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Please stop reading just
King James bible okay.
Do passion bible and devotional bible to get better understanding.
"Bed undefiled" means; whatsoever style or position of sex you engaged in as partners, the bed can not be defile by that but only in adultery and fornication you'll defile your marriage because it's honorable being married.

Interesting15:
So I came across a post by a false teacher with a false online church, sponsored from the kingdom of hell to spread doctrines of demons and lead many astray.

The false teacher, twisting Holy Scriptures to suit his demonic agenda, said "the moment you are engaged, my advise is; sample the goods, taste the milk before you buy the cow. There is no scripture that says it is sinful for an engaged couple to have intercourse."

This is a lie! Please, ignore this false teacher and all his lies.

God created everything, and sex is not an exception. As the Manufacturer, only He can give guidelines on how these things can be engaged. And the Will of God is that all forms of sexual pleasures should be shared only between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved.

Marriage is from God. It is a sacred institution that is above sexual pleasures. When it comes to marriage, the Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4

"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." I Corinthians 6:18‭-‬20

The Lord already warned that in the last days, false teachers shall arise to lead people astray.

"Now the Spirit expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons." I Timothy 4:1 NKJV

Give yourself to the Lord and don't allow anyone lead you into hell. If you are yet to establish a good relationship with the Lord, please do so right now by embracing Jesus as Lord and Saviour.

I tell you o!.
They have ruin our country and they want to use propaganda to come again

Curious345:
Only sick people speak about APC

This is part of the video..
Can Labour Party been converging at the front of APC office?.

Lol �.
So you want to ignore opposite building party office where the APC flag is.
Propaganda won't help Apc now

Wahala

Good one

The way our dollars is out too?.

GanDolla$ baba o!!

Don't be too quick to move on.
After all you guys have no quarrel, like you said.
You need to be clear on what is going on before you allow people to misled you.
The best thing i think you should do,is what you have conceived earlier (going to his sister to get clarification and also tell her how you feel and then wait for feed back).
And if you still not hearing from him via his sister's intervention, then you can tell his sister to inform him that you moving on already.
I know you love him so much to have kept yourself for him this far,and I think you wouldn't wanna be too hasty to rubbish that for some online advise or assumptions and hasty generalizations.
It's better you move on with clear mind knowing that you have exhaust every channel possible without regret if you guys meet again.

Cyntie55:
There is this guy, we dated for 2 years before he traveled abroad (Italy) 2019. Our relationship was going on well even when he traveled out, we were always calling each other on video calls everyday. I was so faithful to him.

Suddenly (last year March), he started avoiding me. He could go for months before he replies my calls or chats.
Atleast no matter how busy you are, you can always spare 1 minutes of your time with the person you claim you love.

Please note, he's always online, We do video calls mostly on WhatsApp and anytime I try to reach him on video call or send him a message.... it always ring and deliver but he won't pick or reply.

Here are my reasons why I'm so confused whether to move on with my life or not.

1) Although before he started avoiding my calls, he told me he was busy... that he was working on something (but he never disclosed the particular "thing" to me)

2) We were supposed to get married as planned last year August. But this is May 2022 and absolutely nothing is in progress about it.

3)I discussed with his friend about it and he told me he's in a relationships over there. (I don't know if to believe him or not, because he didn't show me proof)

Now, it been a year I'm enduring his character. I feel like I'm stuck alone in this relationship. Heaven knows I haven't offended him in any way. I wish he could open up to me and tell me what I was doing wrong so that I could adjust. OR he should just tell me he's in a relationship so that I could move on.

I plan visiting his elder sister this weekend and explain to her the issue on ground but on a second thought I think I'm too forward. I'm jst confused and I feel hurt.

Na investment

Eeeeh.
See ardent criminal calling others criminal.

Okay then.
They should continue in their sin.

Mooh247:
Live your future let them live their past

Everyone commits sin nobody be Saint

Make una come hear talk ooo!.
Anyway,Religious people always live in the past.

Mooh247:



And so

Na only Suleiman get blockus...

Who never fvck up hands in the air....

Free Sulieman Madam Jezebel


Prophet Solomon fvck pass anything yet God no use am against am



.

Many sycophant will never tell him such truth.

joe54:
Ur an addictive drug user. The money will definitely finish except you FOCUS.
GIVE URSELF BRAIN.

My country is turning into a mess, if not already a mess.

Why don't you ask her why before leaving?.

Wizzy13:
7th of this month is her birthday, so we went to a photo studio only for her to tell me that she's not gonna do that with me.
I felt bad and i left immediately,
guys pls what is the reason for her action

The bribery don start ni yen

My first thought immediately when I saw the news

Its over nah.
She would be sue and end up as just a girlfriend and not a wife of mine.

Work more for like a year,save enough money then resign and get a life.
And after marriage and having about two children, then you can go back if possible or go into a businesses that would afford you enough Time for family.

Scapula112:
Hello nairalanders, I'm an old user of this forum just wanna remain anonymous. Please my career is not making me be in a relationship with any lady, all the Ladies I've dated in the past all complain of one thing which is time.

I'm a second year neurosurgical resident here in new Jersey prior to my residency in this program, I was a medical officer whose job Is not more demanding , I had a girlfriend who's always complaining of me not being there for her tho I give her money and always visiting her if I'm on shift even though I got limited time to prepare for a medical board exam to get into residency (USMLE) those know about the exam knows how crazy it was, a three steps examination.

She broke up with me for a guy she always call her friend..the heart break almost cost me my step 2 CK, life goes on. Here am I in neurosurgery, my first day was like hell imagine being in the O.R for 16 hrs straight without seeing the sun because they brought multiple patients who sustained brain injury during a road accident, I nearly cried, to my chief of surgery ..An attending surgeon it's like nothing I almost regretted being there and not going to family medicine or internal medicine.

This has made me so awful that if see me you'll think I'm a mad man...is either I'm in the O.R or I'm sleeping no time for family, Cinema, vacation, the girl Ioved has left me all because of time. I make money i don't have time to spend, money is now useless to me because there is no time to look after myself ..in the next 1hr I'll be in the middle of a surgery. It's just crazy, is this how I'll spend the rest of my life? No woman? It's frustrating .

Last week i collapsed in the middle of a surgery because we just finished removing a tumor In the right part of the brain barely two hours, I was sleeping when I got an urgent call to report to the O.R ... I'm now regretting choosing this program. Can a lady love a guy whose everyday life is like this? I think not.

What do you think I can do please mature minds. I'll be 29 by June.

Fool.

The error was from the foundation sir.
You knack a sex mate till she got pregnant and be became a wife after that sharp trad.
And after that, you went to work outside of your territory (where your wife that you barely know lives).
That's very wrong sir.
Shey you forget say orkrika cloth go always be orkrika no matter how fine e bi?.
Meaning; you got her so cheap and you left her in the street for work hoping she would value herself that high,No you are wrong because cheapness is a mind thing.
Bros, thank God you are alive still alive , na this kind woman go marry in less than six months if you die go, talk more of say you come dey alive and she don start to cheat because you travel to work.
So sad.

premierlead:
She was mum's favourite girl in the neighbourhood, pretty and respectful. She will always kneel down while greeting her parents and elders outside even at 24 and already done with OND in one of the southwest polytechnic. Mum and her mother worked together in the same company while growing before they both married though her mum is a bit younger. After a long time which they have separated, they discovered that their hubbies built house in the same area, three streets to each other.

It all started when I was running a postgraduate program and was busy with research, thesis writing and a lot of practices for presentation and seminars indoor. Sometimes it took me three weeks to see the sky outside as I was always inside the house and our tenants didn't know someone is in when everyone left the house. I was just in my 30ls and my fiancee was no more serious as a result of what she always referred to as "academic stuborness" then.

Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

To cut the long story short, I travelled back home from where I was working unannounced last week and headed straight to her business place and what I saw really baffled me. I was in her shop for complete more than 10 minutes watching her displaying love with a guy who I later learnt was a bus driver that fish sellers always hire to carry their wares from the depot to their various selling points. She put her two hands around the guy and the guy placed one hand on top of her butts and the other at the back of her head. The old women were carousing and shouting, "ah, husband and wife, won't you give her feeding money" they were like that was not their first time and they have been doing like that since long ago, it was truly as if they are dating and banging each other. It took the noise of her son carried by one of the strangers (fish seller) for her to be released by this driver guy. She almost collapsed when she saw me inside her shop as she collected her baby from the stranger.

She did not come home straight that day as she first called mum if she was back. Though I haven't inform anybody since that day because I am still boiling inside of me till now and she has been reading it on me

I just need to share it to relieve me a bit

She's showing her the way already

Crazy government people..
Shey na house bi dis or poultry
Wicked people in power.

You have spoken well comrade.
He has already learn his mother's trade, which he could dive into at anytime he wise to should Nigeria happen to him.
So getting extra skill that would help him save some money without the headache of accommodation and feeding shouldn't be a bad idea.
Trust me, there's nothing as good as skills acquisition.
Get skilled bro.

oz4real83:
What your uncle is offering you, all because you are his blood, if it were to be a non relative, the person would have paid an agreement fee and brought other things just to learn from your uncle and he won't even be paid any salary when learning, but you are going to learn free of charge and he will also pay you. If your uncle is a man of integrity, then you are lucky, your accommodation and feeding will be free of charge, you will even be saving what your uncle will be paying you. For the aspect of the 35k job, you will have a lot of expenses that will swallow more than the 35k and will leave you in debts without saving anything.

Let them come and say this on twitter nah.
Den go collect

So now we should believe this rubbish story?.
What happen to carrying the baby from point A to B like a normal human and not a package?.

Praise tha Lord .

Big bros.
I appreciate you n your kinda personality and may God bless you.
Someone may have hurt your wife in one way or the other which make her to start having second thought about helping people.
So I suggest you sit her down as her loving husband and ask her what's going on with her.
Women reveal a lot when you engage them in conversation as their beloved.
I sense that you aren't really communicating with her the way you should be doing sir.

Bros me too need help oo
I just finish for fashion school and no go mind if you fit help with sewing machine.
I don't mind old or new.
Best regards.

ElonEmpire:
GoodMorning all ,

I will make this as short as possible.
Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,

I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can.
While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.

But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything.
She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.

What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war
We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.

I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.

But right now am seriously confused
it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.

I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .

What could be her reasons and
What should I do?

God bless you sir.

Dikaveli:
You must be drunk

Eboyin and killings nowadays.
Na wa o!!!

Just like Lagos Ibadan express way.
Cash cow has landed as usual