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computergeek:
Arrangee marriage. The pics aren't clear but the first pic shows the guy is nothing less than 45. She's probably wife #2 or #3.

Seems it's not pic,
Op screenshot parts of the video...

Yinxies:
Na so...

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How much will it cost to build e commerce website just like jumia and Konga?

Ok

Ellaelite:
No body has even concord with him. Na only him no where he dey use 1500 fuel go daily

1500naira fuel in Lagos is even small compare to the kinda traffic you will face in Lagos, what do you think causes a car to break down in a terrible traffic.
I wouldn't advice anyone to fuel is car with 1500naira fuel when he knows the probability of facing traffic on his way home is high...

OMEGA009:
Trust me, Sweetie. You wouldn’t even make the reserve bench

Chai

Tamarapetty:
Can i be assistant coach?? Please??

You can emulate from her by doing that within your locality but do inform us of location before you start picking...

Wait a minute
I just noticed the date this thread was opened
2015 n it reached FP in 2019.

Now I believe there can be delay in your success but it can never be denied...

But what actually caught the attention of this thread to Grace FP now, 100k in 2015 is like 200k now cuz I remembered I got my 1st TV in 2015 for 45k and that same TV cost 98k now.

elewedu:
I bought my first car while earning arround 100k.I must confess it didnt change much in my spending pattern,since I bought a very small one (toyota paseo) with extremely low fuel consumption and maintenance cost. I am on my second car now, a bigger one, but very reliable one again. I spend a little above 2k weekly, and I have not had to do any major maintenance for the past 9months. My advice is that, at that level of income, the best that can happen to you is to buy a very reliable one with very low fuel consumption. Beware of cars with expensive parts and crazy fuel consumption...and finally beware of Niger used, dont be penny wise pounds foolish. Cheers

Why do you reason like this, wonder if you would give same advice if eventually you wanna sell your used car and the guy is the buyer...

Instead of saying he should beware of 9ja used car, why not advice him to take his trusted engineer along to inspect the car before buying...

coolluk:
Thanks guys for the contributions but basically what I am seeing here are two school of thoughts, people who see a car as luxury and those who see it as a necessity

Some peeps view jumping from keke to danfo, danfo to okada, fighting with conductor and so on as a way of life

isn't investing in ur life, comfort, and so on part of an investment??

Why do you wanna be in your comfort zone at ur age, you should be more concerned on how to acquire more wealth and not on how to spend the little you have on worldly things.


Gentleman, be patient, is there job security in what you do that you have already assumed nothing can happen to you at work, God forbid, what if you eventually loose that job after getting the car?, Do you have anything you rely on except that job.


Keep saving man and try make research on what you can invest on.

coolluk:
I spend like 18k on transport and feeding monthly, my office is close to where i stay and i still stay with my folks and i can comfortably save 60k monthly

Hope that's enough

You spend 18k for both transport and feeding?

Can you break this down pls

Very easy to hack
Once they can read the codes of it's software, gbam they will get in...

Saw this picture of Jason Momoa online & it got me laughing out loud seriously...

Like are they bodyguarding him or he's the one bodyguarding them

NUJABEZ:
Your stupidity pains me. I know you have suffered all your life, neglected and hungry, but believe me, your salary right now is not fit for yahooboy lavish lifestyle. Save ur money, nobody can help you in your family or your village when you go broke again.

Give ur self brain.

Aturu

You still sound pained

I ain't the cause of your frustrated life.
Anyways, I can't let your frustrated life affect mine.

NUJABEZ:
See as your eye red like MC Oluomo's igbo riddled eyes. Better save your money now. That ur N50k salary after three years of joblessness cannot carry this lavish lifestyle you want to form now.

Besides, are you not Dele the waiter that works at Rhapsodys, Ikeja city mall?

Aturu.

Tell me, why are you pained?

Haha

This is just a mere words that can never come to reality...


Atiku hope you won't be depressed when you finally loose..

princetom1:
We are trying to change that, and we are seeing good result and all u can do is discourage?

Oops
Who am I to discourage,
I just haven't seen something that would actually make the change, when I see 1, I will recognize it...

Stocking:
Another attention seeking mofo

Ooh

So I finally got your attention,
Feeling fulfilled...

Ewilonco:
@op,na your type dey Bleep people wife..abeg leave the poor guy alone. you just want to ruin that relationship.. no matter what he told you about her,are they not still dating..if truly she was a bad girl,why was hasn't he ditch the girl..this na 2019 abeg..use your brain..

Hey,
Nothing would ever make me do that...

That's all I know

I know many ladies would be drooling around this moniker now,
Well lemme introduce to you, the most handsome and sexiest man on Nairaland.

Guess what, he's still on the market

His moniker is leonardoreel

This lady is super gorgeous

lilmax:
imagine having a friend like the op

this is the reason why if your so called friend is not helping you grow you cut the person off, I wonder who raised people like the poster.

you're so jobless to the point of testing your friend's girlfriend intelligence

Jobless?

Hmm
You are too shallow minded bruh

Do you know guys ask for recommendation before taking someone to altar, me and this guy have known each other for 15years or more now and he's like a brother to me, if I can't talk to his girl freely then we ain't into deep friendship.

He knows many of my GF and I give them time to talk without asking what was their topic of discussion, that's because I feel safe in his hands so why will he be feeling insecured in my own hands?

Mind you, I ain't jobless we all hangout together at a bar and that was what brought the discussion.

bobowaja:
Back stabbers friend. Once I noticed your b*tchy attitudes, I cut you off. I don't have any business with your love life, and you shouldn't with mine. Even my side chicks are beyond bounds for you. You move near any of them.... I cut you and the b*tch off

Bro,
You are entitled to your opinion but you shouldn't jump into conclusion, I will never ever snatch my friend GF not even his ex gf sef, I Know the kinda person I am and I won't be able to live with the conscience of snatching someone's property...

I'm not a backstabber or snitch bruh.

PrinceKenne:
People like you are the part of Nigeria problems. Believing in godfatherism before mounting the corridor of power.
Wise up and be liberated abeg.

You & I both know Nigeria so why pretend over what you know.

I just said the truth until we see changes but I think sowore chances to make a change is very slim...


He needs a very strong recommendation or should I say strong voice...

princetom1:
Time wasting is wen u do nothing, not when u are doing something to make a change, he isn't a heavyweight supported by moneybags and cabals, he is supported and donated for, by Nigerians and he is taking the campaign to people to convert new voters... Or will u rather have him campaign in a stadium, pack all his followers there and tell them vote for me (like they already wount vote him?) and then leave out people who are still on the fences and those who are yet to know about him on the street and in villages?

Bro,

that man is still young and he should start from where he got bigger chances to attain the position then set up good reputation from there before coming for this,

he needs to set records and that record will speak volume to alot of people...

Remember his opponents got records in the game...

nuggarito:
The problem with guys like you is that you keep your mouth running and be the centre of attention instead of the host, allow your guy enjoy his moment, you carry youroversabi dey spoil package.

You better free that guy for now.

This ain't forming oversabi

This is the 1st girl I know with my friend and my friend is the type that doesn't know how to understand someone motive through observation...

ikbnice:
You didn't know your friend too well. You should have known his likes and dislikes. Some friends don't like you being too friendly with their girlfriend. Why will you be measuring the girl's intelligence to know if she's fit for your friend. Did your friend complain? You know the best thing to do. Distance yourself from their relationship or best keep it at a formal level for now.

Funny enough,my guy has been painting this girl red in my presence, giving the girl bad names & as an exposed person I am, I couldn't believe what my friend said about the girl & more reason why I wanna know the girl myself before I start seeing her as my friend portrait her to me.
Have I done any wrong in trying to know her personally so as to be able to convince my friend she worth his time and dedication.

princetom1:
Fruitless ambition? U sure don't know the kind of followership he has, this isn't ur typical campaign where we pack ourself in a hall or stadium, he is on the move, creating awareness and convincing people at the same time instead of going to a stadium and pack his supporters full there and tell them what? He already knows those ones will vote him and he has no money or 2k to share for each attendee... This is organic to get more followership, not those already supporters and the money he is spending are donated to him transparently by Nigerians like u and me, try and follow his Facebook page @omoyele sowore and see how he does it,

This still doesn't convince me he has more stance against Buhari and Atiku.

He's just wasting his time man!!!

Can someone tell this man he needs to make a name for himself in politics before jumping on the highest position in politics.
He doesn't even have baba salé and thinks he could just come out and win like that, it doesn't work like that in Nigeria and it's time you do something else with your money....

I'm more concerned about the people that are encouraging him cuz deep down in them, they know this is fruitless ambition for him...

Slimzzy00:
I met this girl 4 months ago she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen . I made attempts to woo but I dropped the idea when I heard she have a boyfriend. however, I managed to get her number and we chat like best of friends on whatsapp she doesn't hide anything from me she is always open. then 1 day she told me about her plight with her boyfriend that her bf doesn't care always ignoring her and she even told him its over, thinking he will apologize but he didn't show any difference . I saw this as an opportunity for me to walk in her life I wooed her and she agreed.
our online relationship has been fun but what I found strange is that anytime I told her to come to my place she will promise me she would come but end up not coming @ the end of the day and it's been 4months since I've set my eyes on her.
what do you think make her keep procrastinating about seeing
could it be that she's deceiving me that she loves me ?

The girl is very sensitive while you acted like an Immatured person, you were already best of friends with her and I'mmediately she had misunderstanding with her bf, you thought you could use an advantage of that but the girl was smart enough to detect that & that's why she has been procrastinating the visit cuz the only thing she would be thinking of is you just wanna take advantage of her situation.

You could have at least be patient with her while she get over the other guy.

My friend is an O level holder without furthering his education but he's doing fine with his handwork, he's been single for some years before he found a girl while I was still in school then,
I came around and he introduced his GF to me and I welcomed the girl wholeheartedly with a thought that my friend won't be lonely anymore.

As a talkative I am, I like talking to people to measure their intelligency and capacity to think outside the box,

so I was chatting with this girl while we all hangout at a bar, suddenly I observed the look on my friends face and I noticed he's feeling uncomfortable with the way we were talking but truthfully I had to intention of snatching her from him, I just wanted to be sure of the kinda person my friend is giving his time,
since he was feeling uncomfortable with the way we were chatting, I then told the girl we would talk later probably where there will be no noise to distract out understanding.

But to my greatest surprise, on our way back home, my friend made a statement that made me dumbfounded, he actually said to both of us that he's not stopping us from dating each other if we both like ourselves but as a matured person, I just told the lady he's intoxicated so we shouldn't take the words seriously, I said that just to device the lady thought but I know deep inside of me that he actually meant what he said cuz he hasn't drank that much of beer...

Now I'm left with how to handle myself when we all hangout together again, should I just pretend not to be friendly with the girl again so as to avoid such statement from my friend or I should distance myself from my friend?

Polygamy is an indirect way to justify fornication for men, I will never be an advocate for polygamy cuz I myself, I'm a tool of polygamy and I know what polygamy has caused my home.

The advantages of polygamy is light compare to monogamy,
1 you tend to have peace when you marry one wife compare to someone who marries 2 or more.

2There will be more focus on your children welfarism compare to having lots of kids through 2 or more wives

Since not everyone is created to be rich and live comfortably so why are we forcing marriage on everyone even to those who doesn't worth being a wife or husband, it's time we stop this course for polygamy cuz I personally see it as a destruction towards a man's home...


No to indirect fornication of men!!!!

Seun


Pls why are new members restricted to some thread on NL, I navigated to business to make people aware of businesses that is trending in Nigeria but found out I can't post there & was wandering why can't I get accessed to all threads on NL as a new member.

Pls give me your reason why new members are restricted, would really appreciate a response from you.

Would have have new thread for this but realized I could direct this question to by quoting your moniker...