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Well tbh he's a child and kids act that way sometimes, he'll out grow it, beating him will only make it worse so please don't beat him again, just be patient, besides I think your wife is also at fault here, she probably spoiled him too much

Lol so those girls oloshos that were crying for him to marry them what next?

Dude your brother is on some serious drugs that's why he's selling stuff, you no fit sell AC because of weed na he has graduated to crystal meth or cr@ck he go soon sell everything wey dey. Get him to rehab

This country has failed us all

Omo your matter heavy gaan, reminds me of one of the American Pie movies where they said Stiffler cries when he cums lol but why cry tho? Sex is overrated

TechBIogger:
I just dugged your post and saw this thread you created.
Screenshot below
I'll create a thread and call you out.

You no well this guy

gift0123:
I need matured advice abeg, if possible married men and women only.

Make una help me put mouth for this matter abeg.....
I've got this my guy I love very much, its six months of dating him, although he annoys me most times.
When I brought up some issues concerning our relationship, I complained about some of the things he does that piss me off, I asked if he loves me and bla bla bla...
Anyway last week Friday he told me he likes me but he isn't taking the relationship serious...
This attitude of not taking our relationship serious is playing in my head often, I want to break up with him, or should I give him more time since it's just 6months...

I am 25 and my guy is in his 30's.

You must have cheated on him @ bolded prior to him making that statement, tell us the full story stop giving us half truths if you really want quality advice

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rzekman7:
I thought we’d turned the corner after a series of blazing rows. But it’s been more than a month …

I have been married to my husband for nearly four years. He is 34 and I am 33, with no children. We have had problems with our sex life in the past, as I’ve wanted it more than my husband. We have had blazing rows about this and though I felt we had turned a corner recently it’s now been more than a month since we were intimate. I am tired of the effect this has on my self-confidence. He regularly stays up late and I often go to bed on my own as he loses track of time. I am becoming despondent in our marriage overall, especially with the duties I used to take pride in. He makes a lot of effort to keep up with his hobbies and friends, so I feel as though our sex life isn’t important enough to him. I don’t want sex to be a chore but unless I said something he would never raise the subject. What do I do?

Come let me lay some pipes hot hot

This one dey school but 0 sense, car na achievement? The idiot that is mocking her father's mates which one does she have? Or even her father which one he get? 85% of Nigerian girls are beyond redemption, I sure say yahoo boys don use am

God of mercy what did I just read?

3,800 for that trash and she no return the food collect her money back see yarns lol

You'll be alright bro, just hang in there, focus on your studies graduate as a medical doctor and watch how things will get 100% better.

Bobmarie:
Rest and use proper punctuation next time.

Maybe you can teach me, should I pm?

Op this your English eh, e dey hurt my head to read am

Bobmarie:
Sentence construction? What a dunce.
Try using your full stops and punctuations in general.


Bros peanuts for brains.

Lmao e pain werey, go back and correct yourself before you keep quoting me, unless you're so dumb you can't even spot your blunder

Bobmarie:
Educated people can pass a message and clarify with insulting.

Try literacy, it’s great.

Try constructing your sentences properly madam literate

Bobmarie:
He’s not saying that you’re bad because you have a tattoo.

He’s saying most people automatically will think you’re a bad person at first glance before thinking any other thing. Stop throwing the word ‘uneducated’ about.

Because if you read properly without emotion like an educated person, you would’ve known he’s teaching about the dangers of stereotypes. No matter how accepted you wish it was, human beings will STILL stereotype you as different for having a tattoo.

Don't quote me again dumbo I called him uneducated because he said people with tattoos can't donate blood, don't be a zombie and type like you're brainless hun, or maybe next time just shut up, you'd look prettier with your mouth closed

Jennyclay:
As long as we're going out.. I can't be jumping okada with you.

I can't even date anyone without a car!!

Just shut up abeg

As for guy like me wey no broke and I come still get car join, I no dey experience all these things, I no dey simp either, normally no be every girl wey you toast go agree, even with my car I've met girls that still rejected me, it's not always about money, have you checked yourself? Do you smell nice? Do you dress well? Do you have nice breath? If all girls are rejecting you it is definitely not because you're broke or you don't have car, check yourself well, it may be your mannerisms, girls notice a lot beyond how fat your wallet is, some broke guys get more pussy than the rich ones so it's not always like that, most times I even get girls is when I leave my car at home and go for a stroll so there's no physical evidence that I'm mobile or anything, guys level up, change your thinking.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

Never take back a cheat, once a cheat, always a cheat, now OP let me give you this scenario, imagine on your wedding day the guy she sent her noods to is sitting at a table and smiling and in he's head he just pities you lol, imagine that and let it sink in. Forget her she's a sl*t move on and find a better lady

Heathrow44:
He still loves u, but u are not giving him the attention he deserves, so he's notifying u that he's noticed ur unruly behaviour and if u re no longer interested in the relationship kukuma tell him on time..

Gbamsolutely, I couldn't have said it any better

Nigeria has failed us all. Spits

Obodo oyibo, lol they're used to it

[quote author= post=113126021]Family Members are mourning their sister, Jennifer Ajodo, who was shot dead by gunmen in Bayelsa State.

The Deceased was among the four civilains killed when gunmen suspected to be kidnappers ambushed a police convoy at Idema- Otuabagi Road, Ogbia Local Government Area of the state.

The Victims were returning from the burial of a police officer on Saturday, May 14, when the gunmen opened fire on the convoy, killing five people including a police officer, Reports.

One of the Deceased's Sisters, Patience Ajodo claimed the attack was carried out by Bayelsa militants.

"Jenny baby I can't believe you have gone so soon. All the promises we made to each other is now vanity. Bayelsa militants took away my beautiful sister, it shall not be well with your killers they shall no know peace. May your soul rest in peace Amen. Till we meet to part no more" she wrote on Sunday, As Sighted By .

"Oh death today supposed to be ur birthday but you are no more, May God grant you rest in the bossom of the Lord. Happy posthumous birthday beautiful kid sis." she added on Monday, May 23.[/quote]Jesus Christ I know her, OMG Jenny haaaaaa, she just graduated from Unical last year na haba she's based in Abuja oh God what is this country turning into?? I'm weak my heart just sank after seeing this, heyyy God wetin be this?

IamV:
So, you're basically going to live a life where you will always have to keep convincing people that you're different despite having tattoos on your body ?
Not a life worth living.

That's dumb, most people don't give a hoot if I have a tattoo or not, the people I move with it's all about business, any right thinking human shouldn't care if you have a tattoo or not, it's not my fault that you Nigerians are backward savages

Better run

franchasofficia:
If you are not a celebrity making money from entertaining people, drawing tattoos on your body makes you look dirty and irresponsible to most people!


It becomes worst if you are a Nigerian living in Nigeria, that tattoo will devalue your worth before people, it will make Police and law enforcement agents prejudge you as a criminal even before you are found guilty of any crime.



It becomes even worst if you are a single female, your chances of finding responsible partner for committed relationship or marriage will become very slim. Even when you luckily get married, keeping the marriage becomes difficult because your MIL, ILs and everybody close to your husband prejudge you as a wayward woman not worthy of your husband, so any marital misunderstanding between you and your husband is blamed on you first before they even hear your side of the story.


And if you are a job seeker, your chances of securing a good paying job in a well established organization becomes almost impossible especially if your so called tattoo is visible.


Lastly, do you know that you cannot donate blood to anybody in case of emergency, which means if you eventually have a child or sibling or dear friend dying and in need of blood and your blood matches with his or hers, you cannot still donate to that person simply because you took an irrational decision to draw tattoos on your body which contaminates your blood.



So before you draw that tattoo on your body, ask yourself does it worth it? It doesn't worth the hype at all.


Remember nobody buys a Rolls Royce and use nail to scratch the body paint so that the Rolls Royce can become beautiful.


You are beautiful just the way you are, no amount of tattoos or piercings or makeup will make you prettier than you actually look, in fact, tattoos and piercings and some irrational fashion addons make you look dirty and unkempt if you are not a celebrity!

You wrote absolute bullsh*t lmao, I have a tattoo and I donated blood last year when my sis had an operation stop talking rubbish you know nothing about, having a tattoo doesn't make you less human or a bad person, it's just body art my girlfriend has tattoos and I would marry her someday so yeah, stop talking like an uneducated person. Thanks

April 9 looking for my June 10

YOUNGELDER1:
Same thing with Asaba

Asaba own na the worst

My babe is usually very Hot during her period, I'll admit we've done it twice and it's not so bad, I'm not a backward savage so I don't believe having sex with her during her period will block any grace lol

Thank your stars for her refusal, you don chop, clean mouth and move on joor