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JohnZak:
Piggybacking on what @cashmadam and others have said. You should have included a letter from her Nigerian ophthalmologist and another from an American ophthalmologist describing her condition his planned clinical management, admission length, and correspondence between the Nigerian and American surgeons etc. Another letter from the hospital with a cost estimate as well and Obviously proof that you can afford the care. Ophthalmic surgeries are very expensive even with insurance. VO was probably worried about these issues especially after three prior surgeries.

Might be best to abandon the medical care route and focus on tourism as a reason. However the current denial can even complicate this.

Thank you for your input

We added documents from both Nigerian and American hospitals ( maybe not well detailed to them).
And it’s my sister based in the US that’s funding the treatment, we also submitted her bank statement too.

Efetobore1980:
Hello Latti.


YOU.
I applied for B1/B2 non- immigrant visa in March 2025( she tried dropbox for renewal but was not successful) for my mom to visit my sister in the US who gave birth last year December for Omugwo and was scheduled for an interview in October 2025.

*** Mom's previous B2 visas were very probably abused , hence her inability to qualify for IW (interview waiver) in order to give the consulars the opportunity to ask her some personal questions. Its not all over, she might just be warned in this 3rd attempt to stick to her visa or travel itinerary.


YOU.
While waiting for her appointment date she underwent another surgery on her eyes ( this will be the 4th time). All surgeries done in Nigeria. We decided she seek another opinion leading us to apply for expedited (emergency) using medical reasons to get a closer date.

*** This is a true opportunity to turn the story from ordinary B2 tourism to Medical visit or check up but you did not take it from the foundation. You took it from the upper storey hence her expedite emergency request (under medical ) denial.

*** Keep all her Nigeria medical bills and operation histories. Let a Nigerian doctor recommend your mom for outside (america) surgery and find a U.S.
optometrist who is willing to treat mama.

****. Fill another ds-160 based on medical visit, mention the american doctor and you must have made some concrete contract with the doctor with printed evidences.

*** You will use the printed evidences and others to secure your mom's new emergency appointment request which i am certain would be granted if done with the guidelines.

NOTE: Teach your mom to be honest with the consular about her past U.S. visits, and indicate that this 3rd visit is absolutely for medical purpose & that because she doesn't want to lose her sight. If you are deligent with the whole application mama should have another better chance.. 👍

Thank you sir

Lekan2348:
From my experience, if you’re visiting on a visitors visa, your usually allowed to stay for 3 months max at a stretch so maybe she overstayed

Hmmm!
What do recommend sir?

Good evening house!

I applied for B1/B2 non- immigrant visa in March 2025( she tried dropbox for renewal but was not successful) for my mom to visit my sister in the US who gave birth last year December for Omugwo and was scheduled for an interview in October 2025.

While waiting for her appointment date she underwent another surgery on her eyes ( this will be the 4th time). All surgeries done in Nigeria. We decided she seek another opinion leading us to apply for expedited (emergency) using medical reasons to get a closer date.

Uploaded necessary documents and a closer date was scheduled for today 3/6/2025 which was unfortunately denied.

She has been to the US twice

The visa officer only asked her if she was in the US last year and a year before and the duration for her stay which was 2months and 5months respectively.

We want to reapply again
1) How do we show/prove strong ties back home
2) We are asked to not to repeat what we filled in the original ds-160 form when filling a new one. What do we fill now?
3) Can we still go through the medical route(b2) because she still needs medical attention and a closer date


Thanks in anticipation 🙏

Greatmec:
I have been married to my wife for close to 20 years now.
My wife is a very faithful woman. But I can describe her as frigid. As sex/romance/love making is her weakest point. Since she scores very high on almost every other indices except intimacy I thought I could manage.

Anyway 8 years ago I traveled outside the country for 2 years and came back as I used to do. But this time around I noticed that I could no longer get an erection when I want to do the do with my wife. Since then I/we have done everything to look for solution, but curiously till now non has been found. If I go in with another lady everything works out very fine. If I even use an artificial V.G everything works fine. But once I near my wife my John Thomas will not stand. If it makes a mistake and stands a little and enters the honey pot then it will ejaculate within 10 to 30 seconds. It is extremely frustrating.

I have tried medical solutions severally. It didn't help. After several studies I have come to the realization that someone must have placed a charm on me or my wife for the sole sake of giving me temporary impotence only when am with my wife. Something like "Tesho" a charm placed on mostly Yoruba girls to prevent them from having intimacy before marriage. Anyone that wants to have intimacy with them will temporarily become impotent. And if such charm is not removed on her that scenario shall continue throughout her lifetime. That is the scary part. Such charm has no expiry date.

As a matter of principle I do not and have never patronized native doctors. So I have restricted my solution finding to Churches/pastors/prophets etc. Unfortunately after 8 year, till date I have found no single solution.
Right now I am open to getting the solution wherever I can get it.

The answers I seek are:
1) Who placed this charm
2) Is it placed on me or my wife
3) Most important: How to end this charm

I reside at Aba, Abia state.
a) If you know a good church/ministry or man of God that can solve it please inform me.
b) Otherwise if you know a herbal home/ native doctor that can only solve it and not make me enter into some other fetish/complicating things please inform me.
Please help a brother out of this frustrating situation. Thank you all.

Have you ever traveled with her before, like go on a vacation and tried having sex with her?

What I mean is having it with her outside your home and bed.

israelmao:
El-Rufai might have squadered some World Bank loan but Uba Sani himself is not doing much in Kaduna State presently.

This is the reason why Uba Sani cannot do much, money he is supposed to use is being used to service loan acquired by El-Rufai.

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izonborn098:
Madam op didn't condemn her, he only said her past seems threaten. Beside there is different between a man and a woman when it come to body counts and past... i know u will not like it but that is how it's work...
Thanks, be blessed..

Double standard! Who were the people sleeping with her? Goats?

He is who is without a sin should cast the stone first.

OP be sincere, you too have had something to do with a lot of girls!

Just like the way some of those girls in your past used you likewise some of thee guys in her past used her too. Therefore you have no right to judge or condemn her.

If you cannot deal with her past free her quickly.

Where is our team’s (September) cappo? I hope she is doing great. She suppose don dey ginger us

Olam09:
I fit get 200k make i still broke..

Hmmmm

Kingbuhari:
Brokenness is by choice I never been Broke.. since my childhood I know the importance of savings because i don't like begging even my parents when I was small I don't ask them for anything infact I feel for them training 6 children , at times when someone gives me money I give it to mum which she never pays back, 16th year I see no use to continue with education since am naturally intelligent from birth can read , write and speak , infact my IQ is very high that they nicknamed me Jack of all trade .. I left Nigeria to Libya without informing anyone at age of 16, they looked for me and stop looking only my elder brother is aware of my movements.. bear in mind I wasn't the first son but the last out of 4 boys 4 girls. That's why I laugh any time i read a post of last born been over pampered by their parent I never reduce myself to that infact I was the arrowhead , the hit man the brain and executor in the family I left at age of 16 , suffered in Sahara desert and managed to make it to Libya alive and be able to cross to Europe at 16 through Mediterranean sea. Many died but my desires to be alive to make it in this life keep me going, I spent 5years in Italy and Switzerland before I finally give me asylum then permanent residency.. take note how I survived.. I'm very conscious of money I don't eat today and forger tomorrow infact I use pen and paper to write out things I will do.. if u see me spending money rest assured someone somewhere have paid the money back into my account or I have already planned how to get it back , I don't spend above my limit and I love slow but steady inflow of cash.. moreover I'm very patient person i can endure even if I'm not happy at particular point of time or work is squeezing me I have at the back of my mind that it will never last forever... discipline keep me going .. I never been broke and will never be

Your story is touching! I am glad you are doing well!

MICVOCT:
In a moment I can't even buy two sachets of water for #50, that's when my brain would realise I'm broke.

Smile....not funny

I truly understand

jogsman01:
at this point in time

Na every body dey see shege promax now😀

phemmyfour:
less than six months pay

Hmmm

juwoonn:
If I complain of being broke or ask for help... that means I don’t have a dime and had already gone a day without food. Unfortunately, people think I always have because I don’t complain and they start coming to seek help and that’s not the case.

This describes me too. I hate to beg or disturb people, they hardly believe I don’t have whenever they seek help when I am broke.

Let me pitch my tent here. I am new to forex (demo trading though) and I am determined to learn it.

yok:
IT SEEMS THE SAYING THAT ONE DOES NOT KEEP MAKING NOISE IF YOU ARE MAKING MONEY IS TRUE
These days I feel like not making any noise, as we have learnt the most important thing in this market.

Also, having over 600 followers on twitter without follow follow is not easy. Nevertheless more people are following despite the fewer posts. Okay today, I cannot just keep quiet.

SOLAR SECTOR is in good buying zone. ARRY is a good candidate. For more you can check our twitter page from time to time.

What is your twitter handle?

Oba should pay up his debt with Ecobank and rest! The man like trouble pass peace!

henrimoto:
Sproutifi doesn't support Nigeria.. any other way to go around this ?

I also need answer to this question.

Jenny855:
How are we all

We dey kampe

coputa:
Go register with Bamboo,their process is seamless and fast.you can fund your account by just making a transfer.their customer service is as fast as lightening, their withdrawal is fast and prompt as well.I have been using them and am satisfied with their services.

Thanks a lot!

I will do just that.

sgtponzihater1:
There is a Chaka group on telegram, you could join and clarify there as well.

If you go to your wallet. There is local or global wallet.

Ways to fund is paying into their provided account, takes 3-5days
Paying into an account that is generated for you: That goes into your wallet almost immediately.
You can also pay into their domiciliary account as well if you've got a domiciliary account.

It's looks straightforward from the app though.

Good luck.

Thanks so much

Will do as you analyzed

I have joined the telegram group too

Good day great investors!

I am a newbie, registered on Chaka and got verified recently. I need guidance on how to deposit funds and start trading.

Thanks in anticipation!

gamaliel9:
Keep DCAing

Hi!

I am new to buying of US shares. I went through your thread when you started and all that. I really learnt a lot.

I have registered on Chaka and waiting for confirmation.

Been reading about the economic challenges in the US. I don’t know if this is the right time to buy as I am a novice willing to learn.

Thanks

Congratulations to all mothers that have put to bed! Say me hi to your LOs

akintola213:
My scan to know the gender is next month..it’s my first born so I’m anxious😀…Stay strong mamas ,this page has been so helpful

As a first time mum, I am anxious and sometimes have mixed feelings to know the gender😀.

Lewalemanto:
Team September

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2.Akintola213..............30..................

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nellyquash:
BS…

Where will I even start from. God really showed me mercy in this journey of 9months.

Towards ending of August, 2022 I found out o was pregnant, I was very happy because I have been praying to God to bless my womb. Hubby returned and I told him, he was very happy and we did a scan to be very sure. Which it was confirmed that I was some weeks gone and EED is May 8th, 2023. My birthday month. The joy doubled.
The journey began; fast forward towards ending of first trimester, I woke up one morning and was not able to urinate. Hubby had to rush me to a private hospital in our estate.
I was admitted and was passed catheter to use. Before the incident I had already done a scan which I was told I had fibroid.
I was admitted, doctor placed me on series of test to know what may have seize my urine. All test came out negative including urinalyses.
After much, doctor said the only option left is for me to do surgery to remove the fibroid that the fibroid is resting on my bladder and also, the baby will be flushed because it’s a 50 50 thing. I cried, I told hubby I don’t wanna loose my baby. The doctor scheduled us for the operation, I told hubby I’m doing any surgery. Had to involve my parents, because the doctor was already messing with my hubby’s mind.

My parents invited me to come over to Lagos from PH. I was discharged after 4days from that private hospital, booked a flight and straight to Lagos. Met with my family doctor, after checking my baby, he said baby is fine that the only solution for now is for me to be on catheter for another 2months, that once the bump gets bigger, it will push the fibroid away from that position and I will be able to pee on my own.
Another wahala again, I was on catheter and still going to work. I used it for almost a month before God showed me mercy. I was able to pee on my own till I delivered.

Had to register for antenatal and was told I will deliver through CS due to the fibroid position.

Second trimester was smooth with normal orishirishi pains each week.

Third trimester was cool too.

I was planning to take leave ending of April, but baby took everyone unawares.

Went to work on 11th April, 12th April was my antenatal, met with my doctor to complain about how I’m feeling, the so-called doctor told me I should go home and take Para that it’s the fibroid pains. Also placed me on diet and some sugar test. I left the hospital angrily.

I got home that afternoon and was feeling so sad, moody. I started crying, called hubby to come back home that I’m not feeling okay. That I’m having pains. Hubby came back and took me to the hospital for us to complain about the pains.
A nurse asked me to go straight to maternity ward, I was checked, behold I was already 7cm dilated. The yesterday of it myself and hubby had a good sex round sha,lol. I was now thinking if that contributed for me seeing a bloody show.

The dancing and makosa now begun, I got checked around some mins to 9pm, I delivered my prince 11:30pm. Even though the nurse that took my delivery was very harsh towards me, I believed she deliberately gave me cut self because baby wasn’t big. Before she could sluggishly came to me, I had already pushed and baby’s head was already out.

In all I gave God all the glory. My first fruit wasn’t aborted according to the so-called private hospital I went initially.

Also, even when the nurses were going through my folder, there were like Madam, are you aware you’re supposed to deliver through CS, even with the pains I told them NO, that my second scan at 28weeks indicated that my passage is free and no fibroid down my cervix.

I just want to say God thank you.

Sorry for the long post ooo.

Congratulations! May God Almighty be praised!

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