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@ bludeville> Thanks for that post. A couple of weeks ago, I also asked this question on why Nigerian ladies are so desperate for marriage.

PLS LADIES, YOU DON'T NEED A MAN TO BE WHAT YOU ARE MEANT TO BE PUT AWAY ALL THE LOW SELF ESTEEM AND BE YOURSELVES

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It's either she needed servicing which you gladly did or she is feeling guilty of sleeping with someone she hardly know too well.

In any case, I suggest You move on with your life if she is not ready to relate with you anymore.

apocalypse: Not entirely true , some men get bored with having sex with same woman every time and not because she doesn't give it to him

"Something he is not getting" here might not be intimacy, it could be other things eg, some women once they change to your name, stops bothering about their appearance, others refuse to widen their intellectual horizons etc

Delfino: Where are you not meeting up
A man is very easy to handle but i dont just understand why you girls of today dont know this!

A man would only look for something outside that is not getting at home !!!

I am sorry for the likes of you op who derive pleasure in running others down for a cheap political point. I hope you have gone to Okija to dance with TAO before exhibiting your stupidity for him.

Of course a snake can not give give birth to a dove! BOTH OUK AND TAO ARE BIRDS OF SAME FEATHER!

come to think of it, this TAO is he CHINCO?

no wahala

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THANKS BRO,LOVE YOUR PIECE AND HOPE OUR YOUTHS WILL SEE REASON IN IT!

Humblekay U get mind o o, I just carry my tea now near body make I use your CAUCASIAN BREAD eat am, only to come see dog there
You can be sued for misleading Nairalanders Abeg change the bread to breed

If He left you,He is not good enough for you so let go of him and move on with fresh goals. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR THE PITS!

Actually, only you can know you better but come to think of if WHO BROKE YOUR HEART THIS BAD?

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@I.D.I.O.T> YOU NEED PSYCHIATRIC EVALUATION BEFORE YOU GO NA.KE.D

Ok! that's great.
Keep it coming!

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sorry but your post is not making sense to me eg why did she(Chinese woman) make the statement?

COS EVERY "MAN OF GOD/PASTOPRENUER" WANT'S TO BE GENERAL OVERSEER!

CrazyMan: Low self esteem...you have to work on this.


What do you mean by this...how can you not call someone, and claim you want to make them happy.


You can be passionate about your business, and still show care to those you love...your business shouldn't be an excuse for your failure to live up to your responsibilities as a man.


Most women want to be loved and taken care of....you can't exhibit a nonchalant attitude towards someone you claim to love, and expect her to remain mute...she would definately be worried.

If you love her as you claim, then I would suggest to devote more time to that relationship and spend more time with her.


Who elso do you expect her to run to?

You don't call her, you don't assure her of your undying love...why shouldn't she be worried...her father is the best friend she's got at the moment.

And if you see that as a problem, then you obviously aren't as matured as you claim to be.


If you want to be happy, you can start by making her happy...

Good luck.

GOOD JOB BRO!

@OP Sorry to say but if you can't create time for your partner now that you are courting, honestly your marriage is going to be a difficult one cos TIME IS ONE NEED FOR A HAPPY HOME ESPECIALLY TIME SPENT TOGETHER.

GIVE A WOMAN YOUR TIME AND GET HER HEART FOREVER!

well I don't see anything wrong in a guy asking the ladies for direction
I also can't see a good reason for the cold shoulder.

Going by the statistics of 9/10 toast, Ladies should thank the guys for appreciating them. Imagine living a whole 6months as a lady with no man looking your direction much less asking for direction If you can't give the number simply say "thanks but I can't", "sorry but thanks" and move on!

WELL , THIS MORNING, I VE LEARN T NOT TO ASK LADIES FOR DIRECTIONS AGAIN

Is the prophet fake? I DON'T KNOW
BUT
1. What I do know, Not every relationship will end in marriage
2. It is far better and easier to break courtship than it is to break marriage

Having said that let them pray and ask God for direction for He is not an author of confusion rather promised that He has the thought of good for us and not of evil so, if they are gonna be happy in that marriage, God will direct them but if not, He will also show them.

BETTER A HAPPY SINGLE THAN FRUSTRATED COUPLE WITH NO LOVE!

CHEERS!!!

As good as faith is, it does not take the place of honesty cos they are different. Your man ought to have filled you in before the marriage and then ask for your support if you can but now I SEE THE WHOLE PROCESS AS A SHAM!
A situation where people hide under the guise of religion to cover their sins is as bad as it can get.

Was he already a pastor before he became impotent or impotent before becoming a pastor? If the latter then, He is not even qualified to be a pastor cos he saw priesthood as a means of escape from shame and now thinks the congregation and other pastors who are watching him can be fooled by marrying you as house keeper.
WELL THE DECISION IS YOUR
IF YOUR FAITH CAN CARRY STANDING WITH HIM AND YOU STILL LOVE HIM GO AHEAD!
IF YOU CAN SACRIFICE YOUR JOY TO KEEP HIS SHAME, THAT WILL BE GREAT! AFTER ALL THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT BUT BE WARNED THAT THERE WILL BE FRUSTRATING MOMENTS AHEAD!

BUT IF NOT,
THE MARRIAGE WAS A FAILURE FROM THE BEGINNING SO, FIND YOUR EXIT ROUTE!


My 1kobo
wishing you the best!