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siofra:
Tell that to 16 year old Sikira that lives on your street she'll believe you.

I live a very quiet life in a quiet estate, I don't even see my neighbors, drive out to work and drive back home, I no get anybody time

FirmTR:
Although to me, it's irresponsible for a woman to smoke, but still can be friends with one in a non-romantic way.

I get what you mean bro

siofra:
You think you have sense shebi

But sha datboredberry is an open-minded person, so she might consider you.

Thank you for your recommendation that wasn't asked for

Deffjam:
interested..

I dey Abuja

Truvelisback:
U just said a U.K based Naija girl. Op, is talking abt typical Naija girls.

I believe the thread says guys between 20-28 gain nothing from being in relationships, it doesn't specify if it's nigerian based or diaspora

siofra:
Datboredberry ruuuunnnn ooooo!!!

You this hairy balled guy, you no dey rest?

temitope27:
so what do you gain? That's the question

A lot.
Exposure
I became open minded
Financially bouyant too
She brought out a side of me I didn't know I had
She was everything and more
Too bad we couldn't make it to marriage cos I was too young at the time.... BTW she was older with 6 years so do the math.

siofra:
That's not my experience sha!

It happened to a friend of mine.

*cough* ugly

siofra:
Being beautiful is a serious flex

Somebody will just dash you money because he thinks you're beautiful.

Ugly hyena too wan dey enter beauty thread kikikiki I laugh in afghanistan

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

You wey dey talk are you beautiful? Or do you have good manners?

temitope27:
me sef dey think am, the place wey big pass stadium

Abi na swimming pool wey dem act titanic

Datboredberry:
Thanks! I noticed some men hold African women to impossible standards... Till they travel abroad and surprisingly, they don't mind the white women smoking...

I get your point

Where are you based? Maybe we can organise a smoking session, I do Rothman brown or switch, Bohem when I don't see either

Ratchet behavior, their woman absolutely suck ass when it comes to attitude, saucy as hell and can degrade you for the smallest reasons

Datboredberry:
Nice contribution! Why can't you marry a woman who smokes tho?

You vibe well with women who do... I think it's because you want a solid image... But it women who smoke weren't stigmatised, then there would be no need for this...

Another issue is that a white woman smoking is more tolerated in black communities than black women who smoke.

Assume you're engaged to a Dutch lady, and she's a light smoker... Is she also disqualified?

I'm just trying to see things from the perspective of a man...

First of all I don't judge people or my reaction towards people based on the color of their skin, that's racist, white or black or yellow, woman is woman to me, same reason I won't wife a Nigerian girl is the same reason I won't wife the Dutch one, its my principle

Orikinla:
I have been reading some posts by those calling mostly girls ugly and all that nonsense.

No girl is really ugly, except she has a deformity of some sorts.

Nigga please, stop calling any girl ugly.

Na your mouth we dey use call them ugly? Abi na you go tell me wetin my eye go qualify as fine or worwor? Take time oh op

Women who smoke turn me on, I am attracted to them a lot, we have a lot of fun together most times, na cruise and we dey fit relate well. But I can never and will never wife a woman that smokes.

Person no fit shit in peace again, wetin be this na

Funkyswagzz:
Some ladies will complain that you ask them for sex the first day you met her. Unlike asking for sex, a girl asking a guy for money you've not met before or even on a first date is the same.

There's a girl I really respect but we've not met and she always complain about money I just knew in a matter of time she will ask me for money. Just this morning I was chatting with her lo and behold she started asking for money and immediately I lost interest in her. Funny thing is she seems to take it as a normal thing.

Guys have u met girls like this before cos they turn me off asap.

Oga invite her over, kpansh her and give her the 5k she wants, most naija girls na olosho, no dey beh for here unless you no get the money

Dated a UK based naija girl when I was 22, best relationship I ever had, so OP not everyone must agree with your opinion that's why its called an OPINION

Pumpumking:

Hopefully b4 crissssmas, u shall wake up wit 2 big prikkk in yor mouth (mine & Mr Cork)....AMEN!!!

Ladies and gentlemen a lengendary reply

Your babe na olosho, simple and short. She no get feelings for the kpanshing so she just wan do am to satisfy you since you be her provider, such a SIMPle man you are.

Kill yourself, I no get advice to waste on idiots

People dey talk say them never chop for days na one degenerate smelly cunt dey give OP sleepless night, no be only love ma lumberjack, rubbish

Nope, but I have a crush on my friends sister, asin he's a very close friend....

At 22, also bought my first car at 22, was a really good year. Made several millions since then
Made it from building a few sites btw

captain247:
Best advice u nail it. She is now betrothed so keep off from another man's pot before you get into trouble. Find peace in God and friends and focus on achieving your dream. Yours will come

Simple and short bro

I would suggest you totally cut off all ties with her.

Its a Brown House Snake, not poisonous, only eats small rats and geckos, see as OP scatter the thing body lmao

shantti:
There is this female friend of mine, all the time she sees me I always put on a particular cloth, e come be like say I no get cloth

Your own funny oh

Any form of high that doesn't let you eat or sleep is evil and should be done away with

Kogi girls are sweet, I have a Kogi girl I'm bleeping and she's the sweetest so far, can't get her off my mind (Not Simping).