₦airaland Forum

Darteyyyy:
So who person go come marry na?,

No one person has all the good qualities in this world jhor.

marry someone who is teachable.

Pray for him and get him to go with you to see a marriage counsellor.

[quote author=Gamesmart post=30915370][/quote]what's wrong about those statements?

ask for clarifications instead of drawing your own conclusions.

Gamesmart:
Worst said so far.

how?

Love is a decision, not a feeling.
The most important factor which decides marital
success is getting it right from the beginning.
If you marry the right person, 50% of your success in life
is guaranteed. If you marry the wrong person, 50% of
your failure is already established.
If you marry in error, you will live in horror.
See this thread for 14 kinds of people you must never
marry. https://www.nairaland.com/2156447/14-kinds-
people-must-never
If you don't work on your marriage, you will walk out of
it.
Marriage is a lifelong school which is pleasurable if you
are dedicated,diligent and disciplined.
Marriage can be a bed of roses if you make it so.

Love is a decision, not a feeling.
The most important factor which decides marital
success is getting it right from the beginning.
If you marry the right person, 50% of your success in life
is guaranteed. If you marry the wrong person, 50% of
your failure is already established.
If you marry in error, you will live in horror.
See this thread for 14 kinds of people you must never
marry. https://www.nairaland.com/2156447/14-kinds-
people-must-never
If you don't work on your marriage, you will walk out of
it.
Marriage is a lifelong school which is pleasurable if you
are dedicated,diligent and disciplined.
Marriage can be a bed of roses if you make it so.

Love is a decision, not a feeling.
The most important factor which decides marital
success is getting it right from the beginning.
If you marry the right person, 50% of your success in life
is guaranteed. If you marry the wrong person, 50% of
your failure is already established.
If you marry in error, you will live in horror.
See this thread for 14 kinds of people you must never
marry. https://www.nairaland.com/2156447/14-kinds-
people-must-never
If you don't work on your marriage, you will walk out of
it.
Marriage is a lifelong school which is pleasurable if you
are dedicated,diligent and disciplined.
Marriage can be a bed of roses if you make it so.

Love is a decision, not a feeling.

The most important factor which decides marital success is getting it right from the beginning.

If you marry the right person, 50% of your success in life is guaranteed. If you marry the wrong person, 50% of your failure is already established.

If you marry in error, you will live in horror.

See this thread for 14 kinds of people you must never marry. https://www.nairaland.com/2156447/14-kinds-people-must-never

If you don't work on your marriage, you will walk out of it.

Marriage is a lifelong school which is pleasurable if you are dedicated,diligent and disciplined.

Marriage can be a bed of roses if you make it so.

benuejosh:
till death do us path. ones you are into marriage you are in for it. no turning back.

true

kent79:
U are right

thanks.

There are relationship red flags and many choose to disregard them. You can’t leave the choice of marriage to feelings, it’s a destiny decision. Know that you deserve the best.

1. Never marry someone who does not know God:-There is no good man/woman, the only good thing in any man/women is God. You can only find fulfillment in God.

2. Never marry someone without direction. Also never marry someone going to a direction opposite yours.

3. Never marry someone who is desperate: - If you close your eyes and marry in error you will open your eyes and live in error. A desperate person thinks will find fulfillment in the person he is with.

4. Don’t marry someone you don’t love: - Don’t marry someone you are not proud of. Never marry somebody out of pity or sympathy.

5. Never marry a person that does not love you: - When love is thick, faults are thin. When love is thin, faults are thick. To have a great marriage don’t just marry someone you can live with, marry someone you cannot live without.

6. Never marry mummy’s boy: - Mummy’s boy cannot take any independent decision. He cannot say no to the things he should say no to.

7. Don’t marry the domineering woman: - She is a he, not ready to bend to any person. When submission is absent, danger is ahead.

8. Don’t marry someone you don’t trust. Trust is the foundation of relationship.

9. Don’t marry an unserious believer such as: bro or sis fire brigade who has a doctor patient relationship with God. Bro or sis celebration that only come to church during festive periods. Etc.

10. Never marry someone who focuses on externals. Don’t marry someone without character. Character is what sustains a marriage.

11. Don’t marry an abuser (one who abuses verbally, emotionally or physically). Don’t marry an addict.

12. Don’t marry a raven. A raven is one who is not under authority.

13. Don’t marry a masquerade:-  A masquerade is someone you don’t know; a stranger. Courtship is mandatory. Don’t marry someone who your loved ones don’t like.

14. Don’t marry the married, don’t date the married, and don’t flirt with the married.  

Culled from a message from the youth alive singles conference, Winners Chapel, Effurun.

LouisVanGaal:
LateralMaths, what is wrong is wrong! President jonathan was trying to defend his government as been touted as corrupt..and that was were he flawed! And NOT that he was teaching us Use of English..

With you still coming up with this defence means that you didn't read the thread were some lawyers countered the president's opinion on corruption.

Corruption, as they defined it in legal terms means the use of public office to amass illegal wealth! And GEJ is trying to play down that fact..by calling it 'mere stealing'...which means that he doesn't regard stealing as been bad..

Everyone has at least one corrupt tendencies in him/her,and been negative, we tend to conceal it..and would be embarassed should anyone find out..why persons were disappointed with the presidents remark and constant defence of that statement is that..he lacked NO shame, for him to openly said such...

that definition is so wrong.

What is corruption?
What is stealing?
Do they have the same definition?

saying stealing is corruption and corruption is not stealing does not make sense, it's a contradiction.
That is why I said stealing is a class of corruption.

Zeezy99:
What is this one saying?

read through again.

Horus:
Nonsense!, stealing and corruption; both lead io Kirikiri

True but stealing not corruption.

san316:
You didn't make any sense. Nigeria is in Africa but Nigeria is not Africa? what about, all Nigerians are africans but not all Africans are Nigerians. ie, stealing is an act of corruption but not all acts of corruption i s stealing.

If all of corruption is not stealing,then stealing is not corruption. Think.

abes:
Okay, what you're asking is "is every corruption stealing? Assuming "corruption" is "virus" and "stealing" is "ebola"?

Anyway, a form of virus is ebola, a form of beans is akara, that is why ebola is virus and akara is beans.
A form of corruption is stealing, that is why stealing is corruption.

stealing is a class of corruption. every corruption is not stealing.

soe:
lol u just did

lol enjoy your dignification.

soe:
sharrap dia..mugun

I won't dignify you with any comment.

sammyj:
Foolish thought, Abeg make i got sleep!!!

shows the depth of your thinking

abes:
Ebola is not virus

is every virus ebola,is every corruption stealing?

abes:
Ebola is not virus

is every virus ebola?

ababat:
I don't quite agree with your line of reasoning. The question is not whether stealing is equal to corruption ( which you convincingly proved mathematically). It is whether stealing is corruption or not. Reading most of the comments on this topic, there seem to be a consensus that stealing is a subset of corruption. But whether this makes it corruption is where people differ. My own take on this matter is that if stealing is a subset of corruption, then stealing is corruption. For instance, a rabbit is subset or a family) of the animal kingdom, therefore a rabbit is an animal.

can you say every animal is a rabbit?

soe:
OP you are just as clueless as your Oga@dTOP.

For your information...the theory of sets and subsets does not apply to this matter in that way...

Lets look at it with simple common sense:
Another word for corruption is "VICE" or "BAD HABIT"

Stealing is a vice
Stealing is a bad habit
Stealing is a corrupt act
Stealing is corruption

Anyhow you want to put it...the fact remains the same

I am simply saying that stealing is a class and not all of corruption. Use your common sense na

ababat:
I don't quite agree with your line of reasoning. The question is not whether stealing is equal to corruption ( which you convincingly proved mathematically). It is whether stealing is corruption or not. Reading most of the comments on this topic, there seem to be a consensus that stealing is a subset of corruption. But whether this makes it corruption is where people differ. My own take on this matter is that if stealing is a subset of corruption, then stealing is corruption. For instance, a rabbit is subset or a family) of the animal kingdom, therefore a rabbit is an animal.

In mathematics if you say a is be, it means that you can prove that a =b.

Fash20:
No but Nigeria and africa are somehow related. when something happens in Nigeria I already know its in africa. Therefore Nigeria is lessthan or equal to africa .

you are partially right.Nigeria is less than but not equal to Africa. Nigeria is a proper subset of Africa.

ababat:
I don't quite agree with your line of reasoning. The question is not whether stealing is equal to corruption ( which you convincingly proved mathematically). It is whether stealing is corruption or not. Reading most of the comments on this topic, there seem to be a consensus that stealing is a subset of corruption. But whether this makes it corruption is where people differ. My own take on this matter is that if stealing is a subset of corruption, then stealing is corruption. For instance, a rabbit is subset or a family) of the animal kingdom, therefore a rabbit is an animal.

Nigeria is a country in Africa,can you say Nigeria is Africa?

tobechi20:
All corruption is stealing but not All stealin is corruption

can you prove it?

mikeansy:
good example of corruption

yeah. Buhari is a good example of corruption.

Assume corruption is a universal set.
The subsets of this universal set are stealing,tribal bias in official appointments,not doing what you are paid to do, not following due process etc.

A subset of a universal set is equal to that universal set if and only if every element in the universal set is also in that subset and have same magnitude.

Stealing is a financial crime. Stealing is not the same as tribal bias or not following due process, yet they all belong to the same universal set (corruption).

Stealing is a partition or a class of corruption.
Stealing is a subset of corruption.
Corruption is a superset of stealing.

Hence stealing is not corruption.


Note:
Stealing is in corruption,but stealing is not corruption.Nigeria is in Africa,but Nigeria is not Africa.

RIP DJ.

is this similar to Ephraim and Manasseh?