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ezenwaez:
Forwarded.

Thank you Ezenwa,I'm indeed grateful.

ezenwaez:
Okay

Let me drop my ID here then,it seems difficult to send a mail here.
NPWR/2020/003527831
First bank.
Reason for complain:Transfer not successful for month of May payment.
Thank you Ezenwa for your time.

ezenwaez:
Send me your details and your complain.

I sent you an automated mail already,I think you need to approve first since we are not connected,Nairaland rules kind of.

ezenwaez:
Network error from Npower's end, it's a minor glitch you will be paid, send your Npower ID to Npower twitter handle @npower_ng.

Thank you for the response,I don't have a Twitter account,any other alternative solution?

Good morning Ezenwa,please what could be the reason for transfer not successful for the month of May?,it was on processing since the salah period,I'm a first bank user.

michael1508:
I have always been a crusader of truth and I stand with do anything that rocks your boat as long as it's morally right.

I hardly take online ranting seriously especially from the female gender,but concerning this Yul issue,from my own psychological view,I think most ladies are ranting not because they are faithful themselves,far from that,only few women have the moral standard to be faithful to you if her chips are up, but because it's a taboo for a married woman to cheat with great consequences such as disgrace to family,sent packing from her meal ticket, their inability to be responsible for a man's welfare without beating their chest on that,unlike the other way round (this is rooted from their selfish nature which comes with the only me me me attitude) and most importantly because they know women decline in their beauty with time with child bearing,fat and dropping belle with stretch marks,so they tend not to be attractive for suitors,a woman nature is complex and it's most times to their disadvantage.

A woman will leave and cheat on her struggling, faithful boyfriend whenever there is an opportunity for a better bidder,they are always on the look out for better options while with you in a relationship,they don't give a f.ck about you,they will drop your ass without remorse as soon as a golden boy arrives,not their fault,they lack the moral principle to say no to flashy things,they all grew up with the mindset that women are not meant to suffer.

I am not perfect in this game,but I know about the female psychology to a very good degree,an average woman has this victim inbuilt mentality,they have a motto,which is[b] fight dirty and come out clean[/b], I use this as a weapon against them most time,be a logical man in your dealings,a step ahead of them and they will be confused about your kind of being who is difficult to manipulate.

Like I said,I stand for truth, if ever you meet that rare woman who made lots of selfless sacrifices while being faithful for you to be a made person,I think she deserves your loyalty when you are made too. Until then, a man that was told by the society that he doesn't deserve a woman because he is broke has every right to purchase and own as many women as he desires when he is made,since we are in the woke generation and companionship comes with only when you have money.

This is100 percent spot on

Majority want to LovePeddler around when in their prime and unmarried all in the name of I am too beautiful to be tied down by one man but will cry foul when their flower has dwindled away in their old age when the same man they tossed around wants to have a taste of same thing she did without remorse when the world was at her feet.

I saw a post not too long that questioned Why do many women want to be responsible only when they are married?
The poster further asked, Let's talk about when you are not married?

The truth is we are in the generation of men who are woken to the evil manipulation of the female gender,all thanks to the internet.

A daft assertion in its deepest form,you mean a weak candidate should be given a ticket on a platter of gold because a particular state has been ruling since,that is stupidity Mallam muric.
For everyone who has become a president,they have worked and paid their dues for it.
Maybe it's because only the one state you are hating so much on knows what it takes to be successful and doesn't wait behind a fence waiting for when they will start sharing free meals
Idiat

Na wotowoto for Chelsea today o.

Ahmed0336:
I tire o. £3,000 over a year

Where did the £3,000 come out from,a price of boli ?

abokikhalifa:
Really, tell me something

Now that you have an hint,you can browse on that,I no too Sabi do aproko like that oo,na cruise I com catch for here.

abokikhalifa:
I reside in the village, In not current online. So tell me why you mentioned boli ? As I no get IG

This is the internet generation and the social media has been used as a tool in calling people out of their mischievousness, a lady accused him of not paying up for a boli he bought from her some weeks or months back.

Yamiriflathead:
Having vagina, Breast and yansh is now how women measure standards. Men done suffer

Most of these gals claiming standards don't even have shi shi in their accounts

No shi shi my brother,it's the guts they have for me,e dey burst my brain

angelfallz:
This is just silly mentality. I'm not going to marrying an Ashewo. Good Virgin girls full ground.

Ah ah ah
I laugh in Korean
Of course you should have seen the sarcastic part of my post with a touch of reality in it,you think I will open my eyes and pick someone of no value as a wife because I am due for marriage,in the worst case scenario,if the reality part of my post comes hard on us all,then I rather remain single and have my child through surrogacy.

pansophist:
To such ladies, high taste is high standards. It doesn't matter if she can't afford her taste. For example she wont go on a date because he proposed a local eatery, that's low class for her, but the so called high class location, she can't afford.

So as much as men continue to spend lavishly on her, it convinces her that she is high class. So her privilege is technically your responsibility. Welcome to 21st century

You so right,highest bidder scenario.
High class my foot
Guys need to be woke,they have been a pawn in the game ever since,they need to realise they kings and should dictate the standards.
Na you hold the resources,na you suppose dictate who ride with you and not the other way round

abokikhalifa:
How much be boli, if poor man like you fit afford boli what will you say about Burna ?

Who be poor man?
Oh, because me sef no dey hype myself online like your friend burna boy,maybe you should be current with news to know why I made mention of boli in particular.

Abeg waka comot body joor
You wey no fit pay for boli

PrimadonnaO:
1. They don't have money to marry.

2. Most women have raised their standards, so somw men are not finding it easy getting the kind of women they want.

3. Too many women have taken the "highway" so wife material aren't in abundance anymore.

4. Some people have become "woke" and uninterested in marriage since they can simply cohabit, or have baby mamas.

5. Finally, some men are genuinely scared. With all the bad marriage stories louder than the good ones.

What standard exactly?,a standard they are not contributing to,I understand your points though, they are validly related to the topic.

cocolacec:
No be fellow men turn them to ashewos so una must wife ashewo wether una like it or not.You cant plant Spinach and expect to harvest Okra that is hypocrisy.
Ashana mem for ashewo women,virgin Men for virgin women.

Nah,na them turn them sef to ashawo
Anybody wey be ashawo today,I wan make you know say e dey im eye tey try,dem see say nah the new oil well and dem decide to cash out.
I have always classified prostitution along side internet fraud and the other likewise crimes.
Sex was not design for exchange of money,it was for recreation.
I will never be a believer of a man being the causative factor of the choices women make,they ain't babies,they are full grown adults.
Human go always wan knack,na so we biological system take dey,na nature and we no fit chest am,na why if you no fit hold body,dem go tell you to marry.
As for the virgin marry virgin,life no balance as you think am so fa,while you dey wait to marry virgin,the virgin sef wan join the easy virtuous gang.

Ah ah
Na today you know :
Na ashawo everybody go put for house last last
Na only girls wey no get assets no dey do runs and e dey pain them sef say dem self no get wetin other girls dey use do occupation,if not, all of them for dey use body collect money ni oo.
If your girl manage get ass wey shoot out la san with small orange for front,I fit bet my balls say she dey run one or two

Baba no de brag abeg
You wey no fit pay for boli

Dizzyyish:
True but it starts with men drawing the line, unfortunately, most men are unaware of the chaotic female nature.
"The predatory nature resides in almost all women. The predatory female is amoral, and it does not get better with age."
- Lawrence Shannon

I think our generation and the ones that come next will address the issue better as many men are getting aware of this on a daily,just like how this forum has given people round the globe to discuss and decipher issues like this.
In the quest to protect the girl's child from manual labours and the the rest which requires the man's physical and mental power,the previous generations has made them handicaps and liabilities, wearing them the false princess syndrome.

FirstSon01:
Anybody not contributing something to wherever they benefit from when they are not handicapped, is a leech and a nuisance!

You disappointed me walahi,you don't need to reply her.
That is the attention she is looking for,she sets a trap for you and you fell in.
When you see a post that is intentionally senseless,you ignore.

Dizzyyish:
The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflexion but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for, as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the elephant with tusks, the wild boar with fangs, the bull with horns and the cuttlefish with ink, so it has equipped woman with the power of dissimulation as her means of attack and defence, and has transformed into this gift all the strength it has bestowed on man in the form of physical strength and the power of reasoning. Dissimulation is thus inborn in her and consequently to be found in the stupid woman almost as often as in the clever one. To make use of it at every opportunity is as natural to her as it is for an animal to employ its means of defence whenever it is attacked, and when she does so she feels that to some extent she is only exercising her rights. A completely truthful woman who does not practice dissimulation is perhaps an impossibility, which is why women see through the dissimulation of others so easily it is inadvisable to attempt it with them. – But this fundamental defect which I have said they possess, together with all that is associated with it, gives rise to falsity, unfaithfulness, treachery, ingratitude, etc. Women are guilty of perjury far more often than men. It is questionable whether they ought to be allowed to take an oath at all.
- Arthur Schopenhauer (1788 - 1860)

Tit for tat,you exclusively gave an insight to the topic from a philosophic point of view not until I even saw that a philosopher made these statements.
Just like every other bad character exhibited by human which we have all spoke and fought against from time past till date through laws,
Penalties and repercussions, these traits from the female species needs to be checkmated as it's dangerous to humanity.
We spank kids for lying,stealing,bullying and every other bad character that might be a bad influence in molding them in becoming an upright adult,same measures should be put in place in taming this selfish traits of theirs. As you have said,it's an in-born,natural to them from birth,then we need to start re-orientating our girl child.
Even though, they are mild, the repercussion of these traits is playing out in our society today,we have lots of irresponsible, unproductive and lazy girls in our society today,who believes the society owes them just for being female without them lifting a finger.

Gerrard59:
I think it's your circle or environment. For instance, almost every girl/lady I know is getting married. The ones who aren't married are either in a committed relationship or have many admirers. BTW, these ladies aren't dating or marrying fellow females but men. Also, it depends on your age group. That's, if you are in your 30s or move with men who are in their 30s, you will certainly get wedding invitations here and there.

When I read people rant (at this point, it's all rants) about folks not marrying, I laugh as it's largely your environment or peer group. Nigerians are largely conservative people who will always desire to marry regardless of what woke culture or social media spew.

Every time circle circle circle,how many are in that your circle gan gan.
Truth be told,when you open your eyes to the happenings around,you will realise that things are decaying day by day and all these People you are seeing are in another circle circle circle just like yours

Blablamalala:
It is only a foolish and poor man that regrets after spending on women.

Let me act like you meant it's wiser to think before spending on a woman but if not, only a mentally derailed person will question or judge people who have a rethink on what and who they spend their money on

dawnomike:
I really do understand what you are going through... Be strong Sis

Shey someone died ni
Ordinary sex la san

The first commenter said most of what I have in mind,they are so manipulative in their doings that if you are not smart,a step ahead of them,they will make you a fool while you are smiling at being that.
I wonder what the previous generation of men were thinking by putting in place unreasonable laws to favour a species of gender without them working for it.
They want the world to revolve round them.
Don't let a woman ever fool you with the words I love you as they are not capable of loving,they are only transacting with you base on what you can offer.
Like in some other thread where a girl said a man's money is for everybody while hers is for her alone,the topic was so disgusting that I had self provoking thoughts on it,even in a mutual friendship between people,if one party wears that selfish crown of na only your own we go chop,I ll only blame myself if such parasitic friendship continues,now not to talk about a love affair that should be filled with sacrifices here and there. I have always grew up with the provider instinct as a human not just for myself or any woman alone but for everyone that I come across, who is in need of help,be it friend,stranger, neighbor, that is what our instinct should be as a human. For crying out loud, how will you want to come into my life in form of a loving-up relationship with a calculative selfish instinct about your resources,the amount of what I bring to the table will decide how you will show me love ,love and sacrifice are synonymous.
At a point,even our parents that brought us into this world who has the sole responsibility of taking care of us will one day believe in your kindness,you will reciprocate that love to them when you start earning.
Is your love and respect for your parents dependent on only when they can provide for you?
If money s what you all are after,then you have no right to question my loyalty to you or sticking up with only you,if I have the resource,then I should go after every girl I know cos you have all choose to portray yourselves as commodities.
This generation of ladies are worst set of female so far,so entitiled, lazy asses, betrayal full their body, all for the transaction only. Trust me,when it comes to gaming them when ever you realise you are tired of her selfish nature, such ladies are easy to discard,just form small broke, they will start forming attitudes, from there you waka with your head high.
They only start showing fake love when they are declining in their sexual market,an average girl can't wear a simple cloth without raising her top up so as to show are asset to the world,they can't take 10 pictures without 8 or 9 displaying their asses,they are consciously and unconsciously sexual objects.
In one of these comic pages,a guy said in this generation,na olosho every guy go marry,the problem na if your own dey popular or not,it was funny but I saw truth all over it.

Abu has found is scoring boot since leaving Arsenal,both are doing well at the moment.

blackparadise:
cum by tongue as how

He meant his D is small

Seriously!!
The suspense master

The greatest lie I ever said to a girl is; just the tip only and just close your eyes baby girl, I am cumming right away