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Ikpeabujo:
kukuma kill me. But please remember it's never a crime to help people

HenryDion:
Right before I came into the real world, I was equipped with a vital tool that have seen me through to this day.

That is understanding the human nature.

Through years of reading, study and insane obsession to know why people act the way they do, and why I do too, I have come to a point where I believe I have unlocked it.

I can take a look at you, and determine if you'll be successful or not. If I have a little more data, I can even tell exactly how you'll die.

My friends have called me psychic numerous times, but the fact is that I use the data available to me to arrive at a possible outcome.

How I was able to acquire such a magnificent ability is nothing but books and years of study in human psychology.

This fascinating super power have helped me navigate the real world since my graduation. I have secured numerous jobs, without having to know anyone.

Without having to write a CV, and most times, without even having the right qualifications. All I have to do is learn about my target, the manager, and formulate an effective strategy.

When others are following the normal route of job board application, the 1% like us are stalking the manager of our dream job in the night. Learning what he or she likes doing, where he enjoys going, and the things that bring him both pain and joy.

This was how I secured a 3 months contract with a Sweden company, $10,000 monthly, and so many like that for the past few months as a copywriter.

My understanding of human nature and the drive to manipulate them into acting a certain way have made life so easy for me, especially in my career and personal relationships with people.

The reason many are poor isn't because they are not skillful, talented, or pretty. They just don't understand the human nature yet. They are still zombies, blind from the real world of money and power.

This is not something formal education teaches. They didn't event teach me how to floss, and I almost went through life not knowing what flossing is, and how important it is.

Though young, I have seen a lifetime of a 107 years old man. And I believe it's time I stop hoarding my knowledge and impact.

Not for money, but because I'm so damn bored and I need a challenge. Making people millionaires is not a bad challenge I guess.

This year, I want to make many people millionaires, by teaching them what I know, not everything, at least enough to elevate someone from poverTEA to financial freedom using their skills.

What if I offer to teach you how to become a millionaire this year 2022, what would you say?

shewenolu:
Good Afternoon Everyone,

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oluwaahmed:
Samsung Fridge - 70k
Scanfrost deep freezer- 80k

Double0h7:
Are her other qualities good enough to overlook this small imperfection? Because nobody is going to have it all. If we just keep ending relationships for every imperfection we see, then we'll be old and alone, or we'll finally become desperate, and settle for someone with all the imperfections combined!

If her temper doesn't lead to violence, or verbal abuse, then I'd say learn to ignore her tantrums, and wait for her to come to her senses... if she knows she has this issue and she dislikes it, then with age and life experience she'll overcome it herself. Also, if the relationship is young then there's a lot of insecurities and lack of trust, so her temper could just be a self defense mechanism. She might think you're cheating, or she might just fear losing you (fear and anger come from the same place).

I'm in an understanding mood today and just want to save a relationship, instead helping to end one

TotoGame:
At least PH have traffic lights ..... ibadan the capital village of oyo state have none

No street lights too....just their brown roof dilapidated huts littered everywhere

SanctifiedSista:
Power of a manhood
Capable of turning a woman head

funkmrflexx:
How much did you spend and from experience what advice can you give me?

SleekGist:
The 100-year-old ancient Odan tree that crushed four people dead on Monday due to heavy windstorm at Sabo area of Oyo in Oyo State has reportedly risen again.

It was gathered that the fallen tree rose back mysteriously on Tuesday, after all its branches had been hewn off.

SLEEKGIST had reported that at least four persons lost their lives after the tree suddenly fell and trapped them during a downpour at the Idi Odan, Sabo, in the Atiba Local Government Area of Oyo State.

According to Vanguard, a driver, Saheed Balogun, who witnessed the incident, said that he was loading his vehicle at the park not far from the tree, when there was a loud vibration from the tree and it went back to its standing position.

“It was in my presence. I was loading my car and then the tree started shaking,....https://sleekgist.com/tree-of-death-oyo-tree-that-crushes-four-to-death-rises-after-being-cut-down/

Iamagoodgirll:
So I came across this post in a group

NL guys have you experienced this?, also share your view.

I NEED ADVAISE FROM A MALE READERS:

And no, my story is not made up. It’s for real, actually very real. I am a top executive of a very successful conglomerate my father founded. I resumed the job early this year when I returned from the U.K after completing my MBA.
As a result of my job, I usually find myself frequenting places I ordinarily wouldn’t want to- Ikoyi club, society weddings, conferences, etc. I’m a geek for the most part, and something of a recluse. I would rather stay in my house at the end of day and watch TV. When I became Deputy CEO of the company, I realized that I had to start hanging out at these places to build a social circle, mostly for business reasons. I am not a very sociable person, but with the help of my more outgoing cousins, I have been able to build a pretty decent network of Lagos ‘big boys’ between January when I returned and now.

During a conference in Lagos this year, I was approached by a young lady banker. She was working in the Marketing department at one of these banks, She’s pretty young- about 7 years my junior. I’m 28; this lady is about 21. You know how young these graduates are these days.

Anyway, she walked up to me and started persuading me to consider opening up a bank account with her bank and told me all the benefits of the account, etc. She looked so innocent and desperate, and practically begged me for an opportunity to see me again so that she could convince me. I ended up giving her my complimentary card. I usually don’t just give out my card like that, but I did.
Three days later, when I was hanging out with my new-found friends and my cousins at a bar at one of the Hotels on the Island during the early evening, this girl called me and reminded me who she was. She said she really needed me to open an account, and that she was eager to convince me on why I needed to open an account. My friends noticed I was talking to a girl on the phone. You know how guys are; they teased me and asked me to just play around with her and invite her for drinks.
I asked her to come over to the Hotel, and surprisingly, she said she would be there in 20 minutes. The branch she worked in is on the Island, so she apparently took a Bike and came to meet us. This was about 6pm. The girl came, and my friends all saw her. They smiled and talked among themselves in hush tones, and I talked briefly with her for like 5 minutes and told her I would make a decision on banking with her or not. She was desperate from what I could see, and she was eager to get my account.

When she left, my friends all laughed mischievously and told me in plain terms that I had to sleep with the girl. They went on talking about how all these bank marketers sleep with different men before getting deposits, and insisted that I must not be any different. Now, I’m not a virgin; I’ve had my own fair share of sex in the past, but I’ve never been one to take advantage of a girl. I knew she was desperate as she had a target to meet up to, or something of the sort. But when you’re a guy hanging out with guys, it’s pretty difficult to be the odd one out. All my friends made me promise that I’d sleep with the girl. I promised; I didn’t want to look like some geek. And I’m really trying to feel among these guys.

To cut a long story short, two days later, when I was in my office, this girl called me and tried persuading me to bank with her. As she was talking to me on phone, I asked her jokingly: “What are you willing to do in order for me to open an account with you?”

She hesitated and then she told me: “Anything you want sir.”

Gbam! That was my cue. I asked her to meet me at one hotel for drinks later that evening. I asked my PA to book a room for me at the Hotel. She came to meet me. We had drinks, we chatted. She told me that her bosses had ordered her to deliver N10million to the bank that month, and that so far, she hadn’t gotten anything. Her job was on the line, and she had only just started working there 3 weeks before. I asked her to follow me to the room. She did. I slept with her.

Surprisingly, it turns out she was doing it for the first time. She was actually a Virgin. The bed sheet was stained with her blood and all that stuff, and I was just amazed. I thought being a marketer and all, that she would have been sampled many times. But no, she was a virgin. When we finished, she was shy of looking at me in the eye. We didn’t talk much. I gave her money for a Taxi, and gave her the name of the Finance director of the subsidiary I am in charge of. I asked her to meet him the following day to open up a corporate account. I instructed the guy to open up an account worth a few hundreds of millions- probably enough to meet her target for the next 2 years if there is such a thing in commercial banking circles. I don’t know how these banks work.

Anyway, she called me and thanked me profusely for saving her job. My friends now know I have slept with her, and I have solidified my place among them as a ‘bad’ guy.

The issue is this: I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her. It’s been like six weeks now. I haven’t called her since then, even though she keeps sending me text messages asking after my wellbeing and thanking me for banking with her. She deals directly with my Finance guy so we don’t talk money ever. But I think about her every day. I think I actually have feelings for her, and the idea that I was her first makes me feel like she should belong to me. I’ve never been a Lady’s first. I’m actually going crazy with thoughts about this girl.

Am I crazy? Should I call her up and ask her out? How would that feel? How would she react? Also, considering that my friends all see her as the bank ‘LovePeddler’ would it be a good idea to still ask her out? How will my friends see me? I’m not looking for sex from her; I’m looking for something real, something intimate. I want something that’d last- probably forever.

I’ve never felt this way about any other lady in a really really long time. What should I do?