many of my relationships. I'm currently with this girl I love so much, she's everything I want and more I want in a lady. I am presently having issues maintaining an erection anytime we are together. It wasn't like this the first 3 times we made love. There was a time she's got frustrated after she exhausted every technique in her book to wake my John Thomas up all to no avail, I headed to the nearest chemist to get Viagra.. I took two pills.. And still, the the D no gree stand o, the migraine I had overnight was out of this world. I think this is a psychological problem.. I'm sure my D will be rock solid without using anything if it's a new girl.
I'm in my early 30s and this is one of the reasons why I don't want to settle down. I don't want to sexually frustrate any lady I eventually marry. Have you ever had any thing like this in the past? How were you able to resolve this? Pls help a brother.
If I tell you this is a spiritual problem you'll and other here will laugh but if you venture treat this with kids gloves, you might end of even wanting to commit suicide.. seek spiritual help and herbs and save yourself agony in your life..an alphabet is enough for the wise
There are many options 1) Choose not to have kids 2)adoption 3) Test the embryo before putting them back in 4) during pregnancy, test for the genotype of the child, if it’s ss you know what you’ll do
Now tell me how they are digging her grave
My brother the lie is too grievous to be ignored or swept under the carpet. Can you imagine or comprehend this kind of deceit? Infact she should pack from that state and move 8 states away from that guy walai
AquaPetals: My sister dated this guy for 6 years. They planned on getting married December. Both did blood tests yesterday and her fiancé turned out to be AS. She is AS as well. She was shocked because the guy initially told her he was AA. In fact she only agreed to sleep with him for the first time because he promised her marriage and when she inquired then about his genotype, he lied about it. Now he says his genotype must have changed. My sister is devastated right now. I told her to go ahead with the marriage and plan for adoption.
How can you tell her to go on what he marriage, what kind of stupid answer is that...a guy is digging the grave of your sister and you're helping him to pack the sand...seems your brain is paining you, akamu
NairalandFAYOSE: pardon my blunders. I was aware she has a baby before we met but still continued the relationship because the baby is with the father. she told me it was a mistake and the guy's family doesn't support their relationship. so they went their different ways while the guy kept the baby.
when we started, I found out she's humble, hardworking and she's everything I ever wanted in a woman. so we got married 4 years ago and have a 3 year old son and 2 beautiful twins (just 3 months old).
now the problem started when she went to church and her ex brought her 7 years old daughter unannounced. that he's married now and can't continue taking Care of the girl. she called me from church and told me. immediately I told her not to bring a child thats not mine to me. she now took the baby to her mom and came home to meet me with my kids. she has been begging me since to allow the baby in our home because the mother gave her 3 days to come and take her baby from her.
nairalanders pls I need your advice on this. those it make sense that I take the baby while the father is out there enjoying his life.
You must be very stupid for this story you just narrated and if not for your kids would have placed a curse on you that may you remain poor for the rest of your miserable pathetic life..if your sister( that you love so so much) came with this story, how will you judge the guy.. 1. The girl is has all the qualities you need in a woman. 2. Is it the baby's fault that she's a child of circumstances... 3. If you died and another man wanted to treat your kids like this, how would you feel( looking at them from hell fire of course). 4. Marriage is for better for worse and accepting your spouse with all the baggage they come with, you perfect no...abi ya mama na queen Elizabeth. If Dem born you well no take that child as your own and see how devil go punish you before even God does, akamu
MaryAye: I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.
He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.
Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.
I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.
Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?
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startbiz2020: I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up.
I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason.
My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.
I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.
He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.
I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.
My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.
After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me.
I could now take care of myself and secure a future.
Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.
We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.
Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.
My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.
Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No”
My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.
He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.
His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”
What is your advice for this young mother of three?
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Wittyglam: is this right for a minor? why are you all neglecting the age. Is she supposed to be exposed to sex at that age?
My sister am not supporting her actions don't get me wrong...for her to want to go a hospital at that age for that kind of thing shows laxity carelessness or the part of the parents..but somehow, she's still being sensible. What if she gets pregnant and in the course of abortion, she dies.. which would you have preferred... Even of she decides to drop the parents strict rules with reckless abandon, and decides to start sneaking outside to have sex...nothing the parents can do my sister
My wife denies me of sex regularly and I have to beg for it. When she is in a good mood and I fund her account she would give me for that day and the rest days or weeks is begging for it. Mouth Action has been once since 2 years.
I am a multi millionaire by God's grace and on the way to be a billionaire very soon but chose to be faithful to my wife as I feel there is a spiritual Christian sacred bond with my wealth relating to my marriage been sacred without fornication--hence I would have happily satisfied my self with another woman as I can afford any woman in any currency.
I can't give details on this bond but the truth is I think some women have gone as far as to charm their husband's to make him loose everything financially if he cheats, I am certain of this in my own Marraige, please I won't give details on this further but will summarize that I know I have lost it all at one point because of this and when I remained faithful and prayed to God my wealth came back in multiples.
Please advice me on what to do as I am very starved and feel she knows the bond she set me up hence derives pleasure in starving me severely as I have now resulted to maturation.
Also note from my previous post the business I opened for my wife with over 30m I was shocked to visit the place after renewal of rent worth millions then decided to visit when she said she needed more money and realized the place was empty. I mean she either siphoned the money sold all the goods and has not given any explanation, I could have fainted but comforted my self that at least money is not my problem for now.
I believe you can talk to your pastor's wife about so she can call her and have a heart to heart talk with her..but didn't you notice this before getting married?
terrezo2002: I am a born again Christian. Baptised in the Holy ghost. I have a burden to pray for people. The spirit of intercession is upon me. So many things go wrong because there are no people standing in gap.
I will be praying most times between the hours of 1am-3am everyday for enough time. I will be fasting in some cases. I might also be praying along with other people on your behalf. I will also imploy you to pray along.
Incase you are here and you need God's intervention,you can send in your prayer requests and by the grace of God I will be praying for you and the God who answers prayers will answer you.
What is required of you? 1. Clean hands and a pure heart 2. Your faith