Your girlfriend is not being considerate here because I am sure if it was the other way round she will not hesitate to help her sister.

What it means is that if you eventually marry her she will not want any members of your family around her. She need to be accommodating when the need arise as far you and your sister respects her too.

You should talk to your babe to calm down except your sister’s attitude towards her is bad.

You too should learn how to balance the love between your sister and babe so everyone will be happy

You seem not to be patient with her too. From your write-up, your aim is just to have sex with her.

She wants to be sure if you also love her or just there for her body.

When I hear someone say they are broke, I start to think about how they measure money. Yes I know everybody's income varies. Every time one of my friends complains about being broke, I know she has a few thousand Naira in her account.

Before I complain of being broke that means I have nothing in my account.

At what point do you complain of being broke?

However, he is now asking the government for help, saying he is struggling to educate all his children.



Wetin concern government? Na them send am?

You can walk up to the principal of the school and explain everything to him with evidence. The principal should know what action to take from there.

Parents who are spoilt cannot instill discipline in their kids. You don’t give what you do not have

Being an elder sister has put her in the position to be able to talk to her brother to minimize bringing girls to the house as he doesn’t live alone or he shouldn’t bring them home at all

Another option is for her to get another apartment.

Tamilore11:
D message wasn’t for u. Sorry

No problem

Tamilore11:
Yes, we re free to walk out of an abusive marriage unlike u ppl dat sell ur daughter to a stranger. Despite dat, she has no inheritance in her father’s house nor her husband’s house. Very shameful tradition. In Yoruba, we share properties from eldest to youngest irrespective of the gender. We don’t discriminate genders at all. I will choose Yoruba over n over again. I have seen women inherit their late husband properties in Yoruba land. It cannot happen in Igbo land, always maltreating their widows. U ppl are so WICKED. God forbid bad thing

All these tribal bigots! What make you think I am not Yoruba? We are discussing an issue for people to learn especially those from other ethnic groups who have or want to have something with yorubas.

It’s only the poor that discriminate. Tribal discrimination will not take you anywhere!

Okealaaye:



LIAR! Yoruba don't accept bride price back! In most cases in contemporary times they don't even accept it. The Yoruba hate to be seen as selling their daughters off.

What is the difference between what I wrote and what you wrote? The main point is bride price is mostly not accepted amongst the yorubas.

The bride price will be returned back to the groom in most cases.

This must be an inside job

Your friend is unsure if he wants to continue with relationship because he has met his match!

Had it been she didn’t show him she’s up to the task when it comes to beating he would apologize and expect the relationship should continue.

Since she has apologized he should forgive her and allow the relationship to continue too.

At least everybody go know his/her boundaries ����

Since $4k dollars can cover your expenses to visit home why don’t you come at least once in a year? This is way you will be around friends and family.

You can also try dating seriously and considering getting married by becoming active in church and Nigerian associations.

Cheers

I kinda like some of the healthy habits he has imbibed overtime even though it’s not possible to stop aging.

I can categorically tell you that your sister has not seen her kind of man that is why you think she is not serious about getting married.

I was like her until I met my man. I squarely focused on my career and other important things that my mum would not let me rest. In fact several people tried to connect me with suitors but I never liked any of them.

You and your mum should just let her be and keep praying for her, when she meet her man Na she go tell una say she wan marry.

I just hope your girlfriend have a good heart and appreciate all you do for her.

A simple advice: pretend you do not have to give her and see her reaction if it bear semblance with that of her mom.

You know what to do from there.

Bryan for the money

Nothing is permanent in this life!

I don't believe they are serving their term inside Kuje prison.

Her unsuccessful marriages is clearly her fault. All the twelve men can not be bad.

Honestly this is pure wickedness on the part of the woman. That money is too poor, some people don't just have conscience at all.

begoniaa:


You said, "men are men, women are women." How does what you've written above explain that line?

So, even according to your explanation, a single mother usually get the kids because the law can prove beyond doubt in most cases that she is CAPABLE, and yet you came up with this thread to disparage them?

Single mothers are shamed and blamed for raising irresponsible kids in the society, because of a solo feminine factor in their lives, yet you kick against men (a 'balancing' masculine factor) approaching them? If all men should avoid single moms, how would their kids have both the equal love of a mother and father figure? Because, realistically, some women and their baby daddies can never get along.

They will not kill themselves for you. You cannot heap insults on their heads for solo-parenting and at the same try to put a condition on their dating lives or tell men to avoid them so they wouldn't "share" in their troubles.

So all children of a single father ultimately end up with HIS FEMALE RELATIVES, yeah? And does that not seem irresponsible to you? Because that's what Latty is asking. Y'all always have a piece of advice or some caging notion for single mothers to fit into ... yet you say kids need both parents' hands on deck to thrive. So a man that dumps his kid for his mum or sister, depriving him of a male bond is what??

For every single mother, there is a single father out there, but why you don't see them is because they kids are almost certainly with the mother. So whom of those two should get praised for putting in more work? You are blaming her for deciding to be a primary care-giver for a child she and the man made, but the man simply gets a slap on the wrist because he is not saddled and therefore is problem-free abi?

How about single fathers who are actually raising their kids alone? Should women avoid them too? Does your theories apply to them too? Because whatever will make a baby daddy to be coming in-between a woman and her new lover, will make a baby mama to be coming in-between a man and his new lover... (E.g., Tuface and Pero. Depending on which narrative, BOTH women [Pero and Annie] are always the victims).

So, why do you not speak to single fathers? If there is no cordial relationship between a guy and his baby mama, then you don't think a self-respecting man should allow her go on living her romantic and full life alone, and ONLY simply focusing on caring for his kids??

I mean, I mean, if co-parenting will always tie a baby mama to her baby daddy, it is EQUALLY true on the man's side. If I dated a single father, the mother of his kids will always be there. So either you advocate for:

- Sngle parents remaining single for life
- Single parents getting back together
- Single parents dating other single parents, or
- Single parents being free to date whomever they want as long as they are compatible...

Take the spotlight away solely from single moms and stop making dictating posts on how they should live their own lives for themselves.

Thank you so much begoniaa for this submission. The society hardly talk about baby daddy. What they do not know is that the same way they advice against dating single mothers because of their kids and baby daddy is the same way with dating a single father.

Infact, it is worse with dating single fathers especially if the child in question is a male. If eventually such woman marries the man, that male child automatically becomes the heir causing some fracas in the process.

And no matter what the baby mama will always be in the picture using the child. They always find ways to want to reap from the man using the child if he is successful. The child's mother will always poison the child against his father's wife.

KingOfTheDamned:


Men are men , women are women

This is not concrete enough. Please shed more light on it

This is another level of craze

What about single fathers? Nothing is usually said about them just single mothers.

Don't worry, life na turn by turn. E go soon reach your turn!

At the end of the day, these politicians are all after themselves. They don't have the interest of the people at heart

It's one year already! How time flies. May his soul continue to rest in peace.

They will soon release and promote him just like Magu. There is no justice in Nigeria

Johnny Depp should just tell her to remove her $2 million in compensatory damages and forward the balance to him

Pay me part-payment for me to start the search, then pay up the balance when I eventually find her.