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I pray that your sister or daughter does not experience what this victim went through. You reason like someone who think with his anus. Seek help before entering Oyigbo market stark naked.

jonneljonn:
he didnt rape u madam,i dont understnd u women ,a man came to ur house and u guys have been dating for two months and he made love to u and u call it rape??before u drank the wine he broght did u read the percentage of alchohol in the winedo u know that u could get drunk ad give the guy a green light that u want him to have ui advie u see him and tlk with him first ,as far as am concern he never raped u

FOR CHRIST SAKE be WISE in your next decision. You need counselling, seek one. Report the monster to the police. See a doctor asap with all the evidence. Be Strong and Courageous, the Good Lord is on your side. Don't Hurt your parents, siblings and loved ones with this suicide thought.
MATTHEW 6;33,

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

RUN asap.

Tbadbad:
This is deep, please what should I do? I am confused, she is in my house right now in Nigeria, this is some one I have her house and everything,

may God Bless you in ALL things - in Jesus Wonderful Name. Contact Punch Newspaper.

guru90:
Chai! And she studied my course.
How I wish I can locate her tru. Bank account Number.

I want to bless her with my little cash I have.

If someone know her address where she is leaving in Lagos...... kindly reply me... I will drive direct to their house....

Or

Her tru. Bank account number.

20+20-10x0+5+5
20+20-(10x0)+5+5
20+20-0+5+5
(20+20)-0+(5+5)
40-0+10
40-(0+10)
40-10=30

Advise your dad to install hidden cameras in rooms because of thieves - and he must not tell anyone.

You should try Ajegunle Weed plus original Sapele water, smh.

Dreyton36:
Fvck mehnnnnnn

And to the pastor's in here, I have a question

This man is from DELTA STATE a state we all know to be very rugged
He needs the money too , and yet he returned the money to the owner , a DELTA man for that matter oo

My question is ,, is this also a sign of end time ?

Cuz anything bad that happens in Nigeria our pastor's call it end time
And DELTA is a rugged bad area and yet someone in there is doing something GOOD
Now answer my question

Lights up my weed in peace and waiting

Market NOT mall/plaza - how many men/women have bvn?

kudinkarfe:
Doing what with 700k when she can transfer it to her costumers account? The story is somehow sha

I second your motion. I would rather donate to this guy than those yeyebrty BBN. I hope someone can start gofundme for him.

YoungLionken:
What a high level of integrity and self control. Considering the hardship in the country,an Oscar award is an understatement.

Never been impressed for a very long time.

Someone like him, deserve some fund raising,not the BBN guest.

Whoever has his connection, should please share...

Get your child involve in learning musical instrument such as piano, sax, etc. Get her kids Christian video music such as the NIV Kids video, Cedarmont Kids Musical Group video. If you are base in Lagos visit Patrick Speech and Language Centre at 13 REMI FANI-KAYODE AV., IKEJA GRA.

For CHRIST'S SAKE don't visit any pastor or imam or native doctor - work with your child specialists, attend training on autism and pray, pray together with your family alone in your house. Keep eyes on your child 24 hours because of child molesters.

The Joy of the Lord is your STRENGTH.

He is not Dull, he has a mild autism - Pervasive Development Disorder. He need the Love and support of the entire family not insult. He need encouragements; you must take the task like your God-given ministry to assist him - don't angry or beat him. Handle him like your lovely friend, correct him when he makes mistake.
You should enroll him into a music class where he can be train to play piano or saxophone - swimming class is also great.
Finally, BEWARE OF SEXUAL ABUSE - the entire family MUST keep eye on him so the 'green snake' child predators won't take advantage of him.
I will encourage you and your parents to talk to the proprietor of PATRICK SPEECH AND LANGUAGE CENTRE, Ikeja, Lagos - the school may be a big help.
He will improve by GOD'S GRACE, my son is a perfect example.

Your comment shows that you are bereaved of intelligence. If you have not spoken the world would not have witness your broad day madness. It seems devilish is your form of therapy, you need a psychiatric doctor asap before you enter market stark naked, smh for your future.

MrTruetrue:
Can your brother recognise p*ssy. If he does, he is pretending from knowing something. Give him p*ssy let see whether he go f*ck am.

You are Absolutely RIGHT. It is MILD Autism.

ThothHermes:
Sounds like autism

Not his fault.
Easily could have been you.

Greetings in Jesus Precious Name. How is the condition of your mom, you did not post any update since 2018?

I tried to kill a chicken, the moment that I saw blood I drop the knife, another person finished with the killing.

southniyikaye:
How some people still live after committing such crimes baffles me.
For the first time in my life, I killed a chicken for Xmas and it took me almost a month to get over the fowl's struggle and blood splashing.
I even almost let it go.

[Just Google it.quote author=Sunisonflex39 post=88928127] pls ma/sir, which one is vanishing ejima syndrome?

help me out.[/quote]

Well Spoken, you are absolutely RIGHT, more wisdom.

solmus:



Lamidi Cownu isn't fighting for any yeye Biafra he is just hustling like any Social media personalty to keep his hate filled followers tuned in

He hates Yoruba Muslim (whatever that means)
Hates every and all Hausa Fulani (those who knows him or don't know him)
Hates Igbo muslim
Now his hate is on Igbo Christian who has Pastors from other tribe
He hates and attack Buhari (a Fulani who grew up only with kanuri mother) but called for support of Atiku a full blooded Fulani that speaks fufulde fluently

PS: To Legitimate Igbos who truly want Biafra, kindly follow the Constitiutional Backed methods instead of following this guy who has no plan and just want to trend by insulting others

*Referendum can only be possible through a Legislative act that would include Referendum and Secession in our Constitiution, this means Lawmakers of Ibo extraction must sponsor a bill and get it passed at both chambers in the assembly
*Concerned Ibo citizens can petition their lawmakers to intiate a referendum bill or simply go and protest at the National assembly
*as a private citizen and organized group they can also sponsor the bill

We can see how civilized Brexit agitators where and How Cantalonians are conducting themselves without insulting others, herbet macualy also fought British Colonial occupation, Same as Azikwe , and Mama Kuti fellas mother, they never insuled anyone they argued theire case and got independence, Mandela also fought Aparthied same way Martin Luther King did without insult maturely canvassing intrest




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Somepeople hire house helps just for status sake. Secondly, many are just born LAZY.

Amotolongbo:
It is not a must to have a house maid if one doesn’t have the fanancial capacity to service her salary.

If what a house maid does is that very easy, the wife should have opt doing all the house chores instead of employing a house maid.

They employed a house maid and had to start disagreements on salary and arrears which have always been negotiated and settled even before bringing in the maid.

The way some families treat their maids most times doesn’t always make one to have sympathy for the children of the families.

Great Advise, more wisdom. I hope he read and follow your advise.

yeyeosoronga:
While you were too busy with your concubines, fire was burning under your roof.
You weren't there for your older children when they probably needed you the most as you were busy spending your time and money with your opekes.
You better don't make the same mistake with the younger ones.
The older ones seem to have given up on you. and have learnt how not to rely on you because you've probably let them down in the past with your absence. They didnt even care you were away dead or alive for 3 whole days.
Anyway, my advice for you is to work on your children one on one.
Let them get to know you individually. Start taking your eldest child with you when you go out, and ask him/her to escort you so you get to spend individual time together. Do same for the others, and don't spend time with them all together but individually till you are able to earn their trust again before you start spending time all together.
It's a long journey, which you can still redeem yourself before your children.
Don't let them see a father that abandons his children for 3 days because he is angry at their mother, don't let them see a father that comes home drunk, don't let them see a father that puts his concubines needs above theirs.
Ask them to come directly to you if they need anything, give them pocket money weekly (yes, the older ones will have some minor needs. It doesn't have to be a lot. Even if it is 500naira for data)
Beating the older ones at this stage will only further alienate them from you, as that ship has long sailed.
Good luck as you make amends with your children. At least give it your best shot.
Unfortunately, your marriage is dead. I'm not sure if you have the energy to revive it, but if you have wronged your wife apologise and ask her what she wants. A divorce to end the misery for both of you or another go at the marriage.

With all due respect, I think that your suggestion will ignite more trouble. He has to find ways to win back the hearts of his children asap.

chamber2:
Not to blame you but you failed ab initio to instill discipline and mutual respect in your home. See, dem no born any of my children, including my wife, to disrespect me. I will address it instanta!

See, if you condole a bad behavior it becomes a tradition. You need to be fully in charge of your home; financial, emotionally,physically and otherwise. Don't allow a bad behavior slip without being corrected and addressed. You cheated on wife, wrong! But you've apologized and shown genuine repentance. She should move on. Why torment you emotionally?

Oga, you need to be man enough and be in charge. Talk to the kids and let them know your side of the story since your wife had turned your bedroom quarrels into dinning table discussion. Open up to your kids too. Let them know you're not evil as portrailed.

Again, on no account should you send your kids on errands and they will refuse. Everybody should be taking instructions from you. That's why you're the father. If they refuse to run errands panel beat sense into that one. Africa is a jungle and there's no gentleman sir. We fight for everything here.

Abeg, komot for road. You can introduce him to your sister.

jaksmillioniar:
so u want to marry him and keep him alone dats wicked. his older one dont have today dont mean dey wont have tomoro.let ur heart be clean

Give God ALL the GLORY in Jesus Powerful Name. Put God First In All your endeavor and...... Matthew 6:33

LordFriar:
Thank you sooo much sir. I just had the opportunity to log in now. I've seen it.

May God Bless him in all things in Jesus Marvelous Name.

AlexReports:
From Aloysius Attah, Onitsha

Medical Director, Las Vegas Pain Institute, Dr Godwin Maduka has through his Foundation, commenced cash transfer to hundreds of widows in Anambra and beyond as part of measures to stem the biting hardship occasioned by the COVID-19 pandemic.

This is in addition to other palliative measures he has rolled out for the 21 LGAs in Anambra state to care for the poor and people who bear the pain of the lockdown during this challenging times.

The program powered by Godwin Maduka Foundation sends instant cash of N10,000 randomly to widows after answering some questions and identification through a live phone-in programme in a popular radio station based in Onitsha.

Dr Maduka in a remark said the gesture is part of his personal contributions to see that the negative effect of the Covid- 19 on the economy do not hit so hard on the most vulnerable

He said the cash transfer is an initiative to reach out to as many widows who because of the lockdown are unable to be part of his food stuff distribution in the state

In a recent article he sent in from US , Maduka has urged wealthy Individuals to support government in their quest to care for the sick and weak in the society. According to him,this is a time to care,love and a time to spread hope.

https://www.anambraupdate.com/2020/04/covid-19-dr-godwin-maduka-foundation.html?m=1

Done by God's Grace.

SafariBoy:
Okay sir..I highly appreciate you for your act of kindness!

Your account was credited by God's GRACE.

Abdulrahman1000:
Any1 shld try to help out even if it's to eat pls, Gtb. 01.244613,99 Abuba k,ar Abdul. Rah,man u wil never. Beg to eat in ur entire lifetime amen..

Your account would be credited later today by God's Grace.

SafariBoy:
In all sincerity that is why i did not bother to open any new moniker. I have been frequenting nairaland as a guest since 2017 but most times comment when i am in need. I actually belong to the comment readers association of nairaland lol. Brother, this is beyond my power that is why i am soliciting for help here. Please help me out! Thank you

Include your name.

Bijdagoodman:
Pls someone should help me,this lockdown has not been easy for me,I haven't taken anything apart from the bread I took this morning,and I don't have any hope of what I will eat tomorrow.pls help me.2085101641.uba

It is done by God's Grace.

Osisiogu2k4:
GOOD DAY NAIRALAND
PLS I NEED YOUR HELP ANY TIN FROM YOU WILL GO A LONG WAY TO SAVE ME.
BANK NAME _ U.B.A
ACC NO _ 2039927455
ACC NAME_EMMANUEL

Resounding Amen in Jesus Marvelous Name.

macjireh:
I want to believe u were d one DAT sent me money... Jeez I'm so surprised... may God continue to replenish u,,causing u to make constant progress in life in Jesus name.. Amen

Yes, I did By God's Grace.

macjireh:
I want to believe u were d one DAT sent me money... Jeez I'm so surprised... may God continue to replenish u,,causing u to make constant progress in life in Jesus name.. Amen

Include your name.

macjireh:
won't be a bad idea if u can do it for broke broda....I need to feed my baby at least...
3062089635 FBN
U.I.O
Thanks in Addy