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May God Bless you. I pray that she read and follow your Gospel advise. I was about a quart to cheat on my wife long time ago but the Word of God that bind us together hindered my foolish desire. I thank God that I didn't, if I did it I would have find myself where this lady is today but I would not disclose it to my wife. This lady has to MOVE on and be closer to God more than anything.

Pharaoh7:
Hi October 1st, I having being following your topic keenly because I needed to know why you cheated. Women don't cheat for the same reasons as men. Women cheat.
1. With an Ex boyfriend they still have feelings for
2. For emotional need if they are in an abusive relationship
3. They fall victim to manipulative individuals (usually a boss or cleric).

When i saw you cheated with a Pastor, I just smiled. My dear you have not cheated, you were taken advantage of. You are a victim. A pawn in the hand of a manipulative man.

A few years ago my wife was a victim in the hand of a Priest. When I found out I took time to discuss at length with her to know why? If one doesn't tackle the why, then it sure to happen again. When I knew the why then it became easy for me to forgive. I had to run the Priest out of town (he was a foreigner) to break the spell he had on my wife. Cleric are highly manipulative people and the tragedy here is they make you think you are doing the right thing or they are bringing you closer to GOD.

Dear poster, you have conscience. That alone is a very good thing. And I can sense true repentance. My advice to you is don't tell your husband, recognize that you were a victim and not a cheat. I don't know your husband but what I know is 90% of men can't handle a cheating spouse. The knowledge will break him.

You are Absolutely RIGHT.

negotiations2:
Don't confess to him.Do DAT to God alone and make sure ure genuinely repentant.if u do confess to him he will never forgive u and d outcome will be too bad.God forgives and forget but man can never forget though can pretend forgiveness. Be happy DT God had forgiven u never go back to sin for it kills.

Ijobaorun:
There have been lots of advice ahead of me for you. But my simple contribution is that if you want to make eternity, you will have to face your fear by telling him.
Pray and fast at least 3 days to hand over his spirit to God. You will be amazed at the outcome.
God bless you.

She will make eternity by God's GRACE, the precious Blood has washed away all her past mistakes.

May God Bless you.

Sirakj:
God has forgiven you already,forgotten and cleanse you from your sin.Have this in your mind and head and move on. Wisdom demands that you keep your secret and keep your home.

2Chronicles 7:14 If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will FORGIVE their sin and HEAL their land. Salvation is God's GRACE.

ShaqFu:
So her marriage is what is at stake here? Not her salvation or her peace of mind?

How nice.

That Will never happen by God's GRACE.

bishopandy:
Prepare to pack and go back to your father's house

It seems you would love to see her marriage crashed just because of a stupid mistake. May God heal your heart.

ShaqFu:
I'll advice my sister to tell her husband the truth! It's that simple.

She confessed to God means what exactly? Was God the person she cheated on?

Sometimes I smile when I see how just devious many of you christians can be when things like this surface. I reaffirms my zeal never to find myself about people who twist the truth just so they can save face.

Until she confess to her husband, she will never know peace. God whom she confessed to hasn't yet given her peace, has he? If he has, why is her conscience eating her from deep inside her?

The truth, I've learnt, is bitter, but it is always nice to swallow it and say it, no matter what.

For Christ Sake, DON'T tell him. God has forgiven you, GO and sin NO MORE. From now on, cherish him, your marriage, your home, your family MUCH MORE. Pamper and APPRECIATE him much MOOOOORE. Just forget the sin of the past and FOCUS Only on the KING OF kings and the LORD of lords - He Will Never leave you nor Forsake you. In spite of ALL your past God STILL love you. Seek His Face everyday. Deuteronomy 31:6, Isaiah 43:1-4, upon all Matthew 6:33.
May God Bless you in all things, I will always include your family in my prayers. Your home was established on the Rock of Ages, In Jesus Almighty Name, the gates of hell will NOT overcome it.

MrsPhysics:
Why are you frustrated. Please today is Sunday, and your type need no heaven. If God is like you, then everyone will perish.

No woman will want to be with your type. Your girlfriend is a hero for being with you.

He is ASOLUTELY sick to the brain.

What is your point?.

chiefololade:
Did her father disown her?

The Lord is with you.

All you need right now is recorded in the book of Matthew 6:33 - God's Love is SUFFIENT for you. God FIRST, your ambition and then, take life one day at time. May God Bless you, may the Holy Spirit minister unto you and may the Joy of the Lord continually to be your Strengths in All your weakness in Jesus Almighty Name.

CrownStarPro:
Anyways.. I have run away fast fast.. I'm the only son of my mother... I can't kill myself over kitten....besides, I no even see advice here... NL get zero chill I swear... My realers don cap my advice... So I don March on

Police officer Sunday was buried alive, he left behind a 27 years old wife and four children with their ages ranging from four, six, eight and 12, yet, you have no sympathy for the deceased's family, what type of blood is running in your vein, HYENA? Always praying for you.

IhateAfonjas:

Nigerian police ??

Am i the only one who doesn't feel sorry for them ??

Mention any good policeman, i will wait

I believe that there should be an independent enquiry to investigate why the police failed to respond immediately into the kidnaping of officer Sunday. This type of nonsense would not occur even in Malawi nor Rwanda - in Nigeria anything GOES.

qualityovenbake:
The baale and those thug must be dealt with severely.

I strongly criticize the police for their lack of response in saving a fellow policeman life. For five days he was still alive and nobody went to rescue him.



He exited this world in a gruesome way, burying someone alive, I will never wish that for my enemy.

RIP Inspector Musa Sunday

Heartless, you MUST be proud of yourself. Bird of the same feather - may God forgives you in Jesus name.

Kenturkey048:
I join you too...

Origin:
A murder case, only the victim was named.

Who are the other policemen, who are the DPO that did not send help, who is the Baale, who is Prince.

Even the journalist is saying these people are above the law (they who cannot be named).

Only in a little hell call NIGERIA.

If God is for you who can be against you. Let God Almighty be sufficient for you. Face your work, do the right thing - be honest, punctual reliable, dependable, friendly, contribute ideas that will benefit the company - upon all, upgrade yourself.

afoxy81:
After reading the post on office politics I decided to share this. my office is the molete of politics and conspiracy everyone is out for the other's neck but I decided not to be involved as in I stand alone. but it seems our oga at the top is enjoying the thing last week was my birthday among about 12 staff in my am the only one she didn't wish happy birthday. so I begin to wonder if she doesn't want me let her speak up and I will quit. no be only her I de work for.

Apostle of GOOD NEWS.

armadeo:
I went to boarding school.



My kids would never go to one.


Finito

Coldfeets:
Lesbianism is the worst evil learnt from boarding school

A pastor advised his friend(also a pastor) not to send his son to a well known Christian school (boarding), friend did not accept the advise, after the 2nd term, the son has become a big time HOMO - SHIT TANK lover.

Look Before you ......... - you have looked, DON'T...... May God Bless you with the Bone of your bone.

Emmion:
@ FSB,

thanks a great deal for the information. I have been looking for someone like you to help out. There is this lady i have been seeing for a while. I love her so much and marriage ASAP is already in my plans but there is the problem of genotype. This breaks my heart so much. I have gone for genotype test 3 times. First one i was given AC. Second was AA. Wanting to be doubly (or triple sure), i went for a third test and it turned out to be AC. Now my girlfriend also is AC. For me thats a problem. My parents are both AA. My elder brother is AA. So where did i get the AC from? I am confused. I love this girl but dont want pains for her and myself later when we start having children.

Please, i desperately need immediate advice. Any other Doctor in the house pls help.

I pray that your children will not emulate your ghetto tongue. May the Good Lord Bless you with All that is missing in your life - a lot is missing, Jesus is the ANSWER.

hardwerk:
up up upper boarding school.....my indecent language is what i felt like using .....hang yourself if you dont like it

What a nation?.

djaybaba:
so sad.

I beg don't kill man with laugh.

sukkot:
yeah fork boarding school mayne. terrorist senior boys sending me to fetch water everyday

The indecent languages in your post is an evidence of your GREAT boarding school achievement. Up boarding school.

hardwerk:
o.p,yes Bleep you and your fuckery ...for all those saying you cant send your kids to boarding schools,fams fcukz yo bluds !!
boarding school made me ....it thougt me essentials of life at a young age ,something day goers dont have ....

And the bond formed in boarding schools are pure and straight from the heart ......it gives you brothers for life ......guys who have grown to love you even after all the fights you two experienced ....i tell you nothing beats that feeling dawgs ...

Boarding school is not easy initially but when it grows on you,it grows on you.

Provide your evidence.

nairalandfreak:
Liar!

Gospel truth.

brunofarad:
If you can ,by all means let ur kids live at home and attend school from home ,BOARDING school is another influence of its own

Good for you.

ibawon:
Although you have your points , going to a boring School has it's PRO & CONS., But still I thank God my Parents Sent me to a boarding school it has helped in shaping me in most ways today.
G.C.Ikorodu
PS Some of my old school mates sef dey here

Absolutely RIGHT.

ivolt:
The OP is right, with no parental figure in sight, the senior thug
student, under the threat of constant abuse, assume the role of parents
and influence the junior ones into cultism and homosexual lifestyle.

Moooooooooooore Grease to your BRAIN, infact, you deserves the entire June 2017 Wisdom Award.

ivolt:
No parents ever know what really goes on with their kids in boarding
school, only the assistant parents, the senior students, know such secrets.

Truth is bitter. Keep your eyes wide open, may your adorable daughter never experience any of the above In Jesus Almighty Name.

uruego:
My daughter is in boarding school, and I am happy she is there. The difference is clear. Intelligence, focused, not materialistic, read ofteN. Those traits u listed, I have not observed. So do your research well before spuring out trash, right!

You need deliverance.

IhateAfonjas:

I've told you to stop doing drugs

This is the most brain damaging thread I've read in my life

You wasted my precious time trying to read and comprehend this fuckery, i need my 5 minutes back

Believe this rubbish at your own detriment

The Good Lord that put that thought in you will Manifest it In Jesus Almighty Name, may God Bless you in All things, Amen.

wellmax:
God bless the man more.
God bless my hustle, I wanna buy a car and build a house for my mama too