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3. Think about the difference between
a friendship and a romantic
relationship. If you think a romantic
relationship should just be a great
friendship with physical intimacy thrown
into the mix, then it's understandable to
look for common ground first, and wait
for the physical attraction to kick in
sooner or later. But not everyone sees
relationships this way. Some people
expect a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" to
play a particular role in their lives in order
for physical attraction to emerge. The
person who you want to be more than
friends with probably makes a bigger
distinction between "friend" and "romantic
partner" than you do. Realize that many
people (both male and female) expect to
be courted in some way. And many
psychological issues play out in the
relationship arena that don't ever arise in
friendships. Some people, for example,
look for a romantic partner who can play
more of a parental role than a friend
would.
Figure out what the person you're
pining for wants in a boyfriend or
girlfriend. Then decide whether you
want to be that for them.
Note that some people are attracted
to toxic relationships . If your love
interests keeps getting involved with
people who treat them badly, despite
your advice, you might just have to
accept that they're working through
some issues. You could spend your
entire life waiting for them to "see
the light" or you could move on and
find someone who actually (through
their actions, not their words) wants
a healthy relationship .

2.Stop being needy. One of the
reasons you might be interested in
this person more than they're into you is
because you are giving off signals that
you really want to be in a relationship! You
might be coming off as a little desperate,
which is quite the attraction killer. You
might be rushing things emotionally and
maybe physically.You might also be
placing this person on a pedestal, because
you're so caught up in the idea of the
relationship, that you're quick to assume
this person is "perfect".
Examine your own neediness. In one
word, relax. There will always be
many more encounters besides this
one, so stop treating it like the last
one you'll ever have. Also, don't
force yourself to reveal your hopes
for intimacy, let your actions display
your confidence. Your demeanor
should speak for itself.

Oh no! You're in love. But the object of your
affection thinks of you as more of a brother
or sister than anything else. While it's
notoriously hard to get out of the "friend
zone", if you really want to escape, follow
these steps.

If success has eluded you after
attempting these suggestions, it may be in
your best interest to vacate the friendship
altogether. This is particularly pertinent in
the case that 1. Every time you interact
with her the thought of not having her eats
away at you, or 2. She's taking advantage
of your infatuation to exploit you.

1. Break the "nice guy" or "sweet girl"
stereotype. Most guys and girls who
find themselves in the "friend zone" are
usually susceptible to many of the
characteristics of the "nice guy" or "sweet
girl" stereotype. This means pretty much
someone who wants to avoid making
other people uncomfortable at any cost,
but does so usually at their own expense
by not communicating their own needs.
Where you're romantically attracted to
someone, but you don't want to
"pressure" them into a relationship, or
"ruin" the friendship by expressing your
interest or making a move, you'll end up
holding back in a variety of ways. The
trouble is, when you make other people's
feelings more important than your own
(instead of finding that happy balance),
you're unconsciously communicating to
people that your own feelings don't
matter. This may make it seem like you
have low self-worth, which is the opposite
of confidence.
While some people are attracted to
ever agreeable mates, the person
who assigned you to the "friend
zone" probably is not. If nothing
else, inaction tells the other person
that you're simply not interested
(chances are, even if they never felt
attracted to you, they wondered
about your intentions).

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The walking dead hit the streets of the
Warehouse District in Minneapolis on Saturday to
set a new world record for the largest gathering
of zombies.

A grand total of 15,458 flesh-hungry participants
shuffled along closed off streets as part of the
annual Zombie Pub Crawl event.

Billed as the “world’s greatest undead party” ,
participants were kept entertained by DJ Steve
Aoki and rapper Juicy J on two outdoor stages
bars with food trucks, clubs and bars along the
route also participating in the event.

The gathering beat the previous record of 9,592
set by the New Jersey Zombie Walk (USA) in
Asbury Park, New Jersey last year.
Under the rules for the record, all participants
needed to wear zombie costumes or make up,
with the make up needing to include at least
white face, dark eyes and red colour.

As all those taking part also needed to be in
position simultaneously and remain so for a
minimum of five minutes, Minneapolis created a
zombie zone, sealing off an area from 3rd
Street to 6th Street and from Hennepin Avenue
to 2nd Avenue specifically for the record
attempt count.

Founded in 2005, the annual Zombie Pub Crawl
event had previously set the record in 2012 with
a gathering of 8.027.

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This is an old proverb my grandpa used to tell me. May his soul rest in peace. It goes like this :

"He who goes to bed with scratchy anus, wakes up with smelly hands"

If you have any idea of what it might mean, pls share it. Tnks

the third Smiley you omitted means BIG GRIN

kaya09:
You think she'll giv you püssy for defendin her? Eyah,sori
#shits on d thread

my dear boy. sex is not everything OK. let that be food for thought for you today and btw I'm #happilymarried

kaya09:
In short amadioha will fûck yr wide püssy for wasting my mb,biatch

Foool did she force you into the thread?
#some guys sha#


btw my dear.. love the post its quite funny especially the part abt gals trying to draw their mini skirts down wen dey see guys..

As for me, if I am happy with her I go with option A, if not option F.

If your topic is about Tonto Dike, you'll make frontage.

#thank me later

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Duh! My name LEERIC. it's romantic enough for me

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Although I'm not a lady but I'm going to give my opinion anyway. Coz you guys STINK!!!

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These are the list of things I've seen people doing to calm down when they're angry:

1. Call their 'lover' and chat with them for a pretty long time.
2. Take a stroll from whatever made them angry.
3. Listen to music.
4. Some persons who can't control their anger until they've destroyed something will probably look for something close by and destroy it.
5. Sit down and meditate for a while.

#What do you do when you're angry? *Share yours here!!* It might help someone with anger management issues viewing this topic.

Google should go to hell. To think they never contacted her b4 taking down the blog. Good thing she already has a new domain.

Google should go to hell. To think they never contacted her b4 taking down the blog. Good thing she already has a new domain

As the topic depicts, I'm afraid I may never get married cos I can't woo a girl, I'm 25 now and I've never had a real relationship. I gal wooed me once but it didn't last maybe because I wasn't the one who initiated the relationship. Seriously, I'm scared. I really really need your advice.

stupid post

For me, I think a gal will win it dis year and she'll be from Delta.

Share your thoughts!!

Yemi Alade

Take a look at 10 of the celebs that landed on
Amanda's ugly list.

1. Miley Cyrus : Amanda tweeted a pic of the
Queen of Twerk at the Billboard Music Awards
and called her 'ugly.' Miley later said in an
interview, "I won't even entertain that," adding,
"I think it's all so sad, that I don't want to add
any fuel to that fire. I was rooting for her
comeback until she started attacking me and I
just thought it was hilarious that she mentioned
my name the moment I was the worldwide
trending topic on Twitter."
Following Miley's interview, Amanda backtracked
on her previous sentiment, saying,
"@MileyCyrus thank you for rooting for me doll!
You are one of the prettiest girls! I want my
nose to look like yours after my surgeries!"

2. Sarah Hyland : Amanda kicked off a feud with
Sarah and her boyfriend Matt Prokop when she
called the Modern Family star "ugly." Matt was
not amused and quickly snapped back, "If you're
not hot I don't care about you. look in a
mirror...Stop getting work done. Save what's
left." Not one to go down without a fight,
Amanda fired back, "your girlfriend has an ugly
face like you."

3. The Obamas : Yup, Amanda insulted the
President of the United States. "Barack Obama
and Michelle Obama are ugly!," Amanda tweeted
for no apparent reason. Naturally, the POTUS
and his wife never responded.

4. Drake : Sure, at one point she tweeted that
she wanted the rapper to " murder her vagina ,"
but that was just how she felt on that particular
day. Since then, Amanda's love-hate relationship
with the "Started From the Bottom" crooner
has been all over the place, calling him 'ugly,' to
issuing an apology to calling him ugly again.

5. Jay-Z : Back in February, Amanda tweeted,
"Ugly face" and linked to a photo of Jay Z. She
later deleted the tweet.

6. Lance Bass : The former N'Sync singer and
Amanda got into a war of words in May after he
gave a radio interview saying he hopes she
"gets the help she needs." When she got wind
of the interview, Amanda tweeted, "I ignored
Lance Bass on twitter and now he is saying I
have a mental illness. Sorry you're an ugly ex
boy band member w/ no talent or career."
Lance responded, saying, "Ouch--The Amanda I
know would never had said something like this
to me."

7. Courtney Love: The rocker, who has had
troubles of her own in the past, tweeted ,
"@Amanda Bynes pull it together dude." To
which Amanda replied, "Courtney Love is the
ugliest woman I've ever seen. To be mentioned
by her at all makes me and all my friends
laugh!"

8. Rihanna: Amanda decided to go off on
Rihanna one random day in May, writing (and
then deleting), "You look so ugly tryin to be
white." And then this low blow, "Chris Brown
beat you because you're not pretty enough."
Rihanna seemed to respond to Amanda's attack,
writing, "List of things nobody got time for: 1.
That!" Amanda snapped back, calling the singer
"fugly."

9. Kid Cudi : Amanda took aim at Complex
Magazine and Kid Cudi at the same time,
tweeting, "I'm so sick of the articles you write
about me. I want every fake article deleted. Ur
d*ck whipped by my ugly ex @ducidni who's
looks and talent have always been questionable
to me, him being the ugly duckling that he is
and all. U quote him non stop, then take
professional shots of him for ur covers, his best
photos aren't sh*t compared to mine at my
best."

10. Jason Biggs: The American Pie star asked
her if she was "having a stroke" following one
of her Twitter rants and Bynes tweeted back,
"@JasonBiggs you're so ugly I won't talk to
you."

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