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Today's learning session would take a new twist.

I call it "MESS UP THREAD" (forgive my use of language)

Kindly share mistakes you have made so others can learn:

When applying for jobs
At interviews
After an offer was made
When you resigned


I left my previous job because I wasn't making any head way and the pay was too small for my level of experience, mistake I made was not getting a new job before leaving.
1 amd 8 months down the line was still job hunting �.
P. S do not leave a job when you've not gotten another one.

Check out "linkup" on telegram

lavylilly:
You a goat.

Being a hoe is not a phase, it’s a decision.

I was still telling someone the other day that I can't be with a person that has body count of more than 2, which one is I was young and foolish �. A person that can't maintain sexual purity while they are single wouldn't maintain sexual purity when they are married

gargoyle:
Good afternoon all. I need your help/advice.

Please can any recommend a way for me to teach a student online. I haven't done this before and I have to teach a child (whom I normally tutor at home but for the lockdown).

Please any suggestions on apps to use, manner of approach etc are welcome.

Its urgent please.

Google

Every time I remember some Nigerian Teachers earn N20,000 or N25,000 per month, my entire soul gets angry at the level of inequality in Nigeria all over again.

Every time I remember some Nigerian Teachers earn N20,000 or N25,000 per month, my entire soul gets angry at the level of inequality in Nigeria �� all over again.

kryptem:
Such an expository exposition. Every paper money will at one time or the other be limited. Gold or crypto serve the alternative and the true store of value.
Waiting till yuan takes over dollars dorminance.....

very soon

*Economic Info Report*

The IMF officially green-lighted the acceptance of China’s currency – the Yuan – into the IMF’s foreign exchange basket. According to Reuters, this move paves the way for the IMF to place the yuan on a par with the US dollar. This is the latest in a series of global developments that threatens to eliminate the US dollar as the world’s reserve currency.

Experts predict this announcement will trigger one of the most profound transfers of wealth in our lifetime. So if you want to protect your savings & retirement, you better get your money out of US dollar investments and into the one asset class that rises as currencies collapse.

*The IMF Holds Supreme Power*

The International Monetary Fund, or IMF, is one of the most secretive and powerful organizations in the world. They monitor the financial health of more than 185 countries. They establish global money rules and provide “bail-out” assistance to bankrupt nations. Some are warning that any move by the IMF to supplant the US dollar could be catastrophic to American investments.

And now, the IMF has made the first move. As reported by The Wall Street Journal, the IMF officially green-lighted the acceptance of China’s currency – the Yuan – into the IMF’s foreign exchange basket. This marks the first time in history the IMF has expanded the number of currencies in the foreign exchange basket. This means that the Chinese currency will now become a viable global alternative to the US dollar.

According to Juan Zarate, who helped implement financial sanctions while serving in George W. Bush’s Treasury department, “Once the [other currency] becomes an alternative to the dollar, rules of the game begin to change.”

Leong Sing Chiong, Assistant Managing Director at a major central bank, said this dollar alternative “is likely to transform the financial landscape in the next 5-10 years.”

Currency expert Dr. Steve Sjuggerud warned, “I’ve been active in the markets for over two decades now, but I’ve never seen anything that could move so much money, so quickly. The announcement will start a domino effect, that will basically determine who in America gets rich in the years to come, and
who struggles.

Dr. Sjuggerud says if you own any US “paper” assets - and that includes stocks, bonds, or just cash in a bank account – you should be aware of what’s about to happen and know how to prepare. A number of experts believe a recent spike in gold and silver prices is a direct result of the IMF’s action. Precious metals notoriously rise when the US dollar falls.

*The Death of the US Dollar in One Frightening Graph*

For the last 600 years, there have been six different global reserve currencies controlled by world superpowers. The latest – the US dollar – has dominated world currency for over 80 years. The alarming fact is, global reserve currencies have collapsed every 80-90 years for the last six centuries! What does this mean for America and the dominance of the US dollar? Based on recent evidence and long-standing historical trends, experts predict the imminent collapse of the US dollar! What’s more alarming? Many Americans aren’t yet doing the one thing that will save their savings & retirement from US dollar collapse.

Just take a look at the graph below. It shows the lifespan of dominant currencies going back 600 years. Notice that the US dollar has now been the dominant currency for 88 years, about the same length of time as its predecessors.

It’s obvious why experts say that the US dollar’s days as the world’s reserve currency are coming to a climactic end.

*All Fiat Currencies Collapse*

“Fiat” currency is paper currency backed by nothing tangible. As opposed to “sound money” which is backed by gold or some other valuable commodity, a fiat currency is backed by nothing more than faith in the government. The US dollar has been a fiat currency since Nixon closed the gold window in 1971 in what was the greatest heist in American history. The scary fact is, the average life span of a fiat currency is 40 years, and the US dollar has now exceeded 40 years as a fiat currency!

Prior to 1933 and for well over 100 years, the dollar was backed by gold, and $20 bought you an ounce of gold. But after the government stole all US citizens’ gold in 1933 for a $20 paper certificate, gold was revalued at US$35, meaning the dollar was devalued by 43% overnight and all foreign and domestic holders of dollars were effectively robbed.

After Nixon closed the gold window completely in 1971, it took $67 to buy an ounce of gold, devaluing the US dollar by 50% again. Today, it takes well over a thousand US dollars to buy that same ounce of gold. Why? Because the US dollar is now nothing more than a fast declining Federal Reserve note backed by a corrupt government that is saddled with $18 trillion in unpayable debt — growing by $10 million per minute!

*Protect Yourself Before It’s Too Late*

This “Paper Money Experiment” has run its course. The Federal Reserve, the US government, and Wall Street crooks have misused their power by
mismanaging the dollar, and now there are global repercussions. The debt load sitting on top of the US dollar is unsustainable and will continue to crush the dollar’s purchasing power until no one wants to hold US dollars, and they are _no longer_ accepted for global trade. The dollar’s collapse means that every single one of your paper investments that are dollar-backed – stocks, mutual funds, money markets, cash accounts, etc – will go down right along with the dollar! Meanwhile, the government and the banks will find a way to protect themselves at your expense ... !!

So as we say goodbye to the U.S. dollar’s dominance, it doesn’t have to mean goodbye to your savings & retirement. Remove at least some of your savings & retirement from the dollar-backed, paper-based financial system and protect it with the one asset that has outlasted every fiat currency ever invented before the last 5,000 years: *Gold.*

*The above must be read by everyone in preparedness to change in world economy ...*

*Economic Info Report*

The IMF officially green-lighted the acceptance of China’s currency – the Yuan – into the IMF’s foreign exchange basket. According to Reuters, this move paves the way for the IMF to place the yuan on a par with the US dollar. This is the latest in a series of global developments that threatens to eliminate the US dollar as the world’s reserve currency.

Experts predict this announcement will trigger one of the most profound transfers of wealth in our lifetime. So if you want to protect your savings & retirement, you better get your money out of US dollar investments and into the one asset class that rises as currencies collapse.

*The IMF Holds Supreme Power*

The International Monetary Fund, or IMF, is one of the most secretive and powerful organizations in the world. They monitor the financial health of more than 185 countries. They establish global money rules and provide “bail-out” assistance to bankrupt nations. Some are warning that any move by the IMF to supplant the US dollar could be catastrophic to American investments.

And now, the IMF has made the first move. As reported by The Wall Street Journal, the IMF officially green-lighted the acceptance of China’s currency – the Yuan – into the IMF’s foreign exchange basket. This marks the first time in history the IMF has expanded the number of currencies in the foreign exchange basket. This means that the Chinese currency will now become a viable global alternative to the US dollar.

According to Juan Zarate, who helped implement financial sanctions while serving in George W. Bush’s Treasury department, “Once the [other currency] becomes an alternative to the dollar, rules of the game begin to change.”

Leong Sing Chiong, Assistant Managing Director at a major central bank, said this dollar alternative “is likely to transform the financial landscape in the next 5-10 years.”

Currency expert Dr. Steve Sjuggerud warned, “I’ve been active in the markets for over two decades now, but I’ve never seen anything that could move so much money, so quickly. The announcement will start a domino effect, that will basically determine who in America gets rich in the years to come, and
who struggles.

Dr. Sjuggerud says if you own any US “paper” assets - and that includes stocks, bonds, or just cash in a bank account – you should be aware of what’s about to happen and know how to prepare. A number of experts believe a recent spike in gold and silver prices is a direct result of the IMF’s action. Precious metals notoriously rise when the US dollar falls.

*The Death of the US Dollar in One Frightening Graph*

For the last 600 years, there have been six different global reserve currencies controlled by world superpowers. The latest – the US dollar – has dominated world currency for over 80 years. The alarming fact is, global reserve currencies have collapsed every 80-90 years for the last six centuries! What does this mean for America and the dominance of the US dollar? Based on recent evidence and long-standing historical trends, experts predict the imminent collapse of the US dollar! What’s more alarming? Many Americans aren’t yet doing the one thing that will save their savings & retirement from US dollar collapse.

Just take a look at the graph below. It shows the lifespan of dominant currencies going back 600 years. Notice that the US dollar has now been the dominant currency for 88 years, about the same length of time as its predecessors.

It’s obvious why experts say that the US dollar’s days as the world’s reserve currency are coming to a climactic end.

*All Fiat Currencies Collapse*

“Fiat” currency is paper currency backed by nothing tangible. As opposed to “sound money” which is backed by gold or some other valuable commodity, a fiat currency is backed by nothing more than faith in the government. The US dollar has been a fiat currency since Nixon closed the gold window in 1971 in what was the greatest heist in American history. The scary fact is, the average life span of a fiat currency is 40 years, and the US dollar has now exceeded 40 years as a fiat currency!

Prior to 1933 and for well over 100 years, the dollar was backed by gold, and $20 bought you an ounce of gold. But after the government stole all US citizens’ gold in 1933 for a $20 paper certificate, gold was revalued at US$35, meaning the dollar was devalued by 43% overnight and all foreign and domestic holders of dollars were effectively robbed.

After Nixon closed the gold window completely in 1971, it took $67 to buy an ounce of gold, devaluing the US dollar by 50% again. Today, it takes well over a thousand US dollars to buy that same ounce of gold. Why? Because the US dollar is now nothing more than a fast declining Federal Reserve note backed by a corrupt government that is saddled with $18 trillion in unpayable debt — growing by $10 million per minute!

*Protect Yourself Before It’s Too Late*

This “Paper Money Experiment” has run its course. The Federal Reserve, the US government, and Wall Street crooks have misused their power by
mismanaging the dollar, and now there are global repercussions. The debt load sitting on top of the US dollar is unsustainable and will continue to crush the dollar’s purchasing power until no one wants to hold US dollars, and they are _no longer_ accepted for global trade. The dollar’s collapse means that every single one of your paper investments that are dollar-backed – stocks, mutual funds, money markets, cash accounts, etc – will go down right along with the dollar! Meanwhile, the government and the banks will find a way to protect themselves at your expense ... !!

So as we say goodbye to the U.S. dollar’s dominance, it doesn’t have to mean goodbye to your savings & retirement. Remove at least some of your savings & retirement from the dollar-backed, paper-based financial system and protect it with the one asset that has outlasted every fiat currency ever invented before the last 5,000 years: *Gold.*

*The above must be read by everyone in preparedness to change in world economy ...*

Kekereekun123:
No wonder ancient civilizations locked them in the kitchen

This harsh.

Miner13:
Allexey and Leezah TELL US why that trait is in woman so far you're 2 of them

I have had many women whom I had the honor of calling friends, sisters or just buddies. And the one thing that I did notice about each and everyone about them is that they are truly complex and much more deeper than men. Like all the internet jokes and memes keep stating “A woman’s mind is deep” or like how they show in one of those funny meme’s - The official book to understanding a woman - and the book is massive. Truly massive.
I personally do not think women ‘hate’ each other as hate is a very strong word. But however, I think they have personal preferences with whom they like to hang out with and whom they don’t and yes, they can be very picky.

However, one thing that will surprise you is that - women can fight with each other like cats and dogs one minute - and the next minute they will love each other as if they both are friends for ages. So my best advice to you is NEVER get involved in the problems of women. You will have peace of mind and yes - a very long life.
Women are amazing creatures who knows how to really amaze and fascinate you with their mysteriousness and their unpredictability. Trust me - the more you learn - the more you will be amazed.

I tuned the radio 99.3fm via their app and listen to conversation with Rufia.

He opined that women do not cooperate with each other

Because of a dysfunctional society that values women based on appearances.
Not too long ago, women were expected to marry and care for men, instead of learning a trade or having a career. This meant that they would need to rely on a man for money, shelter and all their other needs. Men were also expected to excel in their careers and make large sums of money, to better provide for a family. Being able to provide for a family was a sign of success, and having one often led to more promotions.

In this environment, men traded their paycheck, social status and work reputation for a wife.


Women traded on their looks for a husband, because they did not have much else of value.This led to different kinds of competition within the genders.

Men would compete for promotions and raises using their education, talent, connections and skills. They put effort into bettering themselves and their work, and it paid off. While some men might try to bring others down as a tactic, performing exceptionally was equally effective.

 Women would compete with each other for reputation. Youth and appearance weren't something they could change drastically or easily. They needed to move in the right social circles and maintain a spotless reputation as women of class and virtue. Success often meant bringing others down, instead of improving oneself. Beyond clothes, dieting and cosmetics, there was little else to improve themselves.

So there you have it. Men could better themselves to get ahead, and women had to tear others down to stay at the top

ChieduJoshua081:
It will take till the end of the world for women to measure and come to the same level of achievement and contribution to the world as men have gotten in this world. And you know what, all of you these women who can't spend a day without thinking about being in the same level with a man, can talk about gender equality when you get there. Nonsense. Mtcheewww

easy

Good morning.

See, the thing here… is forgiveness doesn't come by request. You need to be truly sorry for what you've done. Not sorry that you got caught. Not sorry that she's upset with you. But sorry for your action… Meaning, you are remorseful and carry zero intention of repeating said mistake. This was a lesson hard learned, and you've learned it. If she isn't seeing this…. She isn't forgiving you.

For instance: you cheated. (Just an example) … if you apologize (doesn't matter how or how many times), if you still have a wandering eye and expect instant trust…. Well, you lost. You will not regain her trust… and forgiveness, is something that she's doing for herself. … not for you. It's time to let ger go.

If it's something like: you got angry and maybe pushed her a little. (Again, just an example) …. Again, your actions and attitude are going to matter a very lot! You can apologize… but, it's likely that if you continue to show her aggression of any kind. Like, yell at her, lose your temper around her, act in passive aggressive ways with her, so on .. she isn't going to trust you much and you're apology seems thin, at best.

I mean, there's a theme. …

Your Actions need to be sorry. .. not your words.

If you can't follow up… let her go. Find your lesson and do better next time

Best wishes!

Let's consider the options here.

You are in a long distance relationship (LDR from here on). Obviously you can't be physically there often. So, in an LDR, all you really have is communication.

If you choose not to forgive him, then you must break up. Otherwise, what happens is you have resentment festering, on some level, and sooner or later that will destroy the LDR.

If you choose to forgive him, the LDR can continue. But, the fact remains that LDRs are very hard on the people involved.

Physical presence is very important to most people. Not just for sex, but the little things like just hugging the person at the end of the day, or cuddling together and watching a movie. All of those add up to a lot.

It's not to say that LDRs can't work, but I think eventually there must be plans to make an LDR not so distant. And those plans usually involve at least one person changing their life significantly and permanently to be with the other person.

Someone will probably have to give up their job, their apartment/house, their immediate circle of friends and family. That's asking a great deal. It's a level of commitment on a par with if not more than marriage.

And if executed, those plans can leave a ton of resentment and pressure on the non-moving partner "I gave up my entire life for you!" for example must NEVER be said or implied.

If there are no such plans, the odds are sooner or later, he will find someone he likes who isn't so far away and happens to be single. Even if he isn't as compatible as with you, there won't be the LDR issues to contend with.

Even with such plans, it doesn't mean he will be happy with waiting X years for them to come to fruition. LDRs are just hard for a lot of people to deal with.

The movie "Going the Distance" is a comedy about a couple in exactly that situation. You might find it relevant.

uthlaw:
Why can't you women do without having a lover....a lady once said it impossible for women to be single!

Not true.

Lockdown tomorrow

frankkydee:
Lol, how would you differentiate real love from fake love?

certainly you can.

At this stage I expect you guys here to either have a platform for Primary & Secondary school to organize let tire for them.

Nigerians smh

Koralords:
You where making sense until you introduced Nancy Pelosi that’s when I stopped reading ,
Sit and read to.rubbish you just wrote speaker of the USA collaborating with China to spread virus in the USA

Anything can happen in politics. Did you believe Russia would assist Trump in his election?

Jehnny01:
Are you female single/married, but bored and lonely?
Do you look for a companion to talk (gossip) and laugh with in Abuja?
Do you crave for something deep and refreshing?
Do you need a companion for morning exercise?
Do you want to make new friends, share experiences, have fun and be happy.

Let's connect @ jehnny01joy@gmail.com

It should be discreet, matured, and fun only
This post may sound like a lie, but trust me, I don't lie. I can be playful, but I don't lie.

I used to be a 69 seconds man and I was frustrated. Many years later, I'm now a 3+ hours

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