EmekaBlue:
SA men are lazy,drunkards and savages na...women do carter for them so why not....she can take in two of d onye beribe as houseboys

Wow, no wonder such a thing is welcome idea there

alingo2013:
S.A ladies are one of the cheapest in the world at the moment

But the concerned men ain't complaining na...women even dragging one man is cheap.

DONFASZY:
ok

If both men had sex with her frequently and she get pregnant
Who owns d child
Dna wil determine dat

Its absurd

well, even in polygamy a man is still not 100% sure of all his children till a DNA or direct physical resemblance is there. In this particular scenario, as a man that you are, if your wife bear you a child, won't you and prolly your families look for some resemblance to match yours?, that has been an old practical before the coming of DNA. So the brave and submissive gentle-men here can also that.. what do you think?

Opak001:
Who will now be responsible for the children and their wellbeing

In a situation of one man many wives, its expected for the women to get their asses up and work to bring money into the home and care for their kids, or do you think all the polygamous men care for all their kids, their own is to answer 'baba femi or baba Bose' ...in ths situation, are the men not workin... well am sure the woman too is a working class...

Nonexisting:
A man has the right to have as many women as he wants. Reno has the right to marry two wives and since America and UK don't allow polygamy, he can keep one woman in each country. That he abandoned his wife in the US means one thing. She has terrible attitude and is giving him hell. No member of (the future is hoe) gang should quote me. I will tell you fucck you las las it will end in another ban and I don't care.

You are noticed.

Charmingpet:
the woman did it. Do u watch the program at all, he always investigate matters b4 taking actions. This is not the first of its kind he is handling. She did it but she said and I quote she doesn't know how it happens. The child is not hers, so she won't feel the pains.

Don't mind some 'kerosene-pouring' apologists.they would have asked if the woman actually sent the child to court to be declared a witch before doing what she did.

ViolentMooslim:
The man should be jailed.


We make a mockery of ourseles in this country.

not the woman?

pek:
It is only a riff raff that cannot make a logical argument.

Pls can you say something on the poor girl's predicament, we have had a field day with the professional banter.

HEAVEN4444:
saner climes kee you dia

hahahahha

neonly:
Why are wicked women always ugly

This table yaff scatter kpatakpata....

chriskosherbal:
still very unprofessional sir,

God forbid, it happens to your daughter, mum or sister, pray tell will you act professional about it or even expect a third party to act professional about it.Answer in your mind.

MansoryMX:
The man could not hold his anger. I ain’t supporting abuse but that slap was very much needed at that very moment and for me, the man needs to be pardon for his outburst. Even American police do outburst towards cop killer and beat the shit out of cop killer when caught. That girl needs serious flogging!

Feminists will come here and be like, "he has no rights to hit a woman"... Ahmad is a parent and he felt it as if that girl is his own flesh and blood.

pslm23:
[b]Part 2

After 7 IUIs hubby and myself decided to take a breather and try to figure out what the heck was wrong. In between taking that breather we baby danced like crazy but nothing happened. 2 years ago we went back to my ob/gyn and she decided to put me on a monitored clomid cycle for 6 months because according to her, there is no reason why I shouldn't be able to get pregnant. So, hubby and I went back to baby dancing again like crazy. At first, he was very happy but then after like the 3rd month, he said he was begining to feel like a "piece of meat"  It didn't matter what he was doing, if my OPK says it's time, he better be ready!

6 months of the clomid cycle and I was done! I was tired and I told hubby that maybe God did not want this to happen. In the meantime, I had gotten this fantastic job and my insurance was the best. It covered IVF treatment 100% plus medication. All i pay for is $5 which is my co-pay.

January of this year, i decided to go online and start researching other fertility clinics. I saw 2 that looked very promising based on their IVF success rates. Hubby and I prayed over it and we decided to try the one closer to my job. On our very first consultation visit, we fell in love with my now RE. She asked a whole bunch of questions no other doctor had asked, she listened to us, and she ordered a whole bunch of tests under the sun before she would tell us if IVF is the right path to take.

Well, guess what? I had a HSG scheduled and i actually watched the whole process on a big screen they had in the room. I saw my tubes and saw what my problem was. Right there on the screen, we all saw the HSG dye stop moving as it moved up my tubes and then I had that horrible pain again. Turns out that both my tubes were totally and completely blocked and i also had hydro on top of it. The RE looked at hubby and myself and said, "thats why the IUIs and Clomid cycle failed. Your eggs are not coming down into the uterus" . my husband was going crazy by this time thinking of all the money we spent at the other clinic and so was i. After I got cleaned up and we were back in the consultation room, I asked the doc so what now? and he said IVF was my only route right now to have a baby but even before the IVF I needed to have surgery to either cautherize the section of my damaged tubes or ties them off because i had hydro leaking into my uterus and even if the IVF is a success at implatation stage, the hydro might kill the embryo.

Hubby and I went home, talked about what we had learnt, re-watched the HSG again (the clinic always gives the patient a copy of their procedure on a disc) and decided to have bothe tubes taken out completely because frankly speaking, they are not doing anything for me anymore.

In the last part of this story of my journey, I will talk about my surgery and finally the begining of my medications.[/b]

One thing that really got ne fascinated in all these is your hubby. So patient, supportive and full of hope. Most naija husbands will even drag feet with you to follow you to any fert clinic.

kathyekiti:
Hello,
I am an ob/gyn in private practice in NY.  I will be willing to answer Ob/Gyn questions with the normal perfunctory disclaimer.  Thank you Dr. Balogun and Naijaking for this great idea.

4/21/2009
It has been over a year since I started on this thread.  I would like to thank all of you for allowing me the opportunity to help my own with the skills I have learnt in a foreign land.  You all have been more than gracious with your blessings, thanks, and prayers.  This being said, I am not here everyday.  This is work I do pro bono on my own time.  I am in a busy private practice and I try to answer questions as soon as possible.  Please refrain from follow up posts asking why I have not responded.  Thank you so so much
7/3/09
I thoroughly enjoy helping however, although I have asked politely, several posters are still repeating their posts.  It makes the thread longer than it needs to be.  Henceforth, I will not reply any posts that are repeated within a week.  Thank you and I look forward to helping you

Hi Doc.For weeks now have been have been having all kinds of illness:headaches, migraine, dizziness, faint tendencies, blurry vision, red eye, swollen tender breasts without tingles, mild pelvic cramps, frequent urination, red palms, tingling sensations on fingers and feet, dry mouth, itchy eyes, tingling sound in ear, heightened smell, warmer temperature,mettalic tastes in mouth, flash spots hot flashes, little itchy boils on my arms around the belly and thighs, even weight gain. These are all what am experiencing without vomiting. I did a home made test it was negative, i did blood test also negative, did malarial and thyphoid negative. The doc on duty said its stress. STRESS? causing swollen and tender breast with cramps?, pls doc have tried everything to confirm whats going on. So happy to come across this thread today. pls what may be wrong with me. thanks.

Lovethywilbedon:
Honestly you are a totaly misinformed confused being. First you started this thread with a type of BLASPHAMOUS comparism (of the catholic church with peganism) use in the 16th century by your fathers in faith to misguide ILLITRATES who can't read and write. Wake up Slumber, we are in the 21st Century when we have something like the internet. It is now easy to know the true teachings of the Catholic Church by visiting any of our websites. Even a SINCERE Protestant knows that what you copied and pasted here is nothing but a "CRAP", I mean SOLID WASTE FROM THE BOWELS. You also went ahead to BLASPHAME that Christ didn't honor Mary. Your are implying that Christ went through his life violating the Forth Commandment. Know this today that Christ honoured Mary more than any man or angel could do, when He obayed and granted her reques at the wedding in cana, even though according to Christ it is not yet the time appointed by his Father. It is the same as saying that Christ went agains Gods time, plan or will just to fulfil His mothers request. That is a "GRAET HONOUR" to Mary. Do you think Christ would have granted that request if it was made by Peter. Do you think He will grant a request against Gods plan if it was made by Abraham, Isaac, Jacob or even an Angel. But He granted it to His mother. THAT'S "GREAT HOUNOUR". You said that all honour belongs to God. That is correct. But you don't know that you owe honour to a uniformed Nigerian policeman. That is one problem with wrong and literal interpretation of the bible. So you don't know that you owe honour to Simple Object like the Nigerian Flag, the Nigerian Coat of Arm, and the little N20 note. If you think the apostle deserve any houour for what they went through, why shouldn't a greater honour be given to the mother of my Redeemer, The Mother of my LORD, I mean THE MOTHER OF my GOD. Your level of IMATURITY IN CHRISTIAN FAITH made you think that the apostles suffered more than Mary. Let me inform you today that what Mary suffered in her Heart and in her Soul is far greater than what any Apostle suffered in the flesh. You make me laugh in your display of childishness with the names of Christ. It is just like saying that the real name of Peter is Cephas, or that the real name of John is Jean, or that the real name of Mary is Maria. Are you not refering to the same persons with different languages?. Greek and latin are not like english which doesn't trasnlate Names of People. It is obvious from the contents of you posts that you know NOTHING about the Church you are attacking and too IMATURE to understand the LOGICAL implication of you comments.

In fact the way some people talk here, shows they don't have a mother at home. If they can even value their mums close to even worshipping her, and giving her high regards more than their own wives, what is the big deal on respecting the womb that willingly and kept herself clean for the coming of our dear lord?

ArewaSweetheart:


Alright then.

@op, i aint a medical professional, hence i cant say much on infertility issues. But i really see no reason a man would refuse to accompany his wife to the clinic for diagnosis in the event they cannot bear child. Only an insensitive husband would do such & such insensitivity may stem from a number of factors (of which i think pride is not one). Typical examples are:
- mere indifference;
- already with child(ren) & content;
- pedophobia/misopedia.

My two kobo.

i still pity such men that have kid(s) by sidechicks outside, without confirming first if they can fully impregnate a woman or kuku do DNA on the children. If as a man you have fertility issues in your home and a side chick informs you she is pregnant, be very careful. She knows what you really really need and she believes she can give you. Imagine telling a side chick you already have kids(even if you are not) she will make sure she is on the pills and fear any pregnancy. She will even be the one to call for an abortion. But what lady wants to abort a pregnancy for a man whom she knows he really wants a child badly and also comfortable. They are rare.

hollah123:
omoluabi in the house,this is another Igbo hating cos Adeboye doesn't support their seccesion agenda.

They have paused d hate on Tinubu for now n they have started the pull him down by all means for Adeboye with their leader being odudwaR,yorubas open your eyes n see the bile in the Igbos u believe loves u.

They support the double edged sword mbaka but want to bring Adeboye down

Fulanis quick to jam heads together, ku ise oo...

CodeTemplar:
They should go and ask african gods, why didnt they advanced us technololgically or help discover crude oil. gods and idols are scams...

Actually, African gods are more interested in the affairs of marriages and reproduction-following a woman about to check if she is cheating on hubby as well as supporting multiple births. Scientific inventions? oh puleeassee...

[quote author=Holycity post=101433110][/quote]
i remember vividly when i was in school in a city with just 3 letters which starts with U. After having hectic lectures that ended around 5-6 that day, i decided to go to a shopping mall to get all my provisions for the month.

During schooling, i made sure i have my personal intentions of going to church whenever i get back from school, cos i stayed in a hostel. That day i came back late and tired so i did not go to church as usual. So after buying all my things at the mall i decided to flag down one keke like that.

There were just two guys at the back so i entered last(sitting outer). All of a sudden, the driver stopped, The guy sitting in the middle had to get down, of which he did, so we continued our journey. Then again, the keke man stopped, this same guy entered again, which made me automatically sit in the middle. I was just unsuspecting of anything. They started enticing me with expensive clothes, shoes and bags that is kept in some warehouse, one was speaking french the other one was interpreting to me in the local dialect. I just sat and not utter a word, as a sharp lagos brought up, we were always warned not to put mouth in wetin no concern us. So as were still moving, the guy speaking dialect to me after seeing i did not even respond to him at all, thinking prolly i was new in town or don't know the language, immediately told the keke driver to drive straight to the 'warehouse' without my consent. That was when i shouted and spoke very aggressive to the driver, i said "if i slap your head from back you go carry me go main gate, abi you dey mad?". Dear Brethren in Christ,you needed to see how this keke man packed by the side of the road and ordered me to come down with immediate effect, and hurled all sorts of names at me at drove off...though i was pained because they dropped me just half my journey and it was getting dark, but i was happy and grateful because the devil missed me. They were about taking me down the airport road if not for my stern hesitation. We need to be careful.

fexyrich:
if you can kill your own husband because he bleeped up.. Then I pity the man that marries you

if its okay to cheat on your wife prolly she lacks bedroom confidence and style, no more fashionable or lookimg fat... i pity the woman you go put for house...

Mouth Maker spotted! Why The Matter Pain You Pass The Man Wife? Abeg sister Shift to The Left jor... Highest You Can Do Is Put Poison Inside Food Give am...

if easy to put poison for food, go put na...

Pearlyakin:

Find another thing to say, what you are saying is stale already
Disgruntled fool, scavenging on a dead thread.

overfed fool... especially one with no direction... no wonder you scream attention like a baby denied his toys.

Infoseye:


If you had an training in the first place you wouldn't be posting this trash on here, men wouldnt treat you like trash if you aint trash to begin with!!!

Hi misogynist, so you alive, isn't God ever faithful?, listen stupid you and your ilk shud blame your mamaa and society for not giving tou that much needed training to begin with. idiot.

Pearlyakin:

I don't reply an Osu slave from erosion ravage region, scavenging on a dead thread.

One who does not even know his father, is it not high time you people remodel that isp camp in ibadan by changing those disgusting brown roofs, we are no longer in the afonja times.

AgentNairaland:


No mind Afonja for allowing them

no mind dem, fulani conquered north and west, but not eadt. Ain't we just the formidable. Let them keep shouting osu upandan, that was cultural which has been sanctioned. Theirs is not only cultural, its economical and political. Which of them have the balls now to reclaim ilorin now. If aboki no bring pepper, them no fit chop ewedu their own indigenous food oo, lazy things. No wonder they sing their praises all day long.

Iamgrey5:
i can see you have a "post degree" with way you type like a secondary school student Just learning how to use computer for the very first time.

Next time, pick on someone with your lackluster understanding of history.

hahahaha shift jo, your session has ended, next.

Iamgrey5:
Please stop disturbing me with your secondary school education level.

When you are ready to make reasonable arguments based on well researched Peer reviewed article, please don't hesitate to mention me.

Uncle fslc holder, i have a post degree, so shut up and listen when you are schooled. run along.

Donald95:


At least even during Biafran war, The combination of USSR , Egypt, Britain couldn't defeat Them, they had to block off our food source and destroy our farms.

So. when we tell you that we fought British in late 1800s, we mean real war.

Read more here https://www.nairaland.com/3314515/biafran-technology-inventions-display-umuahia

Don't mind them, small number of fulani came in the night, but hijacked their land in the morning, not even an enduring time of struggle.No wonder they say the average yoruba can fear even what is not known.

MKULTRA:
I see so much bitterness and pain on this thread from peeps of the other side of niger.

Ok at least the yorubas got some history to show (if you got some written history thats an evidence of civilization)

Some guy made a pretty bad alliance with an overzealous expanding empire (sokoto caliph) because of his taste for power which turned out to be a grave move.

Mind you we have seen this act many times before in history

Example was stalin which he made an alliance with the nazis and then it turned out to be a grave move for the Soviets but luckily they were able to recover and rest was history.

Many empires have made pretty bad mistakes and they moved on even stronger.

But my question is this, do our bittered peeps from the other side of the Niger have history to show when all this were going on.

Oh sorry I guess we found some of their rare history.

hahah, better this than being beaten like a child in your ancestral land.

Gabriel004:
, you get time. No be people wey sell aba made fighter jet to US army again. Believe them, on your own. Well maybe they resisted by declaring fasting and prayers as we have known them for.

Our innovations no matter how small can pain u pple to the stomach. well i don't know any toy you guys have ever discovered since amala. *giggling*.

Iamgrey5:
please go above your SS3 class and make more research.

Thanks.

Uncle i dont do wikipedia edits like you do, even textbooks are compilation of facts. if you doubt, then you should be ashamed that you are even educated. there are diffent types of media, print, visual and audio media. i know you don't know. Its okay, not all Afonja kids are that grounded. So pls forgive my intellectual contributions and deviation, can we continue about the cowardly acts of your people?. Nah don't thank me, for what?

Iamgrey5:
please go above your SS3 class and make more research.

Thanks.

Uncle i dont do wikipedia edits like you do, even textbooks are compilation of facts. if you doubt, then you should be ashamed that you are even educated. there are diffent types of media, print, visual and audio media. i know you don't know. Its okay, not all Afonja kids are that grounded. So pls forgive my intellectual contributions and deviation, can we continue about the cowardly acts of your people?