Someone just said they are now Beacon Gate Consults with the very same address. Just stay careful out there.

Toks2008:


You sound depressed. What is going on with you? Why the baseless attack?

Pained as how? I should go better my life? are you sure you don't have a mental illness? i think i will have to stop responding to you at this point cos your response is suggestive of someone battling with depression. Your incoherence is worrisome. We are discussing one thing you are spewing something totally different. Please go get help fast.

Cheers.

Lol sir, go and repair your home. Am done with your engaging.

Mikael0407:
A coursemate of mine was in the bus
Rip to the dead

My warmest sympathy

Toks2008:


I dont understand the reason for this emotional outburst. What i wrote is my opinion based on real life situations and what i have seen happened first hand. Let me also reiterate that i am not old nor young but i have lived over 40years on earth and whatever i write regarding romance on nairaland is golden by my reckoning but it remains an opinion which is non binding on anyone meaning you could just ignore it.

Many ladies on nairaland have PMed me to thank me for my no holds bar pragmatic stands on matters regarding romance. It is your choice to read and comprehend objectively or continue to allow your emotions run wild but no matter how hard you try to counter this, it is a reality .

You are the one pained and emotional with long senseless epistle...your type cry foul when your white counterpart discriminate against you, calling them racist because they have more access to better life than you. I dont care if you are 100 decades old ok...everybody have their mates everywhere, it does not still mean you made sense and you do not know my age as well. Go and better your life. In better prospective projects that can help humanity your type is very scanty or non existent but become PhD holders on top woman body. Pained old man.

Bluffly:

Mr lecturer. The fact still remains, that the paparazzi of voice over video watch is useless without real time monitoring, which would have prevent the calamity and the girl would still be arrested.

No one is disputing that fact, we are working with whats on ground, So as real time no dey, should we not work on what we need, mr student?

dancok:
They should sack every one in the CCTV department,They are waste of salary.

They are already sacked effortlessly.

advanceDNA:


that's what i said too oooooo.
Are we sure its not the owner that want to blow up his shop so that insurance can pay.

Nine year olds no dey kuku go jail.

Why drag the owner of his own sweat and blood into this? how much will insurance pay him for pulling such a stunt on his years of hardwork, haba,and to what end?

Toks2008:


Sis or bro please believe what you want if that will make you sleep at night.

I have stated my candid opinion based on real life situations.

Ladies rant about contracting std as if they will never make love with another man without a condom who is not immune to sleeping with another lady without a condom hence stands the chance of infecting the same lady who ran out of her marriage cos her husband cheated on her.

You talked about ladies leaving their hubbies to be with a better person..

Please define your better person in the context of this discussion...

Ladies are the biggest hypocrites especially African ladies who will not mind to be a side dish or 10th wife of a billionaire yet will cry like a wailing banchee if their struggling or not well to do husband cheats on them.. Bunch of confused selfish shallow minded species.

Sis I am way above 4decades in life I don't know your age but it will be in your best interest to put your raging emotions in check and face reality...

ONLY A FOOLISH WOMAN LEAVES HER MARRIAGE COS HER HUSBAND CHEATS... I could interpret this in many languages if needs be.

The worst part is that these shameless ladies who wail cos their husband cheats on them had also dated a married man before or probably enjoyed a randy life as unmarried lady but they suddenly think they have the audacity to control a man's sexuality...

I don't blame them but the simpletons of men who cheat on their wives until she finds out and makes a big deal of it.

A real man will tell his wife he is getting another wife not because he does not live her but he wants to for the fun of it.

Let her pack out if she likes and starts looking for a guy that will covenant his dck to only her for the rest of his life.

Please let me just stop here. Continue fooling yourself until you realize too late.

Cheers and happy Sunday.

You don't tell a woman how to live her life, while men are allowed to go wild. You religion permits four wives and background concubines if you may. So you see we don't share the same view, you don't impose ur ideologies on others. There's more to a woman than just being a wife, not to talk of a wife to a philanderer. Good evening.

As if people saying they should leave her that she is just a kid can let this issue slide if it happened to them. If its their kids they will really deal with, not to talk of another person's own.

RSVP:



we all at some point in time have done something really nasty as a kid that would have killed us or caused major harm to our family or ourselves but then it's out of innocence or probably ignorance as a kid.

But something is really different in this case.
From her step towards the gas area and how she took the lighter and light out the gas, she even stopped when someone passed by and continue again seconds after. She successful light up the fire knowing fully well the gas would ignite other items and burn really well.

She was looking back just to be sure of what she's has done and left that scene immediately. To me, this is intentional.

A kid that doesn't have a glue of what she's doing would happily stay there and watch the fire burn to her amusement.. infact an innocent kid would try and light up another item out of ignorance and even keep the lighter for herself to play with next time. Almost every kid would love the sound of a gas leaking rather than lighting up a fire to it.

This little girl just carried out someone's assignment.

I won't be surprised if this was a revenge by someone or just a hoax by the owner himself but believe you me, that little eve is not the real demon here

Very wise observation. Did u not notice how she was gallivanting down to the cooker, just to avert any suspicion?, was 9yrs when i first entered secondary school, so is she a kid of 5 years or what? we are too emotional without thinking or facing the truth, a normal child of that age is receiving good strokes of cane somewhere for another offence. Pls stop this she is a baby thing. Police do your jobs don't beat her or harm her pls, she needs persuasion to make investigation successful. God help them.

Bluffly:


I tire o. I was about to say that as well. If someone was watching the CCTV in real-time, the calamity would have been prevented by putting out the fire early enough. Moreso, it appears that they do not have fire extinguishers well situated in the supermarket for quick response.

Do you really know what is voice-over?

CJ310:


I couldn’t disagree more. You’d think a competitor would employ a professional rather than a 9 year old on a routine visit to the mall with her family.

This reminds me of several times I lit up stuff while playing as a child. We once lit something in my school toilet but we put it out before it escalated. As a former mischievous child, I know what was going on in her head. There’s no conspiracy here, just one very mischievous girl.

Not mischievous from studying the video well, after litting the cooker up... she left still looking back checking if she carried out the job. A mischievous child will quickly freak out realising what she did, in fact she will start fretting.

SeaTrade:
I strongly support the idiot should stand trial and be given the death penalty.
If you are old enough to damage property worth billions that your parents can't afford and risk lives in the process,then I think you should also be old enough to face trial.
Ugly,malnourished looking dingbat crab!!!
Also I blame the parents too for shitty parenting,
All these stupid parents that paint the world as a fairytale to their shitty looking kids as evident from her gross pot belly at 9
She probably did it to spite her mom who might have offended or annoyed her.

Aaah God... this insult ehn fit make the mama craze

tanidabi:
am sure the marriage was really to get papers,there are some decisions you take in life that only yu and your God should take it,it's not fair what he's done,i have an aunt in the same situation infact it's been over 10 yrs and they don't even have kids,she's already 45 and the man has settled down in us and has kids but my aunt is still hopeful that she will go and join them.I had a similar situation but this time in Uk,when i got tired i took a visa and went to uk myself,eventually it did not work,let him know you want to move on with your life that you are tired of waiting,maybe not divorce yet but you have a right to affection ,what do men take us for sef?log of woods that will stay faithful for 6yrs whle they are away with another woman?Do what you think is best for you,life is short jare.

whats the hope at the age of 45 to join one man who already has kids in US? this post is 2013, has she gone now?

Emperor5:
Oyedepo is just speaking in parable...he sack the pastor's because of low income in their various church. No doubt church have become business center where pastor's go extra mile to extorted gullible one, they don't preach about salvation anymore, they are after offering and tithes.... Imagine, in some churches offering are made about 4 to 5 times in each mass... Pastor will ask if you want God to bless you this week drop 100k in the alter, some people will mumuciously drop it and keep dreaming for magic to happen...no be juju be dat. Now poor members are no more regarded in the house of God, is this what Christ thought them as Christianity. This single attitude by so called man of God has force some people out of church.
I believe time shall tell when African will realize that what so called pastor's preach is not part of Christianity

Going to add this to my next look-up... hahaha

ViolentMooslim:
"We have more employees in this Organisation than most of the States"


Na the same chest beating dem de do for covenant university. Thier product, after spending that milions, dey still hustle for npower or bank clerk jobs.


Do you know what a state means? Do you think that a state have 10,000 employees?


Chest beater.


Please, be clear by what you mean by "GROWTH INDEX"

Souls can't be growth index because, souls can be won but then not converted to a church member. So, what is the index Sir.

I attend Assemblies of God
And I am not against the church, but against charlartans

You don't need to quote the church you go, as your moniker has sold u out.

ViolentMooslim:
"We have more employees in this Organisation than most of the States"


Na the same chest beating dem de do for covenant university. Thier product, after spending that milions, dey still hustle for npower or bank clerk jobs.


Do you know what a state means? Do you think that a state have 10,000 employees?


Chest beater.


Please, be clear by what you mean by "GROWTH INDEX"

Souls can't be growth index because, souls can be won but then not converted to a church member. So, what is the index Sir.

I attend Assemblies of God
And I am not against the church, but against charlartans

You don't need to quote the xhurch you go, as your moniker has sold u out.

MIKOLOWISKA:
what was their population?
What was their diet?
Continue you hear and learn the hard way like Nauru did

Get off my mention...zombie

Toks2008:
After watching a video on YouTube, I'm compelled to ask this question...

Why do many ladies see nothing wrong in this first scenario and see the second as a serious issue.

First scenario

1. Titi meets two friends, Richard and Tom... She desires Tom so much but it was Richard who approached her first and of course she turns him down... Tom gets the vibe that she likes him, he tries his luck and voila she is in... Richard finds out latter and is cool with it.. No issues at all The lady also sees nothing wrong in dating a guy who is a friend to a guy she just turned down.

Another scenario

2. Dare Meets two good friends, Tara and Lizzy... Lizzy desires Dare so much but he goes for Tara and Tara turns him down but the guy gets a good vibe from Lizzy and tries his luck and Lizzy gladly obliges but Tara starts to go crazy threatening her friend for going out with a guy she turned down...

Are both scenarios not the same? Why do many ladies feel the first instance is cool and the second one isn't?

Even if the lady dates the guy and latter dumps him for whatever reason, what is her headache if her friend now falls in love with the same guy...? Is there anything wrong if another person sees what you dumped as a treasure.

Is there a written law that states that a lady can't date a guy her friend rejected or the ex of her friend?

What is your opinion?

mtcheewww

zaralady:
Your advert alone is very arrogant, you want to pay Bsc or Hnd graduate 40k and you don't want Ond to apply you refer them to over ambitious job seekers. You are an arrogant employer who takes pleasure in underpaying staff and is looking for the best.

Good riddance to bad rubbish!!

easy

Joy1706:
Na no. 4 sure pass o. I know of someone wwho husband was a chronic cheat. She prayed o, begged o every every. One day she told him to his face that th days of her being faithful are over. Now na she dey do pass the man. The man has begged, threatened, reported her. For where? He can't chase her out as she contributed to the building of the house. Now the man don mellow but the woman's own just dey start

How is she now? kindly advise her to sell the property or leave... Knowing she got that property too, gives the man some insecurities... To avoid stories that touch. Besides is her name on the land document... if no its inconsequential.

Toks2008:


lol.. nah today woman don dey cheat?

The point is that for a woman with a slutty mindset number 4 is perfect for her but at the end she will be a miserable loner because after screwing the whole men she can find,she will end up a miseranle loner for the rest of her life.

I see such ladies everywhere who galivants about in the 20s 30s and even early 40s after they were driven out by their hubby just to be alone in their later years.

One secret many ladies dont know is that except a man is really rich,all his gragra is just for a short time.

Have never seen a woman alone either she has a hubby, fiance, boyfriend, friends or family...has it not beat your imagination that many divorced women become even better with themselves and prosper at their jobs and businesses, doors are open to them.... help they could not find when married comes in handy?

what am saying is it takes two to tango... better stay single with your health intact than be with a man who 4cks around like stray dogs and risk contacting sicknesses or curse.Ladies,many men don't like using condoms, they say flesh to flesh is better or sweeter, stop wasting your money nmbuying them and putting it in his coat. They automatically become very comfortable with their mistresses along the line and quit using it,exposing you to health risks. A lot of men hear dnt even wish for their daughters to marry men like themselves.

Toks2008:


Absolutely you are free to cheat on a vheating hubby...its your choice as long as you can bear the stigma.

See dont ever be among those who claim equality with men when it comes to philandering except you just want to jettison your essence as a woman.

If you are divorced base on adultry,walahi it will take the grace of God to find even a blind man to marry you except he has no clue...be wise.

No, There are many divorced women who gets married again even to better men than their husbands, except the lady is no linger interested in marriage and just wanna leave her life... its talks like this that make women settle for less for the fear of the unknown. The so called blind man in your post,should be more concerned in regaining his sight first so he can see who he wants to marry.

Ladies do whatever makes you happy... your happiness first...for the first time in your lives quit leading other people's lives and live yours... wanna stay married and you are happy, stay... if you wanna divorce and you believe you will be happy after divorce, go for it...U r not in chains whatsoever. just DO you.

christopher123:


I have been to Arab world I have been to Alexandria and Dubai and I have seen Coptic Christians in Egypt's I have seen Lebanese Christian

I don't know why you won't believe me ....I have not seen any Igbo man doing ablution or doing Islamic prayer ...I was born in IMO and I am from Anambra so I am talking from experience even in my university days also


I repeat even if they are ...it's business process and I like suilaman... Give me the contract and I will answer Muslim name to please you ....bysinessmust be done

Take this or leave it

Had someone like that, that immediately told the family he is now a muslim. Trust christians now, no one even castigated him or pushed him out, only saying "its well, God have mercy on you", dude felt so free in the house recanting the beads and all. We really thought the guy was serious because he started having little connect here and there even heard he traved to mecca, became Alhaji and all. In fact it reached a point you can't just call him on a normal day because he will literally not pick or hand over to someone else to answer you. What happened now dude is just in his lowest low, no money, no more help from his connection, Alhajis and all...infact if you call him now by his native name he will answer and add sir to it. One has to stay true to himself. He got carried away at the point he got converted, such religion can promise you political and material opportunities just so you join the 'growing' statistics. Well i don't know if its so. But his case was glaring. Just because of what you are promised one can sell his conscience his identity. Something the muslims can never do no matter how enticing except prolly on the well-permitted taqiyya. We can do better.

caribbeangirl:
Hi do you do small contract work for people outside of Africa I am seeking contract work for men's clothing with 2 or 3 talented tailors.

hi sent a pm

gentlegenius:
OP, I had a good friend who left this country for Dubai early this year and he's been telling me everything going on there. According to him, the agent that processed his visa lived in Dubai and the visa he secured for him was an employment visa. That means before he even left Nigeria, they have already secured up to four different jobs for him to choose one. When he arrived, he chosed a job in a construction company where he works till now and is living fine.
I know it's not all that rosy in the diaspora but trust me some countries are much better to stay than this horrible country of ours. My friend in Dubai is now urging me to come over there if I can't find a good job in Nigeria this year. He said with a little money, you'll be very OK over there because the cost of living is minimal compared to Naija.
So please gather your facts very well before posting these kind of stories here.

hi sent a pm

LadyRosa:


Oga! The guy dey build house for Warri! His first house FOR THE FIRST TIME IN HIS LIFE! UNA TOO LIKE SUFFERHEAD NIGERIAN BUHARISTS. person dey abroad dey build house after many years of suffering in naija, no be progress be that?Una witchcraft too much!

Sis, u spoke well. They don't know that this naira devalue favours those abroad, because a dollar is much more over here... yes the buharists can stay in the comfort of their homes with govt fund and criticise does that want to make it out the Nigerian enclave. so its expected.God bless the warriboy more doors will be open unto him.

NewDawn2O21:
before he traveled to Canada he should have made enquiries to know the cost of living in Canada.
That's exactly what I did and when I realized the cost of living there is high I dropped the plans

Right. He went over to live in choicy areas and couldn't get a job to augment his da vida loca style. Fine no one wants to live in the slums abroad, but you can still get a somewhat modest place you can put up... and he went with family again. He would have left them behind so he can be flexible with managing himself well, send money and save more, while anty can get something doing, manage herself with kids in Nigeria pending when its all cleared for them to relocate.

EmekaChiwe:


Most people do not realise what they are enjoying in Nigeria.

Lot of free stuff in Nigeria

What is free in Nigeria... i think the air we breathe.. thats why Nigerians are too comfortable to be poverty index in world statistics... things are free yet the average man is poor capped with no security.

descarado:

Bill are inevitable in Nigeria too.
The only diff is that Nigerians cut corners.
Both rich and poor.

It's hard to cut corners abroad.

Bills are higher in Nigeria actually when you do the math.

The way some people think baffle me... dude is talking as if things are free in Nigeria even education is not free, for you to get stuff done you have to oil palms or no way. At least ur income can clear up your bills abroad yet fulfill your responsibilities to those at home but in Nigeria you bills pile up with crazy responsibilities... many people are still in lalaland.