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nawah:
My Mum once asked me if I would tell her if I caught my dad cheating and I said no. She felt really bad. So when I did catch him Decided to tell her.
To cut a long story short - at the end of the day. My dad gave me a real trashing and warned me to keep my mouth shut. My dad told my mom I lied and she believed it. She even accused me of wanting to spoil the marriage.
No if I could turn back the hands of time - No never. It is their life and their problem.
Whether your dad or mum is cheating does not affect the love the have for the kids. It is only bad if the time for the kids falls short.

Your dad is right, dont tell ur mom about it cos it will do more harm than good. What u will do is loose your respect for ur dad. Face him bluntly and find out why he is doing it to ur mom, tell him to stop or else u will take neccesarily action. be constructive like a lawyer but dont just tell ur mom. Afterall if ur dad does not love ur mom, he probably wont be living with her. Its just that men are sexual objects and should be handled with care. Good luck

blacknbold:
i have heard all your advice but you guys , please see it form my point of view this guy has always been there for me , my boyfriend doesnt treat me right (most times and i kind of find comfort in this guys arms) i would have let my boyfriend go but this guy advices me not to just let go of my boyfriend like that because he(married man) knows how much i love my b/friend. even when i was down to the last this guy stood by me , my b/friend was not there for me especially when things were wrong.

i know what i'm doing aint right but its so hard considering all what this man has done in my life

Well in that situation, tell your boy friend that u need a break. Tell married man that u need a break. I know u will be missing something by doing this but ur well being is the best of what a guy will give to u. Provided u can pay ur rent, just stay away from the two and see if a new guy will come ur way

My dad never cheated on my mom. Its something to be proud of. And oh by the way for the curious ladies, if u want to know if ur man is cheating visit http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com/

and search for ur mans name.He is likley to be there

lets not be prejudice here becasue she is our own. She is not completley the best. Jade seems like it. BUt if Nnenna wins great! its something we need to be proud off. Infact for her to be in the top 6 is something to be proud of too!

Maxflame:
Erm alot of those stuff are inaccurate. Hard drives don't store info forever because will be a time it develops bad sectors and you loose some stored info. Windows operating system has flaws so does other OS's and if it can't do anything right how come you can't live without it? i can't be bothered to point out the rest.

good joke, well hard drive dont store things forever in a sense but it have ur system 32 which without it, ur computer will be in great danger

anambra state Nigeria, but live in hoboken NJ

I am running for nigerian presidency when i come back!!!

wena welcome on board

if i put myself in similar situation, no way

i don't know what to say, This is just above me, I must revenge on the girl.

eww women, i am out of here.it seems that only succeful men that get all this girls around them. Why all this competion even when u have lost him totally?

guys lie of their ages to get the woman no matter worth. The women do the same to appear presentable to the man, who likes to be called the ugly or rejected? no one

Nnenna might be the next to go

family is koo

i will not tell my mom, but from that day, my dad will loose my respect for him. Same goes vise versa if my mom cheats, Oh by the wat my parents are far from this at their current ages of over 50++++

poor chinani

No body will kill you to voice our your opinion provided it is not prejudism and not in violation of laws in your territory. If you're afriad to voice out your opinion, well I am just the opossite.
No one will kill you for saying your mind ok? Remeber u r in the United states where freedom of speach is widely respected. Do you need a body guard?

chinani:
@ larger_20

LARGER_20, Stormfront is a WHITE NATIONALIST COMMUNITY! It's a "front" for white supremacist! It even says "White Pride World Wide" by a symbol that looks eerily like a swastika! Oh, god, it's kind of scary to have gone to that site. Did you know this when you gave me the link? Regardless, I can not go by their word. I don't trust bigoted people to relate or record history in a non prejudicial way. Please send me another link if available. (I want to know more about East Africa.)

But my original confusion was, how does what you just typed contradict anything that TX_longhorn said. Why the disagreement? Or maybe there isn't one. . .

haha you are funny ok read this informal posting, maybe that should help, I have nothing against white men, I don't see why they should not be proud of the great things they are doing, What i am saying is that we africans should learn. Chinese people did it. jealousy will not help us. Something good is good and should be encouraged.

Regarding the ethiopians,, Check below for details

http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/rnr/143965567.html

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

chinani:
Larger_20, I wasn't sure what you were trying to say here. What issue do you take w/ TX_longhorn's response. I don't think ya'll are saying different things, so I'm confused.

Please read http://www.stormfront.org/whitehistory/hwr45.htm

Ethiopians are smart asses, tough like iron and resisted the white men during slavery in africa. Unlike nigeria and other african countries that sold their peopel to slavery. Ethiopia said no. They defeated the italians in the 17th centyury. They were the first country to get their freedom before south africa and other countries that joined later. After the creation of their independed state in the 16th century, the whites started visiting ethiopia and mixed up with them. The effect of this mixture is not too much  because of the dominant black population hyowever if the whites were allowed to be there for a longer time, the diffrence will be very clear like in south africa

this girl is sick, I spoke to her on yahoo

Banke. here is my elderly advice

- Leave the man alone and never come back anytime soon!
- Dont abort the baby
- You can be a single mom for a while
- You can monitor him if u do like during your single motherhood for a sincerely change of hearth.

If he truelly love u and come back to beg at that time, then he is truelly your man, go for him,

Neverthless, u can get yourself another man while being a single mom becasue we all need sexual pressure. If the current man propossed for marriage go for it and bang the guy that had sex with your sister,

The man does not worth given a complete second chance

It happens mosty to circular african women, most whites dont do it, haba

I have dated a ghana chick from the ashanti, she claimed that their girls are the preetiest in ghana which i didnt doubt hwoever she can get pissed like hell so i ended the relationship. Most ghana girls get angry fas

blacknbold:
.i feel guilty but its hard to let go of this guy i need serious help i am so into him,at the same time i have my boyfriend too .
pleasseeeeeeeee help what should i really want to get out of this mess

What are u saying here? u have a man? ur boy friend who is not man enough for u or what? I think somehing is wrong with u. U need deliverance

Txlonghorn:
Dude speak for youself, so sad to see some of my Nigerian brothers brain washed by the western media.

Ethiopians i think are mixuture of white and africans due to the history of that country so he is write back saying that she looks cassusian somehow. Ever head that ethiopia is corrupt or have u heard ethiopia is facing serious problems other african countires are facing? Their economony is growing like the ghana economy. Neverthless this notion has nothing to do with being mixture of white and blacks. Ethiopians are smart as hell, i have two in my school, they r just too smart and beating the whites hands down and they r not into making too much noise like loud mouth nigerians

I shall be there! I will bring 4 guest

This skidoc boy again

Sus:
Hi Men i am really seriously looking for the man of my life.
Only serious replies please!
I am a loving woman full of humor and have two lovely kids.
Please do not respond if you are under 40, I AM NOT A SUGARMOM!!!
I want a man I can settle down and have kids with.
Above all a god fearing man.
You don´t have to be a millioner but reasonably good looking!

Well, good luck with that, I personally think that nigerian men above 30 are mature minded to know what they want. Divorced nigerian men migh reply, Do you have a pic? Maybe i can introduce you to eligible bachelors, and by the way, u have come to the righ place

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