Politics › Re: Breaking: Governor Obaseki Joins PDP by lastmessenger: 7:07pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
Will he join PDP with fake certificate? I dont think so. |
Health › Re: 663 New COVID-19 Cases, 166 Discharged And 4 Deaths On June 9 - (2987 Tested) by lastmessenger: 5:32am On Jun 10, 2020 |
12+ infection? Not interested yet. Wake me up when we get to one billion infections and 9billion deaths. |
Health › Re: 5 Gombe Lawmakers Test Positive For COVID-19 by lastmessenger: 5:56pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
TheSeeker777: The Lion chose Sex over Food
The Zebra chose Porn over Life how do you know? Zebra may just be getting ready to attack the lion when he is engulfed in sensual pleasure. |
Romance › Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by lastmessenger: 7:20am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree: Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.
But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.
He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.
I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?
The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .
I'd like to know what you think I love quantum theory. |
Politics › Re: Allison Diezani Madueke At Dominican Republic Decked Up-photo by lastmessenger: 2:04pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
And IBB is still a free man? fighting corruption is a big charade in Nigeria. |
Health › Re: Covid-19 Is Under- Reported And Nigeria Cannot Contain The Virus by lastmessenger: 3:11pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
You were not tested and then you concluded you had covid19. OK o |
Celebrities › Re: Majek Fashek Dabbled Into Spiritism And It Affected Him Terribly – Amos McRoy by lastmessenger: 1:32pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
dangoteinlaw: I know a boy in this lagos here currently mad coz he was seeking too many jazz to blow his raggea music career and funny enough even his elder bro admitted it to me but everyone tinks his problems is drugs. U know the bad side of drugs whatever u do even if u get angry ppl will blame it on that drugs u are taking. Ppl tink its only yahoo plus that exist, every profession has their own plus ask ibo ppl doing business to know more but u see this music especially i can tell u for a fact all of them starting from 2face to davido who have seen fame, they are all guilty about of it even this fool narrating this story is guilty. The ones whoever own did not work will claim to not have tried it. That's the world we live in today. |
Celebrities › Re: Majek Fashek Dabbled Into Spiritism And It Affected Him Terribly – Amos McRoy by lastmessenger: 11:57am On Jun 06, 2020*. Modified: 1:33pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
humilitypays: Wizkid, Davido and that other boy shortlisted for Grammy should tread carefully  do you think they became stars just by making music?There is more to what your eyes can see. The pop music industry is under the control of Satan and whoever will make it will definitely go by the rules. |
Crime › Re: Herdsmen Invade Southern Kaduna, Kill Women, Children (Graphic Photos) by lastmessenger: 5:28pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
kabukabu50: Funny these same people will tell you that living in Nigeria is better than abroad.
Yes We work more and pay more taxes but atleast we don't have to deal with slaughtered women and children, literally babies killed in their sleep by people who have the same skin as you.
Nigerias tribalism is worse than any kind of racism anywhere on Earth. any idiot who tell you that living in Nigeria is better than living in America must be living in fools paradise. |
Politics › Re: It Is Time To Wake Up Southerners! by lastmessenger: 10:05pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
9japride: Commenting on these kind of topic is a waste of time. Even the oil producing states are not even complaining, which baffles me. Watch and see how this thought provoking topic will be turned to tribal bashing. Southerners we just let imposters to hide under southern states to cause division. There are many of such evil people here in nairaland and the greater South are still sleeping. They should let themselves be fooled and controlled by primitive monikers disguising as southerners. Arguing on aimless things such as Ipob, flat hand, Afonja, cone head etc. I hardly see northerners commenting on social media on this Buhari tenure, they were vocal during GEJ tenure but now they have lost their voice. The most painful thing is a section of the southern Nigeria is siding those region oppressing the greater South. Such a pitiable situation. I have a friend from the delta state and this guy is a die hard buhari supporter. Sometimes I forgive him probably because he grew up in Kaduna but sometimes I just can't fathom how a southerner can actually have the courage to support this government that has so relegated every southern state to the background. |
Politics › Re: Federal & State Taxation Of Igbo Businesses For National Loans Repayment Is Evil by lastmessenger: 8:26pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Just start by keeping your money and investment in igboland. We must learn from nnewi people. We must build our cities ourselves. |
Family › Re: Why Marry When You Know Your Libido Is Low???? by lastmessenger: 6:29pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
jaszplus12: Sincerely Do you define carnal as one who goes to his wife just after reading his Bible?? Enlighten me.... after reading Bible the next thing is to meditate on the world that you red. Of what use is reading the bible and then the next minutes you are on top your wife. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Holds A Bible, Visits Church In White House Vandalized By Protesters by lastmessenger: 1:29pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
YorubaKinging: Watch how the ignorant gullible so called Christians will rush to this thread
They are easily decieved
They think in thier mind that trump is sent to this Earth in this time to save us lol
Trump is a devil He's part of their evil plans Don't be easily distracted by his so called Christian Life lol
Trump , the greatest scammer of the lukewarm church trump is like Cyrus and he has come to do the will of the most high God even though he has his own personal shortcomings. |
Family › Re: Why Marry When You Know Your Libido Is Low???? by lastmessenger: 12:11pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
jaszplus12: In the Bible God made us male and female...that means He gave us authority to have sex!! I'mmediately I read my Bible...I can get down to business with my wife! you are Carnal |
Family › Re: Why Marry When You Know Your Libido Is Low???? by lastmessenger: 6:26am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Op must you fvck ? Why dont you carry your bible and read |
Politics › Re: Runaway Edo COVID-19 Patient, Amaka Okoro Resurfaces by lastmessenger: 4:37pm On May 31, 2020 |
We know that there are people who are positive, appear very healthy and manifest no symptoms but the risk is that they have the potential to transmit the virus to other people. But in this womans case she has been indoors and have not really had contact with other people and again her husband, children are all healthy yet she is termed positive. I believe another problem with this virus is the issue of false positive. The result are not reliable and the risk is that one could be negative but declared positive and on getting to isolation centre and joining the real positive people can now become infected with the virus. |
Travel › Re: Nigerians Returning From Bangkok To Pay N297,600 For Hotel, Isolation by lastmessenger: 8:42pm On May 15, 2020 |
is this not what the federal government should have done from the beginning? now their carelessness have led to the lose of innocent peoples lifes,loss of jobs and hardship to Nigerians.. |
Investment › Re: MBA Investors Forum by lastmessenger: 8:17pm On May 14, 2020 |
aremso: Last ROI for the family in the month of May just dropped now, may GOD pls continue to guide, keep and sustain MBA. May God continue to give them directions and wisdom to go about their trading activities during this turbulent time in the world kneels down raise hand and shout a thunderous RAMEN RAMEN and RAMEN |
Family › Re: I Was A Husband: My Experience by lastmessenger: 2:53pm On May 14, 2020 |
Vyolet: Everytime a woman leaves a poor man or reacts badly to him, the man always end up having a well paying job and the woman always want to come back... Op, you forgot to write the part where she is willing to come back and live with you in Lekki . I have this feeling that these is a made up story.its becoming a born for the Mods to just formulate stories like this and generate traffic. make una continuu |
Celebrities › Re: Emeka Ike Blasts Suzanne Emma, His Ex Wife (Video) by lastmessenger: 10:39am On May 13, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr Isoright No need to waste my data on that video. A pussy niggarrr will remain a pussy niggarrr till the end of time
This pussy asss niggarrr always crying for love in nollywood movies those days.. Same with nonso diobi, Ramsey Noah, Desmond Elliot and Mike ezuruonye. Bunch of pussy asss niggarrrs
Only Jim iyke was a real niggarrr and a hard niggarrr
The niggarrr below my comment must be a real niggarrr I owe him a parcel of weed. Message me niggarrr. Especially if you get opportunity to come Benin city. We are going to smoke all day send me pm niggarr. I have some real stuff to share with you. jah bless you till eternity |
Health › Re: Kano: 3 People Die Of Coronavirus Disease by lastmessenger: 12:09pm On May 02, 2020 |
sammychimex: Kano Kano this one no be election oh.hmmmmm
With the way Kano is going before the middle of May the would have overtaken Lagos. I saw a video of street fummigation in Kano with almost 100children chasing the fummigation vehicle shouting corona, I realized that this people dont understand what they are dealing with at all. no those children are from Niger republic according to Arrewa. |
Politics › Re: Plight Of 2017 Nigerian Army Recruit Still Serving In Borno by lastmessenger: 8:25am On May 01, 2020 |
sonofanarchy: Here is the only means our voices can be heard from a distance. Pls come to our aid 17NA NIGERIANS ��we are all dying slowly.. Pls my still existing course mates and all personnel's of the Nigerian army, and all our brothers in ARMS forward these humble request of the 17NA regular course until it gets to where necessary. God bless d NA, God bless Arm forces God bless 17NA Golf Moray.
lalasticlala resign and leave the army.60% of your course mate dead and you are still there? Doing what exactly? Do you think you can defeat the BH? Leave now that you are still alive. God bless you |
Education › Re: Obiano Directs Anambra Teachers To Resume On Monday by lastmessenger: 4:11pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Kazim88: This is the best decision so far from all Nigerian Governors...
Last last all state and country would eventually follow suit, it's inevitable. Work and live must go on and Corona would be hear till 2022 because even though by September the current vaccine is approved it will take months to a year to produce and administer 6 billion units.
Those shouting Shutdown are beclouded by fear. I'm with you bro. We have ways and safety guild lines to adhere to in order to protect ourselves and those around. Its simple,let's follow it and move on with our life and let the law enforcement agencies do their best and ensure there is strict compliance to the use of facemask and hand gloves. Life must move on even in the face of this Virus. |
Politics › Re: South East Vs North West (photos, Videos) by lastmessenger: 12:55pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Dick measuring thread. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Reopens For Business As No End In Sight To Coronavirus Pandemic by lastmessenger: 7:56am On Apr 30, 2020 |
edoairways: Na because u dey Nigeria na make u dey post dis. you can choose to hid in your hole for all you care. As for me we must go back to work while trying to protect ourselves from this Virus. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Reopens For Business As No End In Sight To Coronavirus Pandemic by lastmessenger: 7:48am On Apr 30, 2020 |
edoairways: So if you want to attend weddings, you must put on facemask and gloves? life must go on even in the face of this global pandemic. Do what you have to do to protect yourself and others. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Reopens For Business As No End In Sight To Coronavirus Pandemic by lastmessenger: 4:37pm On Apr 29, 2020*. Modified: 12:34pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Every man at this moment must behave in such a way to protect himself and others against this virus. Why can't everyone wear face mast and hand gloves and go back to work? For Gods sake use the police to enforce the measures. We cannot continue to sit at home for a virus that we do not know when it will end. Life must go on while we wait for the development of the vaccines. And I tell Nigeria government, try local solution, let's consult the traditional medical practioners and know what they have to say. |
Investment › Re: Suggestions Needed On Where To Invest N11million For 17months by lastmessenger: 7:24pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
IAMTHEHERO: Bro, be very careful with individuals asking you to commit your money to them... Some may even tell you that they have companies. Some may claim to be fund managers, that they manage a pool of investors. They are all lies. I fell a victim to one Endurance Egbara, his nairaland registered name is Mrlongtin31. He claimed his company owned a water factory in Calabar and also he is into real estate, that many nairalanders invested with him. That nobody here has ever accused him of fraud. Since 2011, he had been managing pools of investors in Nairaland, he said the roi would be 20% monthly, l committed 1M for a start as l typed this, today is making 1 year. This fraudster refused to pick my call(s). He refused to pay me either my capital or the agreed Roi even when he reduced it to 10%. This wicked soul once had the gut to ask me to commit 10M to him. Well, Endurance Egbara, l believed you might have changed your username, even tabled another proposal here. Hear me and hear me very well: Don’t ever think you have escaped, no one ever messed with me and got away with it, above all, it is my money. It will surely do what l command it to do. bros you get mind o to give a stranger one fucking million naira. |
Travel › Re: Lockdown: Uyo In Pictures by lastmessenger: 3:41pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Xucxex1997: Op upon say u go the best part of Oyo go take this pictures but brown roof still show for ur 2 pics ah no see any brown roof |
Politics › Re: Why Are Igbos Afraid Of PDP Presidential Nomination? by lastmessenger: 6:04pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
Forget 2023 and focus on how to come out of the pendamic ravaging Nigeria and the whole world. None of you arguing here will make the ministerial nominee of the man that will win the 2023 presidential candidate. Stop being foolish and develope yourself. Be useful to yourself and humanity. |
Business › Re: Anambra To Re-Open Markets Next Week (Photos) by lastmessenger: 5:51pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
Way to go. Protect yourself while protecting other people. Wear your facemask, wash habd regularly, use your hand sanitizers, and observe the highest form of personal hygiene. |
Health › Re: 5 Almajiris Test Positive For COVID-19 In Kaduna After Repatriation From Kano by lastmessenger: 4:48pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
The same way almajiri deliver political position in the north is the Sam way they are about to deliver covid19. Stupid people, nonsense people |